ibkayee:
Treassured
I’m flattered but can you please remove my picture, thank you

Ibkayee please come online.

I have really missed you so much babie❤

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folake4u:


For real oh. I can't deal at all. I'm very quick to LEAVE whatever gives me discomfort. I don't know how marriage own will be.

I chant "God Abeg" like 1k times a day. I hope I've not exhausted my "God abeg" bundle at this point.

You will do another Subscription naw.

All The Best Love❤

Where Is the 16Years Old Again.

This one wey be like my Senior Sister.

pansophist:
If you're lucky, you'll start experiencing the difficulties that is intrinsic to life from 20 upwards, and by being lucky, I'm assuming your parents were your shield against the brutality of the outside world.

If you're unlucky and have to suffer from a child, the world will pretty much to you, be a jungle. A place of strength to oppress the weak, no empathy, and cut throat survival.

You're feeling void not because it's a new phenomena, but because you've been sheltered away from it. The world have always been like this. It's meaningless until you give it a meaning yourself.

At the very basic, fast forward maybe 20years ago (assuming you're 21), you're a sperm waiting to loaded in your moms womb. This is not to offend, but you have to accept that you're nothing. There is nothing special about you.

Billions of ejaculations annually would have produced billions of people, but they were all flushed off, with a hot spank on the woman's arse thanking her for making him come. That's a human being flushed off like it's nothing.

But to fill in that void, the answer have always been the same. And it's to find something that will make all the struggles, disappointment, depression, poverty, rejection etc worth it. There should be something more to your existence.

There is this place in the Bible where the Devil went to tempt Jesus when he was fasting on the mountain. The devil promised Jesus the whole world if Jesus will bow to him. And Jesus response is where your answer lies.

He said, "man shall not live by bread alone". Jesus's answer shows that fleshy desires should not be what you're living for only. When you live for something bigger, fleshy desires will not tempt you, and life's problem would just be ignored just like you ignored the dog barking.

Where the issue is for most people is to find that thing that awakens them, makes them feel alive everyday, and return back to their childhood, where everyday is an adventure, and they are filled with energy to discover the day.

It is only those that don't have money thinks money is the answer. Money is like a car, those that have it can reach their destination faster and those who don't will have to crawl, but money is not a purpose.

Purpose is something unique to you, that can't be replicated, and even the wealthy cant buy it. I mean, Dangote is richer than Usain Bolt, but he can never buy Bolt's record of being the fastest man. That's purpose. Bolt trained for over 20 years to break that record.

So purpose have a price tag. And your inability to pay it will keep the void open, and deeper, and you'll become sad as times goes by. Also, purpose is not something the world have to recognise. It's uniquely you.

Sometimes I'll see this gospel preachers as early as 5am, preaching about God, to them, that's a purpose and it keeps them alive that they are winning souls for God. You might think they are mad, but it doesn't have to make sense to you.

Having said that, the antidote is in you. You have to find it. You're both your own oppresor, and your own liberator. If you face this void and pursue a purposeful life even if hard, you'll liberate yourself. If not, well, enjoy the slow ride to hell.

Great Insight.

Steve Jobs comes to Mind.

SeaTrade:
So like the topic suggests,how does a person find this because I've been searching for a long time.
Like I feel empty,no clearcut path to genuine peace and fulfilment.
Tired of the things I do or use to do ,I can't go back ,neither do I want to keep being here.Im willing for a change but I see no way.
The monotony is killing me,the risks too and the people I gotta please to stay relevant too isn't helping(everyone around keep telling me to stay where I am and reminding me how lucky I am,yet I am the only one that thinks otherwise) and I'm getting tired,slower and dumber than I use to be and I see a problem if this don't change.But I can't blame myself,I'm tired of all this so the motivation keeps shrinking and it brings up all of this.
And also Nigeria has a great deal of little mind,the chances of meeting that person that'll change your whole perspective is infinitesimal, almost non existent so that is off!
A lot of you might think money will solve all your problems,but it will only be the beginning of your nightmare as a smart and ambitious person that truly wants to be fulfilled and different,who don't want to settle for less.
So,to fulfilled people here,what made you fulfilled and how did you achieve it?Let's talk.

Sometimes I feel the same Way.

I Just don't have the Strength to write an Epitsle tonight.

Someone already mentioned up there that People like Us aren't Ordinary Human Beings and It's true.

Currently I'm listening to an Earthly Soulful SoundTrack and It's making me feel so Emotional tonight. It's really lifting my Soul and I'm helpless.

Many times some of Us have asked the Questions below.

1.Where do we come from??

2.What Is our Purpose here??

3.Where do we go from here??

Sometimes everything will seems to be Meaningless but I guess one would needs the Courage to keep going on In Life.

