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Samantha124:
I don't really feel sorry for them.

They got what they wanted.

Very Insensitive Comment😒

Xscape1993:
This life is not easy.... African rulers making it more harder for citizens to live.

if not bad governance in Africa, what would these potentials be doing in this sea?

This Is the Sole Reason why someone who hails from an average background has to Refrain from anything Sex and work very hard to put things In place first before bringing forth another human being Into the World.

Enough Said.

Okay.

BluntTheApostle:
I used a Fireman "I better pass my neighbour" generator early 2010s.

There was absolutely nothing that this generator did not fry.

It fried my TV, extension box, phone and laptop chargers, adaptors, bulb.

I still have that generator in my house but I have not used it since 2012 or thereabout.

I used to call it "Weapon of Mass Destruction".

I could have experienced this type of Nightmare of yours but my Original Powerful Power Surge Device saved my Ass😁

alezzy13:
Shuo!! Why I go rinse my gbola after peeing when I no be woman? 🙄

I thought men that do so is due to religious reasons

I knew someone would ask at the bolded. This has nothing to do with Religion because I usually see some Muslim Peeps do It but most of them don't look so appealing to me In terms of Overall Hygiene. It's Just basic Hygiene and common sense.

But I'll school you a lil-bit. As a Man When you Pee, No matter how careful you are, There will always be some drops of liquid In your underwear and also some drips from your thing when you are done peeing.

The most Important aspect Is the drips dripping out from your thing when you are done peeing. You have to Neutralize your thing by thoroughly Rinsing so the atmosphere will remain fresh and dry until your Next Pee.

Failure to do this Is the reason why most Men underneath STINKs. Most especially those who stays In Hot Environment.

Lol I hate this Generator with Passion

I once had a deal with a client but she couldn't pay up. She had to use this Tiger Gen to sort the bills out, Even though the Gen worth was very low to the amount she was owing me. I had to pity her and accepted the Gen. I have never liked the Gen due to Its numerous bad reviews of spoiling appliances because It doesn't have AVR.

One day, I decided to make use of this Gen due to epileptic supply plus my big gen was due for service. It wasn't up to 15Mins I put It on and connected my appliances. Then I started hearing Gbau Gbau and a terrible smell from the Surge Device. I started sweating profusely and Immediately disconnect all the Appliances. It was the Surge Device that saved my TV, Laptop, Home Theater et all. The Surge Device was Badly damaged.

Omo ever since then, Even If there Is no light in the whole world and this generator is the only available source of light. I will prefer all my devices remains uncharged. The Trauma Is still fresh In my memory till date.

Ellegacy:
Marriage is all about responsibility and the children we talk about.

After the third generation your thoughts and everyone who remembers you in this World fade. It like you've never existed unless you're very rich and influential and made an impact in your society! So even with that, you don't need children, raising children is not a fulfillment, as in the grand scheme of things we're all irrelevant!

Hmmm It takes a special level of reasoning to deduce the bolded.

Most Coventional People wouldn't understand.

Prometheus666:
Marriage is how men become gods. If your wife is not beautiful, I can imagine it will be like living in inescapable bondage, but if you waited, got the financials figured out then pick a beautiful cherry, then you'd be proud of beautiful human beings around you.

Marriage is not for everyone, if you don't figure out the financials, please stay off marriage. Marriage no be your mate. Get a baby mama

From frying Pan to Fire.

JASONjnr:
I swear, I've been trying to clear this notion....

Marrying a woman that's lazy and feels her money is hers while yours is for the home.

Had a girl whom I told I wasn't interested in her money but she was very interested in how I spend my money.

She would send money to her mother monthly but will always come to my house to get money for upkeep and feeding.

Couldn't continue with her... Such a liability.... Who paid tfare for us to the market while I got her a nice dress but babe was very blunt to ask me for the transport money when we got home.

🤣🤣🤣

Adexgentle005:
You didn’t see when someone was complaining about dating high class women bah? No matter the kind of money women make, it won’t really change anything in marriage. Know this and know peace!

I strongly disagree with the bolded. Not all of them.

