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Na lie!

is it only this calling back issue that is d problem and mayb not coming over to c u unless she is driving thru d area?
Can u say that she loves, and truly cares for you
do u have more doubt at this stage after 7months?

Then if that be d unfortunate case
Bros den begin dey look outside again
ive heard this sort of story too many times and most times d guy was just a backup plan,a stooge, an in d main time man
Are u?

Just when i was beginning to think of marriage, another guy walks into her life and suddenly im totally worthless to her. Cant even understand what is happening.

ok since ure already thinking of marriage mayb it shows u got d means to put it into actualization. why not bring this issue up and work towards it not cos ure really frightned of loosing her but cos u just want to move on. Haba 7years u try nah. if she is still fronting and not intrested then call it a day. oh and stop drinking its bad for your liver.

The sex is not the issue here and i wont go there. i respect ur decision

but i fear for this sort of relationship oh, have u guys always bin this cold and distant and it seemed normal
how can you just meet once in a month and ure in d same lagos
someone said sth about being in a strict church and i almost screamed ''God bless this person''
is that the reason cos she feels scared that she wil have sex with you and so she stays off.

if ure worried then its definitely not what you expect and that becomes a problem. dont b too quick to call it off but tell her your fears give it some more time for the desired change. pray about it too, all d best

i guess ure still a virgin technically speaking
must be pretty tough tho, just do what ure really convinced about doing

wonders shall never end so na so them dislike black people? i never knew cos some of them are even darker than i am. wetin that pakistani boy dey ask me out for now? good grief

ALAMINA:
I dumped my boyfriend for some selfish reason(s).The new guy i picked is noty good in bed but the old guy is. but my pride wont let me go pick him up again. l n g wht do i do

do u want ur former bf back solely for d sex?Abi hav u now repented from ur very selfish reason? if ur answer is d first just leave d man alone,if its d 2nd apologise and go back and enjoy d sex nah. anything u do just leave this new boyfriend alone unless u wan dey sex starved

na lie oh ur mum was pulling ur legs, no such cultural thing in this regard

but people dont paint their houses perhaps as often as it is done abroad
this might be some reasons why they do or dont do and when in my opinion
cos if na rented house wetin concern you? and if the landlord wont paint his own house na him sabi nor be im dey collect the rent? thats his business
i have seen more people paint houses sha when their child is getting married, burial, birthday, or some thanksgiving thats seems to be a perfect time to paint the house
plus lastly some people are afraid if the house looks too new and nice it might attract those people
yes nah thiefi thiefi  ohhhhhhhhhh did i say that

alternatively,your madam can always go for screening abroad during pregnancy to determine the genotype and an option of abortion is offered.but what about the stress and the guilt.
i dont mean to be cynical but please lets do a reality check.until we find ourselves in certain positions we cant really say the extent we can react.


This to me is one of the best answers i have read so far. Do u have the money and resources to send her abroad for screening and determine the genotype of the baby and make that painful decision to abort the child? i heard of a family that did this and now have AA and AS children only?

Do you have money for the bone marrow thing they do?

i have a relation with an SS child, she had the best care and love ,her parents fortunately are wealthy she had check ups done outside Nigeria on a regular basis. she died. leaving her parents devastated in old age. she was all they had luckily they had an adopted son. Can you adopt will you agree to do this and live happily?

i have heard SS children who got cured claiming to be healed (i know of one or two) i also know of SS who God so kind do not suffer as much as the majority but these cases are so so few. i am more familiar with the ones that suffer greatly SS class mates and even recently a family friend i happned to stay with. the experiences are not good i tell you. when this girl starts with her crises the house is on fire.i saw this with my own eyes i lived with them.

i still wonder y people will want to thread this path. Enough has bin said

Fast & Pray for 'em to part ways. (Not bad)
Kill whoever she's engaged to. (Risky)
Kill yourself. Risk free


[quote][/quote]i nor fit laf ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.lol

Okija_juju:
@ Topic

Question; Can I fight over a girl _{(for her love)}.

Answer; NO

Reason; It goes against the rules of engagement.


Question; Can I fight because of a girl (to protect her)

Answer; Hells Yeah.

Reason; Shes mine, and its my duty as her boyfriend/fiance/husband to protect her.

i liked this one

sorry to deviate but wot do u think about this thing m keepin from my guy

well der some stuffs u must keep abi.m still thinking if i should let this one out. months ago when my bf and i wer having it really hard in our relationship n i tot it was almost over i did some playing around. well nothing serious not even as much as a serious kiss just some touch touch with this guy( who has always bin my friend right from uni asked me out and i never agreed). my bf knows about this guy who has always tried to get me and kinda hates his guts.

its over now and wer fine again. sometimes i feel guilty and want to just mention it. do u think ders any need for this?

you wer punked.

No sir breakup must not be mutual although sometimes it could be but u appear 2b a selfish man imagine breaking up by sending an sms thats childish. Everyone knows that thats a big no no, esp if a relationship lasted 3years. you say you don't want to call her and stuff so u don't fall back for her again with her crying and all not forgeting u are emotional ohhhhhhhhhh please thats crap.
           
Be a man,meet her and explain(please u cld leave out the fact she is now big and curvy).

by d way didnt u know u wer a year older when you were asking her out. what was ur plan for the relationship? Did u ever have it in mind to marry her. me thinks ure just tired of the relationship and will give any excuse to let go. i know plenty young people that a year apart or even the same year. they know what they want and are sticking through thick and thin to achieve the end result.YES MARRIAGE.

uhmn pretty dicey i beg can u divulge more information on the nature of the other lies make i weigh the thing for my scale before i talk proper

guy get over it nor b this one dem dey advise person plenty

i am shocked to say the least. i never knew Akata was used for African americans specifically or it was used in a derogatory manner until i joined this site. i even used to refer to nigerians in the US as akata. Inshort so that i wont be the one getting it all wrong i asked peeps in my house today what they tot the word meant and they said ''is it not abroad or somebody from there''

Wow

twas a beautiful feeling we were just friends then but so so close, he had not even asked me out. i remember most things he told me i could always remember them,from the most flimsy things to the look on his face to things bout his family, school, friends etc.

But i guess the greatest thing was that i loved him so much and it was selfless.i loved him so much i was willing to do stuffs for him that were within my power. Twas not like he was boxed up or anything, just a simple guy. .
emmmmmmm when i remember those days ,

Vonny:
Mezdim,

If you want him back, then keep doing what you are doing, don't beg him for his love. That's why he's still so jealous, he's wondering why you aren't upset about the decision to break up and that intrigues him, so keep at it. However, he doesn't have a mind of his own. He would rather marriage a village girl that he doesn't love, so if I were you I would continue keeping him intrigued by not begging, [b]and also continue dating other men. [/b]Good luck.

now that last part got my attention, i kinda like it but can you give your best to other serious guys out there, while still keeping hope alive for this guy. just a question sha

@poster this man is blowing hot and cold for you. He has told you its over but acts like he still has you, u geneuienly like him and mayb the attention he is giving you and  maybe just hoping for something small, maybe he'd come back to his senses and for this i fear for you. you claim you are not falling for him and all that but you can't move on properly because you believe the person you knew once is better than those you don't know. that is wrong. don't you want to move on with your life.

picture this he might just be doing all he is doing feeling sorry and loving you yet not standing up to his father and one of these days he'd come back home and marry that girl from his village. Then what will you do. is that what you want to wait for? Do you think he's still be doing the friendly calls then and acting jealous over you with his new wife?
come on girl

you were not a dummy
that was pretty brave of you tho. how did you manage?