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Nayah:
No bro I m Cameroonian/ Tanzanian

Sweet
You look elegant but then im still interested in knowing your age bract
20-30
30-40
40-50
definitely not above 50

AfricanApple:
all these mouth na wash

I guess the country we live has made us so used to shits.
So in your mind na mouth things.
i laugh at guys spendiing their money to divorce a slutty wife.
just move on with your life and leave her to carrry her cross.

Oahray:
Don't try this on every woman o. Some go just kee you throway. Na who dey alive dey protect money.

A woman who can cheat on her husband can definitely kill the husband sso wats the poiint?

For a woman to cheat on a man iit involves meticulous planing and only a slut will open her legs for another man if there is no form of deep feelings for a man.

So since she wants to be a slut i beliieve i shouuld treat her lke one.

Why on earth should ii waste my money on a LovePeddler?

By herself she will look for money to start a divorce and i wiill simply conceed to the divorce. simple.

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]End the marriage. . . No time to waste on her anymore. Life has to go on. [/color]

Ofcourrse the marriage iis ended but i will never waste my money on freeing her. Thats my point!

At least let her be my LovePeddler while i get another wife.

ladyF:
Oh my...a 7yr old.

See anytme you read stories like this just know that its ritual things.

What pleasure will any sane man derive in sleepiing with babies if not for ritual purpose?

I guess ita new trend in the riitual process .

If a man can do short tiime with just 500n with a matured lady then why sleep wth toddlers?

tobechi74:
And if the Man is the one chatyn nko..?

Let a woman come to state how she will deal with that.As a man thats all what i will do.

A lady who is not really desired by her hubby will be doing him a big favor by cheating on him because he will waste no time in sending her packing but If you find your wife cheating on you and you truly love her, what would you do?

1.Give her a second chance if she asks for forgiveness?
2.Leave her against all odds and marry another lady who may even be worse than your ex?
3.Start living a randy lifestyle by screwing every available lady till you grow old and start living a miserable solitary life?

Different men will react differently but i will definitely settle for the first choice IF I LOVE THE LADY because i believe it will be foolish for me to dump her and push her to the other man who will now cool down to really have his way with a woman i have invested so much time on.

But If she does it the second time,i won't waste my money filing for a divorce because i will be very foolish to use my hard earned money to free her so that another man can have full access to her NO WAY.

I would rather do the following.

1.Starts acting as though nothing happened.
2.Kill every love and passion i have for her.
3.Start Treating her like a real slut by laying with her recklessly like i have never done before.
4.Find another lady to marry.
5.Tells her until she divorces me, she still remains my LovePeddler while also stripping her all the benefits of a wife.
6.Apparently i will make the marriage hell for her but will never give her the luxury of spending my money to divorce her to be with her new love...NEVER.


So guys what would you do if A WIFE YOU TRULY LOVE cheats on you?

petsolo15:
I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for two years now. i asked her where she was last nite when we were chatting but she didn't reply me.
She left whatsapp after reading the message and then she switched off her two phones. Efforts to called her was unproductive. Instantly, my instincts told me something was wrong somewhere. I called her girl friend if she was with her and she said 'no'.
finally, i went to her house to check if she was at home around 11:30 pm but to my greatest surprise, her room was locked up. I went home but couldn't sleep all through the nite. The whole drama was getting more strange cos i trust her very much and i couldn't comprehend the idea that she was sleeping in another guys room at that time.

This morning around 6:am, she messaged me on whatsapp that she was at home and that she is very sorry for not replying my message. I sprang up from the bed and went to her house immediately but on getting to her house, i found out that her room was still locked.

She later came home around 7:30 am and met me on her door post. We went inside the room and i asked her where she was coming from; after series of lies, she later opened up that she spent the nite at a friend's house(male) whom she visited the previous evening. She started crying that i should forgive her that nothing(s*x) happened between them during the nite.

I told her it was over between us and i warned her never to contact me again. Lo, on leaving the room, she brought out her kitchen knife that she was going to kill her self since i 've broke up wit her.. after some moment of dragging, i was able to resusciate the knife from her and i told her i wasn't leaving her any more.. This girl is very serious about killing her self if i leave her and i love her very much; but the thought of her sleeping in another man's house is driving me crazy. What should i do?

The bold lettering na wash as in confirm wash. She will do it again.

My only advice is to let it pass,after-all what the eye no see no go hurt the heart and what if she lied to you? will you know?

