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adedayourt:
evend gods know its on dat same ugu tree at d back of d ous i ll propose to omotayor123

If i catch you with my sweetheart na sambisa forest you go find yourself.

vickylala239:
Sowi!! The handle belongs to a gel.Bt is a guy Dat uses it.

So am a guy Nt a gel.

Culd only say am Nt d owner of d handle.

D gel uses Once in a blue moon,Jst for ha pics.

Dats none of ma biz.

Issorite

vickylala239:
this is total nonsense!!!

Y Una no enter suckaway!!!!

Desperate attitude to get noticed!!!!!

Wetin concern engagement wit swimming pool.!!!!

Swimming pool was meant for swimming Nt for this shit!!!!

Thank GOD that a lady i believe is seeing it this way.

BTW abeg sis no vex o,that your pics go attract the wrong guys to you o. No vex o na my observation.

misspicy:
To me it doesnt matter how the proposal was done buh like you and I see proposals on the internet and what our friends tells us their proposal was like,its only human to want a romantic proposal like we see or witness....wat of d issue of this prewedding shot

Of-course there will be no issue until probably one of them unfortunately suffers from muscle spasm and the life guards are called to save such then we will start seeing comments like foolish people,stupid people but since it went well i guess the next step is to do it in a normal river.

Foolish things people do just to be romantic though.mY OPINION ANYWAYS.

misspicy:
And is it a crime to ask to be proposed to in a romantic manner

Just a question

Exactly my point.

Romantic proposal is very relative and what may seem to be romantic to you may not be to him and infact it is a man who makes up the proposal module.

What if a man just tells you "honey,marry me" and maybe the lady have been dreaming of a man going down on a knee to propose and it will surprise you how many ladies have said no to a marriage proposal simply because of the way the guy proposed. This is my point.

misspicy:
Lovely

Bankyblue

Inasmuch as i see this as a good innovation, many clueless chics will now be fantasizing about how they want to be proposed to and will even say no to a proposal if done in a way that do not catch their fancy lol!

Unsad:
Nice list., but Asa's name is weird tho, I've not met any talented bukola, na to fucc dem sabi

Na wa o nothing wey we no read for nairaland lol!

This is why being an entrepreneur in Nigeria is a very challenging thing.

To get money to start is one big problem and if you eventually succeed in setting up your business,If Government policies don't kill it,men from the underworld will except the few fortunate ones.

Sorry is not enough bro,i just pray that GOD sees you through this crazy set back.

adesegun121:
Nice one

Im so amazed that guys like this piece. im really impressed.

Omotayor123:
Wow... This is Good!

I hope today's youth learn.

They hardly learn until it gets too late.

There are many frustrated after one unmarried ladies today just because they were negligent and many young ladies are burning in hell as i write as a result of death from trying to abort a child one randy man planted yet the same man is alive cruising another possible victim.

This is why i dont do casuals. I cant touch you if i cant marry you. Never

pcguru1:
Because I have been seeing so many unfaithful partners am beginning to think I might end up with one. Why don't they stay single rather than dragging someone down with them. For me divorce is an option as I can't condone infidelity I don't cheat so won't expect to be cheated on. Marriage is overrated these days

Honestly this is my stand too but i have also come to realize that we just have to overlook stuffs.

I have never had cause to tag my ex unfaithful because i have one crazy trust for her that she is sexually decent but nevertheless i felt so betrayed by her emotional infidelity and rather than apologize she was just so sturbborn about it and today we are history.

I am trying to just close my eyes and pick one of these daughters of eve not minding their acts of sexual recklessness.

They all claim to be different but i have realized that there is hardly a decent lady.

A virgin you made a woman would sek to taste other men while the one you call repentant olosho has seen it all and ready to stay put.

