wrong... wrong ... and wrong... tomorrow na una go be the first to go church and sit in front row and speak in tongues and forget to read the first page and chapter of the bible that preaches forgiveness.
how can you be a christian that wants to go to heaven without practising forgiveness...
Let me define the word un-forgiveness for you... Un-forgiveness is like taking poison and hoping someone else dies for you taking the poison.
this is your time to shine and let the angels in heaven dance , and have a big party and celebrate your act of forgiveness.
Davidave: If he didn’t take the responsibility he was supposed to, he doesn’t deserved the sympathy he expects from you.
to add to your comments re Pele and Brazilian league... Brazil won the world cup that had all the European power house 3 times... basically he and Brazil beat Europe football power houses 3 times in his career.
Benmob: because he did not play in Europe,he is overrated,go and read d story why Pele did not play in Europe,if not,he would have win many trophies in Europe. Then d Brazil federation did not allow him to sign in any Europe club and d pple and fans of Santos d club he play for in brazil did many riot,when d like of of Bayern,real Madrid and milan,even Napoli try to sign him,now imagine if he had play for diz clubs,he would have win many Europe big cups. Some pple will say they were not stronger competition in south America of Brazil and Argentina,but they have forgotten their were once a tournament call Intercontinental Cup which look like FIFA club world cup of today,then south America team always play against uafa champion League champion in d final,but were many time south America team beat Europe champion,even Santos Pele play for beat Europe champion 3 times to win d cup or trophy eg 1962 beat benfica 8-4 agg,1963 beat ac milan 8-8 agg home,with a play off 1-0 Santos beat Ac-milan and a intercontinental supercup in 1963 beating inter-milan 1-0. To me Pele is still d greatest player follow by messi.
Pells1: Pele who Overrated player that never played in Europe or won UCL Messi will forever be the Greatest Player to ever play football 8th Ballon D'Or loading Penaldo fangirls are suffering already
you are a native doctor... next step is for you to specialise in money ritual doctorate.
HeartlessMan: Stop blaming innocent cold temperature. Many American asthmatic patients survive annually.
He died as a result of his weakened genes due to his grandfather's excessive marijuana intake which affected some critical genomes over the years.
Same thing will happen to Seun and Femi Kuti's seeds. I always laugh when people say weed has no effect on humans. People engage in all sorts of immorality and expect that it will just vanish. Dey play.
Whether Bobrisky and James Brown are acting doesn't matter. Their grandkids will develop homosexual traits because they are both modifying their genes presently to perfect that behaviour in their descendants.
Do a thorough check of your intending partner's background before settling down so you don't get thrown into what you have no idea about.
Show me any Nigerian working in the corporate/professional world (outside the medical field) in the western world that got his or her job from a reference from another Nigerian? After 23 years in the western world I have never or not seen. I have seen Indians and Chinese giving reference to their fellow others to join them in the corporate/professional high paying jobs.. I know of an Indian racket that's recognized and respected by all Indians over the world that if an Indian ham or woman is manager they would hire easy but they will keep your one or two month salary because they hired you (evil I must say but at least they respect their form of progress).
There are lots of good Nigerians... but very few honest Nigerians.
Being a Ghanaian, I’ve had this bad impression about Nigerians. I grew up in Ghana thinking Nigerians were negative energies around anyone. I was literally brainwashed mostly by the media to see Nigerians as thieves, murderers, scammers, etc. But after 6 years of working and associating with Nigerians outside of Ghana, the following are what I’ve found and discovered about them. I’m writing this not because my best friend back in the UK is a Nigerian, and not because my senior manager and team lead at my present employer are Nigerians. This is my honest observation!
Arguably, if you put the average Ghanaian and a Nigerian under the same conditions and environment, the Nigerian would undoubtedly outperform the Ghanaian. They are bold, smart and have this relentless quest and effort for learning and perfecting their craft. What a Nigerian cannot do does not exist. I started a DevOps Engineering program for a career alternative and Nigerians especially their women from different career fields constitute about 60% of the class. I was scared to take this step—to move from risk management to pure IT but I was shocked to see Nigerians in nursing, HR, journalism, sales, etc here in Canada taking on the challenge. I quickly reached out to most of my Ghanaian friends but none seem to be interested. This is a fortune field in IT….and when I asked these Nigerians why many of them are here, they told me “this is the surest way to make money by doing less”. Truth is, if you’re starting anything abroad and there’s no Nigerian in it, just know that that thing has no promise ��. A Nigerian wouldn’t attempt what doesn’t bring any monetary gain or value to them!
