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ASHADDY:
[color=#006600][/color] DOES D&C ABORTION FAIL?

I have intimacy with a new BF on 14th March 2009. On the 13th April 2009, went for D&C abortion. Unknowingly my husband called for settlement in our breakup which i agreed to. On the 25th of May 2009. I was confirmed pregnant by my husband. Could it be that the D&C abortion failed.

My husband disagree to the new abortion that he's happy to be the father to my Kids. But the Expected Date of Delivery given to me is 26th Jan 2010. Happily am having a lovely baby boy. But dont know if the pregnancy / child is for my husband.

Somebody advice.

ferhyntorlah:
@adaspire, I luv yor post. It's ppl lik u dat mak mariag so Interestg n inspiring 2 dos unmarrid. D secret u gav is vry important in mariag. Dat's wat I intnd doing wen I finaly entr d INSTITUTION.
@tolutara, adaspire n mzbabS, do your hubby apologise whenever dey offnd you?pls I nid your responses. Tnx.
PS: congrats on d arrivl of your baby girl.

aloy-emeka:
She looks sexy in this new video:


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Be who u r:
Finally in respect of assisting Sia, i believe its every man's duty to assist his partner no matter what and her family if he can afford it. Am a young man and i am doing well in my own business but it could be better. The little i have goes to supporting me and sia because we are suppose to share everything but i read somewhere some accusing me of occultism and how i make my money because i could be so devilish and occultic and its not christlike marrying an evil demon like me. Well, let me see. This demon bought Sia a car when i had no car but was hopping bike around lagos. Sia could not move around after her surgery and i saved money to get her a car. It was a small picanto but it was something to help her move around for a while before she changed her car. I didnt have a car for a year or so because biz was slow but that wasnt a priority. Sia was my priority. Kelechi her brother was my best friend and i made sure everything he needed in school and his present NYSC runs went smoothly. Her mother dislikes the fact i am an atheists but she has never for once insulted me or said i shouldnot date sia. She just says i should change and find god anytime she sees me and i always oblidge to respect her wishes but i never for once had any serious quanta with her. Sia's dad is a military man and has always been military like in his approach and we dont get along too well because of that and i give him his space and he gives me mine. Why then will sia come online and say her family hates me? Why tell the whole world that when it isnt true. All her family ought to have said way back was for me to leave Sia alone cos i would be a bad influence and i walk away. Its not hard and doesn t require all this insults from people here. I agree they are strong christians but i have never had problems with them the way Sia is saying it and if her parents did say stuffs like that privately, why didnt she come out to tell me privately and we sort it out privately?

We have been together for 4 yrs plus and she can testify that i have never quarreled with her before over anything. No matter how angry i get, i walk away and i laugh it over because we always shared all our problems together and we had our code to all ways do that forever no matter how hurt we were and how disturbed an issue we have? Why then come to the internet and lay our problems to the whole world. Well if she was looking for support, she got it and i am happy i now know what her friends and ilk think, so there is no point moving it further. I can't go through this kind of atheist bashing and discrimination tomorrow because i am not a xtian. Its just unacceptable to me and i know such issues will always crop up. I will never be seen as a positive influence in her life in respect of anything outside religion. Sia didnt tell the whole world that i said i want my kids to be baptised and she should influence their religions mind at the early stages but when they grow older, i would rather teach them free will. Do you think am insensitive not to know the role religion, marriage and kids play? Anyway, you have done your worst and i have learnt from it and it will guide me in my future relationship with other people. I have chosen to break up with Sia because she broke our cardinal rule of privacy, exposed me to these catalogue of insults from bible thumpers who have potrayed me as the main anti christ and disrespected me that her family hates me. I dont want any of this, thats why i am communicating to you sia through this medium finally. I dont want anything to do with you anymore. As your friends on this website say, you will be better off without me and it could be good for your spiritual health and being. I 100% support them. Seek for your next boyfriend first as a christian before anything else. Dont look beyond that. Thats what your online new friends have encouraged you to do and i wish you the best of luck. I will leave the key with musa this week, you can come in to take your stuffs. I really dont want any confrontation with you or your people anymore. You win finally

