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busybeei5:
Life is about choice...
And being real has little or nothing to do with having a DP

I totally agree...

Some smart shy ladies have a way of covering their faces with their phones while showing their beautiful body frame.

See babe make I no lie you...these things matter and this is why many guys and ladies hardly get suitors...I call it timidity...

Making friends with the opposite sex whether on or offline is about assessing the person first to know if you like what you see...it's better you have an idea of how that person looks so that you will know right from the start if he or she is your spec.

busybeei5:
Some dps aren't real

I totally agree and that is even funnier and more demeaning....what exactly is the big deal when it comes to showing your dp?

My phone number and Dp dey all over cos I am 100000% real,pure and legit..and I have absolutely nothing to hide...

I honestly avoid people who seem to be too private..yes I know it's their choice but often times,most people who hide under the guise of privacy have a sinister life style....

For the naira land chics and dudes who are within the thread age bracket I would imploy you to come on board without feeling shy...no one is desperate here and even me at my age ....I no dey desperate and not even search so this is just a thread to socialize and discuss vital issues that bothers on life in general.

Neroski:
Lmao @ your masquerade symbolism. Well some of us are not attention seekers though. As for homosapiens being selective I agree with you.I wish you success in your quest for "alluring DPS" .Happy Easter everyone!

Well its got nada to do with seeking attention but it's all about being social and of course not all of us socialize well so I guess it's individual's choice.

The simple truth is that on a thread like this,those who are dpless may be shoved aside by potential friends and ironically I usually get scared of people who hide themselves against all odds cos it makes me feel there is something they are hiding but those who put up their dp seems to have no skeleton in their closet.

Happy easter

Neroski:
Your red card na your face se? Not all dp's on nairaland is real. Who dp EPP? What use is a beautiful/handsome dp when as time goes on you see that the person has a disgusting character. Anyway, I was just waka passing as usual

As the OP I made it a duty to share my pics on page 3 but then it's not compulsory anyone shares any pics but trust me,it helps because humans are naturally selective and guys or ladies with alluring dp(fake or real) gets more attention....

Making friends with a dpless person is like making friends with a masquerade.

HAPPY EASTER MONDAY TO YOU ALL.

2chainzz:
Am ready for marriage, I'm a military personnel , 2nd Lt Emmanuel Johnson. any interested lady should mention.

Aowa how you dey?

Good one and i wish you the best.

I888:
Say Nigerian girls. In some climes, girls in their 20s already know what they want. I was shocked to read that a guy got married to his girl friend after her Msc on the day she finished and they were both in their early 20s and guess what, they are Nigerians. I read about An American thereafter.

Let's just say we are a country of misplaced priorities.

Sure in Nigeria...remember that this is nairaland not dollar euro or poundland lol!

kingguu:
I am d Mr..in my early 30s, single n working. hope u don't mind us becoming friends

Guy try and make her your friend cos my sixth sense tells me that lady will make a fantastic partner and my sixth sense is rarely wrong.

blessedgal:
hmmmm,just out from a failed relationship that hurt so bad, Mk I read comment so I can HV joy jare.

Take heart..it is well...just don't rush into another one cos it's quite a norm to use a guy as a succor to a broken heart which is even more dangerous.

By the way where is Seun and lalasticlala?

They need to come on board to rub minds with lovely intelligent ladies at least to calm their nerves cos all work and no play no gel.

Dfinex:
calm down Mr toks2008, don't take it too personal. I guess it wasn't intentional.

Thanks...

gbegemaster:
Yes she is.

Please give her this number to add to her wattsup. ..zero80two3one46046

My friend says he wants a virgin so I will be glad to introduce him to her....cos a 40 year old female virgin is so rare so also a 42year old virgin guy.

rane06:
I like this thread. Anyway I'm in my late 20s, this love matter just tire me sef. Just focusing on my career for now pending whenever the Mr arrives

You are naturally alluring.

vuc1:
I agree with you but the issue of pressure to marry is part of our lives.Trust me if nobody puts pressure on you to marry, at a certain age you'll be the one putting pressure on yourself.

Gbam!

I go to some places they will say "my regards to your wife and children" and I will just say ok but in my mind I will be like...

Alezy:
guy, so u too dey fall for the scam abi. I think say u smart pass like that na, Shoo.


no fall my hand o

Sometimes I wonder if a man can be scammed by a lady when it comes to such matters...

You say you are a virgin...one day I will know and if you use something wash am still one day truth must come out...

You wear padded bra and fake butts take pics abeg who is fooling who? if we get close enough at least I go touch you...

Bumbae1:
Asking a lady her age lol can see why u not married Toks thats the first rule

Your sarcasm is not necessary . but I would like you to know some facts...

Apparently you must have been meeting players who just want flings but since I don't fck around and expecially at my age I don't have time for pooh...

If I just wanna have a lady for flings I care less if you are 40 or 19 but when it comes to purposeful union be it friendship or romance it is vital to have an idea of the age cos the way I reason at 41 can never be the same with a 23year old lady so knowing her age would give me an idea of how to relate with her until I know her persona.

