₦airaland Forum

Raymee:
Go jareee. Not in Naija

Irore:
The Bible, the Word of God that created women said men should treat them with affection for they are the weaker sex. It is not our custom and norms that placed them beneath men. It is God's arrangement. Let somebody shout alleluyah.

Hmmmmm !!! Nice Biblical back-up

Idydarling:
Tosyne, what about the one who is caring in all aspect except finance, can I still call him a gold digger?

You can't call him a gold digger

silverr:
That's the thinking that kills marriages.
There's no resting place for the head without the neck. I'm not married yet but hope to be very soon. I know my limits as a wife but if something like this happens, and my hubby goes ahead to bring the friend, no wahala but I'll suddenly receive a call from the village and leave the house for them. Its humiliating.

Yes it's humiliating but you should know two wrongs can't make a right

Modsenemy:
That waz how I met one little boy in church begging me to lend him my fone to check his bets.
Wtf! Inside church? And he has this long bet slip wit him o

That's what hardship is leading people to

DonaldGenes:
mention which area you're good bruh

In other basic subject areas sha

Damfostopper:
Counter thread..... Characteristics Of A Nigerian feMale Gold Digger by tosyne.2much n wrist.bangle coming soon

Kondomatic:
Bros make unah protest my ban oo #unbanTallesty1

Agubushmenyo:
When are you droping your next "10 commandments"??

iamrealdeji:
Mr,with due respect,admit it that you're an animal for cheating on the mother of your kids. Just try to show much love to her,try to explain to her that we men are naturally polygamous,let her know that she's much better than the concubine you cheated on her with. Let her know that konji in men is just uncontrollable at times and let her know that a lot of men are he-goats,you inclusive. Ask for her forgiveness and promise never to do it again. Make sure she forgives you wholeheartedly

Lmao

Armanee:
U shuld ask Toks2008 for an advice. He goes around encouraging Adulterous men. Im sure he has a backup plan for all situations concerning men who cheat.

bwahahahahahahahahahahahahah roflwkmd lmao hahahahhahahaha


Chaiii see as water dey comot for my eyes

pinkpebbles:
Dis is one of the problems of the modern day marriage. Opinions and views like this. Op, please do not listen to this advice. She's ur wife and you have messed up her psychology. You dont knw hw it feels like to be cheated on. Trust me, most peopl barely recover from it. Just keep loving her and be a better man. Reassure her and with time she will come around. If you end up divorcing her, you mite cheat on ur next woman and this mite not be her reaction. She mite jst cut off your joystick

Bwahaha

Maximus85:
Take it from me, she's a damn good woman and she's not cheating on you. She might have taken it too far by not cooking for her kids but you brought all these on yourself and now it's affecting your innocent kids.
It's up to you. Look for a way to take her far away from home to a quiet place, I private beach or resort. Open your heart to her and vow never ever to cheat on her.
Men should be in control of their joystick. It belongs not to you but your wife's.

Kondomatic:
I hate what I am about to type but I kinda agree with the person you quoted and technically speaking, wives in down here are being bought which places them well below their husbands.

To begin with, a man owns the house, I mean the building they live in, most girls cannot marry a guy who doesn't own a house. The man most times pays the rent if they're staying in a rented apartment which makes it his house not their house so he can bring in whoever he wants to so far the person is not a crook.

Finally, consider what the men pass through, when you see a woman you want to marry, her family will tax you mightily and when you pay everything they asked for and pay a certain amount of bride price, they will hand the girl over to you.(isn't that business?) keep love aside please, this is pure business arrangement, you pay for their daughter before she becomes you wife.

So she was bought and cannot be equal with you.

A lot of things need to change for our women to enjoy certain privileges in their marriage.

There's this outdated mentality of some ladies that "her money is her money but her husbands money is their money" meaning that the pays almost all the bills and yet they clamour for equal rights.

It smells like nonsense.

Modenzy:
prof. TOSIN. Eku ise ooo

jetage1:
So u expect us to keep a lady dat has a pussy that is as wide as lagos ibadan expressway just because she makes a good wife? and keep swimming in river niger for d rest of our lives during sex abi?

bqlekan:
i no dey whine you now, e get some female monikers wey i go mention here wey go confirm am... you nah president nah

Wey go confirm say I be minister of kitty-cat shey?

bqlekan:
hahaha.. you nah ladies man now, even with bamu for nose, dem go still dey follow you.. if i go get mark pere, no one go marry me be that

Baba no whine me ooooo

adepeter26:
I comment my reserve jhawé

Baba, abeg talk now make I hear