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I have some overly generous friends, but I also have a few stingy friends, stingy with their money, their food, you name it !

I have a very close friend who cannot give the same sex N500 but can squander 5k on a random lady. Sometimes, when he sees me dying of hunger, he care less but reverse is the case when a lady tells him she's hungry, you see him running helter skelter like a messiah. This really looks weird but we have people of such as friends, neighbours, course mates and so on

Being stingy to the same sex isn't the best attribute if you ask me. So do you have any stingy friends who take their selfishness to a whole other level?

If so, share your encounter and how you react to their behavior ?

MORNDEW:
i know, many of my topics don't make FP nd i dnt kia. My happiness is dat i ve passed a msg nd besides most of the posts are already on my blog, facebook page, twitter etc. Before i move dem here. This is wht the Admin have turned this site into. It wont make front page because i did not title it '' jollof rice or stew rice which one do you prefer''

my broda that's it ooooo.. I care less if my topic makes FP or not.. I created a thread titled '' WHY ARE LEFT HANDED PEOPLE OVER HYPED?''. That the topic couldn't make FP becomes a mystery till date.. You don't need a prophet or an alfa to tell you that most insensible threads make FP than the sensible ones

RentedReality:
No disrespect to anyone here, but nothing attracts me more than a woman who works to pay her bills and such.

I'd go Miles like Davis for her.

It's a huge turn on for me, and it doesn't have to be some white collared job. Met this young girl who works at a lounge and couldn't help noticing the contrast between her and some deadbeat Picasso faced women working old men for coins.

She had quiet dignity in her labor, and carried herself well.

Thing is, she'll probably be less demanding, Independent, respect the value of hard-work/money and might also be the type to help a young man grow.

I'll take that over any duck faced/made for Instagram type.


Again, no disrespect to none, just my Independence Day thoughts.

seconded !!! More inches to your D**k

OP, what parish do you worship ?

Ensure he sleeps facing the ceiling. *note*It only reduces snoring

Tallesty1, oya come and talk oooo

valmunich:
Skirt

Oh! Now I understand

egbon you no go vex for me oooo.. Lwkmd

This happened when I just completed my SSCE. I tried to work before securing admission.I was in an interview when something like zobo drink splashed beneath my skirt, it was as if the ground should open and swallow me up becos I cldnt stand the shame.. *so disgusting*

DECOtech:
A lady who cannot openly tell her man how old she is could most definitely be a bag of secrets.






Brother, ask your pastor to confirm; Secrets do suffocate relationships

Except you are a crefreewnnabe.

May you live long my broda

Ayam number 5

Picture of the eediot while talking to her or I don't believe this write-up

I enjoyed every word of the write-up just that am surprised most comments are coming frm both dumb guys and ladies.. OP, you hit da G-stop.. You should knw this is NL, therefore, sensible thread would trigger violence, condemnation and bashing

When ladies know deep down within that their age outweigh yours, they tend to flare up in anger and start telling you you need not to be curious about their age.. OP, pls jst have this at the back of your mind that this thing is common with 9ja babes.. Just know that you can neva get a generally acceptable answer to this ur kweshion cos the reasons why dey refuse to tell their exact age cannot be overemphasized

In the early days of our relationship, I sat my gf down and all I told her was that i wanted her to portray an image of that of a lady different from every other lady that has ever come into my life.. I don't jst know the gravity of this thing I said. Ever since then, after God, she's been the source of my happiness and makes me feel empty pocket isn't empty destiny; and she stands by me when my world comes crashing down.. I don't have a private jet or 500k in my account yet all my friends are envious of my relationship and most especially my gf

OP, may you live long.. You will start seeing the frustrated dudes under the cover of females will start bashing you for this write-up.. Just be very observant, you shall know them by their post

I really love to do this for my one and only Adedoyin.. Very very romantic... Buh if it's a sort of woman wrapper--ing just to get underskirt things, then its bad

Nice one jawe my OP.. Another bashing thread specifically designed for ladies.. Oya ladies make una come bash OP ooooo

2010, I got to meet this lady whom I randomly added from 2go room. We got talking and within the tinkle of am eye, we go into each other.. We were both scheduled to have an exam in Ekiti ( FUOYE to be precise). She already told me she wasn't beautiful prior to the day we were scheduled to meet but I thought she was trying to play prank on me, little did I know she was damn serious.. On the fateful day, she called and told me she was at a bus up around Path Finder in Ado-Ekiti, I quickly dashed to d bathroom at Hussain Bolt pace, bathe and wore a nice outfit, needles to say, I almost emptied a can of pef .. Wen I got to see her, ahn ahn, the babe no just try at all.. If I knew she was this wack, I for no baff come meet her sef

