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HPV is simply transmitted by any form or sexual activity including blowjobs. Why not advise men not to also receive those since you are asking them not to give.

And he will go and infect his wife now. I can't stand cheaters they are deadly.

Bash

robk:
I decided to join Nairaland after a lot of search on marriage and sex on google directed me here. I have been married for 5years and the only time i never had issues with my wife about sex was our dating period and the year we got married (Please take not that we don't have trust issues). Immediately our first child came, her drive for sex dropped. I have done everything possible to awaken her sexual drive to no avail. She always complain of being tired because of house chores and i even went as far as helping to bath the kids, take them to school and bring them back, wash dishes, do laundry and many more just to ease the stress for her yet she still denies me sex when i need it most. It's not as if i ask for it too sex frequently, most times it's usually on the average of 3 or 4 times in a week yet she sees it as a big deal. I have explained to her my real self, if i have my way i would had sex 2 times every single day of my life, but i had no choice but to adjust to 3 or 4 times in a week, sometimes 2 times or even none.

Maybe i didn't go for counseling prior our marriage, maybe i need to know how it should be done or how other women do it. I have heard women say that they have never said NO to their husband and i have heard men said their wife's have never said a NO to them before. I'm at the verge of looking for any good loyal girl who i can place on salary and who i can run to whenever my wife says no because i will never force a woman to have sex with her even though i paid a pride price on her.

This issue is worrisome to me and it hurts me deeply whenever i'm in the mood and she turns me down, it makes me feel a lesser man and couple with the fact that she never gets wet makes me think otherwise.........maybe she don't love me deeply hence her withdrawal from sexual activities, maybe it's because she was circumcised and it makes her lost interest in sex, i have asked myself a lot of questions and also asked her same questions but all she says is that i'm not grateful and that she can't kill herself because she wants to satisfy me sexually. To me it's a big deal that can tear the marriage apart in no distant time hence i came here to seek some advice before the worst happen

Please only constructive advice, thanks

pre-intimacy, pre-intimacy pre-intimacy. I can't stress this enough. You say she is dry . That's because she is not aroused. Before you go in make sure she is sufficiently aroused. Read up online on how to arouse a woman. Because the truth is that she is turning you down because she does not enjoy it as much as you. You have to make it as good for her as you can. Read online on how to arouse a circumcised woman

What kind of fake story is this?

Our parents were not successful .They only endured because no way out.

As a wife I also like to have one or two outside so my enemies will not know who my husband is

All for the gram. Someone has that kind of money and no one knows the source. Hmm

So concerned about women. Women this women that. When will you men learn to face your front and mind the things that affect you. All u have to say, women have heard it a million times. Just mind your business at this point.

dayomi445:
Take your frustration elsewhere. You are pained because yours is number 4

That's all you and your kind can use to insult women. Because you cant get any women in real life you resort to insulting them behind the screens of a computer.

Lol. Every day we read stories.

look for a source of income so you can leave. he is a sociopath who is capable of given you AIDS.

so you pulled this trash out of your *ss. This is the 21st century, we don't believe such nonsense.

Church ? Instead of building a center that would provide employment to the youths. People perish for lack of wisdom. I'm sure they have more than 15 churches in that community.
Edit- Those of you insulting me, with all the church you build you still don't know God.

After wasting one million naira. Guys please think with ur brains and not your D*ck.

Just as long as u know this also applies to women. If your husband can't do well u if d right to cheat

Smart girl. Thank God women are now seeing the light

All these men that think they get away with cheating. Women never forget. Keep being polygamous not knowing the amount of shit you don chop with amala.

Yeah. This happens a lot. Most Nigerian men that think their wives deny them it's because u r not giving her pleasure. If you are she will be the one to beg you.

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xest:
it seems u support ur foes on indecent dressing abi?

You guys show ur chest and nipples all the time is anyone harassing you. Pls live women alone

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Guys too like S3X. Up to the point where u have to ask such a stupid question. I'm sure if u where thinking with ur brain an not ur dick you will be able to answer yourself.

I dont read trash about antiquated system of selling women.

Because it's non of your business. People can do what they want with their bodies. You guys on this forum too like to talk woman matter.

Don't come and tell us story about HIV later oh

She is right. A Love Machine cannot break your heart, give you belle or STD. Ride on sister.

men are
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Who sent you to date 2 women at the same time.

I think you should file for divorce a d marry someone else. You are still young and you have to make haste while the sun shines to disentangle yourself from the mistake you already made