Danisaint112:
Igbo men are the only men that know this secret reason the mostly marry late. 😂
Igbos are just too smart Sha.

My advice: If you never make am no go jump enter marriage.

True.

But some well Informed Yoruba Men too are Joining the Train now.

Poverty Is not an Option for people who knows what they are doing!!!!

Adexgentle005:
I’ve not added in law money, gas bills, nepa bills, security and other bills. I’m sorting all that separately!

Yeah I was wondering when you said 100k In Two Months. I even thought you wanted to say 100k In A Month.

Because as a Bachelor, I spend more than 100k In a Month and na with Manage and serious Calculations😂

I sure know that's Just Primary Bills. It'll surely shoot up when you add the Secondary Bills.

jaxxy:
u dated a liability and still went ahead to marry a liability and now u come here to complain??

Do u think everybody will marry a liability with their eyes open? Why would u marry sm1 who can't pay her bills or support u when u need it?

Marriage is not about responsibilities or paying bills that is Bondage not Marriage.

God says a wife is a helpmate if u go and marry a stress mate that's ur cup of tea.

In marriage even if tough times come u both handle it together that no1 feels discouraged. Marriage should add value to u bt we marry the wrong people or have the wrong mindset.

also how u plan ur marriage affects ur future and success even if u marry the right person.

NB: If u date a girl that makes u carry all the whole responsibility or complains too much about money issues while all she brings is pussy or beauty that fades u better run now.

A word Is enough for the Wise.

Adexgentle005:
And who told you it’s not normal to have kids without getting married? This is just societal values and it doesn’t carry any weight. They don’t know what you are passing through in your marriage and they care less. See, it is just what it is! Without financial stability in marriage you are doomed!

Personally It's not advisable to have children out of wedlock and baby mamaism. I detest such process a lot.

Children raised in a healthy environment which involves the father and mother under the same roof remains the best.

I think Surrogacy too Is good If you don't want to have anything to do with the Opposite Sex.

Vinnie2000:
Kudos, OP. 👍👍

Particularly in Nigeria now, Where INFLATION is biting harder.

Any Guy that Enters Marriage, without sorting Out himself Financially, will SUFFER ehn.

The Bolded.

malware:
Peeing and poooing without washing those areas contribute to stinking odour that oozes from most Christian girls' private parts.

I dislike the aforementioned so much. I have seen ladies who pee without rinsing their thing. The aforementioned Is worst with Men. I think 90% of Men don't even rinse their thing after Peeing both In public and private places.

However, Men can still somehow neglect the process of Rinsing due to the Anatomy of their private part. But for Ladies, It's a No No because they have a Open Body which MUST be taking good care at all Times.

Me as a man, I usually make sure I try as much as possible to get some water to rinse my thing after peeing both In Private and Public Places.

If I don't rinse after peeing, I will feel very uncomfortable. I have made the process to become part of me.

YoshihideSuga:
Successive governments have done that only for POS and other mushroom businesses to spring up.

The enabling environment needs to be created so that FDI increases just like in Vietnam, Thailand, India etc., security of lives and properties etc. Investors need to be assured that their investments are safe. The other day, a private equity investor in the agribusiness sector was lamenting that his company has to provide security to protect staff in his portfolio companies when they go to cultivate crops and monitor their farmlands. So tell me, isn't it better to invest in Chile or Brazil where such isn't rampant?

Another is electricity. For crying out loud, why can't Nigeria ensure constant electricity in 2023? At least for businesses to use. Another is ensuring ports across the country especially in the south south work efficiently so that they serve the north east, north central and south east.

You made a very solid points most especially at the bolded.

Good News.

He will always be a Hero.

Iamicekid:
All this girls plenty for Abj here, there families would have forced them to marry at an early age to an older man, If them con see person them go dey look u seductively. Abeg no be me u go cause problem for, cause their husband are always powerful, if them catch person jail straight

Lol So True😊

EmekaBlue:
Poverty everywhere...These ladies need to survive and men are enjoying the advantage of touching young sweet bodies! Imagine u have alot of money to play around...na to go pick two clean ones with nice young standing set of boobs and sweet soft nyansh enjoy threesoome...One will be sucking ur tete and the other one will be sucking your nipples...U can even add one more to take the position of cow girl!

life is sweet with money!

