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dmgr:
The truth is,women can never be understood.
You can even date her for ten years and you later get married to her till you get old self, you will never still understand her.Thats just the way they are,the only thing is just to be yourself,discover one or two things about her because i know you will never know all and do the little you can and that is it.

That is why you need to allow them make their decisions.

She just nailed herself with that careless utterance. Quote me latter...she may hind it hard to get a husband so flavor better marries her or she is in for it .
*Guys code*

thowbie7ven:
So, even when she's free and she starts f**king around...

Her life,her decision

SAMBARRY:
see desperation o

This one Don high on im semen

Both you and your phone go blow

Ok abeg help me comot my phone number for the quote since you have already copied it..thanks and expecting your message at last you succeeded in wooing me..kai! sharp babe.

MissHatey:
[size=16pt]You are on point toks.


Freedom! That's all we want even when we are in a relationship.
Don't quote me I beg [/size]

I c

SAMBARRY:
even ape dey advertise itself

wonders shall never end

Abeg I no want vomit keep your irritating picture to yourself

Tall dark and handsome ko tdh ni. You wey resemble chimpanzees with rotten tiny phenese

Oh my! like seriously! waking up at 4a.m to quote me?

I'm feeling so emotional right now...OK I give up, I get the message so please add my number so we can chat...
cos this kain desire you have for me is so so strong and in fact this is a purple light

Lalasticlala do you agree?

ItsQuinn:
Wow... I really sat down to read your write up and I must say that I'm finding it hard to disagree with every point you made....this really made sense

That is why I will continue to crave lalasticlala indulgence to beam the thread.

It is believed that a woman is a complicated homo sapiens who has a peculiar nature that is hard to decipher.Trying to understand a woman is harder than trying to understand the universe but then it is imperative for us as men to try our best in unraveling this mysterious creation of GOD and indeed the first wonder of the world.

In my opinion,women are not that complex but they only appear to be.It is believed that women love comfort,good sex,lots of affection but above all,a woman wants to be free,she wants to go where she wishes to and achieves whatever she believes she can...A woman does not want to be relegated,controlled or bossed around by any man in the name of a dad,husband or boyfriend.

The epitome is that A WOMAN WANTS TO HAVE FULL CONTROL OF HER LIFE ...

This is what a woman really wants from her man and it will be in the best interest of the man to allow her.

Many men mistake submissiveness of a woman to mean slavery,mindlessness and a zombie. This type of men are fond of controlling or dictating to a lady the way to live her life just because he is her boyfriend or husband...

Believe it or not,no matter how sexually endowed,rich or romantic you may be,if you don't allow your woman to have total control of HER LIFE then be ready to cope with an unhappy lady..you can only advice her but always let her have the final say over issues relating to HER LIFE.

Hope this makes sense.

SAMBARRY:
orisirisi


Monkey too dey throw shades.nawa o

Shaki na ma'n shey bi ora,egungun shey bi eran.

Wetin dey edible for your body na the erectile dysfunction wey you get abi body odour wet dey smell like suckaway abi your smelling face me I slap you house wen una dey que to go defecate. I find human being I no see am I see say na monkey dey .eranko jatijati

Lol! you for take style say make i send you my pics make you see TDH and i know you are tempting me to invite you to test my something abi? Tufiakwa..no be for here..i can not even have an attention with your unclad body in full glare because you are too local for my liking with your Yoruba accent.

ItsQuinn:
Please I didn't get you when you said "those questions"

Read the write up

ItsQuinn:
Lol...you don't want to start growing grey hairs early, maybe her troubleness is just a mask of her crushing on you, she has a horrible way of showing it

Horrible is an understatement.

She can abuse a dead body to life.

ItsQuinn:
But I didn't insult you did I? My comment was just simple ....for the love of God, why didn't you just ignore

Contrary to what many people believe,I'm not a misogynist but a realist who sees things the way they are and not the WaY they ought to be.

