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dayokanu: Tomakint,The initial plan was the arresting of the corrupt politicians and if they resist should be 'taken out of the way'. Azikiwe, Ironsi, Okpara were all penciled down for elimination by the organizer (Nzeogwu and the other four), but what many people failed to understand was that, the coup had already leaked hence, Azikiwe fled, while Sardauna and Balewa chose to stay put believing it's just hearsays, remember it was Col. James Pam who quickly informed Ironsi about the outbreak of the coup, which eventually led to the death of the coup. Okpara was saved by dint of luck, it was just designed to be like that Akintola romance with the Sardauna in the business of gun-running (where cachment of ammunitions were being smuggled into the country) was what made Nzeogwu and his accomplices to strike. Sardauna had a Jihad ambition on the whole of Western Nigeria first then later other parts of the country. Nzeogwu said this in many of the interviews he granted. So the Igbos were penciled down for elimination but they were wiser while others choose to stubbornly remain! I thought you should know this, I have gone through your many posts here and I really love the way you master your history, I am waiting for your response!!! |
dayokanu: Tomakint,Common dayokanu, point to me where i had justified the sparing of the Igbos civilian leaders and the military officer, infact I have already answered that on another thread in this forum (may be I can dig it out for you later on). Gowon reneged on an agreement for a confederacy for the country at the Aburi Conference in Ghana after initially conceding to the terms of the conference in Ghana. He created 12 States to replace the 3 prominent regions (Western, Eastern and Northern) and the 1 minority-populated one (Mid-western) just to emasculate the Igbos who were hell bent in going their separate ways from the rest of Nigeria. His decision in creating those states was a flagrant violation of the gentlemen agreements at Aburi. The minorities in the then eastern region were only asking for COR States (Calabar, Ogoja and Rivers). Gowon created two states for them instead – South-Eastern and Rivers. In giving them these two states, Gowon ceded Port Harcourt a place formerly owned by the Igbos to the newly created Rivers State while giving the majority Igbos a State (East-Central). Indeed, the complexities of Nigeria’s political terrain are too convoluted to be understood. The way Nigeria is now; I think it is very important the issues of ethnicity, tribalism, political jingoism (i.e. politics of bitterness) and corruption are clearly trashed out before any meaningful developments can be achieved! The Nigeria-Civil War is an ‘open discussion’ that actually opened a new vista in the chequered political history of Nigeria. The only useful tool we have now to discuss and contribute some meaningful intentions to the Nigeria-Biafra war is insight! The question I normally tossed at those political analysts or discussants who sided with the Nigerian government on the war issue are; “If you are Ojukwu, what would you do? If you are in Chinua Achebe’s shoes, what would you say? The Yoruba nation never lost 2 million innocent lives, the Hausas never lost 2 million innocent lives and these were the same elements (Yoruba and Hausa elites) branding the heavily marginalised Igbos at that time, ‘unpatriotic and rebellious’ – what a world we live in! |
whitecat007:Kindly take time to peruse over what you have spewed here and you will really be ashamed of yourself, well I discover you are new here, hence, you wanna 'bubble' no problem! From all indications, there must be a strong nexus between you and something, definitely if something is not wrong with you, you must be wrong with something! |
Katsumoto: 1. Awolowo advised Ojukwu not to go to war because everyone knew the end result but Ojukwu retorred that he had the biggest army in Black Africa and was prepared to meet the North on the battlefield. So Awo left him to his devices.Katz welcome onboard, To your first question: you are actually referring to the conversation between Pa Awo (while leading a four-man National Conciliation Committee delegation to Enugu) and General Ojukwu on May 6th 1967. My dear, if you take your time through that meeting, you will know that Chief Awolowo had no choice than to read out the Gowon-led government script in his hands to Ojukwu. Of course, he advised Ojukwu against seceding, but what will you do, Katsumoto, if as a leader of a group that were being killed almost on a daily basis for whatever reasons the perpetrators of that dastardly may have to defend their actions on, what will you do? You can see the whole story on this site; http://www.gamji.com/aluko/aluko27.htm you will be shocked at the ‘terrible demands of the Northerners’ and if you are a good mind reader, will know that Pa Awo was actually under ‘duress’ to act out the scripts of the ‘Northern Hegemony.’ If you also read very well this article you will agree with me that Papa’s conviction on the friction between the East and North was well captured in his famous statement of “If the Eastern Region is allowed by acts of omission or commission to secede from or opt out of Nigeria, then the Western Region and Lagos must also stay out of the Federation.” Believe me Papa spoke in a more twisted fashion (too convoluted to be understood)! Try to read his (Pa Awo) speech delivered at Ibadan to Western Leaders of thought on 1st May, 1967 (Crisis and Conflict in Nigeria, Volume 1, January 1966-July 1971 by A.H.M Kirk-Greene) To the second: [/b]Remember virtually everywhere the Biafrans could use to access the outside world had been blockaded, hence their best option was to route their advancement through a region that they considered as ‘friends’ in order to take the battle to the seat of power, unfortunately they were wrong as ‘Westerners’ had already pitched their tents with the Northerners. Saying Yorubas were neutral is quite typical of us (Yorubas) Ojukwu had made his stance that you can’t go on killing my people and still expect me to listen to you (north) even Awo admitted the dominance of the Northern hegemony over the whole federation when he went to Enugu as a leader of the Federal Government delegation. [b]To the third: I have answered that already in my first response! To the fourth: Still talking about the ‘Northern Dominance’ over the whole federation except for the Eastern Region. To the fifth: Katz to this one, if you are in Ojukwu shoes what will you do? You are saying all these because you have been bequeathed with the precious tool we revel now in – hindsight! But if you are the main actor then, what would you do? To the sixth: If you are used to my topics, you must have seen my comments on Zik, he remains the nemesis of the Igbos, let’s move on “Zik no be better person” to N’digbo, even to us Yorubas he was a traitor of the highest order. I hope you still remember his appellation when he was in politics in Lagos then, ‘ejo n gboro’ (snake in town). [b]To the seventh: [/b]Please ‘esteemed Katz’ (I have gone through your many posts here, and I must confess, you are a master of the flow at least when it comes to history, I am a big fan) the animosity was initially between the Eastern region and Northern region, whatever Ojukwu was doing then was to indirectly reduce the influence of the diabolical government of the Northern powers at that time, he had no problem with us (the Yorubas). It seems Ojukwu understood the core North more than Pa Awo and he was trying his best to open Papa’s eyes to the insidious motives of the core North, unfortunately like I rightly pointed out in my first response, Pa Awo has already been emasculated by the Northern Military boys, hence, he must do their bidding! Believe me Katz, Pa Awo would have remained neutral in that war, and if he had died in that position, he would have been greater in death and even more venerated by all! Remember that the Igbos were the ones feeling the heat here, and point of correction, they were never the enemies; we were! Leave it or take it, we (other regions and tribes) were used by the core North to waste ‘innocent lives’ for no just cause! Do your calculations, how many Igbos were wasted right from May till September 1966?, now move over to other parts of the regions (Western Region and Mid-western region) where Igbos were secretly killed and now the main theatre of war itself. I am not blaming anyone; I am just trying to make you see the real feelings and excitements of the moment at that time. Pa Awo, I maintained regretted his role in that war! |
Shadoky: Distance relationship is a very big threat to the heart which can lead to suicide when d unexpected happened. Am just recovely 4rm d heart brake, tank god 4 saving my life.Welcome from 'fantasy world' to the 'real world', don't worry you will live LONG on the face of the EARTH! I am happy for you!!! Don't worry (since you are wiser now) your 'own' will come and when you find her stick her, don't give room for distance love again, it almost don't exist in the real world, but in the 'fantasy world' anything goes! Congrats!! |
