₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,329,000 members, 8,438,360 topics. Date: Friday, 03 July 2026 at 10:33 AM

Toggle theme

Toks2008's Posts

Nairaland ForumToks2008's ProfileToks2008's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 417 418 419 420 421 422 423 424 425 (of 708 pages)

RomanceA Question For The Female Money freaks. by Toks2008(op):
In my world,being "rich" is relative and i also believe that any responsible and reasonable lady will understand the need to work hard and become financially independent so that she can be with a man for the right reasons.

Any lady who makes it a must to marry a rich guy can be likened to a hopeless leech even if she is also rich
..Believe it or not,in this present day,a lady who is not also financially independent has no business going into marriage just to be a liability to the man.

Nevertheless, there are still some ladies who are hell bent on marrying a "rich" guy and would make it a do or die affair so i would like to ask such ladies this very innocuous question.

What if you marry a rich guy and for whatever reason becomes poor after marriage, would you leave or stay with him?

RomanceRe: Pre-Wedding Photo Of Couple Who Met 15 Years Ago by Toks2008(m): 9:17pm On Nov 04, 2016
OBTSubtle:
undecided

Bro, I don't believe that.. I have a choice man..

Only a slave will settle for what he has seen, I'm a free and capable man...

I have to make my choice..

undecided this is a life partner.. What happens when she blows up more than this in future?? Then you start looking at all those slim girls outside??

We have to tell ourselves the truth bruh..
Look here bro.. even me as "cute" as i think i am,i have realized that most of these so called hot chics are looking for a man to buy them but most of the not so sweet looking ones are ready to love you die...
RomanceRe: Pre-Wedding Photo Of Couple Who Met 15 Years Ago by Toks2008(m): 9:04pm On Nov 04, 2016
OBTSubtle:
I know the liquid content matters and stuff...

But I won't marry a woman who looks like this.. You don't have a child yet and you look like this...


Dafuq gon happen when you give birth? You go look like those fat twins who made Guinness book of records..

Yeah, the ones on motorcycles
Be careful what you say because you never can know what you will end up with.

Some men who have said even more have ended up with what they would have sworn against.
CareerRe: Palmchat Partners With A Nairalander, Tosyne2much For Posting "10 Things" by Toks2008(m): 6:20pm On Nov 04, 2016
tosyne2much:
Egbon Toks, may God open the book of remembrance unto us
It's about passion jare.

What you do for fun can also bring in good wealth for you..that's just the fact of life..
CareerRe: Palmchat Partners With A Nairalander, Tosyne2much For Posting "10 Things" by Toks2008(m): 6:15pm On Nov 04, 2016
tosyne2much:
[i] On the 27th of October, I received an official mail from Palmchat about a partnership deal.
Nice one brother. .It's all about passion.

But make money come out of the deal o..you don pay your dues.

I won't be surprised if a radio or Tv station contacts me too cos many of my topics are usually discussed on air in dome radio stations.

Congrats once more
CareerRe: Palmchat Partners With A Nairalander, Tosyne2much For Posting "10 Things" by Toks2008(m): 6:14pm On Nov 04, 2016
.
CelebritiesRe: Binta Diamond Diallo: I Am A Not A Babymama, I'm A Mother by Toks2008(m): 2:36pm On Nov 04, 2016
Some women and self deceit...this lady just confirmed that she is super dumb.
RomanceRe: In Search Of A Decent Partner To Marry. by Toks2008(op): 10:15pm On Nov 03, 2016
dollyjoy:
I actually opened this thread thinking op is looking for a lady to marry so that i can try my luck with him but oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooops, so disappointed. grin
grin grin Eyaah sorry but its not a bad idea o..as long as you can cook very well and also ready to learn the big role in the other room in case you are naive about it and less i forget, you have to be pleasing to my eyes too as in having a sexually appealing figure cos my taste is very very high.
RomanceRe: In Search Of A Decent Partner To Marry. by Toks2008(op):
cique:
When most people talk about decency in partners, it's usually about issues bothering or revolving around morality. That's the much I know on that subject.
Yeah
RomanceRe: In Search Of A Decent Partner To Marry. by Toks2008(op): 10:07pm On Nov 03, 2016
Naughtysite:
Toks2008 model, are you married ?

