adioolayi:
You see why you need to take good care of yourself and enjoy the fruits of your hard earned labour while you are alive

If you like, amass the entire wealth of this world....You will not sleep on more than a bed at a time, be in more than a room, a car at a time. You won't wear more than a pair of shoe, a set of cloth at a time...you can have varieties of food choices, but you can't take more than what your belly allow ...Why the hell is the unending rush for this things, especially, when God has blessed you beyond average Just relax and enjoy...no kill yourself!!!

The dead body is still at the morgue ....and this is what he deserve after toiling day and night to better the life of his family

nedekid:

Not necessarily. Times are hard in this Sai baba regime. I know a very young lady with a baby. Her husband earns 40k. He spends more than 1k per day on transportation to work. He has to feed also. He pay rent. She says he gives her ₦400 a day for she and baby.
At the end of the month, there is high deficit.

Deolaw:


It takes you nothing to dust it before taking the picture? Presentation matters.

Ijawboy:
Lately I have been scouting for a 2 bedroom apartment in Ibadan for residential use.
See what a greedy Real Estate Agent charged me for a 2 bedroom apartment in Oluyole estate, here in Ibadan:

Rent - N700,000
Agency fee @ 20% = N140,000
Legal fee @ 10% = N70,000
Caution deposit =N70,000

Just imagine being asked to pay N980,000 due to sheer greed of this Estate agents in collusion with greedy landlords☹️

Unfortunately, this is the norm out here as other agents I spoke to were not any different.

Kindly share your experience with Ibadan Real Estate agents or even their greedy colleagues in other states and how you handled them.

bigpicture001:
Money want to kee my gf ok.. just because she chose to do the right thing and reduce her profiteering in her medical lab field...

She lowered the cost of her diagnosis by almost half.. e g.. everyone does malaria and thyphiod for 1500, sh does for 700.. her pregnancy test is just 500 and full blood count etc all is very cheap..

You might think she doesn't gain.. now her place is like the full community government lab.. she takes home a minimum 70k daily.. while all our other labs takes less than 20k home daily..

Just try to be different from The excess profiteering gang whilst still being on profit... She is just 27 and is worth about 21 million... Use ur brain.. don't join the train

Bigchristo:
That's because we Nigerians lack cooperation to speak in one vice and protest against any kind of extortion, so many of us are too proud to show they can afford it but dying in silent, Imagine the rise in cooking gas supposed to trigger serious protest if we live in a country were people corporate to voice out their grievances.

MrColdsweat:


We cannot fully identify our problems as men because we always look at each other through the eyes of masculinity.

Only women look at us from a different perspective but they would not tell us our problems which are beneficial to them.

Example, in your full life, how many women have openly admitted that men are slaves?

They kept shut for thousands of years, enjoying men's servitude. Presently they are liberated, but they still enjoy the benefits of masculinity and they do not speak against it.

Feminists want equal rights but do they speak against men's slavery to women? How many female soldiers or police officers have died protecting society?

A feminist will not tell you that a man is a slave because your eyes could be open and you won't be of use to her. She will instead tell you what women are suffering.

Women will call you all sweet, ego-swelling names when you suffer for them so that you can endure and keep suffering for them. They will never tell men that men are suffering so that men will continue to suffer for them.

You see men brag that women are lesser beings, that women are this, that women are that. Infact, masculinity na just suffering and bragging full am.

women are smart, but do you see them brag about how smart they?

No.

They pretend to be dumb and weak just to give you the illusion that you are the head and the smarter one, so that you can fool yourself and slave for her.

And they have all impressively, collectively kept the slavery of men a secret for centuries.

These people are fvccking smarter than men and they pretend not to be, so that we can continue being slaves.

Only God knows what they would have done to us if they had our physical strength.

Magnoliaa:


[s]There's a difference between being involuntarily single and being intentionally single?

Mtcheeewww. E be like say this one never hear of family planning and contraceptives.

All these teenage pregnancies and associated 'menace' is only an issue in countries where there is a general aversion to sex education.