As far as i am concerned, if my wife confesses to cheating on me i will just let it pass because as far as i no catch am,no wahala.

debque:
DAT was how my ex told me a pastor said she hasn't seen her husband....I was like "WTF"...d mumu sef con tell me say na true prophecy....I asked her whu did he say her husband is?..d man no tell am...d gal was jst behavin anyhow...it twas dat issue DAT ended our relationship..

Can you imagine...my pastor said mentality.

dilim27:
I affirm ur talk o@ toks2008 such is life o

Thank GOD this is a she

Pidggin:
She's marrying your money not you, as you wouldn't have much to offer a 25 year old lady @70, besides she'll surely be cheating on you with that age difference. Cruel world indeed

Isorite

Nayah:
Not really

Please give me a hint, im really eager to know.

You are Ghanian right?

IamLEGEND1:
i no gree with this thing lailai.

diz days wey we get

Padded bras,

Push-up bras

butt enhancers

hips enlarger

and even stomach clencher sef dey.

why i no go sample wetin i go carry keep for my house for the rest of my life.....

na only wen u do the needful,wen all d makeup don clean finish,the weave-on don scatter-scatter.........but most importantly,the auxillary "enhancers" no dey.


na him u go no d true colour(literally) of the person.

So this is a good ground for prolong courtship abi? Tarrr

Nayah:
My bro I can assure you some people remain the same with a good lifestyle ... If you knew my age you wouldn't believe me ... It s all about lifestyle trust me

I dont believe so much in pics but from what i can seee,you should be in your late 30s or 40s

Rukkydelta:
Just observing

Isorite

lovemode:
same goes for u guys too......who doesn't age? So stop sounding as if aging is only ladies thing.

No one is contesting that just that the female folks are more diisadvantaged.

Oshomale s a 63 year old man who just married a 29year old beauty so i know what im implying when i wrote that.

No matter the shakara of a lady,na man go still marry am so the point is for her to make hey when her sun is still very bright.

adonbilivit:
chai! so heaven dey hungry u and u dey Bleep before marriage? u come even get baby mama on top! ur nick name come be baddo! Bad guys don't make heaven bro. #urFan

he can make heaven if he stopss using crazy lewd lyrics that is destroying our children.

Rukkydelta:
Men still no dey old ni All this female haters on nl

which one be female haters...just stating the obvious.

Rukkydelta:
that also apply to men

Yes i believe so at least its workiing for me.

Nayah:
It depends on many things ... Way of life ( workout, no smoke, healthy food
) your race ( black people are ageing very well ) etc... You can't make a generalization dude

Its not really about generalizing sis,its a fact that no one remains the same overtime.

emmchi:
Especially those that jump from one church to the other.Why wouldn't those false prophets be deceiving them,is it only through them that God would answer their prayers?

There was these incident that happened in a popular church sometime ago. These particular lady who was in her late 30's beautiful and elegant, have been seeking for a man who will marry her, started attending this church. She was so devoted in the church,participants in all there programs and activities so much that they started calling her sister Grace in the church.

Soon these wealthy man who was always donating generously to the church went to meet the pastor of the church that he would like to settle down and the pastor should pray for him to meet the right woman......

I really wouldn't want to derail the op thread.But,if you need the concluding part of the story just LIKE the post.

better come finish your story odawise..

Zehner:
OP let me tell you something. There is a woman in surulere that makes nothing less than 20k everyday from frying akara as in people book her akara.
Now multiply 20 by 6 days and see how much she makes in a month. My dear even me Don dey reason selling akara. Bottom line is to make money. There is no way you can compare someone who makes money daily and the other who makes money monthly and has pending bills to settle.

What ever we do in life we can only add quality of service.

The bottom line is that we can do any business in a better way that will not even bring down our value.

As a marketer and E-commerce consultant i am simply a glorified business man.

As a politician im simply a glorified public servant

As a snail supplier im simply a glorified snail seller

AS a banker you are a glorified money keeper

As a fashion designer you are a glorified tailor

As a owner of laundry service you are a glorified wash-man

Dangote is a glorified sugar,salt marketer.

Lets stop looking down on any business and just do it with swagg and glorify it to the envy of others.

Midehi:
sure i do, but i never took notice of you until the day you suppose be on hot seat (weekly interview) which you missed..lol

No wahala my sis.

I am a very prolific freelance writer and i can create 10 different threads a day for the next 10years without any form of similarities of contents.

