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slydog:
Redeem man marrying catholic

kimbraa:
The dude isn't worth it. He might be thinking that he could ignite some old passion but it's dead and gone.

pato405:
Can relate to the 4th pix. I was boiling egg and forgot. I went to the Pharmacy, then while waiting on the payment que, I remembered I didn't swith off the gas. Ol boy! I ran faster than my legs could carry me that day o! I don't know how I managed to cross the road that day. I think I must have jumped over several cars. in split seconds I was home. Merely standing by the door, I started coughing due to thick smoke diffusing from the kitchen.

The smell of burnt out pot was everywhere! I fumbled with the key twice and couldn't open the door out of panic. Then just by impulse and frustration, I kicked the door very violently, calmed down & inserted the keys again, a little twist and the door flung open. Then the smoke welcomed me.

Mistakes like these can cause devastating damages. I was just thinking "what if I set the house ablaze just because of N200 egg"? Where I go start from?

Meeeeehn that day, I learnt to always check everything in the house including the tap twice before leaving.

This reminds me of a day I went for lectures. I was still in my villa when my friend called me and informed me that a lecturer was already in class to conduct his test

I quickly put on my clothes and dashed to school with the speed of light forgetting I was warming my stew. During the test, I started receiving numerous calls from a particular lady in my villa and that was when I knew something was wrong.

After the test, I called her and she told me the smoke that emanated from my room almost set the villa on fire as I forgot to switch off my gas cooker which led to breaking of my door

On getting to my room, both the pot and the stew don turn popcorn oooo.. Wetin come pain me pass be say I just cook the stew and assorted ingredients yapa for inside

kimbraa:
And she for do am, things people do for love. I dated the guy for 4 yrs, she came into the picture on our 4th year, though, it was a distance relationship for like 3yrs. I can never fight over a man, perhaps she felt she found prince charming she was protecting.

enshy:
Please can we bury the tribal war! Please can we give respect and credence to the course above!! One of you should play the adult role and not derail the thread...Thanks!!!
cc : tosyne2'much

kimbraa:
True!. That was how one silly girl thought she was dragging boyfriend with me. She told the dude she'd pour acid on me if she sees me, the moment I read that chat I knew what to do, I quietly stopped all communication with the dude, and he didn't know I saw the chat. Shebi when he was done with her he ended the relationship, now he's begging me for common friendship but there's a limit to what I'd do with an ex. Asked him about the girl and told him about the chat I saw, he claimed she didn't mean it but trust Akwa Ibom girls, that isn't beyond what she could do. Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. BTW, the dude was my first love.

slydog:
But will they allow one marry catholic?

yeyerolling:
no sir. Be e dey pain me. Naso my padi 4 yr relationship scatter o. D babe mama go meet olusho

technicallyrich:
It seems you are begging him.the nigga and. Tosyn2much have one thing in common to side their tribe.and make a particular tribe seem less attractive.
When you speak the truth about his tribe they ban you.but I will leave tosyne2much and suenmsg with some qoute.
3 things cannot be hidden,the sun,the moon and the truth.BUDHA
It always seem impossible untill it is done.nelson MANDELA

asuustrike2009:
Funny enough there's no church in heaven. However there are some reasons why some of these churches don't allow marriage outside their church. They include
1. The fear of loosing members to another church
2.To be able to resolve conflict easily if members marry from within
3.Members might be polluted to strange doctrines.
These points have no scriptural backing as the church is one and Jesus the head of the church.