These your epistles make little sense to me if you are still single..
How does my marital status affect the exchange rate of the naira against other currencies?

Please run out of this thread before i descend on you...busy body.

RomanceRe: In Search Of A Decent Partner To Marry. by Toks2008(op): 8:31pm On Nov 03, 2016
Sunky200:
i once told my bae that "there is no such thing as a perfect relationship", i was suprised when she agreed that i was right and even further emphasise my with examples.

You're right toks, very right.

mutual understanding and tolerance always do the magic
Yeah! sure
RomanceRe: "I Gave Him All My Heart And He Did This To Me" -Heartbroken Lady Laments. PICS by Toks2008(m): 6:16pm On Nov 03, 2016
Swizdom:
I will choose a tattooed body with good heart over anyone without tattoo who is bad. That you dnt love tattoo doesn't mean u shud judge those who have it as bad folks. You could even be worse than they are.
Leave story dude.

Tattoo is a NO NO for any responsible man in Nigeria...even all over the world..Quote me anywhere.
RomanceRe: "I Gave Him All My Heart And He Did This To Me" -Heartbroken Lady Laments. PICS by Toks2008(m): 6:14pm On Nov 03, 2016
When a lady who does not look responsible starts crying that a guy dumped her... Iranu.
RomanceRe: For How Long Should You Stalk On A Lady? by Toks2008(m): 10:35am On Nov 03, 2016
krissconnect:
I've heard and experienced situation where a guy spends a year or more stalking on a particular lady, despite series of turn downs or declines from the lady, the guy persists. Taking the case of the guy that trekked from lagos to zaria for a lady he fell inlove with as an instance(he alredy spent 6yrs stalking on her)
Now my question is, guys,for how long can you stay stalking on that lady who's got you head over heels? And to our ladies, does it make sense to you when a guy spends a 'lifetime' stalking on you? Will his persistence ever make you consider him?

Talk2bella,toks2008,tosyne2much,laveda
I don't stalk.

I simply invite you out on a date and make my sincere intentions known and whatever we conclude there is final. I don't believe in a lady proving hard to get because i am also very hard to get so if i come for you then i really want you. Nuff said.
RomanceRe: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by Toks2008(m): 12:13am On Nov 03, 2016
Any guy who says it's OK is sexually irresponsible and any lady who seconds this is sexually loosed.
CelebritiesRe: Rahama Sadau Attends Premiere Of "Road To Redemption" With Akon In USA(pics) by Toks2008(m): 10:50pm On Nov 02, 2016
cassidy1996:
Akon don dey chop dis babe
Likely..and Akon wont stop until he makes her one of his wives.
RomanceRe: In Search Of A Decent Partner To Marry. by Toks2008(op):
Rapmoney:
Toks2008, nice post you have written and I commend you for that. That's that...but to be frank with you, if you have met some type of crazy people in life, you would realize that the word 'decency' could really have a general meaning, acceptable among almost every sane and responsible human in a conservative African society like ours.

In as much as relationship thrives on accepting people's flaws and shortcomings which sum up to tolerance, I don't think it is wise to accept someone in marriage who has a trait/traits you cannot tolerate!!! We are all different and so are our desires when it comes to relationships and marriage. If Jude cannot withstand the condition of his wife-to-be not being able to communicate in English, there's no need being in a serious affair with Cynthia who happens to be someone who cannot speak or write in English properly. I bet you, he would never be happy in such marriage. Nobody should judge him because his mind is already conditioned not to accept such condition!

To ease our lives, we just need to know the characters or traits we can tolerate in others and those we cannot tolerate. If one has knowledge of these, one can make marriage or marital affair easier.

If anyone is searching for a partner who is flawless, such a person is living a life of illusions!
@ The embolden, unfortunately most of these indecent traits is made obvious after marriage or latter in the relationship when a comfort zone have been established.
HealthRe: 7 Years Of Being An Amputee, Lady Celebrates (Photos) by Toks2008(m): 12:19pm On Nov 02, 2016
I don't see an amputee but what I see is a lovely and delectable young lady full of life.
RomanceRe: In Search Of A Decent Partner To Marry. by Toks2008(op): 12:15am On Nov 02, 2016
WiLdFLame:
All this love matter don tire person sef ...
Infact me see tire o.
RomanceRe: In Search Of A Decent Partner To Marry. by Toks2008(op): 10:47pm On Nov 01, 2016
Diplomaticbeing:
Yes, one can find a decent partner. This is so because attitude (persona or superfication) is not always direct reflection of attribute. The former can be learned or faked but the latter is innate.