whitecat007: There you go, same old recycled BS'Whiteman' welcome to Nigeria, we are actually debating an event that opened a new vista in the history of our country, many innocent lives were lost, those who don't deserve to die, a product of that skirmish and general hatred for a particular tribe decided to voice again the 'dark memories of that dark period' in their lives, we are actually celebrating them for their doggedness and strong hearts to still remain in the Union and also critically examine the actors, villains, protagonists, antagonists and all those that fitted well into the roll call of what I called, 'Dramatis Personae' of that war! I am writing to you because I sensed you have mistaken this place to be another 'playing ground' I thought you will give 'Safarigirl' some thumbs up for that wonderful piece she wrote, unfortunately your response was too bland to be noticed. Please, there are many sections here ranging from jokes, fashion, sports etc choose one you know you can fraternize with well and quit here right away, a topic that calls for sober reflection is what we are discussing here.......please you may take your leave now! |
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demmy: Fake Yoruba, quit whatever crap you're smoking because it ain't working for you. Meanwhile in real world...Son, I thought you will go through my post and reduce accordingly! Unfortunately, what I see from you is nothing but a 'clueless mind seeking unnecessary attention' I am off! Please dont bother to reply me, I have no time for men in their 'periods'! |
olawalebabs: why is there no igbo among the victims.As usual, we all (those of us familiar with the revolution) knew the coup was bungled why? The initial plan was the arresting of the corrupt politicians and if they resist will be 'taken out of the way'. Azikiwe, Ironsi, Okpara were all penciled down for elimination by the organizer (Nzeogwu and the other four), but what many people failed to understand was that, the coup had already leaked hence, Azikiwe fled, while Sardauna and Balewa choosed to stay put believing it's just hearsays, remember it was Col. James Pam who quickly informed Ironsi about the outbreak of the coup, which eventually led to the death of the coup. Okpara was saved by dint of luck, it was just designed to be like that Akintola romance with the Sardauna in the business of gun-running (where cachment of ammunitions were being smuggled into the country) was what made Nzeogwu and his accomplices to strike. Sardauna had a Jihad ambition on the whole of Western Nigeria first then later other parts of the country. Nzeogwu said this in many of the interviews he granted. So the Igbos were penciled down for elimination but they were wiser while others choose to stubbornly remain! |
chief batiatus: You probably have a little point but let me take u back to a small fact all ibos characteristically love to forget easily - the ibo hatred all started when the mostly-ibo coup plotters of 1966 killed sardauna as head of northern region, akintola in the west, tafawa balewa and then assisted okpara to escape! That singular act showed everybody that the ibos take all other nigerians as fools. This same attitude has not left ibos to this day, you can askk any other tribe except yourselves. Did your father tell you that even for many weeks after sardauna was killed the north was calm? Our family was in kaduna then and am not hausa pls, but I tell u authoritatively that just a few weeks after sardauna's killing ibo traders had already made calendars with caricature of sardauna burning in hell and the ibo traders thrust this in the face of anyone they find saying 'see your god roasting in hell'. This among other contributory factors lead to the widespread outrage against ibos, but I tell you few ibos living today will admit that given their nature. My brother married an ibo lady and uptill today she has not relented from proving how smart she thinks she is - this is the problem of ibos. So my guy go and sit down and hear your history properly and change what you can. Always remember that nothing hurts people like after cheating them, you now call their attention to how foolish they were in the first place! That kind of hatred takes very long to die. And lastly even in any situation if you discover many people hate you, sit back and stop ranting, look inward and you might find a shocking revelationFor how long are you little children going to get acquainted for once with the facts about the first military putsch of January 15th, 1966! The tagging of the January 15 Putsch of 1966 an ‘Igbo Coup’ was a craftily designed conspiracy by the British government ‘smart guys’ to whip up sentiments against the Igbo officers in order to make sure power and control of the Nigerian government return at all cost to the Northern officers in the Nigerian Army. After all, not many realise that several officers of Northern origin took part in Nigeria’s first military coup. What many fail to understand here is that many northern officers assisted Nzeogwu when he stormed the residence of the Northern Region’s Premier, Ahmadu Bello. Little wonder, Nzeogwu later described the detachment of troops accompanying him to Bello’s house as ‘a truly Nigerian gathering’ (New Nigerian – 18th January 1966). He went further when he said they (the troops) ‘had the chance to drop out. More than that, they had bullets. They had been issued with bullets but I was unarmed. If they disagreed they could have shot me....most of the other Ranks were Northerners but they followed.’ It was revealed that one of the Northern soldiers that helped Nzeogwu was John Atom Kpera. Kpera later became the first military governor of Anambra State and later military governor of Benue State. Likewise, many of the soldiers that accompanied Major Ifeajuna when he abducted the Prime Minister, Tafawa Balewa were also Northerners. Despite all these exposures, many still ignorantly held on to the belief that it was ‘an Igbo Coup’. Ironsi, the Supreme Commander, was part of those marked down for arrest or elimination (whichever one comes first), but was tipped off by the Army’s Adjutant-General, Lt. Col James Pam through an early morning telephone call. Ironsi was just a child of destiny to have escaped death on that fateful day. He even came across some of the mutineers while on the move to quell it. Perhaps his position as the General Office Commander (G.O.C) may likely be the definitive factor that made him escaped unhurt when he ran into one of the junior officers ‘road blocks’ and still pass through. Reports have it that, Ironsi openly wept after he confirmed the death of his northern military colleagues in the Putsch! |
[quote author=reporter?]Stop fooling yourself. You are Igbo.[/quote]What else do I need to prove my identity to you 'bunch of Yorubacentric bigots' I have said many time here times without number that, "I am a Yoruba man, not a TYPICAL one like you". Omo ale ni n fi owo osi ju we ile Baba e (It's only a bastard that use his or her left hand to describe the house of his or her father)! Yoruba ro nu e (Yorubas let's think deeply), my friend, stop deceiving yourself by being Yorubacentric, it's a 'caveman mentality' grow up, we don't have to agree on the same thing all the time. Wole Soyinka and many other Yorubas were against their fellow Yoruba kinsmen during the war, does that make him (them) a less Yoruba man or men? |
olaheavy: The Igbo human eaters call us cowards and betrayers. Okay, here we go: who is a coward? Is it a fluke who ran away to Ivory Coast in a female regalia (Ojukwu) or a very brave civilian who was frequently seen on the warfront inspecting the atrocities of some renegade soldiers (Awolowo)? Who is a betrayer? Is it Awolowo who stood by his promise to keep the Yoruba out of the war unless either of the two enemies (Hausa and Igbo cannibals) ventured into Yorubaland or the lying bastard, Ojukwu who promised not to touch the West, but actually went off by bombing Lagos and invading Yorubaland through Ore? Who's is a coward? Is it the Yoruba who performed so honorably and gallantly in the battlefield or the Igbo savages who were plagued by marasmus and kwashiokor and eventually forced to eat the rotten remains of their fallen Igbo compatriots before their oloju rangandan leader, Ojukwu, fled the war? Who is a coward? Is it the Yoruba who are always steadfast, calculating and tactical or the Igbo scavengers who always flee both the North (Pogrom and Boko Haram) and West (June 12 riots) in buses and trucks anytime there is a chaotic situation? And the Igbos are like goats - they always go back to where they were once driven out. After the chaos subsides the Igbos (goats) will always go back to Yorubaland and the North even though they know they're hated with a passion by the Hausas and Yoruba! Pathetic he-goats and she-goats, who love to eat human beings, Igbos are the basest of the peoples of the world!.Whatttt ? Are you losing it? For spewing this putrid drivel out, if there is a Kingdom called DUMBOSCOLAND, you should be one of the slaves there! Next time before playing on those keyboards with your scraggy or pudgy fingers (whichever one you have), why don’t you pause and ponder on the following self-examined questions; Can I defend what I am about to type? Do I know more than everybody? Am I an authority on this topic? Can I really argue convincingly if this thread goes out of hand? Am I here to learn or to make a fool of myself? Please, this is a time for sober reflection, there are other sections here (Jokes, fashion, ethnic politics, etc) you can visit at will, it seems you are not wanted here. **nods head for olaheavy** |
