₦airaland Forum

Toks2008:
I totally second you on this and if you read the story i illustrated, i made the right move by "avoiding" the temptation or how do you explain her deliberate act of seduction.

But the fact still remains that the school authority ought to put adequate measures in place like installing surveillance cameras and more because if we continue to expect the male teachers to use their discretion to curtail the excesses of these daring teenage girls then we may never see an end to these menace.

Definitely the school authorities have failed the children in their care. Security measures should have been put in place and any teacher found wanting should have been fired and handed over to the police to serve as a lesson to others. Allowing perpetuators to get away with it only makes the others bolder. By law the children are the minors who need protection, any grown man that knows he cant handle been around young impressionable girls who may have crushes on him should know he should not be a teacher otherwise he should get ready to go to jail.

ojuu4u:
d u even ask ursf y d parents of d girl stil hiding? Ok if d tisa now inocent what wi hapn to d girl, her moda and d social media that send wrng informatn

In civilised Countries the child's identity will never be released to the public so as to protect her. Investigations are been carried out and what matters is that the investigators have access to the child not the public

Toks2008:
Rape ke?i can bet my left eye on it that there was never anything like that but pure consentual act but as minors,the blame will always fall on the man.

I remember a case of a 16year old ss3 neighbor of mine who usually comes to charge her phone in my apartment.

The day she came wearing a skin tight pants and as she bent to charge i said JESUS cos i could not believe wat i saw...

I asked her how old she is and she said 16 going to 17 i was like GOD FORBID i let this girl give me bad name so i did the best thing and i bought a very long extension fuse box which i extended outside from my apartment so i wont even have to see her or anyone whenever they need to charge their phones.

Im writing this to buttress the fact that these young sexually active girls are far worse than we think so the school authority must beef up their vigilance on the male teachers who may not be decent enough to overcome the temptations from these sexually curious teens.

As long as the girl(s) is underage its statutory rape.We need to start getting serious about laws protecting minors. There is a reason you are not allowed to vote or drive till 18 in Nigeria and thats because children below that age lack the capacity to make sound decisions. Its up to the adult to always know better. By law a minor cannot give consent to an adult because its very easy for an adult to manipulate a child. They are not equals in anyway and have no business together.

Adebola314:
Joker, keep dreaming.

Actually one of Nkiru's outfits can buy most p plies wardrobes, she's the one Nigerian woman that wears clothes right off a parish and Newyork runway. Fake is not in here dictionary Abeg but she's not in Nollywood. However that doesn't change the fact that Mercy slays plus she's not talking about tribe but the fact that thos in YOruba movie industry are usually excluded from such things because some people feel they are better than them. Mercy herself is Edo not Yoruba , she is right that there's a prejudice against the actors and actresses that act in our local languages which is crap. It shows how fake people are, ironically MOvies in our ingenious languages are usually better than the English one's with all the fake accents and silly unrelatable story lines

OgidiOlu3:
Na wa o. This guy should be the same age as Clarence Peters na. Well, love knows no bounds .

Don't men marry women their daughters age Welcome to the 21st century

I'm happy for her, you see women don't stay in bad marriages because society tells you no women will marry a divorcee. That's s big fat lie

bebe2:
for some reason I find ur post quiet funny.

Nollywood no be real life ooo,

U just dey talk theory, experience go teach u .

Oya me and my low self esteem gat to sleep now,.

Gud night.

oh please that you have low standards does not mean every woman has to. some of us have been married for long and we insist on our value in marriage because we are not doormats and our men know to treat us well. In life you get what you demand for and we wont accept less in the name of Mrs. by force .

olaideeeedris:
Wetin concern this sahara reporter sef. Regardless of who said it, Made in Nigeria women are simply the best... Sahara reporter please and please, give us news devoid of sentiments plssss

We Nigerian women don't want Dino the serial wife beater

Joy1706:
Did he say he caught a man on top of her? On no grounds should a husband cheat, but he did, didn't he?
Why does a woman have to lose cos she's divorced. Sounds like these small NL boys have brainwashed u. Madam abeg I don't have energy this night to deliver u from low self esteem. Carry am dey go like that

i don't know how that is a loss, he married and so? if and when the woman is ready to remarry she'll find a correct bobo old or young which ever she likes. women are remarrying better than ever so what's the noise

whats this nonsense of she didn't feed the children so are you not also their father. Can't you feed the kids for one night even if you were not fighting and you are making mouth about divorce, if you divorce when the kids are with you won't you feed them you betrayed your wife and you still have mouth to talk hisss