Jovialjune1:



Well it's his loss, cos he's not married, out of job, and so many other things I won't mention, not that I'm happy all these things happened to him but karma always work no matter how long it takes.

Ohh I felt emotional reading this post.

Even though many men are the architect of their own misfortunes in life and most of them wouldn't learn or hear word.

Kindly say some prayers for him.

Hardship and Adversities Is not something I would wish on anyone In this present times.

johnaruson:
I suspected my fiancee before she traveled back to school, so I took a guy's number from her phone and later called the guy one midnight, pretending to be a boyfriend to my fiancee's cousin and asked him to give my girl phone that we have emergency at home, then i heard him calling my fiancee by her name trying to wake her up saying take phone your cousin is online. Immediately she said: Hello, what happened at home?" I heard her voice and cut the call.

Which part of the Nation's Security Department do you belong?🤣

You are a brilliant Detective.

Revolution2022:
With all these endowments wey you carry?Abi you stuff cushion underneath?

It's not by physical features.

Open your eyes very well and see beyond the physical realms.

nedekid:
Most people cheat. It is those that have not been caught that are innocent. Know this and have peace. The issue is let your cheater not be too much ie a serial one.
Married women sef, newly married and old one. Those that work in offices. Omo, forget. If you are a young man with girlfriend In present day Nigeria, your gf probably has a sugar daddy banging her, funding her. When she marries you most likely it continues. I have seen those after 2 kids sef still disturbing sugar daddy that was poking her before. Sending nudes etc.
I wonder how young men will cope these days.

I see you Boss nedekid.

There are still faithful people out there though.

The thing Is most of these set of people doesn't live a flashy lifestyle and they are mostly Introverted people.

taylor89:
Your parents living together till death isn’t a yardstick for good marriage

The reason for divorce and bad marriages of today na material things

You used your C300 Benz of 12million to snatch a hustling guys babe and tomorrow you’ll expect her to be faithful when a man who divers 2022 Lexus LX600 of 80 million

Another reason is too much of sexual expectations in marriages

Man would dump his organic wife at the sight of a big ass BBL lady

Woman will dump her organic man looking for a billionaire with 6 packs that has cucumber penis that can last 80hrs

The other day I overheard a woman defending her promiscuous act shouting on top of her voice that she cheated because her husband doesn’t give her head

I shock. Bcuz since them born me till today I never hear my mom telling my dad to give him head

Who invented this head giving sef

You can’t even use the word head in public again unless you have to be specific like head of charger head of fish head of family

I wish I could like this Post a Million Times.

All of Us go dey Alright last last seh😊

emmaodet:


Ogun state

Wow Thanks.

This Is nice. I'm In Lagos and It's quite close. I will reach out to you for more Inquiries. Thanks.

izubext007:
nice , may God protect your farm from those idiot called Herdsmen

Here Is my greatest worries. Insecurity.

It's the reason why I want to know which State Op Is doing his Farming.

emmaodet:
First of all, i am grateful for this forum in getting and hiring a good farm manager.
My former manager frustrated me and i ran at loss last year but so far so good, the person i hired on nairaland has been faithful, loyal and hard working.

Which State Is this please??

I need to rent some Lands too.

All the RBS have been Evacuated.

Are all the Towers IHS Sites??

GlobalWay:
Any Governor that truly loves his future Generation of People must put Practicall Business Study in the State Curriculum. Recently Starting small Business for your Child to learn by managing it is a must for wise Parents. School na secondary and never a must, Training a child to have Practical Business Skill is the No 1!
All Yorùbá Governors should have started implementing this as discussed before Election by now. This is Future, days of wasting Years schooling only to Graduate with no hope of Job is over! If your Governor is doing nothing to Help the Children and Youths into Becoming Business Persons, then he's not in terms with the modern Reality, and he loves Stagnancy of his People too much, impeach him!

So True.

This was how China became World Power.

I have chosen to be fasting every Friday now.

I have been very busy lately and no time for Workout. The Fasting Is very effective for Dieting✔💯

Just only Fruits and Water till on Sunday🤗

Bethuel2022:


They are in support of us getting back together, my parents at least. They all believe he will change, because he has been calling and acting good. I don't know if this is genuine, or because he is flat broke. He can't even feed himself now. I am 27, should I just leave and start over. I just wonder at the things he did when he was seeing a little money. Carrying women up and down.

A man who can't feed himself or what did I just Read🙄

DesChyko:
That's down to the vendor. Luckily, for the vendor around my workplace, I simply order for a meal when I need to and I have a fixed amount I pay over a number of months now. I do not have to bother about the changes.

However, I think my heart has been beating strangely since I bought petrol of #2000 for my generator and it ran only from 7 PM until 12 AM😶

It's normal naw.

