₦airaland Forum

Cutehector:
How does one cope wit a monitoring spirit...

Monitoring spirits are spiritual and spiritual matters should be channeled to the appropriate quarters like deliverance ministers so look for any MFM church and go for prayer session.

You can also pray and fast for 7days say from 12midnight to 6pm next day praying everyday for GOD to deliver you.

It is quite easy for everyone to give relationship advice and i have no problem with that except for the fact that as i wrote on the thread "Mature minds" and age is not about maturity but the experience we have gathered in life.

Nevertheless i would want people who share their issues here to use their discretion in weighing different advices here but as the creator of this thread, i will always give you my personal opinion on any issue you share so for my prompt response please always mention my ID (Toks2008) for prompt response.

Thanks

All glory.honor,power and majesty to Jehovah forever AMEN!

12.Amethyst

11.Jacinth

10.Turquoise

9.Topaz

8.BeryL

These are the remaining 6 precious gem stones that make up the foundations of the heavenly kingdom

7.Chrysolite

CAPTIVATOR:
Please explain the bold , how will Gods will be done on earth if everyone is going to heaven ?

I don't understand what you mean by the bold lettering.

Nevertheless We’re praying here that the whole universe responds to the gift of God in the same kind of way. ‘Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.’ That tells us, of course, that there’s somewhere that God’s will is being done and the implication is that it isn’t being replicated very much on earth.

All the technological advancement and activities on earth that are good and beneficial are inspired by GOD which can be said to be his "will"

The hierarchical mode of governance on earth and the beauty is a sneak peak of what is obtainable in GOD's kingdom in a much more organized and advanced manner.

I will stop here.

stan241:
Uncle toks o wey u


I'm attracted to what I've now grown to term "emotionally unavailable" ladies

I'm a very sad romantic, the little things like the suprise/unannounced visits, out of the blue texts at nights, PDA and what have you i love those things, the last meaningful relationship i had we dated for around 6months and we would talk every single day and more than once too plus the chats maybe I'm still hung up on her but its been close to 2yrs now

Every other lady I've met since are just not available emotionally, I'm the one who remembers to call, wants them to visit,texts e.t.c

Warris wrong with moi uncle toks?

Your age please.

Osisie:



U sure? Games and sport are man made inventions. What makes u think any man made stuff gonna be in Heaven?

I know nothing is worth the price of my soul but I can't but admit I'll miss basketball, skates and ewa agoyin. (Local beans).

Have you ever resighted the lords prayers?

Please do it right now and stop at "Thy will be done on earth As it is in heaven "

Believe it orr not,everything good you see on earth today is Inspired from the maker on earth and heaven.

The bible says the earth is Gods foot stool and heaven his dwelling place.

Bro you wont miss a thing except sex which will be totally removed from our subconcious and physical nature.

And who says you wont have the best of ewa agoin?

Osisie:
I don't know why this has been on my mind o, but I'm not really concerned about Mansions.
They simply don't freak me.

I'd rather have a basketball court where I can play and some good skateboards and shoes.

As long as I enter Heaven, wetin concern me with Mansion

Well it might come as a surprise to you that you wiill do all the skating you can imagine and ofcourse there are all kinds of sports in heaven except violent sports like boxing wrestling and the likes.

I know some will ask me if i have been there but just as John was caught up to see heaven,there have been other people who have been there and their stories are the same.

frosbel2:
so far so good, but nobody is going to heaven or hell.

also, it looks like your motive is purely a selfish one.

My brother which ever way you see am o,i honestly respect your opinion because thats what it is YOUR VERY OWN OPINION.

Lol! selfish indeed, i for plan to go hell then for unselfish reasons,see talk.

All i have posted are not my opinion but what the Bible made us to understand so if you have issues with that please face Jehovah,your maker and the maker of the universe and leave me outta of it.

Thanks

How marvelous are you Jehovah,How wonderful are your works for the very things men die for are used in unquantified quantity as foundation stones.

GLORY,HONOR,POWER AND ADORATION BE UNTO YOUR NAME FOREVER AND EVER MORE..AMEN!

More pics to come later on.

