₦airaland Forum

TheRealestGuy:
OP, first, your view shows you to be a young lad, prolly in his late teens or early twenties.

When you've become more experienced in dealing with women, you'll understand that all a woman needs is to be treated like a child; really listen to her, show her love and care, caution her when she errs, buy her gifts, make her grow, shower her with attention, and very importantly provide for her and make her believe strongly in you and look up to you... then make sure your bedroom skills are top notch.

I think I've pretty summed up what most women want, generally speaking...

kuchikau:
...........Let me use dis opportunity to advise guys who foolishily follow/live their lives to please girls. U are on ur way to your early grave.
See the way nairalanders adores some stupid girls here makes me go gaga.
I hate girls dat mensturates. How can blood coming fron your BIG T0TO wet ur pants and skirt,yet u claim to be sophisticated. *Smells*..

beautiful232:
very funny

now let me tell you guys what women really want from any man!


JUST TRUE LOVE!

fellis:
Telling the truth is now trolling?
OK Mr misogynist.

le:
And its also funny that whenever ari3l talks in the programming section, what will end it is, "gimacon taught me how to do this" or "he taught me how to do that". hey you just said you dont know ari3l didnt you?

alexisSr:
Brother, girls enjoy sex too. Okay? All of these societal pressures to shame something that is so natural is unnecessary. She's saying the truth. Men who last for two minutes imply do not satisfy. But it can be worked on, as long as the man and woman are patient with each other. Which is why a prior emotional connection always makes sex better.

geraldgiz:
Can i get your number

geraldgiz:
In recent times ,i discovered in my conversations with female Christian Minors that most female teens go into relationships at a very tender age like 14,15,16 &17. So ,i want to know if there is any bibilical stipulated time for Christians women to go into relationships or is it just the trending thing now, maybe because they have attained puberty or biological maturity,hence they can do whatever they want even while being Christians.

I believe what the bible says in Ecclesiastes that there is time for everything on earth and also in Songs of Solomon where it says that"love should not be instigated before it's time".

On this i can say is not right for female Christian teens of the ages above to go into relationships and also God designed us to marry one Person as Christians and not go into multiple relationships in search of husband or Wife to be.

What is your say on this pls?

Davedoz:
Toks2008 I'm one of your biggest fans, but I will go with this guy today. He did it for me. Toks2008, you narrowed what a woman wants, but, we all know (including women) that it's not that straightforward! This guy, is really close to what I think a woman wants. And the key word in ALL this brother of mine wrote is.... SELFLESS!!!

fellis:
Nothing special or cerebral about this topic. Even kids want to have control of their lives. Everyone wants to have control of their lives.



Absolutely nothing enlightening to see here.

baridamhoney:
A friend of mine thinks it is not right for him to pay tithe with his proceeds on Nairabet and MMM nigeria. I advised him to pay tithe on MMM money but he argued that the monies are not clean and tithe is supposed to be paid on clean money. Now I don't know how else to convince him. I wil like your opinion on this please.

Jenny1010:
you find a handsome one, his brain is empty.

you find a brilliant one, he look too serious .

you find a rich one, he is disrespectful.

you find hard working one, he never has time for you.

you find a serious one, he is a mess in bed[i][/i]

you find a humble one, his broke.

you find a responsible one, his not romantic.

you find an educated one , he feels his always right.

you find an illiterate one, he always get angry when you correct him.

you find a smart one, he lies every time.




Now you see why am still single... Nigerian men need serious deliverance.

TreasuredLeidy:
so all d story na just 4 50k? Cheap Prostitute.

I pity person wey go marry dis 1 put 4 house.
buh girls why

Diydiva:
Yea Yea

Another piece that will come from twisting the bible to suit yourself.