I always wonder when many guys say a woman's word hould be ignored because they are naturally incoherent but I disagree...rather I believe we must see their words as relevant and important enough not to ignore.

By the way has lalasticlala really take time to read this piece? I believe it makes good sense.

ItsQuinn:
...why na? Give her a trial. How bad can it be? Lolzz

She sounds troublesome..I can not come and go and die..I'm still young.

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

I'm sorry to say this but if your hubby is addicted to pofn and self service then 3 things must be involved.

1.You are either sexually timid or boring.

2.He has crazy libido

3.He needs help cos addiction of any type can be damaging to one's life.

ItsQuinn:
Hahaha.... why are NL peeps attacking you like this na? I still can't see why tho or what you did wrong? Probably bad belle people, anyway most of your posts make sense I won't lie. Everybody is entitled to their opinion, it's called freedom of speech

This sambarry woman wants me to date her but Lailai I won't no matter the green light she shows me...I jump am pass.

SAMBARRY:
gbenue soun ejo e ti poju.oniranu

I bind every monitoring spirit following me upandan on or offline in the name of Jesus christ...AMEN!

A random lady i guess...some guys are so sexually loosed.

I use Glo 12g for 3k for my e-commerce and etisalat N3500 for 6.5gig on my smart phone fore regular browsing totaling just N6,500

SamJed:
Everywhere pre wedding photos...when my mama and papa marry they no do any pre wedding nonsense o...yet in few years to come they will be celebrating silver jubilee..after all this pre wedding photos now, what you will hear is i caught him cheating on me so i am divorcing him...not hating o but i dont like when everybody is trying to follow the trend everytime

God bless you for this.

This prewedding thing is getting stale.I am more interested in seing years of wedding anniversary pics.

INTROVERT:



I cannot even begin to imagine this sad story. If you cant feed them must you kill them. Send them back to the village na .



No need to charge this guy to corut. Just cut his preeq and send him to yaba left or kirikiri.




And you wonder why many Nigerian ladies prefer ready made men.

What correlation does the story have with marrying a ready made man?So rich people don't get broke and poor abi?

The point is that the man is mentally sick and let them just hang him to join them in the grave.

fellis:
How did it feel when your wife threw you out in the streets?
I bet it was humiliating.
I bet you felt like less of a man that's why you are always on Nairaland being a misogynist cos it's the only means you have to restore your lost ego.

lol! this talks of a woman throwing a man out cracks me up ...so in your family it is the wife that throws the man out lol!

Hilarious i must say.

SmeagolC:
Regarding Prechy, his chances should vary with ethnic selection. I most recent found out lady northerners are quite predisposed to marriage at that age, in some cases even earlier. Down south, it may not be as common

Hmmm! i quite agree.

Where is bemind and fellis who trolled the earlier thread about single females?

I have come to realize that we have many bittered people online who will always see something negative in an innocuous situation...so sad and pitiful.

fellis:
By the way Op deserves every single insult that is hurled at him on this thread (I especially like the one about his ex wife throwing him out of the house)

Treat others the way you want to be treated. You don't want to be made fun of then don't make fun of others. What if women are 35 to 40 and still not married? Do you have to create a thread that fosters the stigmatisation they get from society or your selfish psychopathic self does not realise these women are already facing severe emotional distress from being stigmatized?
Why make it worse?
Why will you be have like a sadist and worsen their pain or encourage others to mock them?
You dunno why they are single, maybe it's cos they stuck with a man for years hoping he'd marry them only to get dumped, maybe their parents or their boyfriends parents kicked against their getting married, it could be anything. This thread is all types of wrong but then again am not surprised because black men derive pleasure from running their women down.

Develop your countries they refused.
When it's time to fight women that's when they become proactive.

You deserve an award for the dumbest nairalander and the most odoriferous poster ever.

Like seriously I need to see your parents and ask them why they did not invest the money used on your education into something more productive...you sulk.

Please tell me just one part of that piece that stigmatized any unmarried lady?