6. Ruby

5. Onyx

4.Emerald

3.Agate

2.sapphire

A sneak peak on the Gem stones that make up the foundation of heavenly paradise.


To think that the foundation of heavenly paradise is laid with 12 types of gems that are of the purest type you can ever find. A fragment of these gem stones cost millions of dollars in this world but then i can only imagine the quantity that GOD used in making the foundations of the walls of paradise.

Revelation 21:19-20 quotes " The foundations of the city walls were decorated with every kind of precious stone. The first foundation was jasper, the second sapphire, the third agate, the fourth emerald,the fifth onyx, the sixth ruby, the seventh chrysolite, the eighth beryl, the ninth topaz, the tenth turquoise, the eleventh jacinth, and the twelfth amethyst".

So lets see how these stones look like in this present world.

Starting with the first one Jasper

waley007:
Pls i need your advice,anytime we have issues,
1.my girlfriend talks to her ex,she just cant let her ex go..and that has always been our problem..she did it once and we fot and i forgave her,she stil did it again..shes 24 and am 30
2.she has a bestie dat is too wild,she once fought her but now they ar now back together.the bestie is not too happy wit our relationship and has tried 2 separate us once,at a time,she was giving guys her num.how do i separate them witout hurting my girls feelings.thanks

Thanks for sharing

I once wrote an article on how an ex can destroy your present affair without lifting a finger( https://www.nairaland.com/2465699/ex-destroy-present-affair-without)

I really can't put my finger on why your girlfriend will still relate with her ex and the only understanding i have here is that they are not truly exes especially when she does that whenever you guys have issues.

What she is doing now is having an emotional affair with her ex and trust me man, she is probably stil very much into her ex and i will advice you to look elsewhere while you allow her time to find her feet and GOD help her you find someone new who is ready to be with you and remain dedicated to you and you alone before she snaps out of her delusion then that is her call.

You are 30 for petes sake and this is not the time to be with a lady who still carries the baggage of her past with her so bro i advice you just let her be and look for another lady who will be ready to be totally involved with you physically and emotionally.

Unfortunately you can not separate your girlfriend from her bestie but you can only tell her in a subtle manner why you think the bestie will be a bad influence on her and she just might get the message and do the needful.

If you believe you love her too much for you to find another lady who will be committed to you alone emotionally then be ready for an unpleasant surprise should you find out that she is still seeing the ex or when she probably goes back to her ex because she just might be using you as a get back partner to spite her ex the way Nicky minaj is probably using meek to spite Safaree whereas all pointers show that her heart is still very much with Safaree or she might also be using you as a fall back guy so that if eventually she is now sure her ex has really forgotten about her,she will now decide fully to pitch her tent with you.

My humble advice

cybug:
Thanks for your input, I appreciate it
God bless

My pleasure

Captainswag225:
am sorry bro, it wont happen again.

Cool

cybug:
Hello Uncle Toks,

What do you do when your woman is practically living under your skin... What I mean is, when my girl is with me, she's always on my body, she hardly gives me breathing space, y'know.
I've talked to her severally about it, she just can't stop.

I teased her one day that, if we eventually get married, we'll have our separate rooms...

Ha... She started crying like seriously, she doesn't buy that idea... A man need some little space y'know.





Asked her one day...


Me: what if you caught me cheating on you, will you leave me?

Babe: No! the only thing that will make me leave you is when you raise your hand and beat me.

First go and do thanks giving to GOD for giving you such a lady and then pray she does not change because trust me, some guys who value genuine affection will pray to have such a lady.

I must also commend your lady for her apt wisdom because i always tell ladies that there are two main reasons i will endorse a lady leaving a guy and that will be unrepentant reckless cheat with impunity and a man that beats you.

While i could stil ask a woman to manage the former,i will never advice any lady to stay with a man that makes her a punching bag.
If a man beats you once,ignore it but if a man beats you teh second time then its a habit he will definitely do again and again.

As for your lady if i can get across to her i will tell her to give you some space because men do need space and to get engaged in very productive stuffs that will allow her give you lots of space but whenever she is with you i do not see any reason why she should let you be and i believe that if you truly love her,you should enjoy that.

