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pennytration:
No rule has been broken

You broke rules 2, 8, 20 and 21.

Let the SS militants continue to drive oil production to Zero so that Buhari would device another means to sustain his parasitic idea of a One Nigeria, where the camels in the North fold their arms and wait for monthly allocation from crude oil exploited from ecologically ravaged territories of the SS and SE.

There's nowhere in the world where people are forced to remain in one nation. Before Nigeria evolved, there were ethnic nationalities. There were great kingdoms.

The only thing that would make Smalling agree to leave United for Arsenal for a lesser pay is if you wouldn't relegate him to the boring bench! This is what Buhari is doing to the SS and SE while chanting Sai One Naijeriya like a man high on Super Glue.

Don't tell me our unity isn't negotiable because of the crude oil you get from my backyard. Tell me something else. Tell me why you are afraid of fiscal federalism, frail failure-prone certificateless Dullard of Daura!

RadicallyBlunt:
Hmm. I love this topic. Wish lalasticlala would FP it cuz it will showcase what many ppl are going thru in dia homes and why they love one parent than the other or vice versa

In my own case I'm d only child of parents and they're not 2gether. My dad left for anoda woman since I was a baby claiming that my mother's rigidity is unbearable. It is that unbearably rigid mother that raised me alone. There was no such thing as pampering, its d last thing u would see here. Flogging to bleeding point, going to bed hungry at night and hungry to sch d next day were part of the punishments that my childhood was full of even though we had enough food at home. To play with my peers was a taboo. That's to mention a few

Men tried to approach but her heart is hardened and she's been single since then. My maternal uncle and aunts left us alone cuz of her wahala and I'm not too close my paternal ones. I have to relate with certain family friends and my dad without her knowledge just for peace sake.

Men means nothing to her and she even threaten them on little mistakes cuz she works with d force. Her work is anoda issue I don't like telling ppl abt cuz ppl generally think all 'only child' are mommy's pet but hers is different she doesn't spend or gives me much believing that she'll loose all her investment on me to my dad. Yet me on my own part don't want to be familiar with my dad's family for now cuz I don't trust my stepmum over my life since I'm d only one for my mum who doesn't even value me. To even have a battered ego from a masculine and domineering mother is another life topic on its own. Although now she fears my strong level of control and she respects me for that even tho we have our differences.

So my dear, praying to marry a wife with same character as my mum is d last thing I would ever do. I really love her but I can't go thru psycho-emotional hell again with a woman. All I want is a lively and tender lady to live happily and share my love with. Else I'll stay single in peace bcus I have serious antagonistic and attacking instinct against choleric women who think they're tough and feminist. I can kill dem if I'm chanced. They're best my friend than being my spouse

Touching story. God will grant your heart desires.

For a guy, seeking for your mum's type could be daunting. Question is, did your dad seek for his own mum's type for marriage?

Chart your own course. Create your own destiny. No two persons can be alike

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kizyalex10:
some are against the slap.for me,i might even push her off when the car is moving.

You know one thing about violence? Nobody holds a monopoly to it. That same weak woman you push off a moving car would stab you in the neck in your sleep after sex, or poison that delicious egusi soup she would prepare for you three weeks later after "reconciliation"...

Be wise.

There are 101 ways to discipline a woman other than hitting her.

1) What the girl said and did were wrong and embarrassing
2) The guy was wrong to have slapped her.
3) A man must resist the urge to hit a woman, it's a very terrible thing to do- might result in more grievous physical assault or even murder in the future
4) Ladies control your tongues.
5) Guys control your temper.

Medunah:
If he had parked and told her to get out of his car and zoom off leaving her dere, would he have died??

Cos tell me, if it had being his fellow man or a lady stronger than him insulting him, would he have slapped him/her??
Why to guys tend to go physical on ladies weaker than them??

Just so you know there are women who have done worse and the partners handled it other ways than being physical.....she is not your child, you don't correct her by beating her, if he slaps her today for doing this, wat will he do when she does worse Turn her to a punching bag??
I am not justifying what she did but he should av kept his hands in check.

PS: I never said what she did was right!! Whatever it is she did still doesn't justify him going physical

My dear I agree with you on this. If I were to be in that guy's position, I would simply ask her to exit the car, in a strong voice she'd know I'm very angry.

