₦airaland Forum

Businext:
There are names that have resonated in Nl over the years, as in over the years before 2012
One day I'll compile those names comprehensively

Not sure why you feel you should compile the names but there are many nlers from 2006 onwards, not all of who you know, obviously.

The ids who resonate with you are probably the monikers you like personally for whatever reason, it doesn't mean you have a comprehensive list and neither did you explain why you want one.

Just saying.

Is this another witch hunt?

Your profile says you registered June 14 2018, so what was your old user id if indeed you've been on nl for a while?

Joystark:
This isn't plagiarism na.

I just wish you had not typed this after my post (nlposter).

You didn't see the person you quoted before I typed?

Joined nairaland in 2006?

https://www.nairaland.com/5512786/joined-nairaland-2006

Specifically a woman.

There are almost forty to a hundred of these topics popping up regularly.

Trying to force people (Nigerians) to feel what they don't have the capability of feeling, would only cause you more pain and indirectly affect your well being both physical and mental.

Especially when you're dealing with Nigerians.

It's been documented as far back as the 19th century, we appear to lack the compassion/empathy gene, which could explain a lot.


So, while I am sorry for what you might have experienced at the hands of Nigerians, allow God to use it to build you and give you strength.

List them here.

And no, I am not Mindfulness. My user ids are nlposter, tpiar, tpia, tpiander.

The moniker mindfulness deactivated recently I guess, I don't see why that's a problem for some people.

Meaning I can see dm requests when they are on my profile but I dont respond to them. They've been very few anyway.

You people just never tire of slandering others.


Female nlers deactivating is not a reason to say they've been secretly interacting with male nlers, this is so annoying.

Please stop with the inane insinuations.

.

Share your views.

But believe God can do it for you.

I'll be checking the thread from time to time.

What is the ho gene? Apologies for the language.

It's that tendency or trait in a person (take myself for example) that could make them (me) susceptible to lusting and diverse passions.

Sometimes you notice people mistaking you for a prostitute even though you are not one.


The perception could come as a result of either people sensing contained lustful desire in you or when the women of your persuasion/ethnic background are associated with nymphomania and sleeping around.

As a Nigerian woman, it's pretty much a safe assumption most people have heard stories of how prostitution is big business among Nigerians. So even when you see Nigerian women who are not prostitutes and very conservative, folks might still assume that lustful genetic trait is just in hibernation mode. Unfortunately, our culture of showing off our front and back does nothing to correct this impression.

What are your reasons.

Let me think about mine, I'll be back.

In the meantime, romance as a genre is not just what many nlers assume it is, check the definition.

I already saw one poster claiming her husby told her he saw a wound on his ex girlfriend's vagina.

https://www.nairaland.com/5669127/ever-declined-sex-because-didnt/1


I was concerned because, well you can guess the reasons.

When women fight themselves, it doesn't look good.

Are you an Itire resident or would be resident who wants to talk about the place?

Share.

Eg. facebook, wikipedia, etc.,

.

Just wait until you're in your right senses.

You know yourself.

Shouldn't be that hard.

proclinician:
Haha. I de fear una. I wan give testimony but my pastor is not approving my topic. See as u change what i said to be talking another thing.

Testimony on nairaland or in church?

Which church hears testimony of how their member did 4 rounds of fornication but ran from the fifth round (God save me).

Or was it your wife chasing you for sex?

I'm curious, help we Nigerian women find our dignity somewhat.

Do you agree or disagree with Easter?

Yes, it's quite common for some people.

Depends on your social circle ie people around you and how comfortable they are in your presence. This is determined by various factors, not always based on you alone. Then again, if you're too intelligent, that's a sure way of making others uncomfortable.


Other factors could include gossip (what people heard about you), left hand as a metaphor for social ostracism or otherness, some condition, accent should it stand out, etc etc. These are when it's about you. If it's not, then it could be related to history, your origin, their experiences, conscience, intention, etc.

It can be complicated.


Myself for example, generally speaking, on average I often find non-Nigerian blacks (African Americans to be specific), are not intimidated by me, regardless of their level of education.


While many Nigerians on the other hand, tend to be intimidated by my presence, regardless of their level of education or exposure and even though I'm Nigerian. Note I said many, not all. Meaning a shockingly high number.

yme1:
2006 post

the poster must have been married . . . by now

Probably has new ids, this specific one last posted in 2007.

Any idea?

proclinician:
Hey. Na me the use sex kill person abi

Hey bro!

I'm glad you did not allow that nympho lady to take her sexual frustrations out on you! Quick thinking!

Next time she wont give the impression Nigerian women can chase a man hungrily for sex! We have our dignity.

Blame God.