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Golden147:
Good afternoon everyone..
Please I'm kindly in need of advice... ignore my typing ERROR..
There's this girl I love and I want to settle down with her. She's still in school while I'm still in school too. She's 22 while I'm 24 nd also in final YR and we both love each other..my mum has supported me to marry her.
I proposed to her and she said yes...I plan going her house next month next to start official martial rites but I'm afraid.
Here is my reasons

She's the only girl and the last daughter in a family of 5boys. Ever since we started dating, she's in 100l then, all her school burdens are on me..I take care of her and mine own...with this people around who knows about our RELATIONSHIP ask me to marry her to avoid story that touches the heart..which he has accepted , her mum nd dad have accepted it too.
My major concern about this girl is that those his brothers are not willing to do anything, istead the came asking me for small small money when I'm back, knowing fully I'm just dating thier sis....most times the my girl always feel ashamed of her brothers nd keep cursing them. The can't even call her on phone unless she calls them...nd the will keep asking why she didn't call them all this while knowing fully thier sister is in school nd not working.

I have thought about this over and over again, how do I marry from a family that can't even assist in anything...I know marriage is not always Rosy, what if something happens tomorrow nd I needed thier financial support..the can't render to me.
I discussed with my mum nd she told me I'm marrying thier sister who is well trained nd not the brother..that I can decide not to give them money again... But I'm very sad over this.
It's only the father and mum that acknowledge I hay been trying to see their sister through school expenses, including food and wears.
I discussed with my woman, she started crying, saying she knows her brothers are such a disgrace, telling me how she may commite sucide if I didn't marry her... She cried that she can't visits her house again... that her only hope will be to start prostitution which she can't see herself do that nd that's why she is going to commite sucide if I eventually leave her, all her social media handle is full with my picture, including her profile pictures.

Please what advice do you have for me.... should I let go of this girl, I don't mind letting go all I have already spent...I just want to make sure I won't regret the marriage tomorrow...I have already discussed with my mom nd we plan on going her house officially by August ending..but I'm still very worried.

Matured advice please

the truth is , no family you will marry that wont demand a dime from you. manage ur resources and be fair in your giving. they will lockup as soon as they realize you are not on the table to spoon feed their lazy grown ass. Dont let her suffer because of some irresponsible relatives.

Kosoco:
Very Unethical to tap his voice call.... That total invasion of his privacy..

you think this is nigeria abi. department of state/FBI even Police can actually get warrant to tap his call, especially when they can convince that he will try to pull shady move as per a NIgerian. you guyz have been so brainwashed that everytime ur bleeped up politicians or fraudulently connected kin are on trial u start shouting human right. even trump call was tapped. unethical ko, unjanjaweed ni.

to be candid , i dont really know ISWAP is a terrorist group until few weeks ago when this administration made them popular by rejoicing that bokoharam leader was killed by iswap. i thought they are a special tactical unit of the army that finally dealt with shakau.... the franchise war is just getting real now its about to get out of control . like play like play , north east is becoming a haven for international terrorist. greed, wickedness of our leaders is really destroying this country and the innocent is paying with their lives.

what kind of evasive instruction is that ? just say any herdsman or bandit or ipod or bokoharam carrying AK47 , why is he acting as if he is giving instruction in exclusion of certain sets of people . be specific. no wonder he kept contesting to become the president. whats the difrent between AGF interview and president interview , same mentality , same genocidal expression that says nigeria belong to housa/fulani any other tribe can decimate.

the people you govern says your government is a disaster.. who exactly are u governing na.... shameless disaster of a regim.

Bluntemperor:
I don get it?
Why did your would be employer asked you to come for an exam which you are' sure' is a repeated exam?.
- how were you so sure?
- how are you so sure that there are no major/ minor difference between the one they are asking you to take,which you deliberately refused and the earlier one you took?
- Assuming twenty of you had a success rate and your 'would be ' employer wanted to reduce your number to smaller number by given another test of same nature,yet in your judgement,you refused?
- As an incoming employee, put yourself at the Employer's feet,how do you feel if given instructions to you,you deliberately rejected such . Would you make a good Employee for such organization?
In every organization,Human Capital Development is a very sensitive unit of a bussiness and to avoid what is called a 'recruitment error' you may have to start all over again,if given the chance because wisdom should have prevailed before you answered in the negatives. Wish you the best.

DID YOU READ HIS EXPLANATION OR YOU JUST A PSYCHOPHANT WITH A DAWN SYNDROME. THE PAGE DOESN'T ALLOW HIM TO RETAKE THE DAMN EXAM. HE FORWARDED THE RESPONSE GOTTEN TO THE SAID MODERATOR OR HR PERSONEL THAT ASK HIM/HER TO RETAKE IT.... THATS HOW MAJORITY OF YOU JUMP TO DEFENCE WITHOUT EVEN READING TO UNDERSTAND BUT TO ATTACK...SMH

choose peace of mind over a nagging bad mouth woman.

jungle justice government... the government owe it to uphold and enforce the law in every circumstance something a learned deputy governor should know...... no matter what , if the protester truly commit a crime , they are suppose to be handed over to the police for prosecution not him bragging and encouraging jungle justice , the next time they got burn alive like the ALU 4 that will be on him......

i have never heard where economy grow amidst insecurity... one of the most crooked government in the world is this nigerian government under buhari. how can u judge an economy growth base on how comfortable terrorist and banditry thrive? mchew.

anyways no-one expect you to say otherwise sha.