Do I even need to tell you that the abortion rate is low, very low in countries where they are legalised?

So, no. Sexually aware/educated women = sexually responsible women

Educated women = awareness and sound decisions when it comes to marriage and number of kids to have.

All those loneliness talks are just sham. And you can easily sell it to the women here because they don't know better.

The woke Nordic countries don't seem as degenerated as your beloved patriarchal and religious and values-filled Africa.

No woman's life will be destroyed because she's not hinged to a man in any way - whether through kids, marriage or a family.

Men are going their own way, yet they are the one shooting up women and stalking and raping them because of sexual rejection and rejection to relationships. For all of the bitterness y'all claim feminists have, how many of us are going out to shoot men because we can't find a date?

So, no. The lack of suitable partners for marriage will not both affect us, or affect us the same way and our responses to such will definitely not be the same.

Even here on Nairaland, call it pretentiousness, but you'll never know if some lady likes a guy, even back when the 'toasting threads' were a thing, you'll find women declaring their feelings for a guy. Let it be a man that likes a girl, he'll troll her to heaven and hell and back, shame the living daylight out of her and do all manners of despicable thing to her because he wants her attention.

The men that ask women out normally are the outliers. The women that shoot up men because of rejection are also outliers. So it is a big fat lie when y'all come up with the 'women don't take rejection well' line. No matter how hurt or pained she is, a rejected lady is hardly thinking of ways to meet a man on the road and rape him in revenge.

And just in case my point isn't clear up to this point: I'm saying the undesirability of men will not affect women (equally) provided the above conditions are met. That is basically all round education for women- sexually, financially, emotionally, mentally...etc.[/s]

jaelz:
So yesterday wey be chilling day we all know as e dey be as joli fellows now, as a man wey no dey dull I went to this bar around Asokoro / AYA round about yesterday evening to chill and hang out with my cousin while watching football ⚽.

But something happened that damped my spirit yesterday, a private lower rank soldier that was wearing a track down and his army vest yesterday came into the bar with whom I supposed was his girlfriend and sat down next to us, he was very close to me in particular while the girl was sitted at the other end, what struck me was that he told the bar man to bring peppered chicken two plates but make his own to be just only pepper and onions and to cover the top properly with saviet paper so the girl doesn't notice, then he should bring one five alive and one table water for him because him no too hold money for pocket.

This really shook me because i was surprised as to why he could not just ask the girl to take something cheaper so the both of them could enjoy or even tell her outrightly that he doesn't have enough money on him so she should support him or so?

You see we guys atimes are the architects of our misfortunes because we always try to please and form big boys at the front of our women, I always tell people that a woman that you can't tell you are down financially or can't occasionally assist you with the bills is a total no for me any day any time.

Guys go through alot from Uber for the girls, to paying bills at the chilling spot, to trying to make her happy throughout the whole period you are out with her, to protecting her and finally paying her Uber back home it's just too much for me to handle believe you me and I feel it's totally wrong.

Cc:MrColdSweat
Another food don land, Seems guys have started feeling the Heat In this perilous days
Reasonable Men must have sense by force by fire. I have always said this, Men are the cause of the most problems and solutions of the world. But they create "MORE PROBLEMS THAN SOLUTIONS" The other gender Is Just there like an Intermediary, more of like a dummy, Anywhere Belle Face & Where Breeze Blow Them Go. They are the ones truly enjoying Life while Men keep on Suffering themselves with their nonsensical egoistic nature lol......

maureensylvia:
Ok

chocboi78:
Bros na u dy talk dis kin thing?

Martinez39s:
Men will even betray, disparage, sabotage, ruin or kill their fellow man just because of women. They will even blindly believe, trust and support women even if it means throwing their fellow men under the bus.

However, you will usually see women moving as a herd and supporting each other against a man or to deceive him, whether they are right or not.

mmadu4:
so this my friend was gisting me how he fell inlove with a 13 year old from a movie is it possible he might be a pedophile ?

