₦airaland Forum

beekind:
I am in my mid 30s, very comfortable and a dual citizen of Nigeria and a first world country.
I decided to relocate back to Nigeria because of starting a family and having my own children.
Since arriving the country and based on my experiences so far, my plans have changed.

I decided to first focus on having children as I found out that the Nigerian society has become almost worse than the west in terms of sexual debauchery.
People have sex for indomine, girls commit abortion without remorse, the worst thing is that no one here uses protection and by the time your average Nigerian girl reaches 30 years old, she has aborted 4 times, slept with almost 100 men and contacted several stds in the process.

What this means is that disciplined men like me are left with these category of girls, worst still is that they come very entitled and empty and can even ruin you with their lifestyle as they are usually impossible to reform.

Solution:
I had to go back to the drawing board and re-evaluated my plan, I have an ex-girlfriend (29 years old) whom I am very close with. She fits the bill in terms of who I want as a life partner but she is a single mother.
So I gave her a choice.

Have 2 children for me, those 2 children will automatically become dual citizens and I might consider marrying you and adopting your child but even if I don't marry you, your 2 children that you have by me will be taken care of and being dual citizens of a developed country they can turn to a blessing for you and your whole family in future.

Now, let me explain, I still love this lady and my decision was premised on how uncertain I am of what my choice will be in the future as such I wanted to be very open from the beginning, but even at this point, I can not guarantee I will marry her but I could depending on what happens in future.

She's going to give me a feedback later and I am quite positive she will take the offer.

If it were you faced with this option, what would you do ?

another idiot on the loose. Bragging about developed world like Nigeria is a trash. INFERIORITY MENTALITY .Some of this post just irritate me

Nigerian law has really been bastardized thanks to our corrupt judges and politicians. Well whatever we turn the country to is where we end up. We will all die I one die wonder what generations will meet on ground. Maybe by then we don turn Somalia.
I weep for my beloved country . Nigeria will be great

sarkinbauchi:
A corper is a servant
A minister is a servant.

FG can appoint a corper to serve as minister like many corpers engaged to serve as Electoral Polling officers by INEC.

polling officer is an adhoc staff and a ministerial appointment is more like a permanent position for the duration

Ever8090:
I no know say oyibo too mumu like that ...

every Race get personality they worship or pure love based on popularity no b Nigerian thing. Why did he wind down too.

That just pure love from people who love you.

He has a governor is dumb not to erase the error. I wonder what the governors smoke they just keep blaming their predecessor. The best was explaining what the Portfolio entail simple. He better get serious or they kick him out

That why you should take Agric Insurance policy seriously. This is covered under Agric Insurance policy the Insurer will be the one to bear the grunt.

NOOR TAKAFUL is one of the best Insurance companies to insure with especially with their WIN WIN policy whereby you get a percentage of your contribution if you have no claim.

Ode. So what about the child?

People that have nothing to offer will remain in public just to occupy space, not carrying out their part of the contract and blame government. I left government job because of the redundancy. If you love your career stay in private build it and have this Capitalist mindset. Even those in Government how many finally develop themselves or have a business. Stability in government job with the level of inflation in the country, if you ain't stealing you will hardly live a good life, except you have a high Juicy government job where money flow due to corruption also. Private firm now have pension just the gratuity part and what is the essence of gratuity with no business idea in your head. Skipping work is also an offence and is that what you pray your kids emulate. How many could do extra work let say you close by 2pm or 4pm without self determination. The world is more advance save money and invest and stop looking for extra income of shop.
NB: There are government job for career development If it relate to your field

edoman2016:
I never knew being AS genotype can be a hindrance when it is time for me to get married. I am 35 years. All the ladies that I love and have good emotional connections with them are all AS genotype too. So it means having a relationship that can.lead to marriage has no prospect.

Are the AA ladies getting scarce or what? I just don't understand. I am beginning to get worried of my AS genotype as it is affecting my plans of settling down.

so we plenty, I just got tired at some point

Imagine this how the electoral umpire push away the genuine and allow the rich cling on power or encourage God fatherism. Well it all over the world no peculiar to Nigeria alone

Chair

Tomato now is Gold. Even spoilt tomato is expensive people need to survive. I wonder what the cost will be in south west and east. Even carrot is expensive

God help us

DamnnNiggarr:
Eid means "BLESSED"

1. Happy Eid Mubarak = Happy blessed Feast or celebration.

2. Happy Eid al-fitr = Happy blessed fast breaking ( when you hear that Muslim Faithfuls are breaking their fast)

3.The same as nō 1 above

4. Happy Eid Al adha = Happy Blessed pilgrimage ( when Muslim Faithfuls go to Mecca)

5.Eid Kabir = That time our Muslim Faithfuls used to kill ram 🐏 as sacrifice

Thanks. So Kabir is the right one

I just dey confuse which one correct
1)Eid Mubaraq
2) Eid al-Fitr,
3)Eid Mubarak!
4)Eid-Al adha
5) Eid-el kabir

Never go into anything with uncertainty

If you can stay alone and be happy then it fine.

Well probably not educated ( I am not talking about going to school but allowing the process work through you) or not open minded.

Never forget you can accomplish anything you want in life, if you work towards it.

Now get up & grind!

kozmokaz:
Scabies

Get benzy benzoyleth

Tetemosol soap it works well then move. I told myself never to stay in a crowded room again especially bed where they regularly have sex. Even when you abstain sweat and all you can still catch infection

I just hope Akpabio greed would not kill him

Hmm I am about to quit a government job for a private firm. I want career growth actually. The mediocrity in government job is way too high and they are always routine job. I know I am not making a mistake.

Nairalanders get bad mouth

Tinubu knows the game he has been there. Corrupt people know the gimmick of his colleagues. Fish them out

Tinubu ministerial appointment go shock many he will pick brains than politicians. This will leave crack in the party

If you can afford it you won't ask or beg for it. If your parent can afford it you won't disturb someone else for it

If he doesn't want a maid then he must be ready to help then. Simple

Don't tell your boy to fight back but whenever he retaliate don't caution him. It will tell him take action when you need to and be able to trust his decision. The guy may over power him but when you face a bully they draw back. They know the boy got a fighting spirit. Whenever you fight back you build strength and ground

When a lady has seen someone else she will give you the silliest excuse to move. You watch Big brother Naija. You don't wear slipper when home 🤣. You flush the toilet too much . You are too neat for my likeness. When she is served breakfast and dinner she will tell you the truth in a bid to come back give her 3 months she go chop supper and dinner

FarmTech:
Goats and sheep are cheaper. You can even grow the grass yourself if you have land or rent it.

you no be farmer I am 100% sure. You just dey talk from surface

Depends. If you are doing intensive feeding is the main cost during harmattan you can allow them roam around. Cattles seem to be the cheapest