1kinggy:
Send the pix of the dish. The elevation should be almost perpendicular (almost standing straight) looking at it from the side.

Boss , I don't know again poo but I know I want to get it myself...

1kinggy:
Try 11090 V 30000

That's the tp I input, it's green @82% but no station pops up.... Could it be LNB I tried and still got it gree but no channel still pops..it's frustrating.

dlollyboi:
If the channels are not coming up, increase your signal

Thanks boss, I have been able to increase it to 82 % but the channels still not piping , redoing blind scan now.... Is there a better way to catch it?? I added the sattalite name myself...could that be the problem?? I use srt 4940. Location is lokoja.

Please someone help me with the the required percentage for 51.5e I have catch it and it's green @75% , is there something I am doing wrong please help.

Please boss. I have srt4940. I cedted the sat on the list and put the tp and it green but after blinds canning , no channel comes up. Is there anything I can do to get this stations... The sat I was using to catch mbc just went blank. Please help

1kinggy:
Fox sport Africa
MBC Action
MBC2
Kidzone
CineFilm
Movies Africana
Beulah Movies
Area TV
&lix Action
TVC News
France24
AlJazeera
DW
Movies Now Action

And some other religious stations

this Government is so insensitive , greedy and corrupt with no single conscience .
what kind of country share job slot of 20k with politician? what happen to tranparency? what is even the business of legislator with job sef.... how did we get here .... and you wonder why u have to by job to get it .... what exactly the point of going to school when u cannot get a job base on merit except u go through a politician that probably using a fake result..... shame on mr integrity

please house , is there a sattalite that i can track cartoon for children atleast 2 or 3 cartoon station ....
and please i have search the thread for the process on how to track the 26 and 28.
please help with the positioning and the tp in a quick way. sorry please.

So that justifies why we should not ask for what happen to #13billion budget since 2015
ain't you ashamed to even type this no-sense ? your head should be checked sir. state house hospital that is suppose to give life support to n01 citizen doesn't have syringe, paracetamol and u think its politics.... the greed even pushed them to steal from there own life support... who will ever imagine a time like this will come when there will be nowhere to run to.

ddippset:
APC?

Why only APC? What about PDP?


See the problem?

Politics with everything.

Was Aso Rock Clinic built in 2015?


PDP were budgeting monies annually for the same clinic for 16 years.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Everyone deserves a second chance
For all those insulting me
i won't blame you
Because Humans hate what they understand


Even shaytan (devil) deserves a second chance

tell that to those pple who have lost their loved once in the hand of these gruesome killers... we are not ripe to create such bill , it will only end up holding the government to ransom, u cannot end a war while creating a franchise, these same pple will be looping the fund to keep the war going...

a messed up bad leadership.

LabDNA:
Abuse of the secret balloting system.

We need electronic voting now! It will save lives!

WE REALLY REALLY DO!!!!.............. as if he allow pple to demand for his stewardship by voting him in.....so even if i don't perform as long as i kill and maim to win PU for you, i can continue serving in your cabinent.SMH.......#A_Sinking_Nation#

the level of insecurity expecially for ladies in this country is alarming..... alot can be done to a lady aside being kidnapped. just imagine we even have a name "breast presser" like a profession.

i we are not even improving in securing lives and property anymore in this country.

shame!!!

please i need a good free to air installer ... i have a big dish and i intend to get all those MBC channels with it. i base in lokoja kogi state. if you are around here ...and u are sure u can deliver , please beep me up .08188987459

Bloooody:
Wailer shall keep wailing.
You can't fool us, We Nigerians know buhari is not corrupt, We have rejected Atiku.
Buhari has taken Nigeria to the top, No other African country is better than us in terms of anything.
Sai baba
May your children rule our children
Ijn

how do we rate performance? how did you conclude someone is not corrupt when he practically surrounds himself with over 60% of pple with corrupt pending cases? which top are you talking about when states are not performing, infrastructure are on stand still, universities and polytechnics are on strike for over 3months and labour is struggling to get a raise from meager pay to meager pay? no other country you say? have you seen rwanda airport? have you check ethiopia airline services, ghana economy is reliable than ours , investors are pulling fund from our economy to a more secure africa atmosphere and u post this? young able body soldiers are died everyday pot bellied general are busy enriching their pocket in abuja and u say sai baba..... dead man tell no tale is the case of many youth.

CilicMarin:
Na wah oo! It was all started with Jonathan

so its okey for buhari to continue killing them? is this what democracy means? this administration has violate every human right, court order to fair hearing for that man. PDP was right , buhari should have been arrested,jailed and killed for treason back them when he ignited violence on loosing the ellection back then.

please oga siena, i really need to talk to you about my toyota yaris, i have been having issue with the brainbox but i am beginning to feel there might be another issue worrying the car... i have bought brainbos but non seems to work for it.
the one that come with the car works but as soon as the engine is still hot it wont start the car again till i have to wait till the engine cools down .
but as long as i dont switch off my engine it works.
please can u help me with ur contact to my mail box...akinkunmi12@gmail.com.

does anyone have a recent experience with kongapay... i still dont trust them but considering the post is abit old, can anyone with a recent experience share if Kongapay service delivery have improved?