Furthermore you must understand that this thread is actually about ladies of 25 and above so when I ask I just want to know which has no correlation with my unmarried status as you sarcastically stated.

No offense tho but I'm just being real.

ronald4lif:
Interesting
Oga Toks2008 greetings

I greet you.

Safiaa:
Well i guess thats just a sterotype. Im 22, i may be considered 'young', but I definitely feel like ive passed that level of playing around. I've experienced it all so i'm not willing to waste any more of my time. But its understandable why you may think like that.

I really do hope the right lady comes along for you.
You seem like a level headed cool man.

The honest twist to it is that at my age I can't see any lady below 25 or even below 27 as serious minded when it comes to wanting a purposeful union because there is this subliminal thoughts that creeps into their head that they still have lots of time so I was liberal enough to peg the age to 25 for ladies cos at that age..reasonable ones should be thinking right in terms of romance so I do undrstand you might be more mature than your age but when it comes to wanting a real affair most ladies your age still wanna play around.

bassette:
A good thread... Thanks Toks for starting this..

Thanks dude

Bumbae1:
So all dis loving wey i dey give u nko ... as i dey mention you up and down

Sorry lady are you 25 or above?

Elsielex:
I'm 29 going on 30 with no suitor or even a boyfriend. Most of my toasters are married men and I do n't want to be the reason for a broken home so I marry my job and steer clear romance.

GOD bless you for being real and I give you d thumbs up...

You see exactly what I mean...me wey be say I dey extra smart for woman matter I kon turn gentle man after I broke up with my ex at 38...most of the ladies wey I for talk to are either married,engaged or hooked and the younger ones just want fun without commitment.

Alero3Arubi:
I am very serious here.

Gives me sleepless nights.
And the worst is ayaf being begging Alezy to marry me since 2015.
Ayaf followed him.
PMed him.
Stalked him.
Facebooked him.
Even tweeted him.
He says I have no bumbum or boobs.
So my dilemma.
Edakun.
Epp me.

With this your lovely pointed something? habba! maybe the guy no look well...make he remember say after you Don drop one or two the size go double o...and e go begin enjoy am well well.

bettercreature:
Oyin sweetie its not easy! Good ladies are taken.May God help us

There are good sweet ladies just that they are hard to come by expecially the ones from age 25 and above...you only get to see them in their work place,market or super mart as well as religious gathering and trust me,you really have to be tactical to get their contact so the best place to interact with them is online and you can take it from there.

Neroski:
Hello. Just waka passing

Hmmm I sight you o....but sometimes when you no get dp...even if person Wan quote you e go be like say na ghost person Wan talk to...so sometimes to get dp once once dey good.

Alero3Arubi:
OP which kind wahala be this sef?
Person dey worry herself everyday you still come Dey remind am Wetin him no dey forget.
Bia kpa chiri Anya gi ooo.
Biko.
Oghini.
As if being single is not bad enough, you will keep reminding us of the matter.
Is it your single?

Lmao! your sense of humor is epic.

Safiaa:
Im 22, but toks is making me feel pressured . Why are you doing this now lol?

Chai! well I know there are some 21 yr Olds that reason like the 30s but in my experience,most ladies below 25 are usually too carefree to think about a purposeful union until they realize they are about 26 which is 4 years away from that dreaded age of 30 which scares many single ladies...

Nevertheless I will appreciate ladies of 25 and above to come on board to interact and possible develop purposeful friendship with responsible guys here...

captainhoo:
Toks2008
what happened to the previous thread of age 28+ ?kids in romance section won't let the thread serve its purpose

That was a thread for 30plus guys and ladies but the truth is that any lady from 25 upwards should be thinking towards a purposeful union which brings about this thread.

It's a place for people in the stipulated age category to interact and maybe develop some for of friendship so I urge naira land guys and ladies of this age bracket to come on board.

Boleyndynasty2:
sweet 16

And you kon dey make me .....

alexialin:
Hahahahahahahha
My dear, really Praise the Lord o. All my friends and family thought I wouldn't want to get married,. They've waited for me taya.. Lol
Some even promised me certain special gifts if I end up tying the knot with a guy. Lol.. I just shake my head and laughed.
But definitely I will marry by God's grace.
And no pre wedding pics from me and groom... I dont believe in those display pics.
I value privacy alot.
Even my wedding will be a compact one, so I don't have a panic attack when faced with crowd. Orelse if I see crowd, I will just jejely turn back and start heading back home.. Phew!
Can't deal with crowd at all. Especially on a sacred ceremony like wedding.
It's not like am doing carnival

You are a wise lady

Boleyndynasty2:
I'll take it that you're 32...it's never late to find someone, good thing you realized you need to stop searching.

Waiting for the answer to my question...kini age bracket e?

xqzytchyca:
I used to think 5years; but I've realised most guys that are >/=5years older than I am do not know what they want and lack common sense at the same time...so, I'm all about any guy that meets my top5 qualities...not older than 37 shaa

Hmmm...OK o...all the best