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Diva1:
He said I was wrong and disrespected him by putting the picture of us without asking him and also with a fake name. How can someone be that angry to that extent??
I talked to different men about the situation and they all said i did nothing wrong, he was the one at fault.

my dear i just dey vex like say na me be u. That is pure nonsense, rubbish. And to make matters worse he is angry.Angry over what?

He has cheated once before he played dumb for 2-3 months with no good reason. If sth like that still disturbed me, i have every right to inquire and investigate(where i can) what happened during that period and that you did. That lady still has some sort of hold on him. You should be the angry person here, he should be the one begging. And the nerve to break up with u on phone. Respect nor dey i must say. You should be very glad, he has revealed this part of himself to you. You know what to do now i guess.

prittigrrr:
They do have hair removal creams but I would not want a child of 9 to administer them. They are very strong and harsh. They will severely irritate skin in the crease of the thighs if placed there. They also can cause serious problems if they get too close to the folds of the labia. The creams are tricky for adults so I wouldnt advise it for a child.

ok thank u

crazykid:
I'm yet to see a girl who stammers. So the question a a guy dating a female stamerer is out of the question.

ar u kiddin me?

he's just not that into u.

One of my worse nightmare. do u know why he broke up with the girl. i ask cos i fear if its something flimsy,it could be resolved tomorrow and u'd b left in d lurch. Also how long did he have in between the break up before u guys started dating? i ask cos if it was too soon he might not have healed properly and u cld be acting as a rebound(to prove a point to his ex) or revenge girlfriend for him.

finally tell him bout ur concerns watch for change and hear what he has to say, dont act too desperate, if someone loves u they do. if u still feel insecure and all follow ur instinct. Trust me u dont want to play second fiddle for any man.

yes i can if he stutters/stammers lightly. Nothing do me plus sometimes u end up getting used to and infact loving the so called inperfection in a lover. it just might happen

And the circle keeps going round. i think m over this topic

JustGood:
Reverse the question - whats wrong with dropping your name to take your husband's name?

Nothing, unless its something ive always wanted.

Moonstone:
No excuse. . . that's a dangerous kind of high. No matter how high one is, he/she should not be dancing that way with someone of the same sex unless he/she really has homosexual tendencies in his/her subconscious.

i beg to differ. they could or could not have homosexual tendencies. the answer u neva can tell

spikedcylinder:
The guys in the picture may have been purely high.

exactly my same tots

cabali:
He had the signs and he still went along. He must stay in that marriage. No space for divorce. he must live with it

talk true God forbid say na u be the man, u go stay?

See below my kid’s sex, age and chores

Boy 11
Mop kitchen floor, dinning room floor and hallway
Take out the trash
Clean bedroom, make bed

Girl 9
Clean Bathroom
Vacuum Living room Floor
Vacumm Game room floor
Clean bedroom, make bed

Boy 6
Pick up/put away all toys
Empty all trash cans into kitchen trash
Clean room, make bed

i was wondering if they did this EVERYDAY after school with their homework. Seems abit too much in my estimation. The weekend work seems perfectly fine, tho i wonder about the hands and knee part. well u know what they say hardwork never killed anyone plus its ur family u know how best to train ur kids.

What of hair removal cream.you place it there, leave it and rinse it off or something. if she cut herself once next time she will take caution.A nine year old can do this.A relative, a female church member, female family friend, even the doctor can show her this once. This is nonsense esp for abroad when small thing they say child abuse person still dey do this kind thing no fear.

At least i have heard of such cream i rmb in secondary school (i attended a female boarding school) a girl did it in my prescence those of us bathing around her moved closer and asked her questions about the cream and stuff. That was a long long time ago, i guess those creams are still around. i dont know if they have negetive effects on women especially children of that young age(9). You tell me

whether he decides to remain in d marriage or leave, he must draw closer to God, this lady is the type that can resort to diabolical means to do something to this guy. just my tot sha i might be wrong

dem still dey see. what a total mess. if this is true, then he needs to take a walk quickly. The marriage was doomed from the start and still he did not see it. then he needs to draw closer to God make this woman nor go juju am oh. who fit strip naked for broad day light.Godforbid

uhmnnnnnnnnnn

Ask her why she is speaking from both sides of her mouth. calmly describe how her cold and hot behavior is making you feel.give her time to speak her mind and watch it from there. her actions will tell u how far. if she is still acting childish and saying no, men u know what to do. Restrict the friendship at arms length the next time around if it does not go on well. u need to move on.

@poster nothing do u. carry go

so women who accept men who cheat,do so if you want an STD.my mother is lucky she didn't get HIV AIDS itself but she's suffering with genital herpes now as it's not curable and live with it for the rest of her life as punishment for accepting a cheating man to keep cheating and keep sleeping with her

this is utterly sad.bridget bridget i rmb u, are we still at this junction?@carol watch it oh, thats how it starts. Foreigners dating these cheating men watch it oh, if they love u they love u utterly when they start playing games watch it. u might just be the means to getting residency/citizenship. they will divorce u soon after and bring their wife/girlfriend or children under ur nose to that obodo. shine ur eyes

I hope this babe is not some closet extreme feminist.

No sir not at all.

Or you can make it your middle name. . . my mom did that.

Are you against hyphenated?

Not at all i have suggested all these, he does not like the idea, not even the bank statement or even it bin on social sites like facebook or stuff

Are u the only child??

Nope i got one brother though,maybe i wana help him out. its more than that sha. i just love my surname.its always been with me and besides it sounds really nice

Finally i aint talking of ending any relationship thats not even bin contemplated by me, only wondering y its too hard for him to swallow. As smart and enlightened as he is. if he still insists till the end, i'd let it slide sadly. life would go on

ok ive been in a wonderful relationship for a while and our aim is to get married. We keep talking of things we expect and all. one of the things i'd always loved right from when i was a kid is answering my fathers name(i.e my present surname) in addition to my husbands. The first time i told him this he was like ''ok,we'd see'' .Over time he has changed his position on someother things (and so have i)but on this fathers name issue he has bluntly refused to budge. i have tried to explain,plead,beg lovingly and every other means but he is adamant. Why wont he allow this, if it means so much to me. he is a loving man whom i totally adore and is not the usual stuck up traditional african man. so whats with him and this issue. How can i convince him other wise because i think i'm fast losing this goal i always dreamed of.

No. not parents but new generation mothers. If anyone wants to be honest about this topic you will agree. Not All new gen. mothers.
Take a look at their dressing, there way of communication, staying out late, what they wear their child/children at infant. How they warn the teacher or anyone not to beat their child when he/she is wrong. etc. you will not deny this at all. The advise they give to their child/children, the type of story they tell them etc.

Their advise is look at A, B or mr C etc.

Fathers only go out, may stay long outside but children learn fast from their mothers.

i tire for this Marykelly.what nonsense, what a sad view to hold especially coming from a woman.

Abit scary to me, but then again look at the bright side it might be ur lucky number.

Oh paul is that for real? All d best sha ur post sounded quite sincere

all u chicks loving older men, NOTHING DO UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU(not the 13year old girl sha)

but nor be so dem dey talk when they get the money wahala go start.

approach the girl my friend d worse is a no. life goes on at least u tried.