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That is not toke.
You won't check properly before you start accusing.

She is Right! What added value does it have except bragging rights?
It is just another yardstick to put women in competition with each other and make one side feel superior.
Women should be able to experience sexual satisfaction without guilt or shame.
If a woman wants to be a virgin that is fine too but it is her choice, not some mandated activity that somehow proves that you are better.
#My2cents.

modath:
What is the objective of this crappy thread for heaven's sake? It is not enough to repost someone's thoughts, what are the takeaways? Solutions?

BTW.... Feminism is a ruse....both genders have their designation & places!!!

Feminism is not a ruse. If not for feminism would u be able to speak on a forum with men on it. Maybe u would have been a co wife somewhere. Learn to respect the fingers that fed u.

[quote author=harffie post=52571310][/quote]Did I ask you to give a Bleep? If you did not you could have easily moved past my comment.

shegxi:
because a lot of women pretend and are not even bold to admit what they want in d bedroom.....

Because men and society have given them reason to believe that acknowledging their sexuality is bad.

Because alot of men cannot be bothered to learn how to please their wives in the bedroom.

The girl in this story clearly has a head straight. This police officer should go and gave his road block.

arsenal33:
Still better than the 'PhD' version

Please how is he better? Do u live on the moon or can't you see the state of the country?

This is what illiteracy causes

Ur boss is sexually harassing her. Be very careful around him.

Adopt kids.

Positions r useless if u don't know what u r doing. Advise:-use ur hands and mouth freely before getting down to business.

Its BD:SM stuff. Some people like to be dominated

First things first. What is the families business in this mans property. Instead of trying to impose their will on the woman they should live her alone. The family claims they want to "help"the woman she does not want oya live her alone na. This family is lying so she just decided to pack out of the house for no reason.

After all this alot of nigerian men will still cheat. Alot do not have self control so forget all this.

The man is cheating. He did not deny that he has a girlfriend just that the wife went around telling,people. He didnt even deny sleeping in a hotel on thier wedding night . He is not serious. If a tenant is causing this much trouble between u and ur wife and u r not cheating with her wont u ask her to go? I wonder the kind of society that raised this type of men.

Yes sometimes when I see these things it gets to me emotionally

cbi24:
What is your problem ?

My Problem is that this post is biased against the Women. People like to take social Perception lightly but the truth is perception affects that way the world turns. We are always so quick to make up stories and folklore where the woman is the one committing the abominable crime. It affects the way other people see us and the way we see ourselves. You have just Reduced this woman's story to a one-dimensional selfish Character instead of examining what exactly has led her to this Point.
Secondly, The moral of this story has an agenda.It says "Just treat your husband with all the love and care and he would be the best husband". That reinforces the idea that if your husband is not acting like the best husband it is because you are not giving him enough Care , Attention ETC. That is simply a not message to women that they always need to be doing more or that they are to blame for a man's selfish behaviour because thy have not "loved" him enough.

Festivalofholi:
I know God gave u common sense... U just decide not to use it. Nice one op.

You are clearly the one that is not using your common sense. I posted my thoughts on the issue which is what this forum is meant for. I don't agree with the OP post and you do does that mean you have to insult me?. You can't have a conversation and make your points as to why you disagree you have to result to undermining my Opinions .

This story is stupid. Most men are wicked because they think they can get away with it not because their wives are not caring enough. This is just a useless attempt to blame the women in anything concerning the wellbeing of the marriage.

you are the One that is a Mugu. Was the name calling Necessary?

Emmatdayo:
lesson:stay away from women if u want to live long

but wait o,is that even possible?

Yes stay away if you want to live a long and boring life. Women add spice to life my man.

Thank him for opening my eyes. At least I know where we r heading in the relationship and can act accordingly.

I think this list is perfect. Especially leaving their job and not making time for friends. Friends will add flavor to ur life and help you acoid gumbody behaviour

Until someone suffocates thats when they would know.what kind of rough play is this

This Shooting things is getting out of hand

This is just too bad. Some people think that they have the right to play God. Instead of them to carry their own cross They would be attempting and failing completely to carry another man's own.

That is very creative of him. If nigeria was a good place he would hAve been given scholarship to further his interest

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Posters Note : You know sometimes you say to yourself "I'm sure we would have a female president someday" But in the back of your mind you are never really certain. This is coming from my heart when i say that it means a lot to know that mankind is taking a step in the right Direction .

The heart wants what its wants
she should just be ready for the consequences

I believe you have a Good head on your shoulders. If you say those people were abusive to you then you cant go back. I understand where he is coming from though.Family is very important to us and we Nigerians are already so used to taking abuse from family and relatives your issue just seems trivial to us. He may also be using this as an excuse to break up with you. Anyway, you know him best. TBH Nigerian guys can be Dishonest sometimes. I would advise that you try to reason with him but if that is impossible, you move on. If he really wants you he will fight for you not this giving ultimatums.