₦airaland Forum

dan2090:
My Opinion? I say Blame it on the church too. Pastors don't ever pray for the guys , its always about the gals. Every prayer and prophecy of marriage in religious places today are all focused on the ladies, forgetting the men need prayers too, to aid them in this light. Just my Observation anyway.

Hehe

Hahahahaha.. This is very funny

kelvinrhs:
I was just thinking that

These guys drink so much. May God help them sha

bayulll011:
madam make ur point without insult,you are already portraying feminism on a bad mood,you are woman act like one,make your point dont just sound like a frustrated and untrained woman

I've known her to always employ insults when passing her message across. Later now, they will start complaining that men don't take them serious

DexteryJoe:
start seeing them differently?,the truth is, even as guy, when u see a serious lady, u know immediately, u don't expect me to c a slay queen and treat her any different from d slay queen she portrays herself to be,she is meant to be slain on my bed, u raised nice points tho, but from experience, I would say, even a play boy knows his time is up when he sees "The one"

You ehn

mikedimeji:
Right on point. That's their new way of consoling themselves

Abi now

pocohantas:
Do you know the Nigerian population? Do you know what's most? You're actually very arrogant online, maybe no one has told you.
I'm just not dumb to judge people by their e-pesonality.
Saying every aggrieved lady is a feminist, is just like saying every aggrieved man is a misogynist... totally illogical.

You that's always creating denigrating threads, are you unhappy?
You always claim it's for fun, but when ladies do it...you say they are unhappy. Let's imagine they're actually unhappy, who is making them unhappy if not you men?

The problem I have with you is, you follow the bandwagon too much.
Take a cue from Radicallyblunt,once in a while, think outside the box.

My dear, you know little or nothing about me to stigmatize me. I believe we are all entitled to our opinions even though my opinions may be contaminated by sentiments, bias or stereotypes. That's why we are all different. We all look but see differently.

So my dear, if I fail to always view things from your own perspective or say things that will make you happy, that's not enough reason to have me hatred or develop grudge against me.

Quinn22:
That's a bloody lie from the pit of hell fire!what would you say about me, what would you say about Beyoncé and chimamanda? And they are many others, so your argument don't hold water

Remember I limited my assertion to "most Nigerian ladies"

Forget about Beyonce or Chimamanda. Most young Nigerian ladies you see (even on Nairaland) clamoring for gender equally are either divorced or they're not just happy about their relationship, hence, the need to unleash their frustration and paint men bad

How you ever wondered why they are usually very arrogant and spew out venom at any radius? Isn't it obvious on this thread?

Please don't be sentimental when you know the truth.

Abeg leave matter for Mathias jawe

asuustrike2009:
Feminism isn't as a result of ladies not getting married. It's far from it because today most feminist are what they are because of the way society treats women and that includes married women

Most "Nigerian" ladies that are feminists are usually those that have no men in their lives. Go and make your research

sweetgala:
Self made women don't exist because self made people don't exist.

Even Jesus needed 12 disciples to fulfil the prophecy so why should yours be different; the man who may assist you to be all you can be may be just a friend or he may be the partner God planned for you.

You may never reach that pinnacle you so desire without that God purposed assistance

I like your analogy bro

GoldenSpine24:
Nice one op.
I believe it's directed towards all those who desire a marital union cos its obvious from some of the comments from ladies here that being married isn't a criterion for happiness....
Anyways My 5 cents,
Reason 1....Some of them have been jilted unfairly early in life and maybe failed to grow emotionally and are still scared of losing their hearts again. However, to counter that, If you never use your heart to love, who cares when it gets broken?

Reason 2....Some make a choice. Maybe environmental background or advise suggests that when they are older than a certain age they could settle. Again, we will always learn everyday. Marriage is the only institution you receive a certificate before you begin....

Reason 3...The attitudes. Oh, lawd! the attitude of some ladies make u want to cringe!!! Some are unnecessarily rude without cause, some believe that they are divine gift to man and therefore show an extreme level of pride cos of attention left, right and centre. Some get so choosy and blind their eyes to true intentions. If a man is financially dependent, has ambitions, worthy goals but not as rich as you would want him to be....I think if a lady despises such a man,she needs to be checked again. What prevents you from also sharing your ambitions or goals with him abi you nor get? Have something worthwile your are working towards, maintain a positive attitude of where you are headed and watch how he will unleash his undending stream of love and support towards you.