Whenever a guy raises his hands on ANY woman, it's a bad omen for the future. Homicide could be lurking somewhere in the marital future...

Aviero:
These days, guys don't offer unsolicited help to ladies.. naaah..
Kunle for that matter. Ahhh!

You are speaking for yourself.

ebohstepn:
Tell that to the females. OP is a he not a she. Just advising the ladies.

*post modified. Thanks for pointing that out.

TrapQueen77:
damn! Tat nose is a killer...even Ur 10km away, she already can smell Ur perfume.

Who nose the app that was used to photoshop this nose?

As soon as ladies clock 30 going to 35 and approaching 38, they would grab any of those men you listed with open arms and glory to Jesus for answering your prayers and fasting... At that point they would remember the old saying that a woman is a flower, blossoms in the morning; withers in the evening.

falconey:



[size=20pt] so because he said he love you, he has to buy you gifts .....is 4th of July your birthday ? [/size]

Classic.

Fourwinds:
some girls need their brains washed in HYPO...


how do some pple even reason self....very irritating

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MissRike:
Did he tell you to wish him a "happy 4th of July"? Although, some of them are stingy but, that's not a smart approach dear.

God bless you dear. You are one of the few ladies who have spoken the truth. Check back in 10 years time and see where ladies with op's type of mentality would be..

A lot would be in Pentecostal churches fasting and praying... By then "there time don pass".

abbeyology88:
Kai! Ladiessss, Ladiessss!!

First, u use ur mouth to call a guy small boy and u already fallin 4him (u gotta tel me ur age.

Second, it means u have boifrnd, but since no ring on it yet, u are stil single. Hmn I concur wit u. But if ur BF say d same, dnt lemme hear say u call him a cheat.

Third, u and a small boy dey play blind love (distance) and u just wished him (whatever) so 'cos u didn't get anythang 4rm him he has bcom stingy? Wat if he (d small boy) was d one who askd u 4 sex just lik dat, would u go and spread da HOT CAKE for him jst lik dat? ? Hehn?

Pls, OP, u hav not said anytin dat has to do wi a guy being stingy.

I even tot ur real BF who has eaten ur Hot Cake and has refused to spend on u.

*abeg correct urself joor*

*stingy ko, kongi ni*

Ladies kai, nawa Ooooh

-She calls him a small boi
-she claims to have a bf
-behind her bf's back, she's busy romancing "mr small boi" -a confirmed Aristo babe!
-she's eyeing "mr small boi" because he's in Yankee (hard currency)
-would she not eventually open her two legs for "mr small boi" when he displays "generosity" and returns to Naija?

I see 2 things from all of the above:

1) POVERTY
2) FAILED RELATIONSHIP

guente02:
Op is confused

What an understatement!

tobe4real:
What in the freaking world is wrong with naija girls?is it cos of the economic crunch?a curse or an epidemic of some sort that has gone viral?why do you pple always look for every opportunity to ask for money or gifts?thats how one thief that i was liking last year told me her birthday was in 2 weeks I tried to get her something really nice,on her birthday day i was surprised she didn't say anything about birthday on her status or dp,i just felt ok maybe this one is a low key babe only for her to do this some months later on her real birthday day,i was just perplexed and confused as why a person will lie about that.look i'm sure no girl in yankee will ask their boyfriends or husbands for a gift on independence day,its your greedy ass thats thousands of miles away that is asking.smh

Don't be surprised, op's reputation precedes her current post- see her old posts. Some Naija babes are really mature and understanding. This one here na kolomental product of failed relationship, old-woman-with-a-kid's-mentality (my apologies to children above 4). Smh what a mentality!

ajokeade920:
come on gurl....,u only wished him#happy july 4th# i mean there are sensible ways you can request for sumtin frm a guy who admires you.# bsmart#

Smh, your fellow gurl reasoning like a tata. Thank God for matured minds like yours otherwise I almost concluded that NL ladies are off-key. She go tay for house!