As long as a lady matches my taste,i go for her even if she is an ex porn star.

safarigirl:
slang? Do you mean 'snag' like a defect? No one is 100% bro, if you find an 80, you can always tweak her a little to an 85 or 90, but you'll never get a 100. When you realise that, you'll find someone

Sorry typo error. Yes

Im not talking about personal defect but they are either married,engaged and stuffs like that but have not met a serious minded one who is also my taste.

My marriage started to crumble when i saw my ex write single as marital status on her CV and finally when i saw one useless no good communication on her face book chat from one randy low life banker Idowu ilemobayo calling my ex to tell her he is Hot wild and wet and that he wants her to make him cum over the phone knowing fully well that she is married. Chai!

Sometimes i keep saying if we all take time out to ask questions from the ex of anyone we intend to commit ourselves to,it will save us all of avoidable heartaches because just like the proverbial leopard who does not change its skin, the same act will always resurface again.

ladyF:
^^^^^^Hahaha so they really prefer olosho Hian!!!!!

It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

Me im too picky and hardly find my choice and most times when i see my choice there is usually a slang. Me i don tire o

dabexy:
Nice right up

Oh thanks bro. I was actually expecting a backlash from guys because this looks like a show spoiiler lol.

When a man shows interest in a lady and tells her that he would love to know her better,most times in his heart this is exactly what he is saying: "Hi lady, can i get to have a taste of your goody-bag and have the feel of your body to know if you are good enough in bed and decide if i should keep you for long or dump your ass in a jiffy because i don't really care whether we end up together or not".

I honestly don't believe in dating and even as courtship sounds more reasonable,it is still not really necessary and i will try to list logical reasons why ladies should avoid this lie from the pits of hell called dating or courtship and i hope you learn a great deal from this.


1. A man usually knows if there is a huge possibility of marrying you or just want to use you to pass time the very first day he sets his eyes on you and a man who is really interested in a purposeful affair with you will give you the sign almost immediately with the body language except you refuse to be vigilant.

2. Many Men use dating and courtship as a means of exploring you sexually and probably after he realizes that your bosoms are not as firm as he wants them to be or your sex performance is below what he wants or after he has really used you to his satisfaction then he tells you it can't work out because his mum does not want him to marry from your tribe or just brings up any lame excuse and decides to walk away to get another lady to "date"

3. An Angel can turn to a demon: Many people have argued that dating period is a period where you will know the type of person you have but this assertion is very funny because a good person can turn terrible and most times even if the person seems bad many ladies will still go on and marry him with the hope of changing him.

4.Dating and courtship is a disguised miniature marriage because in many cases when a guy starts dating or courting you,you will be doing some stuffs that wives do and i keep wondering why they still see the union as dating or courting when he is practically having all the benefits he should get from a wife hence the need to continue dating and courting and dating and.. until you suddenly realized you have spent your honey years married unofficially to a man who will probably dump you to marry another lady still in the name of dating.

5.A thousand years of courtship is no guaranty that you will know the man and until you two stay under the same roof as man and wife,you will never come closer to knowing who he really is so why waste your years dating and courting.

6.Most of the marriages of our parents are great examples as most of our parents hardly knew each other before getting married yet many of them had a lasting and loving union but these days despite the celebrated dating and courting culture,many marriages hit the rock.

7.A good union is not hinged on the number of years both of you spend sleeping with each other in the name of dating or courtship but its in learning to love whoever you choose to marry and making up your mind to be with him against all odds.

8. I believe that for a man to ever propose an affair to you then he must have found you good enough to have to himself and for a decent lady to agree to an affair with a man then she is definitely ready to be with the man except she is a slut so why waste time fooling around with each other all in the name of getting to sleep with each other in the name of dating and courtship?

9. A sexless date or courtship is the ideal form of courting where both of you try to know just a peripheral detail about yourselves hence once sex comes in then its no longer dating but unofficial marital union.

10.The responsible and matured guys at heart knows the type of woman they want and do not get involved in baseless dating but simply go for the lady of their choice and marry her.

