BrightestFuture:
Am so depressed. I just masturbated and i am now feeling guilty. I want to stop it but the urge just comes sometimes. Won't i fail my exam now? There is really no hope of redemption for me, is there?

lefulefu:
some mothers do have them

Ekeletu:
This is deep. Lalasticlala come and hear this. This is a misogynist misandrist hiding under the umbrella of church.

hadisvisual:
Please, if you don't have means of identification, Facebook profile, phone number, bank details with names tallying with each other, please don't contact me. Thank you.

Those sending different names from their bank details are already discouraging me.

zedegit:


Timidity abi hypocrisy wont allow them talk about it?

Why are they marrying then. There are cogent things to discuss before marriage.


If you like sex, simply ask her, babe can you cope with satisfying me sexually?


Very simple.

stanliwise:
I wrote those things long ago until I no longer follow the redpill theories. So quote all you want. I have never advice anyone to be a SIMP but I will not advise anyone to be a redpill also.
“The truth“ Neil Strauss told me.

Also dont quote me I have warned you

Jerkbaba:
Let me get something straight! Girls are opportunists. They like to take advantage of every situation they find themselves. Especially Nigerian girls, they're very greedy naturally. That's why you can see one pretty girl dating up to 6 guys just to get free gifts and free food from dates! Emotional guys always fall the victims to this types of scenarios! They're the types to just see a girl today and gbam! they're already going crazy for that girl that instant! They start spending hard earned cash on the useless girl. It's only weak emotions that cause that! First of all, you should never take a girl on dates or buy her gifts until fully convinced that she's really into you and puts some efforts in showing that she really likes you! You see, girls are more emotional than guy but they're emotionally smarter and that's what gives them the edge! They know letting their emotions out come at a great cost so they quickly become smart with it and control it the best possible way! That's why a girl dying for you and wanting to be with you will hardly show any emotion and rather wait for that guy to start chasing her up and down and desperately wanting a relationship! Girls love using men as their slaves! They make sure their egos stay untouched while the guys own is going down the drain! They make sure you make a fool out of yourself while they make fun of you to their friends and say things like "this guy is not my type, should I just give him a chance?", Even when they're the ones wanting you crazy! There's nothing special about these girls in any way! Just learn to control your Emotions and copy everything they do and you're good to go! Never fool yourself for any female in your life! You don't deserve that kind of humiliation!

CAPSLOCKED:


IF YOU ACTUALLY "WORK" TO "EARN" MONEY YOU'LL NOT CALL A SINGLE NAIRA "ORDINARY". THOSE THAT USE THE WORD ARE MOSTLY THOSE THAT GET FREE THINGS. SO IF 75K IS ORDINARY TO YOU, CAN YOU SEND IT TO ME?

ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be fvcking the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

ModestGal:

I didn't disagree with you, you are very correct. The problem is that we have lesser number of people that actually care, like 1% of the Nigerian population. For instance, I feel so lonely because non of my agemates or anyone that I know would even wanna listen to this (I'm in my early twenties by the way). Also, I feel I'm the only one in a street I recently stay in Lagos that do not litter the floor with nylons and papers, so it doesn't make any difference, the street will always be dirty, no matter how much I don't litter. So its not like they are not doing their parts and just talking, but we are just too few to make any noticeable difference

Nairalandmonika:

While u may be right I don't totally agree with u. Will you tell a son to love his abusive father, a father that almost got him blind and almost got his sister killed due to numerous beating all in the name of discipline.

A father that beats up his wife n children and u expect the children to live the father more.

See sometimes u need to think deep, there are reasons people do the things they do.

ekoson95:
Am I the only one not understanding what the OP's point is?

UDUJ:
Nothing hurts more in this life than the realization that someone else has been seriously pounding, digging and lashing your wife. Men that hurts.

Sometimes in your alone time, you just start imagining the way your wife was moaning while the dude or dudes were pounding away and she keeps shouting HARDER-HARDER-DEEPER-DEEPER, damn

paulolee:
Become the president of naija so i go treat all dose our leaders fckup, both dead and alive...

damesilver:
Every pleasure has its own place and time, as well as their limitations. None can replace the other.

olaboy1:
Guys listen!!!! The bitter truth is women only want the top 10% of men with very high LMS (looks, money and status), they only use the rest 90% to kill boredom and get their financial needs met. If you don’t belong to the top 10%, you have no business falling in love with a woman....stop wasting your time and resources.

Stay away and let them hit you up when they are super Hot and ready to smash.

nuelsam:
very interesting thread....one thing I'll forever be grateful to the internet for ....I learnt how this hoes are wired at a very early age.. massive dub!