ayobase: Or could it be beaf reincarnating!Actually no, but if you take your time to pick up unbiased materials written on the war, you will definitely sympathise with the Igbos. The 920-day Civil War was largely genocide against defenceless Igbo women and children. The Asaba Massacre (the killing of hundreds of defenceless civilians) of 7th October 1967 was memorial in the history of the Nigerian – Biafran Civil War! Believe me, Ojukwu did what was best for his people at that time, but many political analysts of those days make a mountain of a mole hill in that war, thereby misleading, many people. Truth takes time to manifest, and when it does cannot be buried - That is the story of Emeka Ojukwu! |
demmy: A fake Yoruba. Pathetic but cute.In case you don’t know, I don’t give a tinker’s damn about what you think or say about me. I am a Yoruba man but NEVER a typical one like you! I was not privileged to witness the Civil war but my parents told me a lot about it, and I have read different materials (be it journals, books, interviews granted by principal actors and others) on it, and I can tell you I am saturated enough to draw the followings; that the Igbos were heavily marginalized before the outbreak of the war, that the Yorubas were used by the Northern oligarchy against the Igbos, the singular enemy of the Igbos was Nnamdi Azikiwe who was the ‘proverbial bat’ (neither there or here in Nigerian politics), that Odumegwu Ojukwu remains a hero till date because he had the interest of his people at heart and defended that interest till the end, that Awolowo’s sudden leaning towards the Northern-controlled regime of Gowon was ill-advised and regrettable (trust me Pa Awo regretted his role in that war), that the war was actually a mission of pogrom by the Northern Nigerian Army against the Igbos), that the Aburi conference agreements would have been the best thing to have happened to the political history of Nigeria if not snubbed, that Gowon was just a figure head used by the ‘Northern chosen few’ that were actually in charge, that genocide was actually carried out against the Igbos, that Gowon and some other actors like Joe Garba, Benjamin Adekunle and others who are not of the ‘far North clique’ felt used in that war, that the same ‘chosen few elements of the North’ are still in charge of this country (in case you don’t know, now you know), that we owe N’digbos deep apologies and reparations, that the war veterans have been neglected and their children are the militants we now have in Niger Delta, that the time of the war was a time being an Igbo man or woman was an anathema in other parts of the country, that Igbos are still living with the psychedelic memories of the war till date. I can go on but let me stop here because my mission is not to bore you with lengthy speech. We Yorubas are always fond of thinking that we are wise with the way we play politics but we are fooling ourselves; always running errands for these loons (wicked, blood-sucking Northerners) that will always take us for a ride is not wisdom but signs of weaknesses. All we know how to do best is put on our funny caps and ‘starched parachute’ we called ‘Agbada’ and start to elucidate, dramatise, extemporize at the hollow chambers, world press conferences, forums, seminars on state of affairs of the country and at the end of the day queue behind the ‘Abokis’ in order to be used as usual! |
bid4rich: does it then mean that it will never work in all stance? Think! While it may work for some few, it may not work for some other people. It all based on how you started it and the kind of emotion you have towards each other. But that doesnt mean that it will not work in all casesMy dear I am only helping your case, and I have never said its not working for a few (read thru my posts) I am only against unnecessary overhyping of such type of relationship go thru other people's post here and learn fast! |
ilugunboy: O'shey yoruba !!...stop the deceit. come out clean and let's know how to handle you.Handle who? Do I sound like a criminal? You should know that was a typo, I meant 'elucidate'! Ok Yoruba man 'handle' me now! |
demmy: A fake Yoruba. Pathetic but cute.You lost me completely here, can you please eluciate further on the above? |
Eze Promoe: 2015 no go easy o. Igbo, middle belt, north and others all want the presidency. Hmmm. Hope i will be outta the country by then.Any tribe can have it (that is if we are still together) provided 'the Muslim North' no grab am sha! |
[quote author=nnenna.1]I ask this question after considering how morally bankrupt, hateful, angry, violent, racist, sexist, abusive, dogmatic and ignorant the average Nigerian is. There are Nigerians who don't fit these descriptions of course but I am not sure that they are in sufficient numbers to make a difference in the long run. Serious question -how do we change the state of the country when Nigerian mentality isn't even equipped for change in the first place? I have no need to go into specifics or examples of how humanly inept we are seeing that our problems are obvious even to a retaard. My question is - what are the next steps to take in all of this? Is it too late for Nigeria?[/quote]A nice and thoughtful topic Nnenna, let me submit that, indeed, corruption is the biggest single employer of Nigerians today. Almost all categories of Nigerians, from the lowly to the mighty, from the young to the old, owe allegiance to it in one way or the other! In my own candid opinion, Nigeria's case is not hopelessly lost, but what gives me a great deal of concern is, 'what do you make out from a country that is peopled by almost 2 third of her population corrupted?' |
