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the ones who magnify everything ad nauseum.

^check the op's post history anyway.

just one of these jobless nlers, as i suspected before.

his/imagination runs away with him or her, it seems.

i'm sure the person has also replied him or herself multiple times on this thread.

who dash you girlfriend?

na so e easy?

you date catholic, you dont know if it will work out, you date igbo, you dont know if that's a problem, you date broken home, you're whining on nl


no need to ask if something is wrong with you.

or how many ids you're masquerading under here.

sadeiyare: Did you read the op, why the attack on a question not directed at you. Please be civil

the statement in question wasnt directed at you.

i already mentioned before, i consider the thread a product of low IQ.

Na today nlers dey open s.tupid threads?

in any case, the poster could have used the search function if he wasnt being intentionally d.aft.

obviously, the op had fallen in love before he realised the babe came from a broken marriage!

then he should fall out of love if her background is a problem for him.

na by force?

What will be your strong reason for not marring a girl that you are in a fruitful relationship with.

if someone considers a broken home as a problem with him dating someone from such a background, then he should just not start a relationship to begin with.

everybody has a right to their opinion and personal preferences.

its not a crime- just dont be asking d.aft questions on the internet.

there are many factors which need to be considered when looking for a partner- broken home is just one of them.

stpat1: I'm talking about in Nigeria, looseness as in being too free to go out or do things without the watchful eyes of the parents.

are you serious?

being from a two parent home means someone cant be loose?

where did you get that from?

I have a friend whose wife's parents are divorced. The wife comes from a family of six children and the she is the third. The first two that got married (both girls) got divorced in less than 3 years. I always pray for that friend because I know what he is already going through. His wife just doesn't know how to enjoy her marriage. Little issues escalate into big things and she has vowed not to take any slight rubbish from any man. She has a career like her mother and believes if her mother could take care of 6 children alone, she definitely can take care of two alone. Her mother told her many horrible stuff about men

so, all these nlers who rant and rail about nigerian women and are extremely misogynistic- did they learn it from their fathers?


@ per the rest of your post- i dont know what the statistics are, since divorce does not discriminate based on broken or unbroken background, but like i said before, if you cant do, then waka pass.

not everybody is meant for each other.

now, i'm not saying products of broken homes are automatic marriageable material, but the hoighty toities here are annoying with their low IQ and over sabi.

every marriage has an effect on the products of that marriage. Whether openly broken or unbroken with characteristics of broken.

however, if you were raised to look down on people from broken homes as not good enough for marriage [unless, of course you need visa], then shouldnt your "perfect upbringing" also have imbibed you with an element of courteousness- namely, keep your opinion to yourself and if you no wan do, then waka pass quietly to whoever you find compatible or is it acceptable to yourself.

coogar: low iq?
op asked a good question - is it safe to marry women from broken homes or abusive homes?

the question shows low IQ

1. someone with a normal IQ wont be asking anonymous strangers on the web, something that will affect him personally in this manner. Shows he has no social life or value system. Or sense for that matter.

2. somebody with a normal IQ will simply waka pass any girl he cant date/marry, without making an a.s.s out of himself by trying to make her look bad. You dont have to slander someone just because you cant date them- that shows low level reasoning and gutter mentality. The person you slander today might not be in the same situation tomorrow.

3. As someone rightly pointed out, its laughable the way you gutter mouth nlers all claim to be from perfect homes? Was that where you learnt to act jungle and uncouth?

just asking.

4. OP and his supporters have serious self esteem issues which they try to cover by pointing fingers at other people.

the dv 2013 thread has 150,000+ views.

topic and op smack of low IQ

some of the posters also.

I have said it before,what contributed to her failure is this sms because when it comes to sending sms,girls always type in shot code that is why they cannot spell words correctly when writing examinations.

you might have a point there.

and how many nigerians have high IQ, i wonder.

dont even check nlers own because that would be depressing.

some buttocks threads clocked 100,000. Is it any surprise butt enhancement is such big business.

a disney thread as well, had over 100,000+ views.

hmm, thought it must be a nler, from the thread title.

a lot of those types abound here.

asocial criminals.

ask muslims in muslim section?

is there a wedding date?

if in being alone, you're going to start giving others who arent like you, the evil eye, then dont be.

cant make head or tail of the original post. . . . . .

if we're talking of looseness, in nigeria, or among nigerians, can you repeat what you just stated?

Naturally she has been well rewarded. But her identity will never be revealed

what if the kids want to know their mother?

now, the matter nor concern me sha, but nigerian celebrities and their in-your-face behaviour can get jarring sometimes.

frank is no spring chicken, and its good we were spared the theatrics involved in another fancy schmancy wedding where everybody go dey show teeth like crocodile, but for goodness sake, are there almost no new faces in nollywood?

the lady is probably on nl, with her friends.

and who is chinyere who frank mentioned on twitter [re: google], who he said he was in love with some years back.

na joke abi na serious thing.

can someone answer this plz.

SELFWORTH: Even all the gutter people on NL will start claiming they too are from a perfect family.

of course!!!!!

Mynd_44: If she is successful in doing it, YES.

ok, good for you then.

at least you are in support of such, so dont condemn those women who engage in it.

And if she gets the Holy spirit to change my mind from dumping her to marry someone better, YES

thread title says juju.

If you need to discuss the Holy Spirit, you can open a thread in the appropriate section which handles matters pertaining to religion.

Revolva: Oga no be me take dat foto ok - I am just trying to show the ills in every society ok person mama dey waka naked na good tin - am not tryin to be too holy but I don't support dis ok

if everybody posted what their eyes were seeing, nl itself would be outrightly classified as a p.orn site.

the woman's dressing is extremely mild compared to what's out there.

sebi she at least made an attempt to cover the upper portion of her butt?

in fact, na conservative she be, paapaa.

if the kids want to follow her example, then good for them. You cant always outrun your family background.

^ defend juju more than that if you like.

my question remains- are you ok with a woman controlling you using voodoo.

yes or no.

^ what is crap is an african pretending he or she doesnt know anything about juju and its manifestations.

and no, you're not a christian.

you just think you are.

live and let live.

op dont go around taking photos of people's butt regions- this kind of thing is too rampant on nl and the people doing it dont know they're abnormal probably because they watch too much p.orn.



there's much worse dressing all over the place these days- the women dont tire and so it looks like everybody's in for the long haul since no one wants to be in a sharia state either. Besides, i think most of such people, are doing it to seduce men.

if you're being flashed with either somebody's butt or their breast, remove your eyes and if possible, let the person know their dressing is wack.