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This one na bad market oooo... Wait first, is there no brothel in his vicinity ni?

Only a handful of guys are disciplined to RESIST sex because the larger percent can even bleep a tree if you attach kitty-cat to it

I know that team "Toks go and marry will soon Strom this thread"
Back to the topic, I think you're right to a very large extent.

Papiikush:
Learn to ignore. No be all comments person dey reply. Same thing goes out to tosyne2much.

That's true sha

Na all of dem sabi ooo

Thanks for sharing this.

Also, if you're living in a one room apartment, avoid cooking indoor, in case anything funny wan happen, you go quickly pick race.

funmisticqueen:
Erm, hello, we are plenty here, but let me sha speak for myself, even boo doesnt get what i see in nairaland.

I take exception to a selected FEW

This one na serious case ooo

Be like say na female bashing thread be this one again

Make una leave these ladies alone oooo

These people sha want this nation to remain backward

marisdgreat:
Guys national anthem to ladies are: I am single, my girlfriend broke up with me since 1 or 2 years ago, she left me n got married, she travelled out of Nigeria so therefore our communication to each other has dropped, she left my state n relocated to another state in Nigeria so since then she has changed towards me I have to put an end to our relationship. Out of 100% of guys, 98% of them have all these as their national anthem. Guys in the house can u please tell me why is it like that i want to know

Are those the kind of men you come across?

poik:
My brother, I wish all you have said is the truth. I just wish.

If you haven't heard ladies complain about their single status, some of us have. Countless times. Don't encourage their foolhardiness.

God who fashioned marriage is wiser than all of us put together. He knew exactly what He was doing.

Some of these ladies who say marriage isn't for everyone, be sure you are completely bereft of sexual biology and its desires. How are you going to tame your passions legitimately when they arise? Except of course you don't believe there is God, which is another degree of foolishness.


There is the difference between the security a paid soldier and a husband can give. There is a difference between the fact that you are loved enough to be provided for, and the fact that you have something just because you can. Marriage, done well, is fulfilling and blessed.

Even the boss ladies who hustle in their own right do it out of the motivation of the fact that they are trying without success to fill the void of a partner with material things and societal placing: the charade only lasts as long as the cameras and external eyes; coca cola can never take the place of water. She doesn't need to utter a word for it to be obvious. Some of us have heard them complain audibly and go to desperate lengths to belong to someone.

Worst of all, this is pristine Africa.

Cant stop laughing at the emboldened

ErepaTV:
Sorry o.. me sef dey wonder.

Na we ya elders suppose dey talk about relationship/marriage... Based on experience..

Meanwhile, you are right.. romance section is messed up.

Abi. When una elders dey talk, we boys suppose bury our heads dey listen ni

ErepaTV:
Do you create marriage/relationship threads too? Please tell me, what experience do you have in marriage/relationship?
This NL sef na wa o

Abeg go sit down jawe... Where did i talk about relationship threads?

kozmicity:
Tosyne2much,Kondomatic,Toks2008
Come see this Joker oo

I kuku see am baba

dan2090:
My Opinion? I say Blame it on the church too. Pastors don't ever pray for the guys , its always about the gals. Every prayer and prophecy of marriage in religious places today are all focused on the ladies, forgetting the men need prayers too, to aid them in this light. Just my Observation anyway.

Hehe

Hahahahaha.. This is very funny

kelvinrhs:
I was just thinking that

These guys drink so much. May God help them sha

bayulll011:
madam make ur point without insult,you are already portraying feminism on a bad mood,you are woman act like one,make your point dont just sound like a frustrated and untrained woman

I've known her to always employ insults when passing her message across. Later now, they will start complaining that men don't take them serious

DexteryJoe:
start seeing them differently?,the truth is, even as guy, when u see a serious lady, u know immediately, u don't expect me to c a slay queen and treat her any different from d slay queen she portrays herself to be,she is meant to be slain on my bed, u raised nice points tho, but from experience, I would say, even a play boy knows his time is up when he sees "The one"

You ehn

mikedimeji:
Right on point. That's their new way of consoling themselves

Abi now

pocohantas:
Do you know the Nigerian population? Do you know what's most? You're actually very arrogant online, maybe no one has told you.
I'm just not dumb to judge people by their e-pesonality.
Saying every aggrieved lady is a feminist, is just like saying every aggrieved man is a misogynist... totally illogical.

You that's always creating denigrating threads, are you unhappy?
You always claim it's for fun, but when ladies do it...you say they are unhappy. Let's imagine they're actually unhappy, who is making them unhappy if not you men?

The problem I have with you is, you follow the bandwagon too much.
Take a cue from Radicallyblunt,once in a while, think outside the box.