If you are not ready to marry a lady,don't make advances towards her just to waste her years sampling her and if you are a lady,stop fooling yourself thinking you are dating him whereas you are just giving him your body to be used and probably dumped and understand that dating and courtship are just facade from the pits of hell aimed at destroying the lives of ladies by becoming single unmarried mothers,losing their lives through abortions and many have contracted deadly diseases all in the name of dating.

Lets face it,a year of sexless courtship should be enough and one year is not too much to deprive yourself of sex in order to know that guy better and if a man does not start the process of marrying you within a year then it means you are either dating a small boy for the sake of having sex or you are probably with a man who is not sure he wants you.

I know that all the sermons in the world will not bring sanity to the facade of dating and courtship and if any lady sees this piece and shoves it aside,my advice to such is to continue to serve herself on the alter of sexual ecstasy for as many guys as possible in the name of baseless dating or courtship

My humble opinion and i hope this helps.

Obaf16:
Gbosa!!! Na so my brother let them b deceived by church sister

Let me let you into some facts.

I once wrote an article on why serious minded men look away from ladies below 25years of age.

See na something dey make person sit tight and its usually called experience.

It is easier to say oh ladies of so so age are forced to be good and after marriage they will be.... iro nla as in big fat lie.

For a lady to be compelled to be good as a result of experience,old age or desperation in order to get a husband, she will also know better than it will be worse for her to be thrown out of that same marriage she suffered to secure.

If you present to me a ladies in her early twenties and a lady at 30 to pick from,i will gladly pick the 30year old because she is most likely to have gather real experience overtime to understand what union of man and woman is all about.

PaulCI:
@ OP, now you have leaked this heavily guarded secret, it will no longer be the ideal place to get a wife material cos all the 'retired' s*x workers will go there now pretending to be good and hoping to find a man. You for no talk na! Lol. Goodluck to the men who want to start visiting hese places. I wish you well

LOL! Believe me man, it will be extremely difficult for pretentious ladies to fake it.

sisisioge:
No wonder there are lots of mis-matches and A loves B-B loves C hook-ups out there. They've been looking in the wrong places.

As for OP, he obviously over loves food.

Any man wey no love better food from his wife should be thoroughly examined.

This is why i avoid eating the food of any lady i really don't want to have an affair with because if she is very good in the kitchen na trouble for me.

temmym4:
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oga TOKS. You see yourself? "pity urself ok". What a priceless advice!

just see urlife?

You really piss me off with these immature and strife prone quotes of two people who have already understood each othr drift and you are now here to bring this up .

Why not finish the quote where we both shared pleesantries.

You must a real trouble brewer.

Omotayor123:
I will wait for that! *Abeg cc. Me

LOL!

Trust me, every unmarried lady will wise up after reading the mind boggling piece.

NICOGRAVITY:
Sir, you nailed it. A lady introduced me to my wife, i met her during my NYSC, we became very close and best of friends. When I told her I want to settle down, she said she got someone she can trust and very reliable wife material.
Travelled down, saw her, went back to base, proposed over the phone, next time we were seeing was wedding day. We have 3 Children and it's 9 years now.
We are best of friends and have an enviable marriage.. Jesus Christ is Lord.

This is exactly what i want to write about this evening captioned "Dating and courtship are deceits from the pits of hell".

It will be an eye opener for many people.

Congrats bro,i really envy you.

AzontoGhost:
wow..
okay, I have got a new term #Emabinu
In my language, Asante twi, I will say "mepawoky3w mma wobo mmfu"..
Yours look too short to mean that long statement to me tho...

lol!

My regards to the beautiful Ghanian ladies and im kindda considering marying from Ghana lol!

Unsad:
Creativity meets creativity. These are the kinda girls I want in my life

May GOD bless you bro.

I was just watching an interview with chimamanda the Nigerian beautiful writer and i was just asking myself where can one get ladies like this.

All we see these days are ladies flaunting boobs and body without flaunting what they have up their in their head and unfortunately no responsible man will just be interested in curves without brains.