My humble advice

Ebi89:
Tnx for d advice

You are welcome dearie.

menesheh:
10 amazing reasons you should questions heaven before believing somebody can miss there

1. There is no demonstrable or even logical evidence that there is some place like heaven. I'm fact its probability is zero

2.why must a benevolent God create heaven and hell for his most loved human to decide to go which many must be in hell.

3. Will other animal species like us go to heaven, where will be their own heaven.

4. Where exactly in the empty space is this utopia heaven

5. If we must die to go heaven, why the use of human attributes to equate the living statue of human over there since it is mundane.

6. Can one be in heaven and remember his friends and families in hell.

7.who is even the person/s that first came up with the idea of heaven, how did they know about it, if by inspiration, dreams, and told directly from heaven, how certain should we assume the plausibility of such concept. Can't we questions whether the conspirators of such heaven concept are on drugs, hallucinations, and in optical illusion.

8. Why were other religious concepts lacks the idea of heaven. It is almost only the two Abraham in religion that know about it.

9. Are there telephone, naira land, Facebook, Brazilian hair and other things that fight against boredom there, so that occupants of such place will not get bored.

10. Will there be sex over there because some niggaz and babes love sex more than any other thing.


Add your other questions.

CLAP for yourself.
You are on your own.

Why nothing in this world can make me miss heaven.


Before i write on the reasons why no one should miss heaven,lets quickly see those things that can make us miss heaven and end up in hell?

1.Money:This should not take you to hell if you are disciplined and wealth is apparently unavoidable if you do what you love doing. It may take a while but you will surely get enough money to meet your needs.

2.Sex:Thank GOD we can have just one partner that catches our fancy and enjoy that same pleasure that some seek for in many partners.

3.Fame and power:This will come if it is meant to be and i believe those who go all out to seek fame and power end up in a more sorry case. just be yourself and do what you are good at and fame will come naturally.

If we can all be disciplined and ask GOD for strength i believe these 3 major hindrances will never be strong enough to hold us captive.

Now lets quickly have a run down of why we must never ever miss heaven and this will be a fascinating one.

1.The 12 Magnificent pearl shaped gates and 12 Gem stone foundations.:How amazing it will be to have a first hand view of the purest form of rare gemstones that make up the foundations of heavenly paradise.Revelation 21:19:The foundations of the city walls were decorated with every kind of precious stone.

2.Streets of Gold:Even if many doubt other description of heaven according to people who GOD have shown a glimpse of heaven like he showed John in the books of revelation,i believe we all read about the streets of Gold in the bible and this is one wonder i will really love to see. I still wonder how floors of streets will be made of gold, a substance men kill to have and more amazingly,a rear type of gold that is as clear as Crystal,never seen before on earth.Revelation 21:18: The wall was made of jasper, and the city was pure gold, as clear as glass


3.Mansions of unequivocal splendor:Yes i can't wait to see my mansion in heaven, a mansion that no money in this world can build and i mean if you put all the money in this world together,the total sum will still not be able to build the least attractive mansion in heaven and no matter how much im able to make on this earth,i will never be able to erect a mansion a quarter of the quality of my mansion in heaven and best still,it will be mine for ever and ever.

You are guaranteed to have a ready mansion for you in paradise just to suite your taste perfectly with exact design and furniture settings you desire and adorned with such rare decors that can only be imagined by you as mortal being.

Some mansions are built under the crystal river for people who love the aquatic environment while some are built on trees for those who love the environment and we even have countless mansions suspended in the sky.

Just imagine where you want your mansion to be and the exact colors, dimensions and any type of furniture you desire and you are guaranteed to have it built for you totally free and you will live there forever and ever.


4.Living for eternity:Can you close your eyes for just 30secs and imagine yourself living in a great kingdom like a king or queen for a billion years? ok now imagine living in that same kingdom for a trillion years. Then finally imagine yourself living for ever and ever and ever in this same kingdom.WOW!