Ezigbonmadu:
Some of your stories are false, misleading or fishy. Many things don't just add up. I also attend RCCG but my parents and siblings (most of whom are now married in that church now) still attend Deeperlife.
Deeperlife has the strictest and most formal marriage process in any church in Nigeria. They introduced medical tests before other churches recently started following suit.
There are other formalities in Deeperlife wedding, that includes at least six months mandatory courtship during which couples are expected to maintain strict decorum. Precisely, you shouldn't "sample" each other, not even inappropriate touching. Also, you're expected to report periodically to a marriage committee who will advise and guide you throughout the courtship.
Ask your friend if he has complied accordingly. I'm certain DLBC marry out their daughters to other churches. But you have to do it as they do it. If he has played by the rules, there's nothing stopping him from asking the church why he's being delayed. This is why I said your post is fishy.

niyi20:
You are right dear .I attend RCCG too but have seen a female friend who attends deeper life trying to get married to a Redeem brother it wasn't easy at all....
Most pastor now see church as a competition while they have forgotten the sole aim of CHURCH

yeyerolling:
The most confused religion is christianity . most times dey dont want to lose your membership/tithe. Woe unto any pastors/church wey no go allow me marry my choice

Wiseandtrue:
Was PASTOR Chris truly called by God? Well that is another school of thought!

Look don't misunderstand me! There is a difference between those that knows Christ and those calling Christ, Christ!

God speaks to those who are truly close to him irrespective of position and power.

But God speaks! Look at Abraham, Jacob, David, solomon, Joseph...

Even Prophet Hosea was asked to marry a prostitute Hosea 1:2

As a Christian you will be able to discern between these people (fake/real)

After all all you need is His Grace.

Wiseandtrue:
Sometimes the PASTOR might have seen somethings that might go wrong in the marriage

But sometimes it's better you let them make their mistakes so that they can learn from it and together mould it.

After all there is no one with a perfect union.

Sanchez01:
Inter-denomintational weddings take place in the RCCG weekly. It is as easy as ABC, so long your family are in the know.

Regardless, I see no reason why church wedding should be prioritised. It was never a practice in the Scriptures and was never taught.

kimbraa:
Lol, I could remember my boyfriend telling me I have a stone heart. It's not true sha, I just act too uninterested and it got him worrying if I truly loved him or not. Na me love pass sef, I just conceal my feelings 'cause it's one of my weak points in relationships.

kimbraa:
Na small "Die" you dey fear?. The girl is still a baby sha 'cause we wey them done break our hearts so tey we no come get heart again, as e end, we move on. Who has time to start threatening guys of killing them?.

Skmoda360:
ITEL you my brother.

lefulefu:
abeg i no dey take dat risk oo.watt of if na man dey behind d moniker dey pretend to be babe.no be nairaland again

Olusola147:
The truth is that some ladies don't believe you deserve them unless you show your bedmatics skills to them [/i] [i] Another way to know if he deserves you is if he can satisfy you in bed


The truth is that some ladies don't believe you deserve them unless you show your bedmatics skills to them [/i]Lol...Baddest!

Funkychic:
Hi Tosyne2much.......longest time, how are u doing?

sircrabo:
Wrote all exams but ended up doing part-time.

Wrote waec and failed all 9 subjects. Its like my village witches were the ones that marked my script.

Wrote neco nd made all credits in the same school in ph

Wrote jamb in udss, port harcourt and came out with 228. Then jaamb na jamb. To score 300, you had to offer sacrifice at 3 road junction. Lol

I put in for unilag and oau. Oau embarked on one very long and annoying strike. More than a year that my jamb expired b4 they called it off. I didn't meet the cut-off for unilag engr and was told to buy change of course form to urbn and regional planning. The dean then told my mom it was few slots he had left, he wanted us to drop 250k but no money. I refused to write any exam twice, that's how I ended up doing part time with lasu and spent close to 7yrs for a 5yr course. Graduated 2010 and just abt to collect my result from that god forsaken school.

Mobsync:


Funny. Those girls are always looking for people to impregnate and marry them and my fellow corp member almost fell into one's trap.

He slept with a lady without cd and did not even bother to get her pills. He told me about it and I asked him whether he wanted to marry. That was when he realized the shit he was getting into.

It was already evening and we started looking for postinor and pregnancy strip. We had to borrow a teacher's bike to travel to a village about thirty minutes away just to get those stuffs. And there was no network there so we had to enter the village and started looking for the lady's house. It was funny and terrible at the same time. We finally found her, gave her the drugs and averted a catastrophe.

I later told my guy I would've attended his wedding if the lady got pregnant. Guy just laughed.

Narldon:

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