2rutalk1:
very useless government. The economy has crashed completely. No plan, no vision, nothing is on ground to revamp the economy. The power sector is in a state of comatose, Unemployment problem has more than doubled within 9 months, no single project has been initiated. All they know how to do is jail him, probe him, kill him. Very useless government I repeat!

so because there are other problems they should let all criminals go do you know how many young graduates died from this man's actions some were pregnant women trampled to death and you have a problem with him been held accountable

You are part of the problem of this Country

You are a liar, the girls family themselves have never disputed his age and they know him . So you just picked one man's picked and you are calling him the alleged kidnapper, you are sick

Ekiti come and hold your mad Governor. He does PDP no favors with these his silly attacks on Buhari. He is one of the reasons PDP lost. For a man who supported the alleged founder of Boko Haram to become PDP chairman he has no right to even talking about Islamic agenda,he has just Islamised PDP

Jonwesley:
I want to believe that the woman's fear is uncalled for. She shouldn't have done the procedure on herself then and rather insists on the husband using Condoms, then I will agree. Why punish or sentence your husband to that misery of condom for rest of his life when U have the protection done, even if it fails or not 100% safe. I also wonder how a wife will appreciate love making with a husband that way. That idea is abnormal and kills the essence of marriage. Vasectomy is good as suggested but it's not reversible as the women's procedure and prone to cancers in later life as stated by medical research. I even think this woman will still insist on the man to wear a condom if he has a vasectomy done on himself for the fears she keep having. The likes of Tufanja, though knowledgeable are a bit emotional about the subject and may not understand the practical nature of matrimony yet.
Now with what is in place, the couple can add safety/rythm method but skin to skin, unsafe/withdrawal or spermicide or use CD method as supports to her not getting pregnant but then they both enjoy freedom within these periods with the agreement of both shifting grounds to accommodate each other.
She also ought to know that the skin to skin is for her perfect feel and enjoyment except she's just hypocritical about love making or she has something yet to say or hiding. Doesn't CD burst at times, so what kind of guarantee is she asking for, abeg.

vasectomy is reversible

sam90s:
1, It appears to be true what they say that women are the worst misogynist, just listen to yourself, I believe everyone has a right to choose their partner, even if you think their choice is wrong, it's still their choice right? so how the hell did you arrive at blaming the wife now? it's like a movie script they clever way you twist the whole matter and land it on the wife's head, hia! (in my igbo accent).

I think she's just bitter and envious of Lola and probably tribalistic too, she makes posts everyday blaming the woman that doesn't even know she exists. She one of the women with low self esteem who think everything must be a woman's fault. She too will receive what she keeps dishing to a woman that has never crossed her part. When she's accused falsely she'll run make her to start crying, evil woman

sam90s:
1, It appears to be true what they say that women are the worst misogynist, just listen to yourself, I believe everyone has a right to choose their partner, even if you think their choice is wrong, it's still their choice right? so how the hell did you arrive at blaming the wife now? it's like a movie script they clever way you twist the whole matter and land it on the wife's head, hia! (in my igbo accent).

I think she's just bitter and envious of Lola and probably tribalistic too, she makes posts everyday blaming the woman that doesn't even know she exists. She one of the women with low self esteem who think everything must be a woman's fault. She too will receive what she keeps dishing to a woman that has never crossed her part. When she's accused falsely she'll run make her to start crying, evil woman

DeMekus:
You didn't get my point. Among other things the African man was not supposed to do before now, I think the "stay away from the kitchen" rule should remain, if nothing at all, to show why we're different from the white folks. It doesn't take away the women's right to be respected. I, for instance, can wash my wife's clothes but can't force her to wash mine. I can sit and feed my baby too if need be. But I can never enter the kitchen to cook her meals; let that be my own dividend of being a married man.

