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lereinter:
how will u call. 18- 24 years clueless

you know when oyinbo man they mostly marry

maybe u refering to nigerian men

Of course I'm referring to Nigerians. ..this is nairaland and not dollarland or poundland.

ItsQuinn:
32 and above is fine by me

Interesting .

wickedworld:
Nice one OP. Wish know what u look like

I'm just a regular guy

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#ff0099]nope. Mine is Fact[/color]

To you its a fact but to others it remains your opinion.

lalasticlala

Zaynne:
18-20 confused stage

20-29- players stage

29-35 - real demond stage

35-40 -- becoming mature nd ready to settle their azz down

40-50 hot husband material u see them begging girls for marriage

50-60 sugar daddies ready to mingle with anything that has hoe

Smh

Lol..you try but it's about the unmarried and not just about the age hence the 50 and above does not apply as written by you.

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#00cccc]21- 29 category is a stereotype. A ugly 1.Trash[/color]

Well my opinion and yours ...no wahala

WeJamming:
It's never a good idea to create a thread and not dump your article, now it has been derailed.

I usually enjoy those comments

dollyjoy:
50+ and above, sugar daddies. My favorite. Hahahahahaha.

Like seriously?

Cutehector:







Toks u Berra write smth favorable

LOL! you know i am a no holds bar freelancer and i will always present it as it is..favoritism is never my watchword.

Romantic relationship is a major developmental milestone in our lives. It comes with all the other changes going on in our lives from our adolescent stages to adulthood in relation to physical, social and emotional factors and are linked to growing interest in our body image, looks, independence and responsibilities.

As one who had gone through teenage years to adulthood,I can confidently say I have a clue as to how guys see romance from the teenage years to adulthood and while this may not apply to every guy,it holds true in most cases so I present to you the different ages of guys and the way they see romance.

18 to 23: I call this stage the clueless stage
Guys at this stage don't even know what it means to be in a romantic affair other than the trills of sex and unfortunately guys in this stage are highly irrational emotionally and will not think twice before taking any action.Ladies dating guys in this category should be ready to have their emotions toyed with because nothing good usually comes out of it.

24 to 29: This is the unserious stage.
Guys at this stage tend to be very unserious and can be very indecisive because they are too young for commitment A guy at this stage usually have many ladies clamoring for his attention. Any lady who becomes sexually careless with this set of guys should brace up to be a baby mama because settling down is not in their plan as many of them are still trying to find their bearing.. Most guys who marry at this stage are forced to do that probably after putting a lady in the family way and she proves hard to discard. Ladies looking for a real romance have a slim chance with this set of guys.

30 to 35:This is the decisive stage for guys.
At this stage even if they are still willing to play around,the family will be drumming it into their ears the need to start a family.Any lady regardless of her age who wants to have a purposeful romance have a good chance with this set of guys and any lady who is lucky to be with this set from their 20s may count herself lucky. Many guys in this set are focused and have come to realize that there is more to life than chasing skirts around and the reality of becoming a man will Inadvertently force them to be responsible and while many of them could still have few ladies lurking around them,they would have singled out that special lady that will be his wife.

36 to 40:This is the overdue stage for guys.
At this stage many of their friends are fathers or happily married and every single lady they meet becomes a potential wife as they can't help thinking about settling down...It becomes a shame for this set to mention that "girl friend" word without getting ridiculed and attending family meeting will be a herculean task due to the stigma of being single at that age. If this set of guys woo a lady then she can consider it a marriage proposal. If you know you are not ready to be his wife please tell him quickly because this set of guys really need a wife.

41 to 49:This is the desperate stage.
Most guys who are single at this stage better have a good reason to be else the world will see them as strange. For this set it is very easy for any serious lady to have them because most of the guys in this set are very vulnerable and do not have that strong push to woo ladies about but will be glad to have any serious minded lady to come into his life. Many guys in this set are either widowers, divorcees except few who have other reasons. If any single guy in this category woos you just answer by saying "I do" because the next thing is marriage.

50 and above:
I honestly don't know what to write here but it is believed in Nigeria that if you are still single at this age and you are neither a divorcee,a priest or a widower then you are on your own.