So, one who is able to differentiate attitude from attribute can sure find a decent partner. Using standard-base of 100 percent, any partner that possesses from 70 percent upwards of the attributes one desires in a partner can lay claim of having a decent partner.

However, tell me that one cannot find a perfect partner and I will agree with you 100 percent.
We are on same page.
RomanceRe: In Search Of A Decent Partner To Marry. by Toks2008(op): 10:45pm On Nov 01, 2016
skarlett:
I read it that's why I doubt you wrote it...so you can write something this reasonable shocked
You no well..wait make I catch you..

RomanceRe: In Search Of A Decent Partner To Marry. by Toks2008(op): 9:24pm On Nov 01, 2016
skarlett:
This account has been hacked undecided
huh

You sure sey you read the write up so?
RomanceRe: In Search Of A Decent Partner To Marry. by Toks2008(op): 8:26pm On Nov 01, 2016
Nma27:
Are u not in search of a decent partner again? OK, I must admit I didn't even read your post
Tot as much cos i was only being creative with the title. But u love making friends tho *winks*
RomanceRe: In Search Of A Decent Partner To Marry. by Toks2008(op): 8:20pm On Nov 01, 2016
Nma27:
At last, sheen you are searching for a decent partner to marry huh; I have one sweet caring lady to hook you up with. Holla at me to match you guys up. P.S she's based in Abuja

RomanceIn Search Of A Decent Partner To Marry. by Toks2008(op):
Often times we hear the single and searching use this phrase and I tend to wonder what it means to be decent?

Decency means a different thing to different people but according to the English dictionary, the word decent is an adjective used to describe an acceptable or satisfactory standard of a person which brings to mind this simple question;"Can one ever find a partner who has a total satisfactory and acceptable persona?"

The answer is a BIG NO.

You say Tony is a dude but he is too stingy,Jude is romantic but too lousy,Dele is caring but talks too much,Stephen is focused but too possessive and you just broke up with Tade because he is too arrogant.

You say Abigail seems ok but she is dirty, you like Mary but she is too dry,Mayowa would have been your ideal lady but she lacks manners and kaffy is so calm but she can't speak good English.

No matter how hard you try, you will never find a "decent" partner that meets all your standard and there will always be a reason to leave that partner of yours because every one of us have one or two indecent character which may not be too obvious at first but will usually come crawling to the surface in due time and when such nature becomes obvious,we tend to wonder where it has been hiding in that person and we usually tag it "irreconcilable differences" then we break up with that person just to be on a wide goose chase with another presumably better partner.

The bottom line is that we should stop looking for a partner that will pass the decency test and learn to take people for who they are. You may never see all you want in one person and if you think you have then be prepared for a rude shock when you eventually discover the indecent side.

Have an open mind when searching for a partner and look for the top most quality you want and be prepared to tolerate him or her,learn to celebrate the good sides and overlook the bad sides because no one is really totally decent and that includes you.


N.B:The act of physical violence against your partner transcends beyond an indecent act but a beastly one hence this write up does not encourage anyone to tolerate a partner who is violent.

Hope this makes sense.

BusinessRe: Naira Appreciates As Manufacturers Lament Forex Scarcity by Toks2008(m): 7:55am On Nov 01, 2016
abuayman:
Hmmmmm, I can call it gain when I see a $ is down to at least 300
N200
PhonesRe: 2012 And 2013 Phones Capable Of Challenging The Most Current Smartphones by Toks2008(m): 12:20am On Nov 01, 2016
propanet:
source http://www.propanet.com/2016/10/the-old-faithfuls-revisited.html

[b]Samsung Galaxy S4

The Samsung Galaxy S4 was the Prince of Android in 2013 and up till date still command considerable degree of respect and recognition.

The device was released in 2013 by Samsung and some of the remarkable specs include 5.0 inch Super AMOLED display, 2gig of RAM, 13 MP rare camera and with 2600mAh battery.