What Nonsense!!!

Una no go Kee me with Laughter this night🤣

mod9:
Even when politicians don't come for the girls they will still be doing it with male students. The things girls do on campus is better imagined. Most campus girls have sex more frequently than road side olosho and more than married women. What I saw when I was in school made me vowed never to marry a university or polytechnic graduate.

Lol So True.

But not all of them though.

There are Female Undergraduates who were either Well Disciplined or Did Things Moderately throughout their stay In School.

meobizy:
The very Nigeria which watched violent gangs exist in tertiary institutions is powerless against this. God knows what vice the future will bring. Lazy human beings.

How the thing wan end, na?

They are young females. From the age of 18 - 24, women crave adventure. Couple this with the men being at the top of success in their respective fields and you’ll understand why the girls want to die there. Many recruit their friends because the life is too tempting.

Toke in her mid thirties (a decade where most women are settled into marriages) managed to hook a seventy plus year old. The lifestyle is hard to break from.

In many schools filled with priviledged children, girls are still tempted to enter the lifestyle out of curiosity.

Sha, this is Nairaland. Here na the headquarters of discussing issues without resolve. After this thread everyone will move on with life in three hours.

Hahahaha My Belle oOoo🤣🤣🤣

Rubyjade:
Most Nigerian girls have turned social media apps designed for connecting with new people and staying in touch friends, family and acquaintances to a hub for digital prostitution.

When Zuckerberg designed Facebook or when Kevin Systrom and Mike Krieger built Instagram from a co-working space in San Francisco, when Sean Rad invented Tinder or when the trio of Evan Spiegel, Bobby Murphy, and Reggie Brown created Snapchat, they probably didn’t envisage that their apps would become platforms for prostitutes to advertise their goods and services in Nigeria.

People who return to Nigeria for holidays are often shocked when they discover that they can’t get dates or meet decent people to start friendships with on Nigerian Tinder. A huge percentage of the girls you’d see there are for “strictly hookups or massage with happy ending” as some boldly indicate on their bio’s. It’s really embarrassing!

According to them, when you meet a girl/guy on Tinder overseas, it’s never for sex, it can lead to sex but you’re very sure you matched with a person with a job/profession who genuinely wants to meet new people, make new friends or go out on dates. There are different apps/websites strictly for meeting with prostitutes.

According to research by Britannica, sex has always been one of the few pleasures of the poor and oppressed. Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world. Do the math! While sex is part of normal human behavior, prostitution on the other hand is frowned on morally and legally in Nigeria and has now evolved from the road side and brothels to social media apps.
An unofficial survey revealed that the Transportation Network Industry in Lagos and Abuja (Uber and Taxify) generates 80% of it revenue from 8pm to 6am (with numerous instances where these females offer sex acts to drivers as payment for their ride fares #sexforrides).

It is left up to you to determine whether you support their lifestyle and professional choices or not. What should be a cause for concern is that the money these girls make from digital prostitution is tax-free. Our government is broke! Looking for loans here and there while we have millions of young females raking in an average of 200,000 Naira on a monthly basis tax free (using Lagos State and Abuja as our reference points) with an average income of 20,000 Naira per night.

Na to dey Collect TAX on top Sex.

I will Surely Petition this Development😂

Gerrard59:
Tell the men who patronise these girls to stop the patronage. These girls do not fvck themselves.

God bless you.

The Issue Is Deep Rooted🌳

Too many Promiscuous and Morally bankrupt Male and Female everywhere you turn to In this Country.

My eyes have seen things my mouth can't explain♋

It took me a whole lot of time before I perfectly understood and figured out this whole thing. I don't even know the perfect name to give the Menace😊

I know a young undergraduate girl from a very poor background. She uses an iPhone 11 yet she stays in one room with her Parents. She was trying to get close to me but I had to distance myself far away from her😊

If i want to emphasize on this matter. Nairaland won't contain It. To be honest, I have lost attraction for Most of these Nigerian New Generation of Ladies. No Thanks to the Promiscuous Men, The POVERTY & GREED the Politicians created.

