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CastleandGreen: Because we don't have wife again in this country, what we have now are FACEBOOK, 2GO, BADOO,
SEXY NAIJA and internet wife. What we are real women and not what i mention.

but you yourself are on the internet and probably every single site you mentioned.

^ that is none of your business and does not concern you.

it's still not enough reason for you to be so anti-social and anti-marriage.

for reasons best known to you, you are intentionally corrupting the minds of many men and women here- knowing some males/people are very impressionable and vulnerable to suggestion, especially when it comes from fellow males (or the same gender).

you are against marriage, you're against people being married, you're against practically everything that is normal, and want to replace it with your own warped worldview which is terribly defective. And you do not post disclaimers in your threads- warning people of the effect of taking your words seriously.

Live and let live, ok?

If for some reason, you have decided you will never marry, or hate women for whichever reason you feel justified about (including your cultural mindset), it doesnt mean everybody has to be you.

everyone came to this earth with their own destiny and path in life- nobody can share or hijack another person's own. You may think you did, but God does not work that way.

Thought amaechi was still the governor sha.

Anyway, @ topic


Dont know if there's any solution-maybe if all these hip hops could change their message and stop glorifying stuff like that?

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dont know if the last two pictures are nigerian women however.

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smilyhand: Dating Indian Men. Although its an old topic posted once in 2006, yet is needed new thoughts from new contributors. What do u think about it.

There are many of them in Nigeria ??

yes, there are a few of them in nigeria.

@ topic

dunno.

i have no opinion as regards it.

a few indian men [mostly the ones who are expatriates or who like "exotic" women, can strike up relationships with blacks.

such a relationship would be frowned on in india, no doubt, but outside the indian community, it might be possible, who knows.

op you really need to stop sounding so negative about marriage and other things.

might be hard, i know, but you're scaring people with these headlines of yours.

even if you're a babalawo who determines who gets married and who doesnt, you're still not God abeg.

some folks base their lives and mindsets on what they read on nl, and its rather cruel to frighten them this way.

and while you're at it, stop supporting the murders of young males who could have been some women's future husbands.

Anabel: ha ha ha ha ha ha ha the man is kinda like telling all you guys to go and get married

true that.

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others have said it all.

silvaspecs: Hey N/Ls I really think I am in a tight condition here.I am in my late twenties (28) precisely, the third born and third son of my home; graduated like 3 yrs ago and I have a manageable job doing right now. I hv two elderly ones in their early and mid thirties. I actually came across a responsible lady-graduate I've bin datin for a while now and she's ready to settle wif me *wether na one naira* but following traditional Bureaucracy, considering that my direct elder one has such ontensions but right now does not have a job as well as a personal apartment to himself, and just broke up with his Fiancee, I feel I might sound like someone who's interested in taking someone else's birthright, I am confused. Cos I stay alone and don't wanna chase other girls cos my woman stays in another state as I stay in Abj. Please and please NL help wif ur kind and. Reasonable suggestions. Thanks a lot,

is the lady getting younger?

dfrank: my babe is one of those born again sisters (not fanatic )so we do go all the way once in a while.Am a STAFF (officer)in Abuja(she is working in lagos)when u do dat kind of job am doing most times you need to be a CONFIRMED man especially for protection from envy mates and juniors!undo i do go to church on Sundays,i have been invited to join a group by my boss (who senior me in rank by at least 15 years!)to fast forward my promotion in the service which i refused but MAY later join in the future.the problem then is :she wants to get marry so should i tell her that am more than an ordinary guy so dat she knows what she is in for b4 marriage or i should wait after?and if i tell her,would she like to be YOKE to somebody like me?maybe i just leave her (after 3 years relationship)and look for anoda girl who will take me for whom i am.pls house help a broda out.[color=#990000][/color]

oh lord Jesus.

anyway, what's preventing you from accepting Jesus into your life and eschewing all these things?

prayer is the key.

is all this stuff getting more difficult DESPITE the internet?

@ poster

prayer is the key.

you're asking if the risk is greater when the internet is involved.

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Dee60: How does this put fuel in my car or diesel in my generator?

let people have their fun.


abi how person for do.

Too many s.tupid questions in this place.

Joblessness na wa.

Anyway, i suppose the pictures might be adverts for breast enhancement, butt enlargement, and penile implants.

Serious money there.

Well, have we seen it all yet?

Over the course of one week, we've BEEN SHOWN people's breasts, butts, and so on ( if anything remain).

So wetin dey im willy wey nobody never saw before?

Apologies to the serious and genuine virgins in the house, but its hard to stop flashers of either gender, really.

Just pray and remove your mind from the smut, thats all.

How person for do.

This is why some muslims dont like tv and the liberal internet.

Too easy.

I' m not going to comment.

Sometime in the near future, seems a hispanic candidate will be in the white house, if i'm guessing correctly.

No, your opinion doesnt really matter, neither does mine.

America has always been the way it is, its just people coming from foreign shores who dont know this.

When people are desperate, they do anything.

Thought you said you can foresee the future?

So why asking questions on nl.

dinosaurs are also known as dragons and as to whether they coexisted with humans, is a subject of study.

safe to assume they went extinct before the current dispensation.

one can also assume the serpent in the garden of eden was some form of this species.

Thread title sounds like a "nigerian man" thread

Ie one of those " i am dating a nigerian man, is he for real" or "can i go ahead" topics.

Since its not, cant make head or tail of what the op is saying.

Poster

Are you saying the woman should ask prospective suitors if they are s.exually active before agreeing to go further in the relationship?

Na who dem go dey take practice if thats what you mean.

Whats good for the goose is also good for the gander, i suppose.