I shake in disbelieve when I realize that we still have mentally shallow humans like you having the dexterity to come online to showcase your intellectual stuntedness.

The topic is simple enough and for you to refer to that clueless bitter coward's post means you are equally as unstable as he or she is.

Dumb brains everywhere..oya go to the counter thread I just created to write pooh too cos you are nothing but an inconsequential troll.

When you know nada about creative writing you tend to cry a river when you see one.

You are a colossal waste of parental investment.

Prechy08:
Epic
Op allow me to use ur post
I will be 31 by January, seriously looking for a lady between 23-26 for a serious relationship. She needs to be ready, i mean being mature. Am not the take me out kind of person, but i do when its necessary. Reach me on BBM 593F9601 or Twitter @prechy001

ikemesit4477:
Nice one, I hope next article will be ladies turn!

Prechy08:
Epic
Op allow me to use ur post
I will be 31 by January, seriously looking for a lady between 23-26 for a serious relationship. She needs to be ready, i mean being mature. Am not the take me out kind of person, but i do when its necessary. Reach me on BBM 593F9601 or Twitter @prechy001

@prechy your chance is very slim with the age bracket you chose. ..ladies at that age are mostly unprepared for marriage.

@ike please refer to my nairaland wall to read the ladies version which was written before this.

anale1076:
I see.

Yeah!

iPrevail:
Bullshyt! I hate it when people generalize things ignorantly based on stereotypes. It's atrocious.
All what you wrote there would have made sense to me if you had made use of "some guys" or "most guys".

There are 18-23 year olds who are more emotionally matured than some adults and know what they want from life already. Don't wake up in a jungle and type stuffs only people in a jungle can relate to.

iPrevail:
How do people get away with this sort of thing? Honestly, it annoys me. You can't just wake up one morning and decide to paint everyone in a particular color.

iPrevail:
Bullshyt! I hate it when people generalize things ignorantly based on stereotypes. It's atrocious.
All what you wrote there would have made sense to me if you had made use of "some guys" or "most guys".

There are 18-23 year olds who are more emotionally matured than some adults and know what they want from life already. Don't wake up in a jungle and type stuffs only people in a jungle can relate to.

LOBATAN!

This is Oshogbo weed,Orubebe weed garnished with white substance in strong action...

Oga prevail please I want to beg you for one thing. ..before you ever as in ever comment on any topic, please read veery well...because I pointed out clearly that my postulation does not hold true for every guy

chimah3:
@OP be talking trash!!

Different strokes for different folks...

I hate when people try to categorize people based on their sad personal experiences!!

Ganja at work...Biko calm down and read first...cos I'm really confused right now...which one be sad experience....

Oh sorry if you are in the 50s category..I meant no harm o..just relishing my passion in creative writing. please no vex because even me wey write am belong to one stage .

slyfoxxjoe:
Men are NEVER desperate or under pressure to get married!..we do not have a biological clock like women!

Wait....Continue...when time reach you go know

cocoberry:
;36 to 40:This is the overdue stage for guys.
At this stage many of their friends are fathers or happily married and every single lady they meet becomes a potential wife as they can't help thinking about settling down...It becomes a shame for this set to mention that "girl friend" word without getting ridiculed and attending family meeting will be a herculean task due to the stigma of being single at that age. If this set of guys woo a lady then she can consider it a marriage proposal. If you know you are not ready to be his wife please tell him quickly because this set of guys really need a wife. >: . TJ I'm sooo tied of waiting!

Lol! who is TJ?

castro316:
Before u comment try and read carefully before u start lashing your tongue


As one who had gone through teenage years to adulthood,I can confidently say I have a clue as to how guys see romance from the teenage years to adulthood and while this may not apply to every guy ,it holds true in most cases so I present to you the different ages of guys and the way they see romance.

GOD bless you for pointing this out.

My major problem with some naira landers is that they hardly read before commenting and if they did read they hardly comprehend...it's such an unfortunate situation