My dear, you know little or nothing about me to stigmatize me. I believe we are all entitled to our opinions even though my opinions may be contaminated by sentiments, bias or stereotypes. That's why we are all different. We all look but see differently.

So my dear, if I fail to always view things from your own perspective or say things that will make you happy, that's not enough reason to have me hatred or develop grudge against me.

Quinn22:
That's a bloody lie from the pit of hell fire!what would you say about me, what would you say about Beyoncé and chimamanda? And they are many others, so your argument don't hold water

Remember I limited my assertion to "most Nigerian ladies"

Forget about Beyonce or Chimamanda. Most young Nigerian ladies you see (even on Nairaland) clamoring for gender equally are either divorced or they're not just happy about their relationship, hence, the need to unleash their frustration and paint men bad

How you ever wondered why they are usually very arrogant and spew out venom at any radius? Isn't it obvious on this thread?

Please don't be sentimental when you know the truth.

Abeg leave matter for Mathias jawe

asuustrike2009:
Feminism isn't as a result of ladies not getting married. It's far from it because today most feminist are what they are because of the way society treats women and that includes married women

Most "Nigerian" ladies that are feminists are usually those that have no men in their lives. Go and make your research

sweetgala:
Self made women don't exist because self made people don't exist.

Even Jesus needed 12 disciples to fulfil the prophecy so why should yours be different; the man who may assist you to be all you can be may be just a friend or he may be the partner God planned for you.

You may never reach that pinnacle you so desire without that God purposed assistance

I like your analogy bro

GoldenSpine24:
Nice one op.
I believe it's directed towards all those who desire a marital union cos its obvious from some of the comments from ladies here that being married isn't a criterion for happiness....
Anyways My 5 cents,
Reason 1....Some of them have been jilted unfairly early in life and maybe failed to grow emotionally and are still scared of losing their hearts again. However, to counter that, If you never use your heart to love, who cares when it gets broken?

Reason 2....Some make a choice. Maybe environmental background or advise suggests that when they are older than a certain age they could settle. Again, we will always learn everyday. Marriage is the only institution you receive a certificate before you begin....

Reason 3...The attitudes. Oh, lawd! the attitude of some ladies make u want to cringe!!! Some are unnecessarily rude without cause, some believe that they are divine gift to man and therefore show an extreme level of pride cos of attention left, right and centre. Some get so choosy and blind their eyes to true intentions. If a man is financially dependent, has ambitions, worthy goals but not as rich as you would want him to be....I think if a lady despises such a man,she needs to be checked again. What prevents you from also sharing your ambitions or goals with him abi you nor get? Have something worthwile your are working towards, maintain a positive attitude of where you are headed and watch how he will unleash his undending stream of love and support towards you.

Reason 4..Preconceived Ideas..When you prejudge an event or person, you will almost find nothing good. Imagine a lady telling me the other day; All men are the same no matter what. How do you prejudge a person before getting to know him..then i told her i assumed she was going to be married to a woman..When she forbade it, I asked her; Then why do you pray to God for a kind, loving and chaste mate if all of them are already the same, does it make sense? Keep an open heart dear ladies..

The truth is; if you are one who desires marriage, not getting a suitable mate at a certain time can have its emotional toll on you either male or female. It's not easy for our ladies out there. We know they go thru a lot.

If you are a lady and fall within the scope of this thread, you know if you have some homework to do. You know where the shoe free you or pain you. We are not perfect doesn't mean we would not try. Why not look for the nuggets of wisdom from all the comments and improve yourself; attitudes, goals, open hearts?

All the best to the ladies.


Peace Out

Respect sir!

KKKWHITE:
Increase in single ladies and I? am here still searching for a single lady can't believe that

So many fishes dey this forum nah... Abi You No get net ni?

Gwan2:
Bros just thank say you no be Muslim.......You know how many people dem don bury alive according to Islamic right burial.
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Person go carry Naija situation for head inside this buhari regime, small thing em go collapse base on thinking....sharp sharp dem don shout Allah hu arc bar......construct one coffin, sharply em go see em self inside gound..before you turn eye dem don cover am sand.
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Na so wan Ganiyu collapse, dem even try pour am water e no wake.....before you know imam don come pray.....dem put am for coffin, dig ground put am inside......before dem cover sand dem hear person dey shout iya kafayat inside coffin,....em wife just hiss, mtcheeeeeeew....say abeg make dem cover the sand, na dead man e be to her before sake of say the man dey jobless with 11 children for ground

I don laf tire ehn

I'm a perfect description of the kind of man you described. Thank God I'm a real man