I’ve noticed that a Nigerian wouldn’t lie to you unless they’re scared of you or stand to gain something exceedingly beneficial from doing so. This confirms why the most genuine and honest folks I’ve ever associated with outside of Ghana are Nigerians. When a Nigerian is sharing an opportunity with you, they disclose everything dito-dito. They withhold nothing—they tell you as it is. My people would give you a half information and still be all over the place saying that they’ve helped you. You have no idea how many Ghanaians have made themselves demi-gods out here because they’ve been here for ages and feel everything must be ran through them. If you don’t go their way, you’re a target for gossip!
A Nigerian sees an opportunity in every situation, and it cuts across. They’re mostly interested in building a sustainable business than for a quick profit. This explains why wherever there are both Ghanaian and Nigerian traders, the Nigerian merchandise would cost less than the Ghanaian—even if they have the same suppliers. I see that here in Calgary at the various African markets.
Show me any work environment or office without a Nigerian and I’ll show you a work that’s less fulfilling and rewarding. The energy around Nigerians is positive and motivating. Nothing scares them than failure so they work hard for success because success is greatly celebrated in their culture. Where I come from, if you’re making any progress, there’s 100% chance you’ll lose 99% of your friends—they’ll spread lies about you out of dislike. Some would also attribute your progress to things other than your personal efforts. “You see that girl, she’s being chopped by so so and so person. You see that guy, he’s an occult. You see that guy, he’s rushing in life. Etc”. Your own family would turn themselves into avowed enemies—praying to see you fail so that they’ll use you as a bad example like “you see that guy, he was rushing in life but see how he’s crushed like a fragile glass.” My people have a long way to go. They must know that it’s okay for anyone irrespective of age to be great at what they do. In fact, people can build a fortune at age 40 or less through genuine means. Let’s inhale some positivity!
We glorify timidity, ignorance and sycophancy as signs of humility but Nigerians encourage boldness, assertiveness and being daring. If there’s a Nigerian in your trade or profession, get closer, you’ll learn a lot from them. I’ve learned a lot from my association with them and I’m always grateful for having one as my direct supervisor at work!
before you pack you bag and go anywhere... buy her a ticket to come here to visit or you both meet in a neutral country for first in person meet... do you know her family or even best friend online via social media?... stay wise as bear bear bank na trouble ordinarily talkless of going to zambizo for bear bear bank matter
jeffmatt4u: I have this Zambia babe I have been chatting with on facebook. We kind of dating, she is very in-love with me bcoz she call almost everyday both on video call and all. Now she wants me to come over to Zambia promising to help in securing admission at her school (university of Zambia) for me by next year. she is a medical student . And she is damn serious. So my people, how do you see this? Is it a good idea moving to Zambia?
The sad part Morocan politicians are doing a million times better in making their country a better country every day... While NFF and Nigerian politicians are doing everything everyday to make Nigeria a toilet.
Flixbus I used to travel from Hungary to Serbia and Croatia have drivers and some other guy or person that sell tickets to passengers, opens and closes door etc... Maybe it's a glorified conductor but it's a conductor.
When I was in Lina, Peru I did not see buses with conductor...maybe outside Lima there are but I did not see in Lima.
By the way there are are places in New York where you can get a passenger taxi you share with others.... They pick passengers and drop them just like in Nigeria...I took on in Brooklyn and it was cheap compared to regular taxi
naijamanyoutube: Do you guys know of any country outside of Africa where they do this? Please let us know below.
DNA test if done properly does not lie... What ever is the reason behind this is either she is lying, the test is wrong or something fishy happened at the hospital re swapping of baby....and lastly, someone just Post ng rubbish on here.
Regardless, why do a DNA test if guilty conscience is not worry the person...I mean the husband is happy and enjoying family but she is worried about her child not being here.
peepydelano: Their next agenda is to rubbish the DNA tests so they can enjoy hoeing around in peace, it won’t ever work. She never talk truth . Or the baby was swapped at birth but I no trust that gender at all.
All most ijaw men do is eat fis, drink beer and pepper soup, and maybe hammer osin and banga soup if they can afford it...... And find a woman dem go use for hotel room.
Next day dem go enter politics or lower knfor politicians to sort them out.
Their leaders have no vision but looking for political appointment to look.
Imagine my cousins in yenogoa got a political appointment and he called me to give him money to buy the form to accept his position.... Another one got a political appointment and he hired a hotel to celebrate.