I will stop here.

What exactly did she do sef? Where is the video? As far a i am concerned, she is only unfortunate to have allowed that recording take place but the simple truth is that many people who condemn her do worse..Hypocrites everywhere.

bemind:
To the OP @Toksxxx

I guess this is a rebound from the "Cant marry a guy who earns N50,000" thread. It really hurts doesn't it? I've realized that guys who have absolutely, I mean zilch, zero chances with exceptional women in real life, always use this marriage subject to massage their overtly sensitive egos. Grading single women by age and hampering on how sad they are gives your ego a little relief, for once in your life you feel in charge. We can easily spot the weaklings because they obsess about single ladies.

Advice to striking women, please do not be perturbed by posts like this. The gentle man who posted this is a known wanke.r, by wanke.r I mean chronic masturbato.r, he is a sex addict, with a wife who literally threw him out.

Loosers like this get really pissed on sighting strong beautiful women who have re-prioritized their life goals, because it tends to remind them of their own failures and magnify their undignified lives. If this is the kind of speech you read to your self to help you sleep well at night, then carry on brother. It's sure better than suicide.

Ok yesterday i only quoted you and gave you a piece of my but today i really want to address every point you made not because i cant let go but i just want to show you how hopeless you are.

First and foremost you have proved to be a loser and an inconsequential soul to have cowardly opened a new ID just for this single post.

1.Concerning the thread about a guy earning 50k i had to visit it after you mentioned it here because i did not even read it.

2.Now you also mentioned that i have zero chances with exceptional women and that is the greatest joke i have ever heard..NEWS FLASH! i am an extremely sexually decent man who does not sleep around like a dog despite the fact that i can have as many ladies as i want due to my vantage physical attribute and when you say exceptional women i wish you could explain further because to me an exceptional woman is not the one who speaks english or has a high profile life but a sexually decent woman, who knows her worth and also GOD fearing.

3.As regards wanking,that point really revealed you as totaly d*mb and intellectually shallow. So because i wrote a thread about a deeper look into the act of masturbation automatically makes me a self-servicer..gosh! how i weep for you and your likes...apparently Mel Gibson is a Pastor for producing Passion of the christ movie...for the records and for shallow brained people like you please get this now...i am a freelance writer and a very creative one at that and 99.9999% of the stuffs i write has no correlation whatsoever with my persona,i derive pleasure in writing and if you have issues with that then you must be a witch..you have an option of ignoring my threads.

4.Now you sounded a little bit confused when you wrote that i am a sex addict and a self-servicer at the same time because the last time i checked masturbators can never be sex addict as they always find solace in self servicing. So Yes i love sex and i really give good sex just that i don't sleep around.

5,The talk about wife throwing me out really shows how psychologically unstable you can ever be....First and foremost i don't even know where you got that from. Apparently in your family it is a man who stays in a woman's house for you to f**lishly wrote about a woman throwing a man out.I have enjoyed my mystery on nairaland and i really want it to remain that way but a woman throwing me out is most hilariously stwpid post i have ever come across.

Conclusively i will advice you to seek help fast because you sounded so bitter,hopeless and psychological troubled to have made this comment on a thread that is so innocent and void of any form of chauvinism.

I never see the kind babe wey I want.

gentlegenius:
Well... Your hard fact isn't far from the truth. It's almost correct. But I strongly believe there are ways to overcome cheating in relationships and marriage. This can be achieved whether the girl is a virgin or not. I'm already 30 and it's too late for me to leave her for the experienced ones or allow her to 'Explore' so that she'll value me when she comes back. 3 years ago, My friend married a young girl who hasn't been in any relationship before. Up till now, she hasn't cheated on him or had any desire to 'explore'. So I'll say it again that it depends on who you marry and how you treat her after marriage.

Fair enough.

Vikky014:
hello stop generalizing

In your English class does most mean all? Olodo

Realhommie:
Obviously....


Just be careful though, been following ur posts and you know a lot of peeps do not like you, their reasons aren't far fetched..

#Peace

Thanks brother but the truth is that I don't freaking care how they feel about me...what I write is my opinion and the way they see it is their problem.