So you want to pick what traditional roles should remain according to what suits you riight It doesn't make you feel "UnAfrican" for your wife to help with bills but its "UnAfrican" for you to cook You're a clown

ronald4lif:
It used to be un-African for women to work, earn their own money and contribute to the financial running of the home but that's not the case today. So, would you also propose women should stop working and return to their former role of housewives?

Gbam are you minding the hypocrite

Immatex:
Only in Nigeria is 5>15

Kogi people no try

Just because the Speaker supports Faleke, Bello is a disaster hopefully he'll be kicked out soon. If we complained when PDP pulled that rubbish we must never support such from a party that's meant to be better

Good, that illegality Bello and his cronies embarked on can not be allowed to stand

ronald4lif:
I read some saying if a man cheats a woman too should but how many women have the emotional sturdiness and stability to cheat randomly as compared to the men?

How many married women can embark on a fvcking spree without feeling worthless and empty even as some have now mastered the act of body counts? What concerns an average guy with keeping tab of the women he has shagged.

A man can fvck Temi, Oge, Amina on same day without even remembering the next morning, how many women can to do this compared to men? If you think you have what it takes to cheat as much as men then feel free to do so make we see who go taya.

Oh please women are giving just as good as you dish out. A woman doesn't need 10 side lovers, 1 0r 2 steady ones will do and they are smarter than you lot sef so you'll never know except one day you realise some of your kids are not yours lmao. Women have decided to follow you since you say you are the head, its where the head goes the body will follow abi

redcliff:
Then you know nothing of the psquare brand. Paul okoye is the music... if tou like dance from today to tomorrow...once your song is trash, its trash!

Paul has zero charisma , i like him but that's the truth. Women go to their concerts to see Peter, Paul just does not have the sex appeal. He'll become one of the many regular singers without Peter. They need each other but they can always use another manager. Jude should leave them alone and go manage other artists

Didn't the same PDP used to call him that confused lot

iGeneral:
I have a dream. That in this generation, women will still walk nekad.

well our ancestors did it so its actually very African

She's wearing a bikini not bra on a beach , how is that news or inappropriate

Very childish of Paul too, he should be the one mediating between his 2 brothers not adding to the problem. How is this better than what Peter did

This woman is a clown if she said this (i want to give her the benefit of doubt), when all else fails bring up tribalism abi . They probably didn't like you because you were nasty not where you're from

hedonistic:
Don't mind these deceitful things. It irritates the hell out of me when they pick and choose the grounds for gender equality... Only when it suits them. You want to be equal with me in philandering, but when it comes to paying the bills and spending I must take the lead as a man since thats the 'normal' thing. On the rare occasion when she supports with money, then she would do it with so much reluctance and regret because it's abnormal, . Nonsense people.

I don't know which women you've been moving with, most married women i know pay bills in their homes. Most pay equally sef with many being the breadwinners. The Governor of Bayelsa , Dickson said 90% of the women are bread winners and you are here yarning dust. Does that stop their randy goat husbands from cheating Just because most women don't announce to the world what bills they pay in order to cover their men's egos. More and more Nigerian women are becoming breadwinners or equal contributors everyday. How many Nigerian men will tell their friends their wives pay the mortgage, school fees, e.t.c keep deceiving yourselves

http://www.informationng.com/2015/02/90-of-bayelsa-women-are-the-bread-winners-gov-dickson.html

Toks2008:
ok then

Please are there married ladies reading this? i need to see comments from them.

I'am married, stop assuming we're all single

gemale:
op no try @ all. 2 dey advise women 2 tolerate cheating husbands no good @ all. Both partners r supposed 2 b mutually faithful 2 each oda. A cheating partner has already eroded d foundation of trust dt marriage is supposed 2 b built on so y shld a woman cheated on stay in a marriage dt makes her sad? If d partner cheated on decides 2 4gv & move on, ok bt if dey decide 2 end d marriage, u cant blame dem. Its nt everybody dt can tolerate a cheating spouse & being a man or woman is no license 4 1 2 cheat on ones spouse. If op isnt a hypocrite, let him give men d same advice when their wives cheat.

Gbam, Op will you tell a man to stay with a cheating wife because the next woman he marries may also cheat