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Omotayor123:
No point missed..

I am talking about men Generally.!

Ironically, this is not about men in general but marriage ready mature guys because this set of guys don't reason like other guys in general and even the randy ones among them still think about settling down but the problem is that they have not seen that lady that is good enough to make them take that bold step.

firstking01:
And who are the "men and boys"

Ki lo pa iya ijebu ?

Omotayor123:
If a man wants to be with you, Even If you don't lift a Finger, He will never let go.

But If he doesn't, If you look cook all the food in the world, buy all the gift and do unimaginable things, He still wouldn't propose.

Same goes with Women.

Abeg no disturb yourself, trying to force/lure a man to propose.

You all keep missing the point.

This piece is not about some boys who don;t know what they want but men who are mature enough for marriage.

firstking01:
Do all these and you appear needy, desperate and perhaps cheap.

Yes she will appear cheap to boys but not to men

Xiadnat:
*clears throat*.....story story. Only if it were that easy. Men these days are confused as heck.....like how democrats are still dazed & confused for Trump winning.

You can do all these, a guy who is not ready nor know what he wants will still turn a blind eye. Dilly dallying and all.... until you tell him another guy has proposed marriage, then he sobers up.

She owes him just about a year..if he still acts silly, she can walk away.

Remember that its not easy for ladies to get guys of their choice so this is about trying out her chance WITH A MAN OF HER CHOICE....not just any random guy.

There are basically 5 things any responsible mature unmarried man wants in a wife and they are

1.A woman that is sexually pleasing to his eyes.
2.An excellent cook
3.A GOD fearing lady.
4.A very romantic lady.
5.A financially independent lady.

The question is;do you have all these qualities? if NO then you just might try having them but if you do then here is the catch;

Many marriage ready guys want to settle down with any lady who has the qualities highlighted above but they are not game with all these running after babes upandan so when they see one who is daring enough to show them real affection,they simply surrender and before you know it, they are married to that lady even if she is a karashika.....so stop the timidity and get that guy to yourself before one sharp bad babe does.This is the secret smart ladies use to get good guys while the good and reserved ladies keep hoping and praying for a GOD fearing guy to come their way.

Don't be bothered by his good looks,financial status or affluence or even the lady that is always hanging around him because in most cases, that lady might just be a pain in the neck for him so when next you see a guy you fancy and he is mature enough for marriage,take the bull by the horn,show him good green light,get close to him without wasting time or expecting him to chase you because while waiting for him to come after you,he just might get carried away by another daring lady...

If you ever start an affair with him just treat him like a king and make his family love you expecially his mum but after all these If he does not propose to you in about a year,simply walk away...

But trust me,it works.

KissChrix:
Just for one woman....

Worse still the one that have been cassavad by numerous men.
But if there is money I guess nothing is too much for a woman you truly desire.

elfmann:

Busy body...plese remove my number

Talk2Bella:
was referring to what my blog posts and videos are about, I don't post everything here, and yes Nairaland is a hobby to some people, reading about things is a hobby, interacting and contributing is a hobby, don't get it confused dear

I like your tenacity.

Incrizz:
Tooks2008 done lol
I didn't quote because Lalasticlala might see what you wrote about him

This is one of the most insightful thread i have sen on snakes so im positive tht he will do the needful..maybe tomorrow nd YES tht guy loves snakes,

Incrizz:
Number deleted from quote

What should I have said?
PM button? Or Icon?
The PM is a link. I am so sure

There is no PM link but email link and that process is too monotonous for me.Stay blessed sis.

Incrizz:
Would you mind hitting my PM link? Thanks aww..
Lol..chai!

Which one be PM link?
Pleasw unquote me o... lol!

Incrizz:
Haba

Chill omoge. .I'm a socialite and I find your thread intriguing hence the need to ask.

Incrizz:
Lol..no o

What age bracket are you?
20 to 24 25 to 29 30 and above

Incrizz:
'Was stepping out of my house while it had already left its home.
It was gliding in my direction, a very long green baby snake.
The fact that it retreated before me, made me feel sorry for it.
I couldn't have killed it on my own but, I would have raised an alarm!
I saw it occasionally.
It would sunbathe behind my window.
I took pictures of it once or
twice.
It had grown into an impressive brownish boa or pythonlike sized adult snake.

It crawled out of it's hole as usual on one unfortunate day, a day my neighbours, males, were all around. I wasn't.

They killed it. Poor harmless beauty
I dedicate this thread to your memory my beautiful snake friend(?)...farewell for ever.

Wouldn't you like to own one of these?
Just look at the textures of those skins.......

This is a front page thread so change the title to "12 beautiful snakes you will love to have as pets"

Then write the magic word lalasticlala cos the guy like snakes like kilode.

It will also be nice of you can add their names.

Incrizz:
Huh? Lol...I'm ready for a husband! Sweetest Hubby I am ready for you, come come I used to think I can go through life without being married (God forgive me my sins *sign of the cross*)

So are you now married?

[quote author=frankanyiks post=50919367][/quote]Correct..so painful I can't download it.

hotspec:
It's ur pick!!!

Correct guy.

