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God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

you are heaven sent. keep it up.

this is totally ur business. na fashion wan kill you

How islamic. WTF. Hang the culprits

posty56:
Jesus is Lord, it's called necrophilia, the sexual attraction to dead people, bro you need strong deliverance.

make una stop this naming of spiritual something.

necrophilia kor....
op u need serious deliverance

died having fun. quite heroic.

where is the first wife? dead or divorced?

ofcos we won't and that is because someone even worse would be the next president. that's the way it is

Abfinest007:
I perfer living homeless abroad than Nigeria .

so shall it be for you sir.

Too much hype about all these electric cars.

There is nothing wrong in arresting a person in church. What's wrong is arresting him while the service was on.

dre11:
https://dailypost.ng/2021/12/30/police-arrest-suspected-fraudster-for-luring-ladies-to-hotels-for-sex-robbery/


Lalasticlala

Criminal

ISREAL IS NOW A TERRORIST NATION

Great Move

dogooder:
Any achievements that the masses are not feeling the positive effects is not achievements.

LOUDER oooo. nonsense government

nduprincekc:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjmTHuNkGiE


This is getting out of hand


https://youtube.com/shorts/0DKoMuRoHAU?feature=share


God have mercy .

see as dem look like sacrifice

AdaAde:
Good day fellow Nigerians!

The term homosexuality is no longer something strange to our ears. It's popularity among Nigerians has risen to an alarming extent, with advocates for this 'strange' practice literally everywhere.

I read a post here on this platform, of a beautiful lady whose fiance was cheating on her with his fellow male specie. I can imagine her pain while thinking about a man dragging her man's penis with her!
There are also ladies who have strong sexual desires for their fellow gender, and I can't help but wonder if this trend is pathological, psychological, conformable, or probably justifiable, or even the work of village people.

What could possibly make me as a lady develop a strong emotional bond for another lady to the point of considering marriage with her

Should the LGBT community be supported, and encouraged to avoid brooding broken relationships and possibly marriages Or should they be actively shut and discouraged especially among we Nigerians?

If you've come across a Les or gay, or a bi do share your experience with us

na brain disorder actually

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

no big deal here. same thing men suffer from some women.

That's just humans for you

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

ku asedanu ooo . your reward is in heaven

ezegenigbonine:
Wetin carry christian enter this talk now eeeh?
Which religion have sex with minor pass for this country? You should think before u comment.

ssshhhhhhhhhhhuuuuutttttuuuuuppppp

FutureDecisions:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CYDfSxtLmXA/?utm_medium=copy_link

Lalasticlala

this one a muric pastor

nawa for these kain Christians ooo.

NwekeUG:
An American woman, Jayla Brenae, made her husband emotional when she made him realise that all his debts have been paid off, IgbereTV reports.

She shared a video of her surprising her husband on Boxing Day with gifts which included a shoe.

In the video, the man is seen unwrapping the gifts when he saw the shoe with the inscription; “debt free”.

Jayla proceeded to hand him a phone on which he watches a video clip confirming that she has paid off his student loan debt.

On realising what his wife had done, the man became teary-eyed and was overwhelmed with emotion.

She wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CX7RZXDjFNd/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

See video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9orbwohZEnM

https://igberetvnews.com/1410667/woman-surprises-husband-paying-debt-photos-video/

chai na woman be this. Nat all these o-lo-shos wey no get anything pass fuk and pay service

Tumbulum:
Muric will soon respond. Shameless man.

but muslims know jesus is coming. you are just the dumb one. just as dumb as the so called MURIC

Young042galaxy:
No fewer than 15,049 nurses trained in Nigeria obtained licence to practise in the United Kingdom within a period of five years spanning from March 2017 to March 2021, The PUNCH has learnt.

This was disclosed in a report obtained from the Nursing and Midwifery Council of the UK on Tuesday in Abuja.

Our correspondent observed that Nigeria is the third highest country with foreign nurses in England coming after the Philippines and India.

