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merge:
@ tipa stop trying to be difficult.

Unfortunately, Bill Clinton could have been divorced.

Children look up to their parents. The good and bad examples.

what is difficult to understand there?

Bill Clinton has been married to one woman for close to 30 years, in spite of the fact that his mom was married four times - whats your point?

You'd prefer him to be divorced so he can fit your stereotype?

children look up to their parents doesnt mean they automatically copy every single thing about their parents.

your profiling here is off base.

@inky


your dad looks Ghanaian but he could be Nigerian like you are saying.

women dey try sha. << shakes head>>

@ izatrini:

as people are telling you, this man of yours sounds like a yahoo yahoo kind of person.

try to do some background investigation and open your eyes: he probably already has children elsewhere, from some other women, even assuming his tale about a childless wife is true.

I'm sure you're not the first woman he'll have bamboozled with his sob story, and you most likely wont be the last either.

he may be making you feel "special", but rest assured he's had lots of practice all around town.

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ayomifull:
No! being virgin doesnt make one a better partner. My husband disvirgined me but i am not even close to being a better partner, he infact deserve a better wife than me. I have my great parts but i do not make a better partner compared to my friends or some wives i know whose husband did not disvirgin. Nothing makes me special as in being better, i am trying but definitely being virgin when we met and remaining so for 6 years before i 'did' does not make me any special. I am just as good as any other wife.

**sighs**

a rare moment of clarity and good sense in this everlasting virgin brouhaha.





@ merge: you mean you werent joking in that long post of yours?

Bill Clinton's mom married four times. Bill Clinton has been married only one time, for nearly thirty years.  Countless other examples. Children from two parent homes are the ones getting divorced at an alarming rate these days, from what I'm seeing around.

alex406:
Osun is one of the states that is naturally endowed with such things.

you no lie.

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um, from what I've read on some yahoo yahoo threads here:

these yahoozee boys are proud of what they do and make no apologies to anyone about it,

and they dont sound like graduates.

Kobojunkie:
I understand that BUT I still vote for it. If we plan to kill ourselves off, then so be it but this continued dependency on the rest of the world is killing us. We are harboring a generation of BEGGARS who practically blame the WEST when there is no food on the table, and not their leaders and even self for not knowing to work the farms.

very true.

This is why I wonder at some of the verbal battles between AAs and Africans/Nigerians.

We also blame whites for many of our problems. So do a lot of AAs.

Then we turn around and yell at them for doing what we are also guilty of.




anyway, in response to your post, I can't support the view that black countries should be left alone to die if they can't handle their problems. Most times its true the west has had a hand in those problems, so they cant eat then wipe their mouths like they never did it. We are all connected.

spikedcylinder:
una don come. Is it only in Osun they have shrines?

different religions in Africa.

Every time I log into nairaland, I swear there's a thread with "Igbo" in the title. Or a thread about Igbo.


am not complaining but Ibo is like the world wide web oh- accessible to everybody. Open domain. Or is it open source.

Una copyright don vanish be that oh.



@ OP

because when I was in my hometown I found out that he was also looking for us but we moved to an other country as well.

My dad used some different names and when he meet my mother he was also living in Belgium, in Herentals. My mother kept a lot of important information for us so that it would be easier for us to find him.

The real name from my dad is [b]Emeka Kanezi

OP, your search has to start from your hometown. But you may get lucky and find someone who knows his family, here.

You didnt mention your ( dad's) hometown, by the way.

@ kobojunkie

Infact, I would rather the WEST step away and allow Black nations start to suffer under the wait of their problems and learn to solve their problems and improve on their government now and not when all hell breaks loose considering the current situation in the world today is not really going to go away anytime soon.

like they stepped away from Rwanda?


Its not that cut and dried. Everything is interconnected, and I'm sure the west also benefits from Haiti in some unpublicised manner.

just like Africa benefits so many other nations yet is still one of the poorest continents. etc etc.

@ OP: are you maykelly, by any chance?

There was a thread somewhere about some men refusing to marry until they were older.

@ topic- interesting!

Kobojunkie:
The people need food aid?? ok,  so who is going to provide them this food aid?? Whose money is to be used?? and why ??

useful link here from bawolomo.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/finance_meetings


Must we always wait for whites to do what needs to be done while we sit and debate the morality of poverty and starvation.

am wondering what all this has to do with Haitian food riots and mud pies?

It seems to me that these people need food aid, and they need it fast.

The island was also devastated by a couple of hurricanes which wiped out a part of the already insufficient farm harvests.

every virgin gets disvirgined sooner or later, unless they don't want to, for personal reasons.

seriously sha, a lot of nairalanders have a virgin fixation.

Personality is also important in any relationship.

But if someone is looking for authentic virgins, is nairaland really the right place to put up a help wanted ad. This place can disvirgin a person mentally, if not physically.

algood:
I don't beleive we are trying to equate sucking mucus out of kids nose with showing love, its just the fact.

You love your kid, u can go extra miles to make sure your kids are comfortable.

i mean , if u have a child of less than a yr, who doenst understand catarh, the kids is cold, he can't breath well due to mucus on the nose, what do you do in that situation, u got to help the kid, by removing it with your mouth, it doesnt had to u or deduce you, this is your kid u gave birth to.

so should any parents feels he she can't do it, especially mothers , if we can carry them in our tommy for 9months , go through labour pain to have them , then why should we find it difficult to remove mucus from our kid nose.

i do it, and am happy to see my kid sleeping there after, my husband can't do it, he feels somehow just as some people said, he bought the the mucus extractor.
thats what he use to remove mucus for our kids nose, i use it too, since there is an alternative to using my mouth, but if we outside and the kids has cold or catarht and we are not with mucus extractor , i remove it with my mouth.

but its not like there's no other way to remove mucus from a child's nose.

Why insist only on removing it with your mouth?  Most times its not even an emergency situation, but it seems like folks just feel they have to do it that way to show they care.

I don't get it.


I can understand the poopoo, gassy and colicky stuff, but not this one.

are people equating sucking mucus out of their child's nose with showing love?

if there are other ways to remove mucus from the nose, why stick to only this one?

Am just wondering.

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vicade:
I still don't understand how people say liver fail them because of a pretty chick. You should have spoken to her in the bus. I mean, what is the worst that could have happened Now you are in suspense. Most of these pretty chicks want to betalked to, most of them are bored and boring. The point is next time , if there will be a next time, Talk to her and clear your mind and stuff,

thank you.

What's the use of lamenting on nairaland. Unless the girl is here reading his post and knows he's the one she met on the bus.

He might as well just open his mouth and say hi to her directly whenever he sees her. Who says pretty girls cant be talked to. And if she's wearing a shirt with a number for people to call her on it, then I dont think she could make herself any clearer, really. In any case, what's the worst that could happen. Snubbing isnt the end of the world.


Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

left to me, Lola should dump this guy. At least break off all communication, since we dont know who dumped who here, with all the denials.

The mere fact that there's so much ambiguousness involved in the whole matter, is enough room for a separation, as far as I'm concerned.

which kind of yeye merry go round is this.

No.

Men arent that scarce.

@ adedijoy:

OMG

what kind of human being is this man?