You need to take up some of these ladies who flaunt their sexy bodies on instagram and on social media one on one in intellectual communication and it will blow your mind to find out that there is absolutely nothing up there.

AzontoGhost:
That's better. ..lolx
The fact is there is diversity of facial looks everywhere you may find yourself on this planet.
This is not just about 9ja only.
The level/degree of diversity is what I can't talk about Though.
Shalom
# what is Emabinu

Emabinu is a yoruba language that means please dont be angry.

AzontoGhost:
Hey man, I didnt get time to read your post ok?
And I am not supporting any one, the fact is I don't know what the B££F is all about..
If it is not falsehood, then TELL ME!!
What shows that women from Ghana, Benin rep and Togo have peculiar looks unlike the Nigerian counterparts and to add, "Because of this Nigeria is blessed
WHO IS CURSED?
Mtcheeeeeeew

ooops!

Sorry if that got into you and i presume you are from outside Nigeria.

Trust me man i was only making an innocent comment about Nigeria been blessed with diversity of facial looks unlike other countries whose nationality have a form of homogeneity in facial looks so please foregive me if that sounded offensive.

My writing that Nigeria is blessed does not mean other citizens of countries with a look alike face are cursed biko. Emabinu.

ronald4lif:
I'm trying to figure out how ladies found in these places are different from the ones found in other venues. The lady you might see in buka or mama put might not be able to afford top restaurants so she settles for the cheaper meal. I can't address the points one after the other but any lady can be found in these places on almost an even scale. Even the Jezebel.

The idea that a homely lady is someone who doesn't revel in a particular act or visit certain places is more holier and wife-able than others is obsolete and has no bearing. If anyone still harbours the mentality that a lady who attends church programs almost everyday of the week is better than the ones who hardly does they should dismiss it. That lady you see in the church everyday could be deadlier than the one who parties and clubs weekends.

Of-course i reiterated all you wrote in my first paragraph but nevertheless if you think deep, you will see a great deal of rationalism in the list of places.

Most times trust me man,its not about not having money to eat ina big time restaurant but its about been real and down to earth that makes a lady rather branch a good amala joint or ofe sala cafe to eat sumptuous meals for a decent fee that would cost even more than double at a high brow restaurant.

I have a friend that would rather spend 2k eating a wrap of amala with beaf at any of these big time restaurants rather than spending N500 to eat same or even much more in a clean decent mama put. I do not take that as classy but been wasteful and pure unwarranted effizy which is definitely not a good sign of prudence.

If you think deep, you will see real sense in all tye places i wrote except you just don't ant to see it that way.

ptolomes:
Where one meets the love of there live is not a question of place, but of mind set, you can meet great women in the Wrong places but it takes great strength and focus to see the shimmer in the midst of the rot

Very right and sometimes you get angry with yourself for loving a certain person who is totally offbeat from what you want and the more you try to distant yourself from such the more difficult it becomes.

AdaNri1:
What about ladies outside Lagos who don't do BRT bus terminal.

LOL! Other parameters dey nah.

Honestly its not about not having money for regular buses because i don't see any much difference in the two but if you are the impatient type you can never wait in line for a BRT bus that is not even in sight.

queebeediva:
Dear writer I just want you to no that God almighty has choosen the best day and time where we will meet our better half . Even if the lady in question is a street runs girl if God says he will be joined with a pastor my dear that is it. You musnt meet a girl in a church and conclude that she is holy and will make a better wife for even the devil are strong beliver of Gods words so as to use it to carryout their evil desires. Lastly beauty is in the eyes of the beholder !

In as much as i appreciate your stands i want you to know that GOD has given us the go ahead to find a wife and he will give us his favor so its our duty to find a wife and yes as i pointed out, you can get a wife material by random occurrence in virtually everywhere even in a brothel but these places highlighted by me are viable places where the odds are high.

Ever Since Adam blamed GOD that it was the woman he gave him that made him sin, GOD now kukuma say:

A man who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD. Proverbs 18:22