₦airaland Forum

Tob456:
Hey guys, my ex girlfriend is 7 months pregnant. She doesn't want to have anything to do with me cos I didn't want to carry the responsibility of her four sisters.

She is 24 orphen and the oldest of seven children. She is a fruit seller and the pregnancy wasn't plan she took in 6 months into the relationship but I have accepted the responsibility and I wanted to make her my wife.

First of all I wanted us to discussed about her sisters living arrangements after the wedding and she said she wanted to bring all four who are under 18 to live with us after the wedding and I rejected.

I suggested that the youngest two can live with us while the other two can stay with the aunty but she refused.

She said the relationship was over and she doesn't need me in her life that she will take care of the baby alone.

I've told her even if she doesn't want me in her life anymore she should not stop me from helping her financially because I want our baby to be born in good condition but she refused.

Last week I sent 30k to her account for baby stuffs and she sent the money back to me saying she doesn't need a kobo from me she will take care of the baby alone.

I want to leave her alone but it is hard for me to do so cos she is carrying my child. It will not be easy for me to give up easily I just want to be a part of my daughter life. What do you guys think please?

Do nothing. Broke people are like that. This is just the beginning ooo. Her plan worked.

Lol…..are we not truly backward?

thebosstrevor1:
Peter obi has perfected the strategy of how to get sympathy from average joes if you are wealthy.

1. Carry your bag by yourself.
2. Fly economy class
3. Always discuss with the average joe
4. Wear the same type of clothes and shoes
5. Sit among the average joes even if you given a high table
6. Always take pictures with them.

Results = the average joe will think you are humble and a good person.

Almost everything about your post is about Peter Obi.

Ebenman:
Firstly, I typed with a tiny phone.
Secondly, I typed the content very late.
Thirdly, I never claimed to be a native speaker, so English is not my first language.

I don't mind if you can sponsor me to Oxford University, where you learn English as a native language.

You must not read to ever comment. You your head very well, nothing as horrible as settling down with the wrong lady.

Emmanuel909090:
In a sane country this guy and his urchins will be arrested, his is promoting nudity. Won't kids attend?

Mention one of such sane country let's see.

Madness

A tribe is getting ready to make that mistake!

GodsOwnMan:
That maybe true but he is still far better than a 3rd class graduate with no record of meaningful governing achievements. The point I am trying to get over to you is that Nigeria is at a cross roads and we need someone with a proven record of effective governance through development and meaningful inniatives. voting a slow minded failure of a governor at this crucial point will only make things far worse than they currently are.

He didn't graduate with a 3rd class.
He has a certificate.
Sense is indeed scarce here.

Nigeria was one of the favourite to qualify for world cup......what happened?

Laggafin:
Why make him look bit younger in de coin.. he's an old KiNG.. period

Which is a blessing. We pray to get old and pass on the baton gallantly!

obembet:
I believe we still have many good Nigerians who can judge this matter

If Banana grows like this and enter your compound, are you the owner or your neighbor?

This can be funny as it has both traditional and legal implications.
If your lawyer can prove you own the air right, it is yours.
If the claimant (either state/farmer) can prove you only own the land not air right, you can be prosecuted since the root is not planted in your land.
It the farmer/owner is fetish and you have no back up.....sorry!

And you think you can stand the pressure inside Aso rock abi?

To say what exactly?

This man is lucky he didn't try this rubbish Finland.

Sirseedorf:
I feel weak, terrible and hopeless. I lost my job today due to management change of system, I never saw it coming, in fact it came as a shock to me. Am just confused on what to do next, I have huge responsibility ahead of me, even now, I have to find something doing or else negative thought and depression will kill me faster than gunshots. I can't cry out physically but inside I feel pain as if a knife as pierce my heart, my self esteem is weak, my life is heading on a rock, I don't bet, never drink nor womanize, I just want a better life for myself, but it seems better life might never be achieved while still leaving with joblessness and failure status.
Help me nairalander, I don't know what might become of me in the next few days or weeks.

Welcome to life bro. You will get over this but also be ready for the next hurdle.
Remember to raise a worship.....creation awaits in earnest anticipation.