LordZero:
[color=#F70D1A] OP, something must be wrong with you. wtf is special about 4th of July?
you should have greeted him on April 1 and ask him for fool's gift..



get a life please and stop making yourself a burden..[/color]

If you are a psychiatrist, don't be surprised when you read posts like this. Read her old posts and get your own inferences. She's not ok.

ronald4ever:
Did he tell you he was celebrating 4th July or today is a remarkable day to him?

Shameless parasite, why should he give you anything even if today was of any significance to him?

Posts like this gives you a clue to what terrible things go on in her mind. Imagine how a young (young?) woman wakes up in the morning to label a guy as "stingy". Later somebodi go put her for house say e don marry wife. Smh.

stupidity:
Ok, so I was driving down to festac town from oshodi, I was bored as hell inside the car being alone. So I met this wonderfully blessed lady front-wise and back-wise. I stopped the car infront of her and ask where's upto, it happened she was going to second rainbow not far from my destination. We chatted a little while driving, On getting to second rainbow, I peacefully, amicably and jejely requested for her contact. Can you all imagine this lady refused. I thought it was a joking stuff, I asked again, she said the same thing and even added "I have a man already"..

I wound up the glass, and put on my shade then looked for the nearest "turn" back to oshodi. She was asking me "what are you doing?? I just form deaf for her. We got to oshodi and dropped her off. She stood there cursing her self,(not me).


Orishirishi, common phone number, what if I had asked for her pvnny??


I just dey vex this evening.

Your action, mentality and everything that you did to that lady is TOTALLY WRONG AND WICKED! That you gave her a lift does not mean that she owes you a right to her life and privacy! She could be somebody's wife or girlfriend. She's not cheap!

Whatever curse she lays on you for wasting her time -on the round trip- heaven would stamp it. You better grow up. By the way, how many GUYS have you ever given a lift? One day you would end up giving a mermaid/agent a lift and your life would change forever!

ernesty20:
kid

So this is the attitude you want to use to canvass for votes? Speaking rudely to the people you meet (whom you don't even know)?

Well, if millions of Nigerians could vote in a certificateless former coup plotter, I wouldn't be surprised if 2 or 3 NLers give you their votes.

Ride on!

Some Nigerian media would write that nobody died, you know why? Brown envelope.

Hunger can make you write things.

MightyPee:
hmm, so you mean to say if this facilities are in rural areas there wouldn't be gain in return? nowadays our browsing needs to connect faster than before like the days of Java phones, I think no matter the cost there should be 3G on (*at least 89%) their mast, like the ones installed without 8t should be upgraded. this 2G is becoming too slow to like, I can't open some apps like instagram, play store, snap chat, et al. when in my home town, but what do I know? like I said, I am here to learn.

One word: economics.

ernesty20:
get out boy. Without u I can win

You've just dared me. Time would tell.

ernesty20:
how did i write it? U go school at all? U know what?


Gerrout

You can't win with this type of rude attitude. You have to show some maturity with the way you respond to people.

MightyPee:
I am here to learn why the rural areas or densely populated areas in Nigeria don't get 3G or above only 2G? even when some big towns or some city sides are left out.

The reason has to do with economics. These 3G and 4G facilities cost a whole lot, so the gsm companies are doing it in batches, one after the other, beginning from areas with the highest economic/commercial potential to the least. Remember that the sole purpose of any company is to make profit; they don't have to burn their financial fingers by trying to satisfy all subscribers at the same time.

oluwatosin400:
Awwwww ...Why do people look down on Disabled people in some parts of the world? not fair!

Awwwww! So kind of AY displaying a human face in a world where some people who ain't sh1t walk around in their imaginary high horses and wouldn't even listen to physically sound people, not to talk of physically challenged ones.

Proud zeroes versus humble heroes. God surely humbles the proud and exalts the humble! God bless AY.

africanb:
Days are too busy, hours are too few, seconds are too fast, but there is always time for me to ask: How R U? and Hope u are FINE. MISS U, and LUV U.

It means exactly what it says na:

Are days not busy?
Are hours not few, only 24?
Are seconds not too fast? Just now now now 60 seconds are gone fiam!
But is she not creating time to say she misses and loves you? Of course she does.

If my explanation is not enough please ask Alhaji Google. But don't tell him you are looking for "another thing" apart from just the meaning of those words.

I'm sure your school-daughter (whatever that means) is still a child, so protect her!