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bilms:
u ladies must be sincere with yourself instead of condenming men.


in this same country, we have ladies ho confessed that they purposely frautrate there men to beat them because they don't enjoy sex without being beaten first.

secondly, we guys are people like u, some women are trouble makers, they enjoy it and its there hobbie.


well no man enjoy beating his wife[b] only if fraustrated. mind u, it does not mean that he his right, but he has been pushed beyond his limit[/b]

for God sake then find that particular woman who loves to be beaten before sex, the general view is that its wrong to beat/hit anyone especially your wife. its like ure beating urself. if ure pushed to the wall leave the house, walk away, she will come to her sense when u return and u can talk it over. if she does it always for a hobby then YOU ARE TO BLAME YOU MARRIED A NASTY WOMAN.So should u be justified to beat her NO.

come to think of it i once wrote a letter like this to a friend,(we were close for years but somehow stuff happened and it kind of ended badly) it was all over bla bla bla i appreciated her and shit and i wish we'd remain civil at least . it was just my heart but it backfired. she hated me more after this and said there was no need for such nasty note( that she was trying to heal when i came back and made it worse) that she wil never forget that note bla bla bla she is keeping it and shit.

i was scared, since then i never write farewell letters again and actually watch what i write.
i admit it was babish of me at that time i just didnt know and hell this was a girl sef.

MoneyRule:
@ poster
he prolly doesn't know what to say or how to say it and that's why he hasn't replied.
I guess you are expecting a 'regret' mail from him so you can feel better and that's why you are upset he hasn't replied.
My advice to you;cut the crap and get over it! Even the world would one day come to an end!

that got me laughing loud this night. phewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

he treated me unfairly i spoke to him, he tried to make amends, but i cld not get over his earlier treatment, so he left, and you tried to win him back but it didnt work so we both agreed to be friends.

And now this good bye email thing girl the twists and turns in the relationship is unhealthy for both of you. some pple manage to remain friends with their ex but even this your own nor gree do. LET HIM BE, he has seen your farewell mail, mayb he sees no reason to reply, IT HAS ALL BEEN SAID AND DONE, this is a guy not a chick, has it occurred to u he probably has nothing to say to you, or does not want to say anything. This is a new year relax, u'd heal in no time.

by the way this norway ure calling schooling i.e tuition der is free money to settle down aka living expenses is what you'd be thinking of. have you tried to get admission there, even sweeden. oh boy you fit even drop pickin for this world just because of papers.

Desperate times call for desperate measures.
Goodluck

Treetop20:
for someone who is well educated
your English is shite

it is just laughable. A huge joke

i know this arrangement now alot of people dey do am for school those days. After a while they get bored and want to do stuff but the chick is der now like a wife. they cant take it any longer

he is a student i doubt if he has the money to pay for a separate place for her. Olanajim has said it all make sure you tidy up this mess before the new semester starts and while at it u may begin to bid d relationship farewell.

And so she is no longer a virgin
yes tell me something new, if she does not want to do
yes and so wetin come be your own?
its her body she can do what she likes with it and make decisions as it pleases her
some guys decide to go celibate for a short while or for a long period
lets respect ourselves please

NB:Would u have preferred if she lied she was a virgin n on d wedding night u found it was a lie

you did the right thing by moving on from your story she never seemed to be really into you. perhaps she had not gotten over her past relationship.

that aside but nawa oh this issue of being so commited to her and she not playing it equal by amongst other reasons not giving you sex while u were havin it outside from other girls. my brother that seems like selfishness to me too.

happy new year people!

i guess the idea of staying friends with ex has neva sunk too well with me. well it will definitely be childish to sulk, ignore,or not even return a hello or hi greeting from an ex and so i am not saying that's the way to go but all these happy birthday call, and d likes help complicate things especially with some people.

@iice i meant that is how i would act and i bet u it would work for me. i would not have to say a thing to let her know i dont want ''pokenosing''. If it wont work for him, he can tell her straight up. nice and firmly

Taliban:
I was involved in an office relationship but it turned awry and the girl broke off the relationship. But as God would have it, I left my former office and am involved in another relationship now. When I changed jobs, my ex called to say I didn't inform her that she heard from people, i called her recently just to wish her a happy birthday and the next thing she says is that I owe her gist, I guess she expects me to tell her I am in a relationship now. It simply beats me what do you think she's up to. when we were breakin up with me she was like we should still be good friends, I think am getting pissed with the pokenosing, would it be immature for me to tell her to leave me alone and stop the pokenosing.

i wish i understood what people mean by lets still remain good friends after a breakup. Well if u dont want ''pokenosing'' der is a way you can send that vibe without being rude, if its me i dont think i have to tell u point blank before you know. Maybe on her next birthday you should send an sms instead.