May God help you Toks

mnairaland:
I think Shymm3xx made a bit of sense.
I think the word double-standard would be more appropriate than hypocrisy in the context that you used it.

bagger293:
Oga u try no be small..I no knw as I go take reward u sef,

Syogbe:
This is a well researched article though as good as it is, the bible does not encourage polygamy especially New testament. If you desire the post of bishop or deacon you have to be husband of only one wife. The question is what of if you are not ready to be a deacon? You will equally be told that we are all deacon as a Christian. From exigency point of view most of the reasons for polygamy are plausible but then it should be a circumstantial issue. One should not go out there with the intention of marrying more than one wife but if your situation permits well it is left for you.

AZeD1:
Ever heard of the word nymphomaniac?

You are the one writing what you think.
Research has shown there are more sexually unsatisfied women than men, yet you think polygamy would help that? Were is the logic in that?

In reality, women cheat more than men, women have multiple sexual partners so why not polyandry?

oglalasioux:
I don't like number 9 as a reason for polygamy. There are lots of children in orphanages waiting for adoption. Must we continue to pump up world population?

Shymm3xx:
Lol. You're stark illiterate.

The fact that you wrote "polygamy" and went on a nutjob rambling about "polygyny" is enough to show that you're an unlettered goblin and you don't even know what the hell you're talking about.

Follow these three steps:

1). Go to ya dictionary and check the meanings of "hypocrisy" and "idiosyncrasy".

2). Read the three main reasons for polygyny:

- Economic reasons due to patriarchy and poverty levels of societies where polygyny is prevalent.

- Shortage of men due death (wars and other things in those societies).

- Breeding with men with better genes.

3). Now, read through ya vacuous ramblings lettered 1-13 and tell me if there's any correlation whatsoever with those two words and reasons I posited.

The joke is on you, you puerile illiterate kid. You write like a 12-year old...and I doubt you're older than 15. Fix up, little boy.

I'm out...don't reduce my IQ.

AZeD1:
There's no sensible thing in the write up, not even the number of unmarried women excuse.
The question is what if the population of men were higher, would polyandry be the solution? (China has this problem)If he says yes, how do you marry that with the point were he says polygamy would help relieve Women of stress?
On the point of relieving women of stress, research shows there are fewer sexually satisfied women, so how does polygamy solve this?

The thread is a display of ignorance and anybody with an iota of sense would poke so many holes in the write up, a basket would be better for fetching water.

Shymm3xx:
I believe in ya mind you think you wrote something cerebral, after writing over 500 words of pure tosh, with no correlation whatsoever with the topic. This is basically an IQ reducing ramblings of an illiterate kid.

1).I believe you don't know the meaning of "idiosyncrasy" c[/b]os after perusing through the junk illiterate-write, I didn't see any idiosyncrasy there.

ireneony:
you are just 25 where are you running.
So you think marriage will solve your problem?

Gosh! I don't know why most girl Nigerian ladies thinks marriage is an achievement in life.
yeah! Getting married is good, but don't let the society dictate for you.

Getring back to your ex is not the problem but getting back to him because of marriage is the problem.
I can see the pressure of getting married on time is clouding your judgement!
So because he now owns cars and house, you are thinking of getting in with him.

I would have advised you better, if the man was new to your life.
Anything concerning ex, count me out!

Life is about taking risk!
if you know ur present relationship is not working out, why not option out and start a new relationship with someone other than going back to your ex.

Billiondoe:
What are the characteristics of a good marriage, am 25 and single and staying in a relationship is like world war 2... seems like love is not all it takes... am in a relationship with a 27yr old man and we r In love and we are both university graduates but I dont think we can make it to the alter cos it's a different drama everyday, never caught him cheating and he respects me but his family controls a better part of him and he isn't ready for marriage anytime soon and I have this ex who is very willing all I have to do is tell him am ready and am no longer in a relationship, he is rich and has different cars and houses but am not so into him but he loves me for sure....

VampireeM:
I know women loves and wants "ATTENTION" which can be in various ways.. eg Financially, Affection, Sex, Freedom etc depending on the attention your woman desires..
Male folks should be attentive to their women inorder to understand them better