It will take God's Special Grace to find a young female undergraduate who Is still morally, physically and spiritually okay, "((most especially the ones from Trenches))" Although no one Is perfect. Same thing goes to the the Male Gender too.

Absolute Truth.

Most People lives to Satisfy the Society rather than Satisfying their Inner Peace.

Herd Mentality.

PoliteActivist:
You have only been lucky. You haven't met true professionals who invest time and money to set up a perfect scam. Anybody can be scammed. Even right now Naija politicians are scamming you!

Even this Cashless Nonsense we are currently going through now Is a Legitimate & Well Organized SCAM!!!

Legitimate & Well Organized SCAM happens all the Time and It's mostly done/orchestrated by Government and Well Established Institutions.

joebeckz:
On LinkedIn a man contacted me to handle a procurement of 200 pieces of laptop for TETFUND.
This man has a good profile on LinkedIn. Alot of followers also. For a second i thought he was real.

He sent me his WhatsApp number.
I used true caller to search but it never gave me his name. Uchendu Wogu.
I searched him on Google and read his profile. It gave me impressive results.
I proceeded with my quotation and sent. He approved of it and asked me to send it to an email for the bidding process. He also asked me to inflate my quotation to 96 million naira instead of the 33 million naira quotation i gave him. Claiming that was the allocated budget from tetfund. I said okay oh but I became reluctant & suspicious at this point but still played along.
When I adjusted the quotation to his request, he told me to forward the quotation to the email he provided and also advised me to pay the man around 900k as bribe to approve the quotation and hand me the procurement. He said when they pay me, i will give him 65% and take the rest.
I laughed out loud and said Sir, since you know this man who's email you have provided. Why not pay him the 900k and I will deduct it from my own 35%when tetfund credits me?
I also said sir i will like to meet you one on one as I am gonna be in Abuja in two days time.
I said if you can't give him the funds and I pay back from my own 35% then I am OUT.

He never replied me again.
A week later another Ahmad Shehu Hadi contacted me on LinkedIn. His message was exact with that of uchendu wogu. Same punctuation, words and style. More like copy & paste.
I laughed and replied the Ahmad,
Oga scammer is it procurement for laptop that one would pay 900k to get?

He immediately blocked me.
So i guess it's a Team of scammers working together, they look for professionals with impressive profiles on LinkedIn to scam.
Their profiles are also well built with activities.
They are very coordinated so beware and do not fall for such if you happen to be contacted for procurement of any type on LinkedIn.

Person wey you suppose Whine well well.

I usually do this when I'm In the mood, less busy and I also have a handful time.

Offpoint1:
Yeah, 2k Airtime to one princess who was trapped in Liberia, her father is very wealthy who left 10 Million dollars to her, but her wicked family tried to killed her, she ran to Liberia. She's a fugitive in Liberia, she was current with one pastor who was trying to helped her retrieved her money ($10m ) She saw my contact online and she likes and trust me that's why she's revealing all of these to me.

She wants me to send 20k to the pastor who's need of it to process some document. I should please never to reveal to anyone Mumu me starts begging for money upandan to save my beautiful princes so I can get married to her Thank God nobody get money to gimme then, I carry my last 2k buy airtime send give pastor (Mumu me, MTN dey liberia?) Since 2011 Till today I still dey wait for my princess in Liberia

Na ogun go kee Yahoo boys Dem use fine white picture disorient innocent me make me loose guard with yeye format

A week after this one, another invest 1k to get 10k and 5k to 100k, carry my savings of 5k to where I no no

As I dey laidiz, even heaven and hell no fit scam me again

Nigeria Gboyz use this format tire that year early 2000s precisely lol. Cyber Cafe thingz🤣

I still have their numerous Scam Formats In my old E-mail. Lol you sef don go dey reason say you don Jam GRACE🤣🤣🤣