Op you are your friend werey, The gbas gbos will soon start. Be prepared and Enjoy your fatality.....

Daddyvibez:
Ever seen a first class n!gga with a useless brain?

Lol who dash you first class Oh you mean first class In gullibility. Abeg comot for road make I see front.....

Daddyvibez:
Warrisdisone saying

Elixirsblog:
Same way women are the greatest enemies of women.

it's human nature

Infolenka:
Only a blind, ignorant slowpoke would look at the world today and think women are suffering. I will slap any body that comes to tell me any rubbish about female oppression, gender discrimination or any of that bogus crap.

Nigerian females are the ones enjoying this country. Please let's exchange gender if you think being a woman is hard.

A typical Nigreria girl doesn't even have to work for anything. Just package yourself and you'll have guys spending on you for no reason other than the fact that you are a female. You don't even have to have sex with some of these guys and they are already sending thousands to your account.

There is not a single broke girl in Nigeria. This is a fact. All a Nigerian girl has to do is call one of the hundreds of guys disturbing her WhatsApp and in 10 to 15 minutes she's at least 20k richer

Men are the ones that are suffering the brunt of poverty and hardship in this country, while females are on a constant cruise back to back, day and night. Enjoyment things. Clubing and partying al night with someone's money.

All the average Nigerian girl thinks about is how to go out and have fun and how to buy the latest expensive things she's seen other girls buy on social media. She's not thinking of providing for family or spending on her partner or any of the other bullshit men have to deal with. She's not even thinking of ways to make money other than billing one of her rich boyfriends.

Fuçk this shit mehn.

leksite120:
(1) That no one truly love you, people want u because you've something to offer them in one way or the other, Except your MOTHER.

(2) People tends to appreciate what others have appreciated.
It's applicable even on nairaland, comments that have likes tends to increase more cause people would think since it has this much likes, then it must be something worthy

(3) Looks matter, the life is unfair already, that's how things work in this world, looks gives advantage to success.

(4) The worst betrayal is always from someone you hold dear most

(5) If you're rich , you'll have a say. A wise poor won't have a audience

Dheji2:


I had a gal who likes to fvck every day until one day we ended up doing 8 rounds overnight. The pu**y dried up but my KY jelly was handy. Then we did a round of anal. Anyway, I remember sleeping for more than 12 hours the next day but the babe couldn't walk properly for about 2 weeks after the event.

Of course, she never allowed me to do more than 2 rounds after the sweet-sour experience.

Joysticks:
Staged

motionarena:
Hi guys will like to know

Have you quit your job before because you where fed up and not necessarily because you found another place.

I am thinking of doing same would like to know from experience how did you cope before finding something else to do.

ogbenifamouz:
I worked in a certain hotel where I was used like slave, my working hours was 5:30am to 10pm extending to 2am at night after taking stock and reconciliating account, and it goes on in perpetually, after some 3weeks I borrow myself brain and used my legs to run as fast as I could...the funny part was dat I left the salary for them, can't kill myself

Soso990240:
I am about to quit mine. Those people dont have an organized way of running an organization. Imaging recruiting somebody with same certificate as mine and with no experience, then offering him a bigger pay than mine, while i have been complaining and lamenting for an increment. This is the height of injustice and wickedness.

Contango:


Very hard to say but let me narrate my own experience.

I resigned a six figures job for PTDF MSc overseas scholarship in the UK. The course was directly related to my discipline. Even though I met a lot of opposition to my decision to quit the job for masters, I still did because I knew that that was very much what I wanted. I was very much interested in the course and cared less if I had to struggle in the job market again...I even posted my dilemma here on naira land with a different moniker and most nairalanders adviced me against the msc except those that had gone abroad before

Thank God I didn’t listen to those telling me to continue with my job at that time.

On returning, I spent a year at home but within that period, I got three job offers. The one I eventually took pays roughly four times my previous job, plus Job security, oppotunities to travel out and other beautiful incentives.