₦airaland Forum

Report immediately to the police or at least the school authorities. Rape is a serious problem regardless of gender and you might not see the psychological effect immediately but it may be there. So please report it.

I would advise you to leave the marriage. It can only get worse from here. You are young. You will bounce back.

I stand by Timi and Bisola. I know incels on this forum want to deny that there is a rape epidemic in Nigeria but the #metoo movement is coming for alot of men AND women in Nigeria who take advantage of youth. Destroying peoples innocence and stealing their mental health.

donbachi:
Don't you like it?...some persons are against female circumcision..not knowing the benefits of it...alot of women that are not circumcised are the fvcklicants we have today in nigeria.even sitting close to a man makes the uncircumcised woman to want sex.even having a handshake with a man triggers the urge...my brother,marry her.it does not pose as any threat.

I hope that the evil you wish for women because of your own gain befalls you.

Well said. The heart of some people are desperately wicked.

Ride on Linda

You ruined it with the stephanie Otubo one. We all know that one is true.

Tell her that what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

IamD18:
The only partner a man owe his loyalty and faithfulness is his wife. That's why I always frown at men cheating on their wives.


As for girlfriends; They have no right to complain when cheated on because they are nothing but sexual-objects and trash-cans created by God for men to dispose their sperms when Hot.

You are condemned and deserve no respect from a man if you are a non-virgin without a husband.

You will still marry one so call sexual trash-can that 15 men have deposited sperm into.

Your husband is the one you should be facing woman

Its so sad.sometimes i wish i can talk sense into some people. Anyway society is changing. Slowly but surely.

Haha. Honestly i can't feel pity for Nigerian men. After all the cheating, lies ,family maltreatment, and even violence you guys have put women through
now you are tasting a small portion of your own medicine you are crying. Alot of women share their husbands with mistresses and even know about illegimate children. Its just that our own is secret. So please take heart and manage. The lord is your strength. Dont let enemies that no one can see destroy your marriage. Pray away the infidelity. Maybe if you could provide more or if your sperm was not watery you would have given her children.

I like that she has the confidence with her hair. Maybe one day i can do that too

Trash. So many contradictory points of view.are you worried that women need the support of men and wont get it or that men would be left behind?. Because i know you are worried about men but framing it like your worry is about women. I know your own agenda is just jealousy that women are now being appreciated and more importantly taught that they can survive on their own. Like you really want us to give credit to Saudi Arabian men? The most oppressive country for women in maybe the world. A country that actively encroaches on human rights? Even funds and encourages violence against anyone who stands in their way. Some nairaland men have lost it.
You men have had centuries of literally worship. Women have had less acess to education and self sufficiency than the son of slaves in some cases. And here you are condescendingly telling us the the programs to improve our lives would be better if the focus was also on men? You think we are idiots?
We are not begging for your support in achieving our independence. If you do not bend you will break. The world is changing and independence for women is here to stay. You guys can take the back sit for once. Women have done it for centuries and the sky did not fall.

I need 2 also oh. Lol

Hmmm. Christmas is fast approaching. They have started looking for ritual victims. Plus I'm almost certain this is a guy

Please what does this have to do with anything?. People should not use religion or morality to make laws. Its called separation of church and state

I like his unbiased stance. Infertility can be caused by Men or Women.

franchasng:
Strong woman

I even thought it was a stranger that raped her and maybe infected her with HIV, didn't know its the guy she's been chopping his money that decided to enjoy a bit of his sweat; women are too stingy and selfish

Nobody should quote me please, I am not feeling too fine since th tgmorning

You are a wicked. Heartless fool.

Since 1980 you still dey remember this one. Abeg Oga move on.

Her actions actually make sense. Say no to domestic violence. I dont even know why a woman would put anything in a mans name. Especially the way nigwrian men behave.

charlesazeh:
did Jesus feed them in this 21st century? or were the phones and shoes in existence then? please if you dont believe do it alone and dont drag others along with you in your believe...Jesus wore sandals with the disciples..do you know how much those stuffs cost then? leave the judgement for Him alone....One love

Leave judgement for him alone at the expense of peoples well being. If we dont speak up who will? People live extraordinarily lives at the expense of gullible church members. They deserve to be called out.

This men of "god" exist in a country where some are selling themselves as slaves. I Can't take churches seriously. Christ did not have expensive shoes or phones. He fed a crowd with 5 loaves and 2 fishes. With all the abundance of wealth and influence churches have they still can't better the country. Only to donate small money here and there while building schools that 99% of their members cannot afford. If you want to follow God, follow only him because churches these days won't help you.

ayourbamie:
One of the reasons women are not allowed to hold top posts in the country.

Men that hold top post how has the country faired?

Its racism. Trust me when a say this. They think because you are African you smell a certain way. Why was he sitting in her sit in the first place?. And you think a woman flying in business class does not know how she smells. That man is racist . We see subtle things like that all the time. You can't pinpoint it but you feel it. And getting kick out for smell? Hmm I laugh . Why not change sits if it bothers you so much.

Turn it down ke . In this Nigerian economy we will do long distance for a while until we figure it out.

Africans and superstition. How do they know its cheating that killed him. Na wa

Where are nairaland men?. See a man cheating. if it was a woman you all will masterbat e on this thread.