nwzaion: While ‘They’ Think They Are Making Nigeria Ungovernable: FG secures N4.89trn investment commitmentsBreaking News: Bankole, Nafada have no case to answer – Court »Well, my conclusions have been: Yorubas have their peculiar problems,so are every other tribe! But please don't even bring up the words of that 'Islamic Fundamentalist up here' that is one of our headaches in this country, a core, unrepentant member of the dreaded, "Kaduna Mafia". Trust me that bastaaard cannot be trusted, he has tons of hidden agenda. In case you care to read my Kaduna Mafia write up, I will gladly oblige! |
nku5: You are welcome sir. I am always pleased to see a person resist seduction of clannishness and bigotry, even he is a lone voice. Unfortunately so many are yielding to the dark attraction of xenophobia and extremism. Its very very obvious when I log on to this site.You wonder why many 'bright minds' are swiching over to 'Nigerian Village Square'! May be some are just too young to understand and interprete history! |
what will you do if you are the man!
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emmatok: Thesame way you ibos make noise in kano and Sokoto.Defintely, you have no elder in your FAMILY to spew that to a world renowned figure!! Not even Wole Soyinka would say that!! |
obiyor2000: my brother jst tnk God 4 ur own, but u never can tell what has happend b/4 d introduction, i ve seen a lady who is 2 some 1 outside, but b/4 den many guys has crossed d red sea, so will u tell me dat d were not commicating then? I dont like d idea of distant relationshipObiyor God Bless you 1 billion times, exactly my stance on this 'very sensitive and volatile issue'. I don't want the message "it's working for me" to be encouraged here! For the young ones here, who might be too naive to fall for the bait (trust me it's a bait) they may not forgive those preaching the message of 'its working for me'! The world lives on pretense, to those involved in distance relationship why not ask your distant partner some sensitive questions about how he or she is coping, then add 1+ 2 together, you will see it's not the best of relationship ways. |
ITbomb: Broda , at this stage I believe we are too entwined to be divided.Please don't kill me with laughter here **still laughing**! Did I just hear "Federalism"! Don't tell me you don't know that Federalism has been dumped into the trashcan of Nigerian politics probably if you read this; https://www.nairaland.com/964274/tale-country-multi-coloured-system-government you will understand better. Federalism? please let's talk of something else.... |
bid4rich: everything that work is being made to work, until you work it nothing will ever work. I worked mine and its working like fire. Check yourself and ask yourself sincere and articulate question, then you can know where you get it all wrongNobody is arguing its not 'working for you' just be sincere with yourself on this noble truth that, it only works in an infinitesimally ratio not meant for someone who 'really LOVE' his or her partner. Remember, broken hearts take time to heal and most cases never heals. Advice: Folks in the house, be careful! If you are playing games no wahala, but if its a serious relationship, just box that idea and get your partner 'closer'. |
tope3x: long distance relationship works for me, i have been dating my girl for 9 years, before i traveled out of the country 2 years ago,and i go home every 6 months to see her, and we still keep intouch always.even did my introduction last april, and wedding is coming up soon...so it depends on how you take the relationship, and mutual understanding is needed.It's not worth giving testimony on my friend, you are just one of the 'lucky 10 in 10million cases,' the truth of the matter is that, 'long distance relationship' encourages suspicions, lack of trusts, jealousies and unnecessary questions and answers times. Pack all these together and jam them into a 'relationship' trust me such union will explode! My penny worth! |
[quote author=Garri~lord]One word!! BRILLIANT[/quote]Many thanks, we are (most times) what we EAT!! |
It will come one after the other, with some hilarious comments, Happy and Hilarious Viewing;this is how to ride a bike without being seen!!