My people in Bayelsa are being bleeped from their nostrils and ears
Imagine a state where the governor spends 90% of his time outside the state
666Advocate: You are very stupid. Have you seen an Ijaw person begging with plates on the streets before? Instead it's your tribe that do it. Namasiobiri.
na today you know say almost every nigerian if not all nigerians are loco?
nigeria is a mental home for retards.... until there is a shock and awe (shock therapy i.e. Buhari is apprehended, flogged, slapped, and put on national tv to confess to his government evil deeds.. then nigeria will continue to be mentally loco'd up).
something dramatic is the only thing that can wake nigerians up
If you can't stand the heat then don't get in the kitchen... Hope you learnt a lesson and frankly I apologise for my words but let's respect ourselves else even monkeys are better than us as nigerians.
Ayohbk: Oh..... I see. I didn't know i was engaging a riff raff who can't hold a mature discuss and isn't ready to learn.
Olodo.... you like to be spoon fed and if you are not spoon fed the world must come to an end... Go jump off a bridge and spare yourself the agony.
Ayohbk: Before you write up your nonsense reply, why do you compare a construction worker with a nurse? instead of same professions in both countries. After checking both are the same. Of course many laws that protect a worker in the UK are not available to the Qatar migrant worker.
How do you compare someone working 60 to 70 hours a week tp someone working 35 to 40 hrs a week on the same salary?
Are Healthcare packages provided to this migrant workers?
What is the essence of making 30k euros in a year, and spending tens of thousands of euros on health care in subsequent years.
Nah...that money don't generate close to a $100 million dollars in the USA... Just imagine how many people and businesses take loans from that money to do business in the US and make profit and pay taxes in the US.
Wetin Nigerians need to know is when you take stolen millions or billions from nigerians money and put in American bank or western bank you will never get it back.
You can only spend the money locally in their economy and country but can't withdraw it back to any other country just because won't let you .. they won't tell you direct but will ask you to explain wetin make you dey withdraw the money and tell you to come back another day.... But dem go run checks dem know the results already on you and gbam drug money for you to forfeit or go get a lawyer to prove it's legal funds... But since it's legal funds you done with the money.... But dem go let you spend the money as much as you want locally in their economy.
Can you point to Iran on the map?... You are safer as a black.man in Iran than your country and the US....let that sink in
The way the west and NATO killed ghadafi is same thing they want to do in Iran... Mind you Libya was the most progressive and prosperous country in Africa before it was destroyed... The sadistic thing is you think you know but you don't.
Anything you read on CNN or BBC is god giving una news.... I'm sure when your forefathers were beaten and their women raped its the same shit you see in CNN and BBC that they told the world that your forefathers were evil and undemocratic
Righteousness2: What is happening in Iran is so unfortunate.
Iran has one of the most awesome, wonderful and beautiful people on earth, unfortunately they have a oppressive, Demonic and blood thirsty leadership.
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This year's edition will feature 40 supermodels as Sir Timmy, Quest Amb Wahala and Head Master will be the hypemen.
Dj Burna, Dj Legend, Dj hippson step and Dj Icemo will thrill guests with endless music.
There will be lots of comedy, dance and exciting prizes to be won.
This event is powered by Peace Ambassador for Peace Nigeria, owned by popular showbiz entrepreneur, Amb. Dr. Kingsley Amafibe.
If you know nobody is perfect why ask for something from somebody so that person meet your spec?
Go ask the person when create people to make them meet your spec.
Live and let's live
bestdudes: Sorry but the thread is about basic human decency and basic human interactions. These girls lacked it. They lack courtesy and that is why I pulled out.
I am aware that nobody is perfect and I can manage some things but what I can't stand is when an adult lack basic human decency...
Glad you know what you want but sad that you don't know how to go get what you want.
Relationships or marriage is not a child game.... So if you decide to move on with a woman and she fart 1 month later and it's a stinky fart...what will you do?
What about if she shit and the shit dey smell well well .. what will you do?
What about when she take off her wig?
Dude stop boiling the ocean... Just imagine when you find that woman and she sees your post on here and says what is this guy...a child or children that will go on nairaland to talk about her...face palm
bestdudes: Some weeks ago, this thread titled: "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" graced the Nairaland front page.
It is highly impossible that averagely pretty and above-average pretty ladies didn't meet serious men in their 20s. It is not possible. The problem with many ladies is that they have a very poor selection and also have a very bad attitude that chases good men away.
I am going to share my recent experience with 3 ladies and why I decided to walk away.