browncocos:
aaaaaaawwwww arent u blessed

the way u describe your husband
is frighteningly similar to mine

we are indeed blessed even tho i have been married for 8 yrs
u have inspired me to let my husband know just how i feel
i guess it timely ,i dont have to wait for feb 14th to do so

much love
xoxoxoxo

p.s good luck with the birth of your 3rd child
i hope u find it as easy as a hebrew woman birth amin!



Thanks a bunch, are u sure we are not married to same man?, just kidding , Thanks for all the prayers. My due date has come and gone but no baby yet.

Yes Please let him know, if u have wonderful guy, lets complement him, after all he deserves it. I am very grateful to God, I am truly bless to have someone who literally has my back.

dangerzone:
is TB joshua the team coach? leave the man alone jare just saying what he feels, he's only predicting,

globalaid:
God bless you also my dear Rita Ayinba, you have really showed me how to love and be loved, God bless the day, the hour and the minute i met you, because we met online people thought it cannot work but we have proved them wrong, eight years and still counting. Love you still like the very first day.

Fhemmmy:
Love poem indeed

mama-gee:
This sounds so much like a love poem.

globalaid:
@tolutara, may God continue to bless your marriage, dont mind the haters, the fact their own did not work does not mean yours will not work. Let your marriage keep on growing from glory to glory, you and your hubby are blessed indeed. It will still be like that 10 years, 20 and 60 years.

MCLOVIN:
Nice. . . .but u make 4yrs sound like 14 . Come back and give us an update in 5yrs time.

No Probs, will do so.

Fhemmmy:
How long have u been together.
You guys married yet?
Wait more years and come back and tell us how it is . . . . BTW, if all remain same, he deserves a nice ride, and i can get you one 

We have been together 8 years, married 4 years, 2 kids with 1 due any moment now. He does deserve a very nice upgrade ride. So honney, watch the space, lol

tRoOE link=topic=375683.msg5250746#msg5250746 date=1262666905:
So who cares , why are you telling us

and why do you feel the need to post or be disrespectful, SMH

KB1:
We African-Americans have nothing to do with those young Naija girls and guys shaking their asses around in those videos, so don't attempt to pass the buck on the failure of Nigerian parents to properly monitor and train their kids on to us. We have our own crosses to bare. In this day in age it's a struggle for parents of all backgrounds to properly ground there kids with all the negativity in which the world media is spreading around the world. African-American and all other types of American parents have been battling this type of stuff for a long time now, welcome to to world of media driven culture take over and the fight to subdue its effects on your children.

kayusa:
It's really a shame to see Nigerians acting out like Americans and the most annoying part of it is that it's those who actually travel out of the country to hustle like they say that loose their pride in their culture and heritage no matter how hungry one can be,culture,tradition and moral believes is one thing that should not be traded. Like some of you said these Nigerian music videos don't even get the attention they deserver from the Westerners apart from Nigerian communities.All those crap Keke and D1 show back on T.V back in Niaja is bull crap.Here in the states Apart from BET which is little bit relaxed on their TV sensorship when it comes to music videos all other station rarely show those nude music videos that why you either watch it on BET or go to you tube or go watch their shows .For us Nigerians who are concerned for the future of our young generation we need to do what we think is best.
Keeping our mouth shut and ignoring the situation will only make the situation worse. that is if we want to see our children and grand children make us proud .

FBS:
@Ladej,
strong points you made. No demand no supply and I kinda feel that those complaining are the ones who watch it most.

abbey10:
Will laugh hysterically , and for three days will look @ her and smile.
I'm sure she wont sleep thru those 9ts.
And of course,I'll take a walk.

TT,I sincerely hope it's not you?