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VargasVee:
The most can't. That's btw. You alright?

Yes I'm very alright bros

makydebbie:
Stop using one story to judge other women.

Hmmm.. Sighs!

madridsta007:
They hold the WBC, WBO, IBO, IBF World Heavyweights Titles in Insults and Abuse. When I see them, I run! No time.

Me sef dey run ni oooo baba... I no want person wey go give me HBP

sosa993:
well till now I don't really know what a Nigerian man wants. all I know is when you see one that doesn't see you as threat cos you're richer or doesn't treat you like dirt cos he a richer than you, then go for it.
This Nigerian men matter don tire me. Glad I've been able to meet the a good guy when I was younger, at least he's taught me not all men are this same.

So, now that you're an adult, you haven't seen any man that has proven to you that all men are not the same?

VargasVee:
Had this after party, I don't usually go to them unless someone drags me

So I went, met one girl so we talked a bunch. It turned out she was from Nigeria too. We were in contact for a while and she invited me to dinner at home. Before then she already told me about the parents, father works in an insurance company and the mom at a top law firm. Man that was one of the worst I ever been to. When it was meal time, I saw the hubby coming out of the kitchen, smiling forcefully. Im a great cook myself so no issue. The man changed, we all sat down then the woman told her to go and dish the meal.

Do you know this lady didn't allow the husband to even join the discussion or ask me anything. She kept on talking and asking me, at a point I was gutted, my friend noticed and excused us. Mate, up until now I can't help but have pity for the man. I wonder what goes on there when there's no visitors.

Waaat! This is unbelievable oooo!

Can you now see that women can't handle the amount of power naturally bestowed unto men?

madridsta007:
THE FEMINISTS: These ones are always on the edge of something... Either an argument, a shout-match, a competition, a debate, an online-fight etc. They think it is appealing, as it fetches them the "likes." Eventually they change— but at 29/30 years.

I swear you no lie at all.. They've been the ones that dish out insults and rain curses on me each time I speak what they don't want to hear

Lalas247:
lol tosyne know say me no dey that category he just wan spoil my tea this morning

I am waiting
Can you imagine we can't be proud of ourselves what nonsense ...
they don't know a made woman makes it easier ! Make person retire by 40 go Dubai go collect sun for head

Lmao

MzEddytan:
good...seriously I like you but what you're doing is pissing me off. I always look up to you when its come to relationship advice and I so admire your perception and instinct about it.

Oooops! Sorry to disappoint you.. I will change as advised

MzEddytan:
This is exactly what I've been telling tosyne'2much, he replied all comments even when it is not really necessary especially when it is related to ladies. SMH

Henceforth, I promise to turn a new leaf.. You don't have to SMH for me nah

I dey come

sosa993:
there many women who get ride on by their husbands too because the husband is richer. how come no one sees anything wrong in that, is what baffles me. let me tell you it takes a very very good person to be rich and still be humble. I've heard of many men who threaten to throw their wife's luggage out. why? because they own the house. why is it that you never see men come on here to preach against it. this issue of a breadwinner being proud is not a woman thing, it is a general thing, very common depending on who is richer. which is very very wrong.

I know a woman who can't put on the generator when her husband is not home because her husband might even send her packing of she does, why? because he owns it and the house they live in. there are several cases have heard, where a man threatens to send his wife packing and when I found out it's usually not even about attitude. let me state a scenario here, he wanted to send the wife packing cos one of the kids got injured during inter house sports.


so I want to know are you against a man who belittles his wife cos he's richer too? or you see it as the norm.

Well, you made a very thoughtful comment. But I have never supported men who treat their wives like rags and I will never do that

VargasVee:
I had one funny particular experience about this very issh before we went on a long break

Abeg share an briefly make I laugh this morning

Lalas247:
*) who said I have met a lot of guys? Read my post correctly
*)where did u see I typed all guys ?

Op has a point not all but there are guys out there who find this intimidating(FACT) some wont even let you pay on a date wtf .. u may not but that is your cup of tea .. I'm chatting about those who do ... so not understanding your post.

Why wont the lady be proud do you know we work 10 times harder to get to where we are .. I will be proud all day long whoever can kiss tranformer.. imagine the trash we should not be proud of our success ... what fuckery .. pompous I get it but proud !!! You having a real laugh mate

Take it easy madam. No be fight nah

Lalas247:
Op you have a point!

Especially for the Independent ladies!
They find it intimidating and uve stripped away the fact the money means nothing .... So whatelse do they have to offer ..hence y most wont date ..

Not all guys are intimated by rich ladies, at least I can speak for myself. I want you to know that not every broke guy is overwhelmed by "low self esteem" and the fact that you've met a lot of guys who are intimidated by a lady who owns a car or earns more than them does not mean every other guy will see them as threats

The only thing I see here is that, most guys normally think that most of these ladies are usually very proud and pompous, hence, their disinterest in them.