By default, no dude would insist on bleeping a lady in a relationshop. However, every guy with this mentality have one or two stories to tell.. When I was new in this league of dating, I can tell you I neva had this mentality of bleeping a lady by force in a relationship but so many ladies have made me realize I need to be smart

benromeo39: Will you buy a phone without testing it or buy Christmas turkey if it's asleep? Like I keep saying, love cannot be a singular factor in determining a lifelong relationship. Love + friendship + trust + great sex = unbreakable relationship.

bwhahahahahahahahahahaha laf wan kill me here ooo.. I so tey everybody dey look me here

ronald4lif: The reasons we have sex before marriage are but not limited to :

1. Sex is good, sweet and healthy
2. Sex is a natural calling that both genders love and crave for
3. Many couples who never had sex prior to taking marital vows ended up with various complains of either he/she is not good in bed, he/she is boring and he doesn't have erection/one minute man (note that women of nowadays also wants to be sure of the sexual compatibility of their men before having this sacred life commitment)
4. When a guy doesn't have sex with his babe, experience has it that she easily calls it quit unlike when there has been sexual encounters.
5. When a guy doesn't insist on sex at some point, the girlfriend may start peceiving him as not man enough and may start looking for options outside.
6. A good sex life enhances a relationship and it draws both lovebirds more closer.
7. Girls most times gloats about that he will never see her panties so sex reduces this ego.
8. For us guys (or for me) sex is the highest assurance that a girl is truly mine, even if she cheats.
9. Sex makes a girl loyal and makes us guys value our women the more (unlike the wrong notion perceived by women that guys misbehave after sex, except maybe boys not men).
10. And finally not every relationship must leads to marriage so therefore we have to enjoy it while it last.

Note that, if every relationship was to lead to marriage we would all be virgins and I wonder how tenable this is, ofcourse its not. Moreso, unwanted pregancies/stds can be avoided, why one may ask; use condoms and the ladies contraceptives is allowed and if in any case they both want it raw as its more enjoyable, both can go for stds blood test.

may you live long my broda

I believe laptop is a multi task machine. However, laptops are also gaming device whether you believe or not.. If laptops are not made for gaming, den have you ever wondered what graphics card are made for ?. All I know is that, you should play game consciously on ur laptop and dont turn it to PS2

jnrbayano: Op,

I would want to put this argument to bed once and for all.

Firstly, have you heard about the word "kayfabe"?

If no, check the link below

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/kayfabe

Mind you, I am a fan of wrestling. I have seen wrestling for over 24years though I don't watch much of it these days.

Having said that, your question would have been more appropriate if it were asked this way:

1. Are results of wrestling bout predetermined or not? Yes, they are predetermined.

2. Is wrestling staged or not? Yes, it is staged

3. Does wrestling follow a storyline or not? Yes, it follows a storyline.

Wrestlers are Professionally trained performers. They say this themselves in an advert to warn viewers never to try the moves they perform in the ring anywhere (at home, in school etc) That those moves take them years of practice to do them safely.

Asking whether wrestling (Raw or Smackdown) is fake or real will bring unending debate....

The "real" part is the authenticity of those moves (suplexes, superplexes, flying-kicks etc) they perform in the ring in the presence of live spectators.

The "fake" part is the fact results are predetermined, events follow storylines, bouts are staged etc that's if I must use the word "fake" but I hate to use that word because I can't describe other professions like Medicine, Engineering, Law etc as being fake.

may God bless you broda.. You stole the words outta my mouth

I drastically lost interest in wrestling the moment I realized that wrestling is nothing but pure entertainment.. They are professional stunt men who already know the next more to make.. Further more, they act in tune with their opponent moves.. Though these people sustain severe injuries and bleed during the course of fight but that's not still a yardstick to convince you it's real.. Everything in wrestling is already contained in the script. However, they already know who the winner would be

My popsy has been my sure padi ryt from childhood till now that I have evolved to a man. bringing a lady in is the least of my worries

rozzay: Tosyn hello, were ve u been

Rozzay I have been where you abandoned me jhor

yungchop: Pu5$y over D33K!!

padi mi na wa 4u ooooo

rozzay: Hehheehheheheh ok dear

Rozzay, what's up now ? Its been a while

This is controversial topic which might trigger bashing or condemnation

I often come across comments like "Lovers come and go but friends are always there

If you think about it, a best friend is suppose to be there for you no matter what. Yeah, a girlfriend could walk out on you anytime at any slight provocation, and so could a best friend but I would probably go with best
friend because hardly would your best friend forsake or dump you for no good reason.


This is a conflict most people have. the answer is neither you can't completely blow off one for the other based on importance because the truth is they
are both important to you.

In my own opinion, I think I'll chose my best friend over my girlfriend, you'll have many of dates but your best friend will be there for you through all of them and your friendship is way more important. I have date up to 4 girls within 3 years but I have been keeping just one friend during those times

I will also rate my best friend over my girlfriend because best they r the ppl u can run to anytime n they will catch u if u fall. Also, true friends mostly choose being your friend without considering perishable parameters such as your height, money and so on

So my dear Nairalanders,


Do you believe friends are more
important than lovers?