SeunDobo:
thank you for this .. I have already be a simp in the past that girl told me if I can be paying some of her bill say na most of this boys they Carter for needed that's she's is from poor family ... imagine this girl come from poor ground and still dey slay person wey suppose dey manage ... na so I started paying her bills , buy her phone ,wears and shoes... what's bafffing me is that can you believe this stupid girl don't save my number on that phone I myself bought for her , na me dey do subscription for her monthly and she's no dey reply me on WhatsApp ..she no even dey follow me chat too ... before I know say I am just Assistance boyfriend to her finances her situation ..God punish Lola for making me a fool., cuz I love her that much 4 years ago .. My brother don't be confuse with your Age if you are older than a woman she can still manipulate you am 26 years and she is 22years

Audiodonation:
I am married at the age of 29 as a Banker.

Nothing in my account.
Debt everywhere
No rented house
Was squatting with my friend
Yet my wife said she would marry me, as her name Grace will speak for me. (Na only once my woman don straf in her entire life).

One week into our agreement and commitment of been together forever....... I got a deal of 178,000 been my commission for a purchase of a car.... Na so I rent and moved into my own rented apartment. (I didn't mention that d guy who accommodated me gave me 3 days to leave with my wife), and my miracle happened with a space of a day and d second day I moved out.......

I am happily married, own 3 cars now, a 4bedroom bungalow in Lagos(Dopemu), a father of one and now an SBO in an old generation bank. .
(Started)Nov 2016 - April 2019(Achieved all).








All these stories are not to show off, but to let you know you can start from scratch; from somewhere......... Once you marry/see your own woman (Wife) you will know.......... No pastor, prophet or prayer needed.......



Just start from somewhere....

ibkonekt:


Unfortunately i do not assume, women are wh0res by nature and history prooves this fact. anytime a woman faces a challenge or crisis the only thing she does (95% of the time) is to sell her vagina to the higgest bidder...any book that recorded history has this repeat itself over and over. i do not use shaming tactics on women, this is what women do in times of crisis. the only value of a woman is her vagina. women have never contributed anything worthy to civilization or progress mankind as a people except their vagina. if a woman is not a virgin she is a useless wh0re of Babylon and only fit to be used as a mistress and not a wife or girlfriend. the only person that should marry her is the person that disvirgined her.
men on the other hand are babarians by nature and not civil...this is objective reality and nature.
on the other hand you said these things about men that say things you dont like about women
broke = assumptions (because you do not know their value)
bittermen= assumptions (because you do not like what they say and it sounds true so you are bitter that he dared to say it openly)
not making sense = this is relative (personally it makes sense because this is what women always respond to in real life...wome are wh0res)
stingy= high value men only care for priceless virgins, if another man has put his manhood in your vagina, then go marry him dont market used us vagina to a high value man, give that to a simp
create yeye thread= men will create more threads in order to educated men of female nature and their wh0ring ways, the indoctrination that hollywood and disney movies caused will be removed and men will be better for it.
women are only useful for their vagina, history is the proof not assumptions

ubunja:
a male slut.

A man who uses his resources to benefit women getting nothing back but only a good feeling of being a gentleman and he's okay with that. He's the male version of a hoe.

properties4sale:
Hi All,

Just a brief intro, I'm a young man in my early 30's , I resided and grew up in Nigeria, I only migrated from Nigeria to Europe just last year.
To be honest people, since i migrated, and even before i did, i have gotten to witness the very sharp and vast contrast between blacks and caucasians, the contrast is so marked. The whites just know what to do and does it, obeys simple layed out laws, they don't necessarily need the police to tell them what to do, the people just make conscious effort to be law abiding, obey laid out rules, and try to be considerate so what they do doesn't adversely affect their neighbours, so conscious of their environment, and very educated about the simple basics of life.
I witnessed a scenario where someone collapsed, immediately bystanders around checked his response, when they got known, cardiac compression started and simple attempts at resuscitation, Immediately the ambulance arrived, everyone hands off and allowed the paramedics continue what they are trained to do.

Alas, in Nigeria and by extension Africa, it's a sharp contrast, we can not even rule ourselves, nobody wants to obey simple laid out laws, everyone is out with the primal instincts of just eating large at the expense of others, mindless of how their actions affects the other man (primal instincts exhibited by monkeys and chimpanzees), very low IQ (intelligent quotient) and mentality, as simple as basic resuscitation we are unaware about, if someone collapses u see various people, pouring them water, slapping them, some using hot oil, raising their legs, opening their mouth, as simple as the basics of resuscitation we are unaware, surprisingly most of this people claim to be educated., u see others praying and speaking in ridiculous tongues even they don't understand what it means and expect it to "heal" someone, quite bizarre ,it will be an absurdity to witness such here, can't even imagine it.

My question.

Why are blacks so backward with very low mentality.


Addendum: It is believed black race is the progenitor of human race(according to science), and evolution resulted in other races, is it possible that consequent of that, our race is closely tied to the Neanderthals and we reason and think like them as opposed to other races?.

BigJoe19:
What percentage of Nigerian men are on Nairaland, maybe 0.5%, the revolution starts here. The effect won't be felt in the society until decades after, even on Nairaland 90% of men are still simps.

So chill, no dey carry red pillers matter for head, you can be a simp that is your problem.