Only a shallow minded person will curse another for expression his or her opinion.

Thanks all the same.

SAMBARRY:
haaaa

Na you dey marry am

Toks so you fit get person that love you despite Your eccentric behaviours

As you too dey talk person fit like you with this Your lousiness?

Anyway you lucky say she Don intercede on your behalf say make I no kill you. You for hear am this night

In oshomole's voice.."GO AND DIE"

gentlegenius:
Chei... By saying you prefer experienced ladies, I assume you are talking about those that have experienced sex with different men. Oh my God!
And you think such ladies doesn't go out to Explore after marriage?
I think remaining faithful after marriage doesn't depend on whether she experience sex before marriage or not. It depends on who you marry and how you treat her after marriage.

See you need to understand the stark reality of life ...

forget all these talks of marrying a virgin because it is no guaranty that she won't change ..

I was with one from when she was 19 and at 30 after 11years she was ranting about being caged and complaining about not enjoying her young age as she spent all sith me and I had to let her explore and she came back after exploring but I had to call it quit for many reasons.

The truth is that most ladies whether virgins or not usually have that urge to explore and it only takes a lady who have been heart broken to value true desire from a man and a lady who have experienced like 2 or 3 affairs to value the need to stay put with one man...hard fact

gentlegenius:
Chei... By saying you prefer experienced ladies, I assume you are talking about those that have experienced sex with different men. Oh my God!
And you think such ladies doesn't go out to Explore after marriage?
I think remaining faithful after marriage doesn't depend on whether she experience sex before marriage or not. It depends on who you marry and how you treat her after marriage.

See you need to understand the stark reality of life ...

forget all these talks of marrying a virgin because it is no guaranty that she don't change ..

I was with one from when she was 19 and at 30 after 11years she was ranting about being caged and complaining about not enjoying her young age as she spent all sith me and I had to let her explore and she came back after exploring...

The truth is that most ladies whether virgins or not usually have that urge to explore and it only takes a lady who have been heart broken to value true desire from a man and a lady who have experienced like 2 or 3 affairs to value the need to stay put with one man...hard fact

SAMBARRY:
awon iyalaya e ni werey . Even dog penis sef get value pass your own wey Don thin finish


He-diot

Iyalaya baba enio stable.
Impotent wimp

I heard you we're not able to satisfy your wife sexually that's why she kicked you out and since then you've been ranting and raving on nl with your endless lists.smelling weakling

Were re o were were re o

SAMBARRY:
LIAR!!!

LIAR!!!!
LIAR!!!!


LIAR ALERT SPOTTED!


CEO IN YOUR TOILET AND BATHROOM

Oniranu oshi

Mio mo awon to'tan


For your mind you must br feeling cool with yourself that you have impressed your potential customers of the other room

Oloshi


CEO ko ECO ni

See his smelling shirt telling his mother to bring her cv

Koni da fun e

You can take your mother and her cv to the other room to do what buhari does with aisha. Oloriburuku somebody, oloko toothpick

Were re o...*looks for rope to tie you*

Please stop trolling..apparently you are not stable up there judging from your rantings..

gentlegenius:
There's no cause for alarm. I know what I'm doing with her and it's not what you think. I'm actually waiting for her to turn 18 before I take things to the next level. My reason for dating her now is just to guide her so that she doesn't make mistakes that will ruin her life and to scare away those maniacs who might want to capitalise on her innocence to mess up her body. Right now, I'm training her to be a good wife and she's responding well to it. For this reason I wouldn't like to loose her to another man so I'm already planning to marry her. I think the only way to get a virgin nowadays is to find among those below 18. This is why I dated a 16 year old girl and I count myself lucky that she's still a virgin and has promised to remain so till she reach 18.
If you have anything to say, feel free.

I understand you but just try and make babies fast so that she will have a level of commitment because virgin or no virgin, there is always a secret desire by young naive ladies to explore..

So if she is OK with marriage then marry her and hope she does not go out to explore....this us why I prefer experienced lady.

Vikky014:
Toks can vex!!!!