Corrinthians:
Take it easy so hate doesnt completely destroy what is left of your brain.

He's not far from the truth.
This present administration is the worst ... Its an excuse incorporated administration. Nothing is making sence... How can they say they don't know they will win.... Is like employing you and after you av worked for one month ur employer now said he did not know u will accept the offer. So if they had loose maybe they will not even pay for their flight back home.
Useless government.

RentALodge:
Perhaps, the greatest evidence of the laziness and greed of Nigerians is the rapid growth of ponzi schemes in the country in the last 12 months, the most popular of which is MMM.

A difficult question to answer but perhaps if each one of us begins to seek a higher quality of existence outside of capricious accumulation of wealth and understand that the true worth of a man is not determined by the amount of wealth he is able to accumulate but in the positive impact he has on his family, community, society and humanity at large, we would have taken a huge first step in our journey to redemption and a higher quality of life.

It is counter-productive to complain of suffering from the negative effects of economic recession while still staking your limited resources in dubious schemes. Many Nigerians scoff at the government’s call for citizens to embrace agriculture which is proven to be a productive venture all over the world but are willing to seek ‘free money’ with Ponzi schemes. Is this a failure of government too? Definitely not, it is a failure of individuals to take the right decisions.

Yes, it is not everybody that will become a farmer but there are other legitimate businesses that people can go into and highly sought-after skills that people can learn to gain full time or part-time employment. Examples abound in ICT with programming, translation jobs, virtual jobs of all sorts paying in foreign exchange if you are willing to do the work.

your point is that you are happy it eventually fail.... news flash dnt jubilate yet january will suprise u

[quote author=hobermener post=51892007]I never participated in this scheme, but i think the media blitz against it is so uncalled for. MMM or whatever should be allowed to die a natural death, but the government is hell bent on stifling it with panic and fear. The government has failed the citizens, who now find hope and succor in helping each other(providing help ), yet the government in connivance with the media wants to take the only hope of the masses who are caught up in an unprecedented recession from them. Again i don't do mmm cos of my personal conviction, but those who've chosen to pool wealth for their common good should be allowed to do whatever they want with their hard earned MoNiEs without undue interference from those who are irrevocably committed to seeing the scheme crash.[/b][/quot

the nigerian community is built in such a way that pple at the top does not want the pple below to have any financial relieve from their tippy grip.
they want to keep pple financially below par and that's the barrier MMM is breaking. It will resume in January. for now the media can just play the trumpet as much as they like , it might however be a tough one for MMM to overcome the system panic come january.

winkmart:
The House of Representatives on Wednesday asked the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission and the Central Bank of Nigeria to immediately go after the promoters Mavrodi Mondial Moneybox, otherwise known as ‘MMM’ in Nigeria.


Lawmakers strongly opposed the investment scheme, which lately gained popularity among Nigerians in the wake of the current economic recession in the country.


MMM promises 30 per cent return on investment for any money put into the scheme within 30 days.


The investment scheme has a Russian origin and “involves directing clients to make money available for an anonymous person with a promise of 30 per cent return within one month.”


But, members described the scheme as a “scam” and warned Nigerians not to be carried away by the “mouth-watering” returns on investments.


Lawmakers warned that the “trick” used by the operators was to attract as many Nigerians as possible to invest substantial amounts of money before the bubble would burst.


The House directed the EFCC, security agencies and the CBN to take urgent steps to halt the scheme before many Nigerians would become victims of the scam.


It also asked its Committees on Banking/Currency and Financial Crimes to investigate the activities of MMM Nigeria Scheme, “with a view to saving Nigerians participating in the scheme from you financial ruin.”


The Chairman, House Committee on Telecommunications, Mr. Saheed Fijabi, had in a motion, drawn the attention of the House to the growing popularity of the scheme among Nigerians.


Fijabi, an All Progressives Congress lawmaker from Oyo State, represents Ibadan-South/West Federal Constituency.


“The scheme entered the Nigerian circle in 2016, capitalising on the high level of unemployment and poverty to deceive unwary Nigerians into falling prey to their antics”, Fijabi stated.


He said the fact that MMM was not regulated by law or approved by the CBN as a secure business venture, made Nigerians more vulnerable.


http://www.blackberrybabes.com/2016/11/house-of-reps-ask-efcc-to-arrest-mmm.html

if they shut it down , that means they are the one that made pple loose their money, useless law makers. warn nigerians and leave them be. GNLD,aimglobal are worse than this MMM.

what exactly is their problem ? na their money?

No wonder their kids always end up living a miserable life afterward..... The bad ones though.

aminho:
oga take it or leave it i lost 500k naira on mmm its a fraud

You must have done the wrong MMM..
make your finding very well. You know very well you did the wrong thing not MMM .