MzEddytan:
maybe for pleasure sa or you've been able to have the best for yourself sa because this your perception about ladies is fucking scaring.

For pleasure ke? I don't see them that way oooo

Women are adorable creatures that we can't do without now.

MzEddytan:
it is even more worse than that, I smells hatred

Me wey like woman

MzEddytan:
it's only God that know what a lady/ladies has done to you. I can sensed that in all your comments.

Ahn ahn.. Maybe it's because my comments always come like the rattle of a gun

LordXaaan:
So you finally bought that sense I've been telling you to buy since.

Ahn ahn

Meaning, my comment was on point this night?

VargasVee:
Exactly bruu. These lads are confusing the point with being misogynistic. I'm a big woman lover myself, that doesn't blind me to the truth. Have you seen families the women are the breadwinners? You should see how they treat their husbands. Humility is the key maan

That's very true. Most women always misbehave and ride on their husbands when they are the breadwinners. Only a minute percentage of them still main their loyalty and humility.

VargasVee:
I was at home a long time and trust me it's true, have you ever had a female boss? Utterly miserable creatures. It's worst back home. The whites, they don't even care, they go on about their lives unlike the average black woman, make sure everyone around you is uncomfortable. It's not about being high in social heirachy, everyone deserves better.

I have been privileged to work with two different women who headed an enterprise. My brother, it was hell that I resigned myself cos they complained about almost everything I did. They always try to make you feel like you know nothing. They nag incessantly and exercise too much control just to show that they are above you


This made me come to the conclusion that women will always MISBEHAVE if given the amount of power men are given

TechPanda:
This Kontri Aff Spoil Finish

I dey tell you baba

verygudbadguy:

Lol. Our conducts show that we are in the end time.

If only those people who are cheering Yahoo boys have once fallen into the hands of these merciless guys and have been robbed of their school fees

fratermathy:
It's just sad that someone would use the account of a pre-teen to spew this rubbish. Why do we glorify fraud in this country? Is it a normal thing? Most of these people glorifying fraud have never been victims of fraud before. Fraudsters are no longer targeting only foreigners, they are targeting fellow countrymen. The BVN messages you receive daily, the Nairabet messages that litter this forum and the many fraudulent posts are all made by internet fraudsters. Do you know how many unsuspecting Nairalanders fall prey to their schemes on a daily basis?

Let us stop glorifying fraud. 419 in Nigeria is not something to be proud of; it is the wound of our nation and we must heal it ourselves by criminalising it.

That's what the society has become my brother. We embrace fraudsters instead of bringing them to justice, that's why we will always remain backward

VargasVee:
You're making zero sense. Nobody is scared of shiiit. Most them are the frustrated ones. There's a line drawn

May God bless you my brother. Some people just open their mouths to talk just because they sha want to feature in what they know nothing about

tintingz:
In this very 2017 y'all guys are still scared of feminists, independent ladies, y'all guys are bítch niggaz, the world is evolving, you don't expect women of this age to still act like ancient slaves to patriarch men.

Y'all should grow up, marriage is not for everyone.

I can see that your lack of comprehension ability is very astonishing. You just jumped and attacked me from nowhere just because you want to feature in this argument sha.

Next time, take your time to read and understand before making an attack.

Benita27:
The romance section lady that abused you! It shall not be well with her.

Na wa!, anyway, my role model is Chimamanda Adechie but I'm not a feminist.

I have passed my point across and it's not a must you subscribe to my opinion. We all look but see differently

Castroii:
Lol, how many Nigerian ladies can boast of any of the above except for being a feminist....... once dated a feminist and it was as if i was being controlled with a remote control, she will be quick to tell me that we are partners and equal shareholders in the relationship but when it comes to dishing out cash, den na me go dey top 9 and she go be lines man. I prefer all the other qualities sef.

That's one of the problems why guys don't consider them at all

Thawarplay:
She's right.... I know you are among people pokenoising and talking shit about the guy in your area. And later yall same people will go before him to give una money

What's my business with them? Don't I have my own means of livelihood? Or you think it's everyone that is envious of the trashy lifestyle they live?

verygudbadguy:
We have lost the morals and values our parents took time to teach us. Our conscience are dead. Yes, they are dead.
Nowadays, boys would buy their parents big cars with the ill gotten wealth and the parents won't bother to ask the source. Some parents even go as far as making reference to the luxury things that the children of their friends got for their parents. Indirectly telling you to push you into crime.

Naija, which way. Money must be made but let it be legally. There are a lot of ways to make wealth that will last not the ones that will disappear after some time.

Nuffsaid.

That was how a woman in my area said if people are jealous that his son is making it big from Yahoo, they should also buy laptops for their own sons to do yahoo too, and mind their business.

9ice comes to mind. LIVING THINGS

FitnessDoctor abeg where you dey nah?