MMM and nairaland Frontpage are like ...
wey that pics sef

benjibabs:
Trump is the best thing that could happen to US now, believe me (in Trump's voice) Killary, Agama and gang are big disaster( also in Trump's voice).

It's time to make America great again!!!!

If you are a good history student you will not dispute the fact that republicans are synonymous with wars and right from the days of gulf war to 9/11 you will agree that serious terrorist attacks happen whenever the republicans are in power so you can now imagine when a vocal one wins and he has been lashing out at the Muslims and islamic countries saying he will ban them outrightly which is tantamount to asking for war.

I repeat, with this man in power,the end of America has come.

[quote author=swagdopey post=50884398][/quote]I'm shivering right now...Trump is bad news for the whole world..
Obama must declare Marshall law and sit put

benjibabs:
Trump is probably finishing off with 294 electoral votes.

Oh my GOD.

How did this happen?

Lawlahdey:
I swear i can't date an ugly looking guy cuz of money ... I don't like money that much

Chai! iro nla

sparkleRed:
But it is nt a crime to go where rich pple re and marry for love

Lol! what an ironical comment.

saaedlee:
Please can TeHN raise a platform where able Nlders can donate to the Late Lt. Col 's wife and kids.

You mean all the families of slain soldiers?

SSBN:
Of late there has been a spate of me waking up and discovering very thin but razor Sharp marks on parts of my body. So smooth is the line, it tnrows away any possibility of an accidental scratch by my fingers, especially in places bar to reach. Has anyone experienced anything like this before?

Yes it has happened to me and several others.

They are totally benign, they usually go away as the skin heals in 2 to 3 days.

And please, be assured, there's nothing paranormal about it. A lot of people seem to have them, and as disconcerting as they appear, it's just something about the skin.

As they appear without a direct cause, people jump to conclusions without a shred of evidence of: witches, ghosts, evil eyes, demons, apparitions, spells, magic, "dark arts", possessions, etc.!

Occam's razor applies: a skin problem is way, WAY more probable than any of these, so don't stress yourself with those explanations.

What of HIV vaccine? that is most paramount.

pocohantas:
Before this turns into a case of Nigerian ladies are this and that, let's take a moment to ask how many Nigerian men are actually RICH.

Some people would confuse being financially stable to being rich.

That a woman desires a financially stable man isn't materialism or parasitism. It's nature playing out, it's common sense (in Ben Bruce's voice), it's her being real and pragmatic. Men are natural providers, while women are care-givers.
Twist I any how you want, it is what it is.

I keep seeing people ask this question (what if he goes broke), but in reality what's the actual ratio of men that go 'broke' after marriage to those that get richer. This is just a case of extremes, it doesn't always play out like that.

Now for those ladies that desire a man all because of money, it isn't even the worst thing to happen. We all desire the other for something. The man himself probably wanted a trophy wife...I think that makes them a perfect match. If he isn't discerning enough to know the real from the fake, that's his luck.

You men should be more discerning, don't end up with parasites then come crying and generalizing.
Stop nagging...some men want figure 8, some say it must be a graduate, men have even taken over in the search for financially stable females. We haven't killed them...it's all individual choices. People would keep on marrying for reasons other than love, get used to it.

Another intelligent comment...really insightful.

Nevertheless the title says money freaks which is a total deviation fron the norm. Every lady will desire a man who can CATER for his family which is different from bring rich and it is very easy to mix up the two.

bitchcrafts:
Nonsense talk jarey. So because he is rich, that automatically disqualifies him from possessing some other desirable qualities right. Oh boy! Go sit yo ass down somewhere and start ruminating on how to make this money. Owo ni koko! Self pity is the last thing I wanna hear tonight, if she left u cos u ain't got the doe to go, let your pains motivate u. Dalu!

You know what amazes me most about some posters on nairaland?

They are not intelligent enough to address the subject but rather the poster.

Did I write about me? HE'LL NO...

Please receive common sense abeg..I'm a freelancer and a very creative one at that so don't ever make the mistake of juxtaposing my write ups with my person and in fact you deserve an e-slap.

kazyhm:
"cater" should mean providing basic needs not expecting an outrageous lifestyle

you people don't even want to understand anything apart from spending more

in facts, any event that didn't require spending "money" is not romantic



the funniest is if a gal knows you have money and you refuse to spend at a particular time/event for whatever reason(s) you become irritating instantly

Interesting...

Swissheart:
The thing is.... It is not a sin to desire a man who can provide for his household (wife) financially, materially, emotionally,spiritually and all the 'lly' you can imagine. The bible supports it. However, it becomes dangerous and stupid to place the financial capability of a man above all other criteria for marriage.
To your question....... If an unwise girl marries an affluent man who couldn't decode a good woman from a LovePeddler,it becomes their problem, their headache... their pot of soup. He has no right to report. God is not even interested.
Our fair weather Sis won't find life funny too. She'll pay. Yeah...somehow She will. Posterity won't forgive her either.

I like your intelligence

AfonjaStinks:
Are you trying to say that a woman should get married to a financially independent man while she's still financially unstable ??

EPIC!