The NMC is the UK body responsible for the registration of professionals eligible to practise in the UK. The body also investigates concerns about nurses, midwives and nursing associates.

In the report, the NMC said, “The number of people on the permanent register in England who trained outside the European Economic Area continues to grow. As of March 2017, the body stated that 2,670 Nigerian nurses registered on the register. In March 2018, the body noted that 2,678 registered between March 2017 and March 2018.

“March 2019 saw a record of 2,771 while the number of nurses who registered between March 2019 and March 2020 increased to 3,205. Within this period, the body noted that it opened a temporary COVID-19 register to accommodate nurses willing to practise.”
Alhough the body did not state the number of Nigerian nurses on the temporary COVID-19 register, it stated that between March 2020 and March 2021, a total of 3,725 Nigerian nurses registered and were granted licenses.
The PUNCH reports that on the list, Nigeria comes third in the list of foreign countries with nurses practicing in the UK coming after The Philippines and India.

The PUNCH reports that the Nigerian health sector is currently facing challenges in the area of brain drain as medical doctors and other health workers have continued to migrate over the years due to what experts tagged as “unfavorable” working conditions.

Copyright PUNCH.
https://punchng.com/15049-nigerian-nurses-move-to-uk-in-five-years/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1640743463

intangible. can more leave please? we too much here

Jillbabs:
Victoria Elliot, the wife of Nollywood actor and politician, Desmond Elliot, has allegedly caught him in bed cheating on her with Ghanaian actress, Lydia Forson.

Popular blogger, Cutie Juls made the allegation in a post on Instagram after the couple took to their social media pages to celebrate their 18th wedding anniversary.

Cutie Juls alleged that Desmond Elliot had been cheating on his wife with Lydia Forson who used to sleep in the best hotels whenever she visited the actor in Nigeria on a fully sponsored trip.

The blogger also claimed that the lawmaker caused his wife to go through a lot of trauma after she caught them in bed with the actress who was his side chick.

https://www.mynigeria.com/NigeriaHomePage/entertainment/Actor-Desmond-Elliot-s-wife-allegedly-caught-him-in-bed-with-Ghanaian-actress-Lydia-Forson-510232

Alhaji Desmond Elliot.

But what's bad in this really? xtianity promotes sidechickism and babymamarism

OLAADEGBU:
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chai buhari oooo

citywal:
Good evening, I am a guy and in my late Twenties. For my age I think I am just too slim because I see people my age and the are bigger and more mature than I am.

It's affecting me n I wish to get a solution, I eat well tho I work alot tho but is there a drug I can take?

Doctors in the house help.

heya. sorry ooo. go to a vulcanizer so they can blow u up

BadRadio:
Just find a lady that's goal oriented, a supportive woman, a visionary, an independent woman with good manners and culinary skills... a graduate perhaps and get married. Stop checking for virginity and body counts.... just get married !!!

It is fair to say that you may have defiled and abused your countless ex's, but they are now married, If the guys who married them were scouting for virgins or were checking body counts like you are doing now then all the ladies in the world will grow old without getting married.


Goan marry joor !!!

this is supposed to be motivation for all those ocean wide pucis out there right? that there is hope

this script ehn.

but don't take women too seriously anyway.

cutecommend:
Looking for a decent girl today is not as so easy. We have decent and God-fearing ladies, and we have many ladies who have sex. Before you meet your wife, she might have had several sexual partners, probably met bad guys, probably done lots of bad stuff.... You will just have to close your eyes, ignore the past and move to marry her like that...

smh. All the best.

Please come back to NL and tell us your experience after marrying olosho.

Your type dey sabi swim inside deep wide pool full of STIs and STDs.


OP this thread is for simps like you.

https://www.nairaland.com/6912793/men-womans-body-count-does

yanabasee2:
So they should've looted the items?



The mentality that we exhume as Nigeria is the reason our leaders are misguiding us....


Seems we're only good at destroying other people's wealth....



Do you think that you'd get rich by looting those items?

The guy is an eediot.