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Adaumunocha:
You too!??

AngelicDamsel:
OK..... I've seen the acclaimed robber, now where is the keyboard he was playing!

lozanni:
LOL. It might sound funny, but too much of certain hormones in the body can cause aggression and even irrational behavior in both males and females.
I guess there will be ways of treating the above anomaly through medical science.

pastoray:
You're confused!

Erums:
Oha u be fool abegg.. Stop dis foolish assumption

PaperLace:
You always see women doing bad.
I ask you again, do you ever see men do bad?

myking95:
It pays to be devious at times. U don't have to fight someone to hurt them. You just mind your business, forgive them, if they don't back off, lay them on the path to destruction.

lozanni:
Sexual frustration has really set in for the woman. This might really be what is causing her anger, as the husband is not satisfying her sexually, she lost total control and went on an uncontrollable rant and was abusing her husband. I wonder if she is experiencing a hormonal imbalance, estrogen, somewhat like the hen that chases away another hen that is lying on top of eggs it had laid, just to claim it.

The woman should have sat with her husband to discuss the above issue, as things like fruits (carrots, bananas, date palm, plaintain), good excersise(jogging, skipping, lifting little weights), good pre-intimacy and sexual technique can help him overcome the problem of weak sexual performance.
The above is true for most couples as they, always fail to discuss their sex lives, which is very important.

magicfingers009:
People saying no matter what a woman does, a man should never hit her have not met mad women.
I've seen a neighbour's wife bring out a kitchen knife after having verbal insults with the husband, and it seemed as though the husband was winning the verbal fight. She brought out the knife to stab the man. Should the man remain calm and keep running to avoid being stabbed? Or beat the devil out of that woman?

Never judge a domestic violence case without hearing from the two parties or experiencing it forehand.

lozanni:
Just imagine that!!!
The woman might be educated, but is an illiterate in a true sense, because the words you use easily tells the kind of person you really are.
Unmarried guys should study their girlfriends closely to avoid ending up with ill-mannered and bad tempered wives.

benedima1990:
well said but Wat if the guy leaves the compound and relax for a while like you've adviced but later the woman still refuses to let him enter his house like she did in the morning. or maybe he even tried to wait to evening before coming back but the wife is still angry, what will you advice.


BTW... I have seen a situation where the woman stops the man from going to work on Monday morning by throwing his car key in a well, locked the door with key and threw the key out of the window saying the man should do his worse. what will u also advice here.

boiz2men:
How do you not know during courtship that your girl nags. I lost interest in a pretty girl after we had several discussions/argument and each time she wanted to be right without facts

majekdom2:
There are always 2 sides to a story but what I found out is most women that are victim of domestic violence are usually the cause... For instance, If you know your husband is a mad man, why exchange words with him. If you know the next thing he does is to hit you, keep quiet when he is talking, tell him sorry. You don't have to argue with him or insult him... for peace sake.
The above is for a mad man, only a jobless man can turn to a mad man. A man looking to breakthrough or make money or fly high can't be referred to a mad man because he is occupied by so many things but the thing is there are some women that can't just live in peace. They can't be taught, they don't listen, they don't learn from mistakes. They are never progressive thus argument will always breed and they will in most instances hit a woman. Men and young guys, please run away from any woman that can't be taught, corrected, never listens or learns from her mistakes. Such women are usually a big hinderance to one's success. No matter how high and placed you seem to be, they will bring you down to a level you won't believe. This is because, they have a bad spirit that's not progressive. Run from these kind of women no matter how beautiful they seem to be. I call women spirit, they either break or make a man. Check stories in the bible, they are there. When the bible says he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing know what it's saying. Not all women are good for a wife. Not all women are to be called wife. My experience with my mother, sisters, GFS have taught me loads about women. Any woman that cannot stay humble and maintain peace with a man is a doom to whoever she calls a husband.

jumzzy448:
I'm a sis

greenguy:
A good lesson Mr. Poster. Experience they say is the best teacher. It is easy for listeners to judge the man and say 'real men don't lay their hands on women'.

Men are humans too with different level of tolerance to provocations. I once had a neighbour with similar traits who genuinely enjoyed humiliating her husband and publicly reminded him of how poor and miserable he is, how incapable he is as a man and her plans to abandon him for a 'real man'. She'd throw things at the man and pour water at him. She also bedded almost all the young men in the compound at the time. What a gentle man the man was. I remember the man reacting to her provocation one day with a divine slap and she fainted on the spot.

She eventually left her two kids for the man and left to her lover's. She died of HIV some years later.

I have learnt that some people are devils incarnate.

jumzzy448:
Thank you op. I could remember the first time I heard that my sister's hubby slapped her. I got so furious and told the husband never to talk to me. He had to apologize to the whole family before everything died down.

Now another time, something like that happened again. Fortunate/unfortunately for my sister, my younger sister was at her house for holiday when the whole ish went down.

My younger sister had to call my mum that we should talk to my sister cos the whole things could have been avoided cos when the heat was much, the husband decided to leave the house to go cool off, but my sister locked the door, held him by his clothe and told him we wasn't going anywhere.. her mother in law was also around. Everyone was begging her to let go of her husband but she refused to listen not until the man gave her one hot slap.

[b] What I'm saying in essence is, not all men are beast, rather their wives bring out the beast in them.

You nailed it bro.

I also used to call men all sort of derogatory names when it comes to domestic violence not until I witnessed it on various occasions. I remember a similar thing happened to someone that was like a brother to me. As gentle and clam as he was, I was so amazed when he told me her beat his life and I was curious to know what transpired

According to him, he said the lady had been frustrating him, calling him all sort of derogatory names and how she turned him to a subject of mockery in the neighbuorhood. He said he got furious and decided to chill out and come back later and the wife grabbed him, locked him on the neck, locked the door and threw the key out of the window. This got him mad and he didn't know when he lost his temperament and landed a slap on her face


Things are happening out there my brother. Only those who have not witnessed these things always blame men for it

Daniealah:
No nothing to talk about here is totally lack of home training#### If any of my sisters trying that kind of thing eh! hmmm

princ007:
Yes, Some tho cos i believe there are still good and responsible ones out there

free2ryhme:
really, i could swear that was your mom

free2ryhme:
you are too opinionated

She is fat and not complaining


she accepts herself as who she is and her self-esteem or self worth is not dependent on you nor others for her happiness

make una calm down jare

BetaThings:
Christianity is lightweight, I agree

princ007:
No dear.. But the word LOVE.

muller101:
I really don't like fat ladies. They resemble an abandoned mud house when they are battling with old age. I saw one yesterday I swear this woman was just moving like an old locomotive with insufficient steam.

free2ryhme:
She is not your woman and your opinion dont count