Reason 4..Preconceived Ideas..When you prejudge an event or person, you will almost find nothing good. Imagine a lady telling me the other day; All men are the same no matter what. How do you prejudge a person before getting to know him..then i told her i assumed she was going to be married to a woman..When she forbade it, I asked her; Then why do you pray to God for a kind, loving and chaste mate if all of them are already the same, does it make sense? Keep an open heart dear ladies..

The truth is; if you are one who desires marriage, not getting a suitable mate at a certain time can have its emotional toll on you either male or female. It's not easy for our ladies out there. We know they go thru a lot.

If you are a lady and fall within the scope of this thread, you know if you have some homework to do. You know where the shoe free you or pain you. We are not perfect doesn't mean we would not try. Why not look for the nuggets of wisdom from all the comments and improve yourself; attitudes, goals, open hearts?

All the best to the ladies.


Peace Out

Respect sir!

KKKWHITE:
Increase in single ladies and I? am here still searching for a single lady can't believe that

So many fishes dey this forum nah... Abi You No get net ni?

Gwan2:
Bros just thank say you no be Muslim.......You know how many people dem don bury alive according to Islamic right burial.
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Person go carry Naija situation for head inside this buhari regime, small thing em go collapse base on thinking....sharp sharp dem don shout Allah hu arc bar......construct one coffin, sharply em go see em self inside gound..before you turn eye dem don cover am sand.
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Na so wan Ganiyu collapse, dem even try pour am water e no wake.....before you know imam don come pray.....dem put am for coffin, dig ground put am inside......before dem cover sand dem hear person dey shout iya kafayat inside coffin,....em wife just hiss, mtcheeeeeeew....say abeg make dem cover the sand, na dead man e be to her before sake of say the man dey jobless with 11 children for ground

I don laf tire ehn

I'm a perfect description of the kind of man you described. Thank God I'm a real man

ThisTrend:
We dey the same squad

Boys yapa for here jhor, na you no wan gree jawe

This is what happens when two kids get married

What a shame!

Nice one... But remember the repercussion of too much intake of alcohol
Wetin be my own sef?

fellom:
you are very correct those matured but yet to marry ladies, check them very well most of them have over 4 boy friend including one old sugar daddy somewhere, see if you are not straight forward with a guys he can never be straight with you, and most of their mistake is that while you are still trying toast them they will say they have a boyfriend, but when they visit you a week after.
the boyfriend's chapter is closed as if the new guy has forgotten all she told him earlier.#Nomumuanywhere

Some of them can be physically matured but are not mentally matured.

Oyindidi:
Tosin, the ladies don't just insult people on a faceless forum. They are doing that as a result of how you guys call them names. Like 10 types of runs girls on Nl

Hahaha.. Funny you

Well as for me, I guess you've known me for more then two years and you can attest to the fact that I go on my own lane and pay no attention to my haters. The highest I do is to create my "10 Things" and go on my own lane.

I don't have for all these drama people are acting here.

Jumbus31:
Let him try that in Otigba street in computer village.

Those guys no get mercy at all oooo... Before you know am, tire and petrol don come from nowhere

GodsLastBorn:
Bro i used to laugh it off when some were doing it, it was funny to read stupid things and how the person defends it proudly but lately it now seems like a way of life and they're no longer few but most!! Just observe most threads and see the posts by them its appalling, its only few that gives one hope that some still utilize their brain. Hopefully more will.

The rate which people cyber is getting out of hand that people now hide behind their keypads dishing out insults to people just to feel superior and make other person look inferior.

The truth of the matter is that, although, this is a faceless forum but never underestimate the damage a sentence or phase can cause in the life of somebody. At least I can vividly remember when a guy took to his Facebook page telling people that was tired of life and that circumstances beyond his control could make him commit suicide. Instead of people to give him hope, they started raining abusive words on him that they don't give a damn if he commits suicide or not, and could you believe people's comments made this dude terminate his life.

So, the fact that this is a public forum does not mean you should make derogatory comments against people you don't know.. Sooner or later, they will get to understand that the more you bash people you don't know, the lesser your chances of success in life.

jakandeola:
tosyne2much come cary ur wife comot hear o

I don't date cats and dogs bro.. I date women that have a lot to offer me

My Infinix charger sef just burn oooo... Abeg who go borrow me one?

The same thing I'm experiencing
















Abeg na joke I dey joke oooo

NwaAmaikpe:

Access bank that is standing on weak legs wants to carry Etisalat that is a failed institution.

Funny u

Don't sha try this in Computer village or Alaba market

Eeeehyah