Lady 1: I had been chatting with this lady on Twitter without asking for her number. It has been on and off for more than one year. So about 3 months ago, I decided to ask for her number, which she delayed but later gave it on the same day.
For the records, this lady is pretty, she looks very much like Rita Dominic, very striking resemblance. Just to give you an idea that she is pretty.
We chatted a few times and then I decided to call. The first two were brief but the 3rd was much longer and somewhat boring because I was doing most of the topic or angle infusion, more like I was the one bringing up topics to sustain the interactions.
Before that 3rd call, I sent an SMS to ask if she was still at work and she replied to the SMS and said she was still at work. So I had to wait for about 1 hour before I called.
After the call, I texted her to say she has a good voice. I asked whether she sings or loves singing. It was just an innocent question borne out of curiosity because I could imagine she is a good singer with such a voice
She didn't reply to the SMS. Of course, I expected that, knowing how ladies behave over something as simple as that. While on Twitter, I asked whether she got the SMS, and she said that she saw it but didn't have airtime to reply lol...
That was a lie of course. I wonder why she would lie, perhaps she wanted to "form" or what? Ma'am, it was just a simple curious question.
I decided to take a stroll to her profile that same day and there I saw what completely turned me off. On her profile, she said people think she enjoys calls but she does not want calls and that they will think chatting her up on WhatsApp is better but she does not enjoy that either.
If that is the case, why give your number out? Why not isolate yourself from people entirely so that no one interacts with you? Are you better than those who took out time to spend it with you via calls?
I interpreted her mentality and worldview as someone who feels too important and does appreciate the effort of people who try to reach out to her or interact.
On seeing that, It was disappointing to note what she thought of others who called or chatted her up, I mean these are people's time that can't be gotten back lol.
Lady 2: This one is from Twitter as well. We started talking from a thread and I decided to DM her. I liked her energy. She was light and responsive, very open and communicative.
She started asking for my picture because I do not display my picture on Twitter. I was reluctant initially but sent it cos she persisted... after much chat, we exchanged numbers and I chatted her up on WhatsApp 2 days later. We talked about hanging out in December but she said she would be traveling to her state for the festive season.
While we were chatting, I had called before then, I simply asked whether she has entered another relationship after the last one she mentioned on Twitter.
Guess her response? she said "Do you have money to spend on my head"? For a less than 1 week interaction?
Oh, God... I knew I wouldn't want to have anything to do with this one beyond WhatsApp or Twitter. I reduced my interactions with her and it died.
For the two ladies above, I do not often remember they are on my contact anymore except when I see their status lol.
Let's move on
Lady 3: Met this one after church and we were going in the same direction. I spoke to her and we exchange numbers. We chatted, and I called. We arranged to meet up. On the day of our meeting, which was the first after that Sunday, she asked me whether I have knowledge of digital marketing or social media marketing. I said I do but it is not something that can be discussed on WhatsApp, except we meet so that I can explain it to her.
Though chatting her up was very slow as she is rarely online. She takes a few hours to reply lol.
We met and the meeting was more of a lecture with me answering all her questions. I enjoyed it anyway.
Knowing that I exchanged numbers because I was attracted to her, I had to find a way to subtly give hint. Now, here is the challenge I had. She increasingly started replying with monosyllables like "yeah", okay, no, lol, ,
On noticing that, I knew it was time to exit from her life and I did.
The above 3 ladies are pretty facially and above average... With their attitude that made me leave them alone, tomorrow, they will come online to write "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" lol and some persons will be saying it is true blah blah...
Girls are the architect of their own misfortune. You will see a man being a decent gentleman and develop a habit that chases them away. In the same vein, they will accept the guys who do not have any good intentions toward them.
Others may believe that thread but definitely not me. I do not believe that a girl, especially the pretty ones, will live from age 1 to 30 and never come across a man with good intentions. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE!
God1000: Let's wait for more information, Russia will surely apologize because I don't think Putin is that stupid to attack a NATO country after losing more than 100,000 soldiers in Ukraine, the humiliating defeat and withdrawal from Kherson region.
I pity ordinary Russians in advance when the unthinkable happens
Putin should not bite more than he can chew, if Russia cannot defeat Ukraine in more than 8 months, how can such country fight NATO, Russia will be obliterated.
If Putin wants to die, he should die alone, it seems he's tired of living
Russia's invasion of Ukraine is a strategic disaster and fiasco, historians will talk about it for decades to come
Family › Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by toxtimmy: 7:28pm On Dec 31, 2022