The display appearance is a hell of a beauty that glares. The clarity of the display was well refined and fine-tuned to produce high quality images that you can hardly fine elsewhere. This was one of the major selling point of the device back then when the device was still in vogue in the market.

The camera was another great selling point on the device which up till now can still be reckoned with even in the presence of more sophisticated devices of modern time.

The Samsung galaxy S4 though a bit old is still a monster in the Android community that other smartphones within the community can still pay homage to.

The two minor drawbacks you will notice are the poor plastic housing and the tendency to quickly warm up after few minutes of usage.[/b]
Yeah! using it right now...so cool
RomanceRe: What a Woman Really Wants from her man by Toks2008(op): 7:04am On Oct 31, 2016
Boyooosa:
Freedom theory did not work for you according to ur story, so why the reference brah?
So would you rather force a woman to be with you at all cost when there are billions of ladies out there?

Any man who begs a woman to love or stay with him should be castrated. If you truly offend a lady, beg her and if possible go on a knee to apologize if you really offended her but if the reason for her leaving is hinged on the fcat that she is in love with someone else or she is just not interested anymore please respect her wish and let her go.

Foe every one lady who rejects you, there are other 10 ladies out there ready to be with you regardless of your status.
RomanceRe: What a Woman Really Wants from her man by Toks2008(op): 12:35am On Oct 31, 2016
AreaFada2:
The worst a man can do is cling to a woman or beg her to stay with you. That is your dignity gone. No woman respects a mug. She will so mess you up & discard you. Even if you hurt, do so privately. Be in control of yourself. Always.

When she sees that the pasture is not greener on the other side she was eyeing, she would come back. Up to you to take her back or not. cheesy
Exactly.. I told my ex that "let me die the day I ever beg her to come back to my life" and this is because her reason for leaving was never my fault and eventually she came back by herself.

You are a man when you let your woman make her decision but you become a jerk by forcing your decision on her.
RomanceRe: What a Woman Really Wants from her man by Toks2008(op): 12:33am On Oct 31, 2016
harffie:
This is just the honest truth. I'm currently in the situation and I won't let her enjoy it one tiny bit by trying to convince her to stay or shit like that....if she wants to go she should, she can decide for herself.
That's all.
RomanceRe: What a Woman Really Wants from her man by Toks2008(op): 12:29am On Oct 31, 2016
harffie:
God bless you for this comment, if a girl wanna use a guy they will and at the end of the day, you'll be subbed... A guy is only wasting his strength when you dey form caring and romantic.....lol, learnt my lessons...
All my romance thread on nairaland are coined from what I have seen,heard and experienced first hand.

I had a lady that I could swear will never falter but after 12years of a wonderful union she suddenly feels caged and according to her she said she feels cheated that she has spent all her life with me since I met her when she was just 19..

I tried making her see why she needs not see things that way but she insisted that she just wants a break and even when I could pin her down in one way or the other,I let her be.

After over 3 years she walked back by herself..WHY? because I allowed her the freedom to do her bidding but I had to put a stop to the union as I was no longer comfortable.

Do you know that if I had held on to her against her wish, she will still think there is something better out there I'm trying to prevent her from seeing.

Leave these first wonder of the world to fly if they want to....they will eventually learn from their own experience.
RomanceRe: What a Woman Really Wants from her man by Toks2008(op): 12:16am On Oct 31, 2016
AreaFada2:
When even women do not understand themselves, how can a man?

Any wonder why lots of when despise themselves while pretending otherwise?

Just when you think you have understood a woman, you soon realize that you don't.

When things go well with your woman, it is not necessarily because you really understand her. It is simply because she has decided to make your relationship work and is committed to it. You could be the most useless guy on the planet, the lady that wants to make it work would still try her best.

You can also be the most caring, loving, responsible & caring man in the universe, it will still not cut it with some women. shocked shocked

So just chill & be the best you can be. If it works then good.
Good one...that is why I laugh at guys who list pooh like be caring..romantic..supersexy bla bla bla...

Just do your best and let her make her choice..if she says she does not want you again...let her be..

The day a lady told me she does not want a guy because he is too good..that was the day I concluded that women are the most complex species of God's creations so just let them decide on what they want and allow them learn a thing or two from experience.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 417 418 419 420 421 422 423 424 425 (of 708 pages)