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is it not subhuman to intentionally try to reduce others to that status based on what you say your idol told you?

the picture e get as e be.

the expressions are total opposites.

the lady seems to be in love with love, cant say the same for frank.

its like she considers she got a good catch, but does he?

just asking.

thought he's an actor, and they're supposed to fake it?

why does the lady look happy but the man always looks somehow in his own pictures?

are they on the same page, or is she not noticing his expression.

hope another woman hasnt already entered the picture.

^ you're the one calling yourself names and derailing the thread.

everything you mentioned in your post was done by you, not me, and if you have questions on religion, you can head to religion section.

as per thread title, do you have any opinion on the use of juju to control a man- would you be okay if a woman visited a babalawo on your behalf, in order to snag you.

yes or no, plz, not a long thesis about religion.

and no, you're not a christian, going by what you typed on this thread. "Dem born me for church" doesnt make someone a christian.

seems you've been asking since feb.

no luck yet?

btw how are you a marriage counselor when you say you're still looking for who to marry?

Mynd_44: Subhuman you say. How are you sure of that? Have you ever seen that happen before? Have you ever done it?

And please lets keep nollywood movies out of this.

nollywood movies are based on FACT ie what people actually do.

besides, is Aluu a nollywood movie?

When things turn evil is when you start making human sacrifices and shît. Praying to you goddess/gods does not make one evil na.

if the root is bitter, the tree and branches will be the same.

I have heard a lot of pastors call out prayer points that " God enter into someone's heart and change him for another person's benefit"

you heard a lot of pastors call out God should enter somebody's heart and make him marry a particular lady?


in any case, men are the ones most likely to start "seeing vision" a specific female is meant for them, and not her fiance!!!!

I have heard people pray that the "holy Spirit should arrest a person's heart" is that not making the person subhuman? How come we don't call than evil?

if you care to dust off a bible and read it, you'll get answers to your questions!

assuming whatever deity you worship doesnt forbid you from understanding what is there!

You seem to be confusing christianity with satanism and voodoo.

Mrs.Chima:
88% of NL chatters are from broken homes...so why the fakeness

This is a nigerian site, that's why

Either already from broken homes or planning how to break up other people's homes, or any such similar situation, yet they'll be the loudest in condemning others.

and it seems everybody on nl came from a happy home where the dad always obeyed the mum, the mum had full control of the dad, and the house was mini paradise on earth.

never mind the fact that adultery, fornication and juju are second nature to most of us folks!

Mynd_44: I believe in freedom of religion and since we have a lot of religion they can do as they want.

Why is it that it is okay for you to go to your knees and pray for a situation to change and it not, you go see your pastor or Iman but if an idol worshipper goes to see a priest, you argue that it is evil. It is the same thing you are both doing.

When it involves turning people into subhuman animals who lack the qualities that make them human, how is it not evil?

oluface: And how many rumour have u hear from me?

The one you started this thread with, is rumour.

Men gossip and spread rumours as much as women.

I dont know of anyone who goes to a pastor to pray specifically in such a manner.

Not saying it doesnt happen, but if or when it does, its still juju related if it involves any element of juju.

Ordinary prayers for God to provide a husband, do not fit this description.

Maybe the person who gave the example can explain more although we all know its not everybody who says they're christian, who actually serve Jesus.

Anyway, the topic is about using juju to control a man.

Mouth, phone, gossip, etc.

Op sounds like thats his daily job.

Hmm, veggie seller dey shout say im own no be from trash heap.

I see some witches on the thread already.


Attack is the best form of defence, you dont say.


Turn to Jesus- he can set you free.

Dont die because of man.

jeffizy: Makes me wonder as a man if getting a man is the sole purpose of a woman on earth.

if it is, its not a crime.

male and female God created them.

in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons. 2 Such teachings come through hypocritical liars, whose consciences have been seared as with a hot iron. 3 They forbid people to marry

is having s.ex the sole purpose of some men on earth? Chasing money? Pursuing some other thing?

they're weird [not necessarily always a bad thing], and yes, its universal.

some cultures just decided to stop bothering about it, unlike we nigerians and our semi-literacy.

also, all these nlers with their juju roots who simply cant use the search function or find something else to occupy their idle time besides open d.aft threads?

when you're uprooted from the life and culture you know, and thrown somewhere else where you have to learn to adapt to a different value system, anything goes.

not everyone will be remain 100% the way they were, in nigeria.

sad but true.

only thing I'm seeing are myriads of red flags.

did they smoke the indian hemp together, or was she just waiting(?) while he smoked it?


not saying this isnt a terrible situation, but still dont understand why she agreed to meet him at the club, followed him home after he expressly mentioned s.ex, and all within a week of knowing him.

Unless he jazzed her?

albridge: while i am not saying that having a career as a woman or getting current or contemporary in your style is a bad thing i strongly feel that most women are misplacing their values. being a wife is cool cos there really is no gain in having everything if you dont have someone to share it with. but its really all a choice thing.

men and women both- its not only a female thing.

@ op

its up to you.

gmyguy: abeg, where can i find gf...been searching for 2 years

see what people are saying.

there are many girls looking for boyfriends, yet you've been searching for a girlfriend for two years.

Flashaldrin: Most girls exhibit a life far far above their means that most men quickly identify them as golddiggers.

as i've asked more than once in this place- is it by force to buy expensive toys for your girlfriend/s?

Are you or whoever, afraid of her reaction if you dont give her the money for all these baubles?

What this fake aje butters fail to realise is that the true rich girls leave very simple lives.

maybe, maybe not.

fact remains majority of nigerian arent rich, so not everybody will have access to date/marry dangote, adenuga or a billionaire's daughter.

D-Explorer:
If waywardness becomes a reason i wonder WTH wrote that article and must it be tagged "Nigerian men" when the points are damn shallow? Well OP, you did well posting.

well, since allegedly nigerian men are the ones filling romance section with invectives against women in general and nigerian women in particular, the aeticle is very on point.

are you just hearing of the waywardness the men say they see in the women?

and, if i check your post history, will i see no ranting and railing against nigerian girls?

Frostyzone: Interesting answers guys. But I'm still in the dark, lol.

yes, you do seem confused.

now, as i pointed out earlier on another thread, never say never in anything that concerns relationships.

for those who are not heterosexual, no need to take these topics personally- everybody cant be everything and neither does every thread need to apply to everyone.

Its not every thread that i myself post on- if it doesnt apply to me, it doesnt apply and that's that.

In fact, I'd say i dont post on over 98% of nairaland threads probably for this very reason.

dont sweat the small stuff- especially on nl where the small stuff is what's considered big.

but notwithstanding, there are still women who can work with any man regardless, is what i have found.

dating section.

in any case, the op did not say YOU should not marry whoever you want.

All he or she asked for was opinions?

no need to scatter the thread!!!!!

Flashaldrin: title asks one thing, the op asks another. I chose to reply the op, got any prob with that??

too prickly.

any reason why?

i didnt see your name in the thread title and so far, nobody has taken offence at either the topic or the poster.

so, why are you up in arms?

Flashaldrin: tpia has always been a craxy lady.
Not me o, seun said soo

did you think to ask seun (are you him), if he by any chance is familiar with craziness.

StateOfMind: *nods*

*continues nodding*

99.99% of men fall into one of the above.

true that.

Love at a Distance

Most likely your boyfriend just enjoys knowing that you exist—it doesn’t even matter where you live—city, country, or even continent.

huh?

Flashaldrin: W
And why cant i marry anyone i like??

thread title says "Are you open to", not "You cant do this or that".