Many frustrated people on nairaland. ..

Vikky014:
I'm jst telling u d gospel truth. stop eying ladies..#MINGLE..Time is ticking...atleast dropping ur kids in primary sch wt gray hair is nt a good thing...TOKS MINGLE!™

You know nothing about romance cos if you do you won't be writing this.

SAMBARRY:
don't mind it.na only to make noise on nl it sabi.i doubt it has a job.24hrs always posting one bull sh&t to the other

Send your cv to me and I will get you a job....You know what? I ought not to reply your type but you are just so idiotic that I just have to drop this.

When I see comments like this I usually pity your parents for wasting money on your education...for the records I'm a CEO of my company and an e-commerce consultant which gives me ample time to write stuffs at my leisure.

I really feel for shallow minded people like you because apparently you are a slave to the Labour market and your type must never be caught browsing during work hours...

Please grow up and be reasonable for once...the world belongs to smart people and not JOBBERS like you...Odensin

Realhommie:
So much bitterness in ur post, over what if i may ask?

Perhaps there's something you know bout the Op that we don't coz i see ur profile says you just registered and i'm pretty sure you did for this purpose. No


Majority of persons see nothing wrong in the thread so please calm down and take tinz easy. Life is simple

My broda see me see wahala o..the bitterness no get part two and you know the amazing thing..the guy is a pathetic nuisance cos all he wrote lacks substance and I guess he or she must be a buffoon to use a new ID to write this trash

bemind:
To the OP @Toksxxx

I guess this is a rebound from the "Cant marry a guy who earns N50,000" thread. It really hurts doesn't it? I've realized that guys who have absolutely, I mean zilch, zero chances with exceptional women in real life, always use this marriage subject to massage their overtly sensitive egos. Grading single women by age and hampering on how sad they are gives your ego a little relief, for once in your life you feel in charge. We can easily spot the weaklings because they obsess about single ladies.

Advice to striking women, please do not be perturbed by posts like this. The gentle man who posted this is a known wanke.r, by wanke.r I mean chronic masturbato.r, he is a sex addict, with a wife who literally threw him out.

Loosers like this get really pissed on sighting strong beautiful women who have re-prioritized their life goals, because it tends to remind them of their own failures and magnify their undignified lives. If this is the kind of speech you read to your self to help you sleep well at night, then carry on brother. It's sure better than suicide.

rotflmao! Chai see frustrated human being o...only me one..self-servicer, looser,lady threw me out and so on Chai! ...m*d people full nairaland o...abeg EMI ko ni MO ko ba e o...

This is a clear case that you need serious psycaltric evaluation because if you continue this way you will not escape a visit to that place before long

To think I was catching fun writing this as usual whereas somewhere in the world someone is dying over an innocuous write up....

Ode ni e ..If you know me one on one you will cry and curse yourself for showcasing your flishness on a popular online interactive forum such as this.

Infact you need a resounding e-slap because only a frustrated,hopeless and bitter hearted person will see something bad in what I wrote because even me wey write am did not mean to insult anyone...let me stop here because you are only an inconsiquential troll.

Vikky014:
alright mingle ASAP
time dey go as u don reach 40 smething..u suppose dey ansa DADDY BY NOW OOO

E be like sey dem send you to me this evening ....abeg no make me dey think o .

Vikky014:

Why you dey quote me without a comment?

Vikky014:
u r still eying ladies ur wife nko

No be only wife..na cuncubine you go see. Abeg no pour sand for my garri o..I'm very single and very ready to mingle.

fpeter:
Not much regrets though, i can't turn back the hands of time...i did some very stupid things that cost me serious partners. As a young lady, I felt i was pretty enough to get any man i wanted so if any man left me it was just a matter of time, I learned the hard way though but God turned up for me when I started praying to Him for Mercy cos i knew i had messed up my opportunities big time. I had a big bash at my 30th birthday and to my chagrin, my younger ones told me to 'goan' marry that they were tired of coming for my B'day parties and their friends were asking them questions...reality!

Pretty enough lol!

Honestly I'm really eying ladies in their 30s cos even the hottest babe's in this category would have calmed down.