5.Choice food:Yes i love good foods and just the taught that i will be able to eat my favorite which is the best of sea foods,bush meats and fresh fish is good enough reason for me to make heaven and i can imagine how great it will be just to demand for these and have it served at their best by angels in my magnificent mansion. And Yes there will be eating and drinking in heaven and of-course we will not eat as a result of hunger but because we love that food.

Matthew 8:11 "I say to you that many will come from the east and the west, and will take their places at the feast with Abraham, Isaac and Jacob in the kingdom of heaven."

6.More exciting place than this world:Many believe that heaven will just be a place where we will be floating in the cloud and singing praise and worship song to GOD forever and ever.

Yes you are right, we will worship GOD forever but the truth is that everything in heaven is designed to sing praise to GOD, the lawns,the water,the garments,the angels,our activities and so much more but God has also revealed to many that there will be much more fun in paradise than this world and you will definitely miss out nothing except sex that will no longer even exist in our subconscious meaning we can't miss what we don't think about.

Think of any sporting activity except violent sports andd you are sure to find it there and it may surprise you that game of football is in heaven and well cordinated that injuries are non existent.In heaven,no talent is lost.

As it is written: 1 Corinthians 2:9:“Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, Nor have entered into the heart of man The things which God has prepared for those who love him.

7.Meeting friends and family members you taught you will never see again:Yes you will meet your entire generations from all ages who were able to make it to heaven and how great it will be to see our genealogy before and after us in physical representation.

8.Meeting children lost at still birth,through abortion,miscarriages or infant death: This is one fascinating part for those who have lost their child as a result of miscarriage,still birth,even abortions and so on and i believe many people will be surprised to know that every child that has began forming in the womb has a soul and in the advent of Death to the fetus or child even before coming to this world,the child will go to heaven and grow up slowly and this means every mum or dad that has lost an unborn child, be 200% certain that your child will be at the pearl gate to welcome you if you make it to heaven.

Psalm 139:13-16 - For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.

9.We will see GOD Almighty,Our maker,the maker of heaven,earth and the entire universe: Yes we will see GOD and his name will be written on our foreheads.Revelation 22:4

10.You don't deserve to be in hell: Heavenly kingdom is prepared by GOD for us while Hell was mainly prepared for Satan and his evil angels so Apparently heaven is our original home after we live this world.

I know what you are asking...have i been there before to know if all i wrote exists? the truth is that asides from scriptural teachings,there are countless number of people GOD has taken to heaven and back just as it was revealed to John and ther stories have beeen the same.

If GOD made the world which is his foot stool as beautiful as this then imagine how he will make heaven which he dwells.

adewumiopeyemi:
are u working or doing business,

Lol


Working and doing business is one of a kind but i get your question and the answer is Yes i work and earn my own salary

Im a business consultant. If you have money,we guide you on profitable business to do in 5 major sectors

Power
Energy
Agriculture
Transportation
Communication

Im also into large scale snail farming and distribution

And lastly a budding politician

This are my major lines of career.

adewumiopeyemi:
life is all about gamble

I honestly understand that in a country where unemployment and poverty is the order of the day,no one will blame guys from investing in gambling as long as the do something worthwhile with the money they win.

My signature is also about a passive fund raising program that allows you generate substantial sum to start something worth while.

But its not gambling or lottery of anykind neither is it a ponzi or pyramid where you are asked to drop a certain sum then do nothing and come back as a specified time to get double or tripple your deposit.

If every Nigerian youth embraces this program on my signature,within a year im certain that they would have generated enough to start any profitable business of their choice.

Abesodiq:
dude, this may be real. bets with high odds also generate high bonus. the bonus may even constitute more than 50percent of the entire sum. I've seen bet slips of over N40million that were dented by just one or two matches. wise up bro and stop being a pessimist!

We demand to seee the coupon he used in betting.

Oya make people wey know about this come out to tell us the possibility of winning this with 500 and 300naira

christinie:
I won't be tempted to become a gambler. No!!!

Please abeg dont dare.


If the professor will be sincere with us,he must have committed quite a lot in the past before mother luck came his way and trust me,in the next couple of months,about a quarter if not more will go back into the game with possibly no luck.

Nevertheless i do understand that its a way of enriching the few lucky ones.