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simdam500: It is not easy to maintain a long distance relationship. But if you have one, you must take care to keep it alive, for over a long period of time, a long distance relationship might not work. How would you know if your long distance online relationship is fading? There are certain signs you should look out for. The majorTo the unmarried, it's not worth an adventure plunging into, most times it leads to heartaches, even if your partner is within your reach, he or she can still play games how much more when he or she is miles away, please to the unmarried here don't give it a try. To the married, of course, after she has given you issues you can still muster the courage to forgive in case of 'misbehaviour' while to the woman she can still forgive as well but my advise is; being closer is the best that can happen in any relationships. Although in this modern world of rat race for survival, you must learn to adapt! My point!! |
nku5: I respect you for your honesty. You will live longYou're welcome sir, all my life I have always strived to push the frontiers of ignorance, hatred, bitterness backward and uplift the Spirit of Love! You (the Igbos) have never, I repeat, have never been our enemies! If I was privileged to witness the Civil War, I will maintain the same position Professor Wole Soyinka (a Yoruba man like myself) took, he was against the actions of the Nigerian government why? He knew better! |
[quote author=ITbomb][/quote]While I quite agree on the way you defined structure here, you will still agree with me that everything bores down to 'bad leadership.' It stinks to high heavens that we are rich as a nation yet we are poor as citizens. The principle of egalitarianism was more pronounced when Nigeria was under regionalism, at least going by what obtains in each region. Ironsi scattered that wonderful platform and Gowon watered it to maturity by his creation of 12 states, a precedent that led to Nigeria’s precarious situation till date. No thanks to these two soldiers! You will agree with me that, a belligerent Nigeria is what this present arrangement (a too powerful central government plus a multi-coloured system of government) has turned Nigeria into. I would have preferred to see a more united and purposeful Nigeria entrenched in the principle of egalitarianism but with this present arrangement? No way! I would rather be a staunch supporter of a bloodless divided Nigeria; I believe Nigeria can divide peacefully! What many emotional-laden Nigerians have failed to understand is that we only practiced with regionalism that favoured federalism for 6 years, if we had stay a little longer with it, by now we (as a Nation) would have been the “real giant of Africa” and a force to be reckoned with economically in the comity of nations! |
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? Are you losing it? For spewing this putrid drivel out, if there is a Kingdom called DUMBOSCOLAND, you should be one of the slaves there! Next time before playing on those keyboards with your scraggy or pudgy fingers (whichever one you have), why don’t you pause and ponder on the following self-examined questions; Can I defend what I am about to type? Do I know more than everybody? Am I an authority on this topic? Can I really argue convincingly if this thread goes out of hand? Am I here to learn or to make a fool of myself? Please, this is a time for sober reflection, there are other sections here (Jokes, fashion, ethnic politics, etc) you can visit at will, it seems you are not wanted here. **nods head for olaheavy**