So just don't mind me when i send many topics,its a passion.

Midehi:
Toks again

Lol!

That is the beauty of being an E-commerce consultant. I do my business 90% on the internet and whenever im free i just do my thing.
Tell me you are not enjoying my writings.

That awkward moment when a prophet or pastor tells a lady that GOD has revealed to him that the man she is planning to marry is not the one for her.

As innocuous as this statement may sound,many ladies have been totally misled by many prophets who claim they hear from GOD or see stuffs. Many ladies have ended up as side dishes for these self acclaimed prophets and many baba ba n ye wo(Native spiritualists) have ended up marrying sweet chics as free wives all because these ladies just won't back down in their quest to seek spiritual direction on who is right or wrong for them.

As an individual,go on your kneels and pray to GOD to lead a responsible and man of purpose to you and wait on GOD. If any man comes your way,simply look for the vital signs to know if he is good for you or not and make up your mind without the need of running to spiritualists each time a new guy says hi to you.

There is no particular man for a particular woman and visavis and there is really no good or bad choice of spouse but what we have is YOUR CHOICE and when you make that choice, be ready to do your best to face the consequence.

Marriage is like a black market and no matter how sweet the courtship may be, no matter how superb that man or woman may be,there is always a dint of uncertainty lurking around and when it rears its head,be ready to face it head on without any feeling of regret.

The next time you see a man of GOD that tells you that man you love and that have also expressed sincere love towards you is not the one for you, simply take a deep breath and humbly ask the man of GOD to inquire from the same source and tell you right there the name of the right man for you,his tribe,skin color as well as house address and even the gender of the first born both of you will have together.

"Men of GOD" deceiving people from time memorial.

Omotayor123:

Happy birthday to my nairaland sweet heart.

Wishing you long life and the best life has to offer in Jesus name. AMEN!

I actually taught it was tomorrow.

andromida:
Always writing about women. Kilode!

Can any one write on romance section without iincluding the wiomen folk?

Their is no romance without women.

prettythicksme:
Infact i am enjoy d thread as if i am licking honey!i am d oldest nlander! u guys should not talk to me anyhow as from today!

check my entire post on nairaland and you will observe that i will never abuse anyone and for those who are childish in their utterances,i either ignore or reproach them maturely.

But it may surprise you that we may have many nairalanders above 50 or even 60

prettythicksme:
i am 50 take it or u leave it

You see why its good to reveal one's age online sometimes.

At least anyone wey wan abuse you online go first commot his/her age from 50 then they can go ahead and rain the insults knowing fully well what they are doing and the consequence according to African beliefs and Biblical teachings.

I am loyal ma, thanks for visiting my thread ma and i hope you are enjoying it ma

Thank GOD say i see person wey old pass me for nairaland today

prettythicksme:
i am 50

For real?

You try o, though you look advanced sha but not up to 50

prettythicksme:
i am not,far from it!

Abeg i don try.

iamrealdeji:
it's like this;

Men look more handsome as they age with healthy way of life,especially Africans,look at Yoruba movies and see how the actors look handsome than ever,some men in the western world too,R Kelly looks thick for his height,making him look huge,and his face looks filled and balanced as he approaches 50 rather than the bony head he had before,handsome than ever,Mr Marc Jacob,but white men mostly don't age gracefully like blacks due to their lack of melanin
Lots of men looked like clowns at times in their 20's and 30's but look great in their 50's, 60's.
Even our president is not as handsome when he was in his 20's as now,Adamu Muazu is really handsome in his 60's with his white beards looking good on him,Governor Fatai Ahmad etc. I can't imagine how clownish David Mark would look in his 20's but the man is an handsome and distinguished looking elderly man that's aging gracefully now.
Jonathan looks boyish and we still call him a young man but Iya Piss looks like his grandmother and we call her an old woman even though she's just a month older.
The aging in women is due to child birth,they gain fat and lose it again and gain it and lose it again with the expansion and shrinking leading to wrinkles,also,their make ups make their skin less healthy and uglier,the creams they use mostly have adverse effects,also,women are created to hit puberty before men and start growing up faster before men

Also the number of sex partners matter.

If you look at a lady of 30 who have probably been with a guy or two and of-course not allowing excessive sex on her,you will see that she will be comparatively younger than a 23year old lady who have had several sex partners and worse still have had an abortion before.

Trust me,abortion destroys the woman's body very fast and also sags the breast faster than breastfeeding.