Now my fuel expense for Generator weekly Is N12000.

Initially It was N5000.

Debt Is Money.

Girlee:


He gave without expecting anything in return. I can't even remember the last time we spoke...
You shouldn't think "Good Samaritans" have all gone into extinction.
Some people are just benevolent in nature and would give assistance to anyone, no matter the gender.


It would be absurd if you think that Self-Entitlement emanated from cheerful givers.
Self-Entitlement: that's just the mentality some people possess👌😒.

First of all, I'm a very open minded person.

In as much as there will always be exceptions.

I'm boldly telling you that Altruist Cheerful Givers are extremely FEW in a nation like Nigeria.

It's an Open Secret that Most Men would always prefer to help the feminine than the masculine.

This Particular Issue need not dragged.

Girlee:


😂😂 Bros she's just your girlfriend. I thought guys appreciates independent ladies🤔
Besides, you didn't mention that she's an orphan or the only child of a poor couple and hence, you're all that she's got. Her older sibling must have supported her in the phone purchase (that's if she has any 🤷) or maybe her parents did.
You were expecting her to wait for you? After all the months that have passed?
What does being an apprentice make her? Come on! Anyone could have offered to buy her a new phone and that's nothing you should fret about.
Insecurity everywhere 😒...

"Nigerian girls will not kill me" - what are you implying? That they're all like your girlfriend. Mhen! Your girlfriend, obviously isn't guilty of anything. People have their ways and don't always think it's an illegal way. Whichever means through which she got the phone shouldn't bother you as long as you're both still together.
Una relationship matter sef 😩💔...
Yunno I got my present phone while I was preparing for my WAEC, without a job and broke. I accepted this guy's friend request on Facebook 3 years ago and while we were chatting, I was slow in replying. He asked why and I told him my phone's screen was bad. He asked for my account details and sent me 50k immediately. We're just friends that haven't met in real life up till date. So chill! Be anxious for nothing...

Yet this same guy, if his fellow man who is in distress needs his utmost assistance.

He will probably turned the request down with all sort of cooked up stories and excuses lol. But look at we have here. He sent 50k to a stranger he has never and won't probably meet. So If someone can dash me 50k just like that without asking, What if i now asked and ready to advance things with him😂

Is anyone still wondering where the Self-Entitlement emanated from.

Like I usually say. All of you go dey Alright😂

Amapiano Piano Steadily Steadily😂

Steverolly:

Bruh, I normally don't do this but I've been avoiding girls almost all my life because of my self development which have seen massive improvement. I'll be 21 by the end of this year with no form of love or whatever.... people be thinking the boy is gay "cos he's fine and they've not seen him with a female", why do you think I shouldn't also face this aspect of my life?
So I'll just meet somebody and marry no dating or friendship, I know what I want please and my family issue shouldn't be your problem. Thanks

Just 21?? You are still a Teen.

Only God will help most of you Gen Z because many of you will never get to experience What True Feelings Is Like In these days of Social Media☺

I really enjoyed my Teenage days. I'm always Glad I'm from the older generation and I experienced series of True & Pure Feelings🤗

MasterJayJay:

Do you guys even read what you typed?
What you posted doesn't make 1sense

Kindly please forgive him Smiles.

ivolt:

Lose everything?

Oil marketers are not gamblers, they never lose.
There is no hidden real market anywhere.
If NNPC as the current sole importer decide to jack up the landing cost,
the marketers will simply add it to the pump price which consumers have
no choice but to buy..

Your Tution Fees are Justified. Welldone.

Okay.

Steverolly:
I've noticed the way I lose interest in girls that have lots of male friends, like it's a red flag for me.
I don't know if it's insecurity or whatever but I'm very good looking, in fact I don't even approach girls, they approach me. I've also met a lot of great girls but once I notice they have a lot male friends or they Relate so much with guys I just lose interest.
Is this normal or it's just me?

Sablexxxtoons:
Mo fine, mo fresh mo mo.. but I'm not a yahoo boy.

But contact me:nairamarley@yahoo.com

Contact you Bawo🙄

Awakened38:


Absolutely @Treassured . I'm doing as good as can be.

Great to hear from you again. I've personally missed everyone. Hope you're fine yourself ☺

Oh Yeah.

Thanks I'm doing good too.

I hope we get to Spice things up on here☺

skj1377:
Yahoo boys usually come out in the evening as they are mostly sleeping during the day. They start scamming from 8pm till 10am next day then sleep till 3pm . Your hair will give you away as well as general informal/ rascally look.

Yes you are right.

Actually I'm currently keeping my hair on Afro Mode and It looks very nice on me.

But I can never near dreadlocks because of the Nature of my Job. I don't even like It Just to start with