Atiku just threatened them to say something or get axed!
Lol.....we know

Aturu!
Congrats son.

N3TRAL:
Obi doesn't know what green energy means so his cut and join certificate doesn't surprise me.

Obi would not be able to debate comfortably against JSS1 kids.

Argue with the video of Obi disgracing himself when he was asked a question below.

How will a GCE holder end ASUU strike? God forbid bad thing!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=62ePU-selWQ

Obi cannot provide answers to everything. Nobody can.
Whoever gets the vote to move into Aso rock will need our support.
Spread love not hate!

Throwback:
Yekpaaa!

Really Obi is a cunning hypocrite ooo.

So all this while Buhari and then Tinubu were being scrutinised, Obi just kept quiet knowing he had a skeleton in his own wardrobe.

Obi is a very dull boy. 3 days training in Egypt will not solve Nigeria's problem.

We the youths will vote wisely and vote on past performance.

We will not vote for a promise, especially coming from a desperate political prostitute who refused to die for APGA as promised.

2nd class lower in his era is almost the same as a first class in whatever Uni you are in.
Show your result and prove me wrong!

Kollins11:
If you're a lady, be it my wife or girlfriend, I would kindly advice you to stay away from my phone if you actually want to live long.

Contents and chats on my phone with other biitches will definitely send you to your early grave. No Jokes!

I have biitches sending me naked pictures & videos, I also have my own recorded sex tapes on my phone with different bitches (on agreement).

Every app on phone requires password and face ID to gain access. If I die today, you will only need to flash my phone and all the content will be gone.

This is just an iceberg of the Real me. So if you really want to live long as my wife/girlfriend kindly stay clear from my phone.

If you like hide your phone inside your kpekus, I don't care, I will never go through your phone. Just Respect my phone privacy that's all I'm asking.

Teens everywhere

10mobile:
See guts oh!

That was what education gave people back in the days. What we call education now is pathetic.

Oriaku is Bellyfull .. congrats!!!

Tinubu can be made Gombe Uni Pro Chancellor,
Atiku, Ebonyo State Uni whataver....

Lanretoye:
Always shooting his own leg,pele can do very well as the coach of the Brazilian national team cos of his experience,he will be able to select and organize good players too...translate that.

Even Sir Alex cannot redeem ManU.
Let's be honest at least once a day......only!

SpecialAdviser:
They are already developed as you said. What were they wearing at developing stage?

You don't know what all these madness we learn from advanced nations do to Nigeria.
How many youths can boast of having published a book before the age of 20?

Clubbing, yahoo, hook up, partying, tiktoking have taken over.

That's not the point. They attached and still attach relevance only on things that are worth it!
The only thing is when people are so attached to what they see, they blow it out of proportion.
That software developer with a tattoo or dreads or skimpy wear should not bother you.
Cleanse your inner self!

SpecialAdviser:
Good job. No nation can be built when the working class youths idle away and are distracted.

Go and see what they wear in DEVELOPED WEST!

RIP madam. Same people that advised that Osinachi should have left her husband but they stayed back.

Blackfire:


Deeper life

That one na church ?

As you can see, the man is evolving, but his members are caught up in the past

cmikel:
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OBI SEEMS LIKE A SYMBOL OF THE NEW NIGERIAN WE HAVE BEEN CRAVING FOR SINCE WE WERE BORN









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Sadly that's not the case. You need to go to LinkedIn and see educated professionals mortgaging their future because of silly ethnic crap.
I wish Nigeria the best come 2023.

cherishmichael:
That's why i said the story is not complete, and my sis or family members won't act that part of the story they omitted.

That's the funny thing, you have already written the script. It is well bro.
Your own will never be a victim in Jesus name but let love and empathy rule.

cherishmichael:
One side story, this can not just be the whole story, though he is wrong, but when something happens like this we should learn to know and relate from both sides. At the end , the diseased might be wrong and even be the cause.

If that was your sister, will you be speaking all this your grammar?

Which state is OK?
Mediocrity is a disease.