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Are you serious?

You mean there is no Igbo man there?

What am I even writing sef?
If an Igbo man goes there today, and finally develops it, through business and other means, the owners will immediately flock back in droves and start chanting "they want to take over our land. Igbos must leave. This is our land"


Well, let the inhabitants develop it, the way their kinsmen claimed they developed Lagos.

Of course you did dear.

Whatever you said yes to, is OK by me. Whether it was to his pocket or to him. My darling, nothing do u, So long as no be person husband u marry, u are good to go.

After all, there is always a reason why people get married everyday. Whether it is to escape poverty, or for love..... Your reasons are valid.

If it is your medium of Japa, or to change your family financial status.....use it.


But use it wisely.

Please do o.

Of course in our world today, it is hard to see men facing domestic violence.

Women are always the victim....reason why i think, the female gender, is an endangered specie.

This is a figment of what the APC led party and tinubu are planning to do, paradventure they win in 2023; take away our freedom of speech and press freedom.....since their arch leader would definitely be up and doing embarrassing the country, as he is doing now.

Nah them do am pass self.....they are only good in hiding it.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

If you had learnt earlier in life, to keep your dick stuck in your briefs.....we won't be here, reading all these tales by moonlight.

If ladies would also learn to say NO to all these pants shifting boys.....we would have less of single baby mamas.

I feel for the lady....one single mother is about to join the already existing ones.
For you to even come here with this bala blu balaba, story.....am sure u have already made up your mind to dump her, but here to seek validation, since using the word EX will make nairaland boys validate your action more quicker.

Wetin concern me?

So long as she is not related to me.......nah Una sabi.

Birniwa:
The problem with these pigs practicing this ill-conceived and half-baked religion called Christianity more especially the Nigerian goats is that they lack manners and respect for other faiths.

Muslims anywhere they are, will never insult other faiths, it's a teaching from the Holy Quran. Why can't you just learn from this excellent teaching but instead you jump into attacks anywhere you see a topic of discourse about Islam or Muslims.

Now look at what people with sense like America are doing to protect others. They think the teacher (as a Christian) has no right to attack any other faith and so, resorted to firing her instead. However, some adulterated pigs here in Nigeria are ranting that they should ban Muslims from entering their country. You probably do not think holy of your gods and do not care if any one insults them. Keep calm, no Muslim will ever engage in such nonsense with you.

Do you just call Christians pig??

I am not surprised nah.
You are insulting christians, for doing the same thing your religion can't correct u from doing?

Nwoke je chu ba ego.

Thank u sir. I have always believed in your judgement...it is nigeria lokan

Reno has lost relevance....hence I don't try to comprehend whatever he says. They seem like noise to me, no matter the kind of sense he is trying to make.

Take away their triggers and kuku give them back their 'talk true' stick.

E be like the gun done dey too shack them.

This is sad.

Oh no. The wickedness of humans against their fellow humans baffles even the devil.

May God restore peace to our land, and bring an end to all senseless killings.


2023, please, be good!

You mean, its currently closed?
Dey whine una self.

@op check your spelling. The headline in particular.

Kai, this is sad dear.
I hope or rather pray, she did not plan to elope with your money.
Maybe u should give her some benefit of doubt, that she will return, since it is yuletide and she wanted to spend the holiday with her family,at all cause, fearing u may not let her travel. ( Regardless, it was improper of her to do so o maka echi.)

Next time, please don't trust people that much....some people take time, before they strike.

Even though, upon still, obi will win.

Even though, upon still obi will still win.

Obi is winning already.

Lord we are grateful.

Thank you so much @op.

No 4&5 is spot on. Jesus is more than sufficient.
The holy spirit is indeed a real helper.

May God help us again this new year.

Don't this two ever get tired of being on social media?

If y'all are doing all this to pepper tonto, make una two grow up abeg. Its childish.

My anchor, my destiny.....e done do abeg

Husband snatchers be doing the most.

Fake news.

Who ever raised you sir, did a great job.

You see all those allahkaduna and their likes with their gullible follwers, I pity the women who will enter their trap.

Not me, not my sisters, not my daughters, my friends......not even my enemies.

MissLAP:
I'm here to talk about the 40 persons killed by Fulani herdsmen

Oh nooooooooo!!!


Dear Jesus, OZOEMMENA.
May God almighty, console the family.

This is a reminder that eternity is but a breath away.
Take your life serious. Death can happen anywhere and to anyone
Every sinner is living a risky life. Don't die, and find out your portion on the other side. Decide your portion now.

Merry Xmas the blessed nation.

I won't be tired to say congratulations to you guys over and over.

Congrats, once again.

Thank you, your excellency.

Merry xmas to you and your family.

Handsome lad and his beautiful mom.

Merry xmas andre, and merry xmas to your strong and resilient mother.

May this day usher in, the happiness that you both seek.

Beautiful people!!!

Merry Xmas Nkechi.

I was actually hoping to see ooni of ife, but alas.....see fine boy.

This life sha
All what I know about this lady, social media forced it on me.
She dey do her thing, without minding what the society thinks about it.

Watching her some days ago to probably deride her, I found out that that this lady is a sweet soul, as there is no dull moments around her. I laughed so much that I couldn't help it.

Even though I won't join others to defend her choice of dressing, I still think that there is a vacuum in her, that needs to be filled before she can be normal again.

When ever I see people insult her, I want to sub her too, but then I realize that it is a job in futile.
How can you ask a mango tree, to produce coconut, or a cashew tree to give out oranges?

Korra can't do away with this, not because it gives her money, but because the ONE with the power to make her do such, is still a STRANGER to her. Like she doesn't DO him.

So talk from now till tomorrow, and abuse her if u want.....the best you can do,is to pray for her.

Congrats. Someday too, my hustle go pay.

I pray God makes Nigeria a great country, so that other nationals would be fighting to come here too.

Vote Peter obi.
#Obiisbetter

lalalista:
I feel so hurt and heart broken by someone. I want to fight back but I'm helpless. I want to revenge but I don't know how to go about it. What do I do to deal with this person without involving physical action?

calm down dear, I am sure you are still hurting.
Its not easy, but give it time, the pain will heal.

Lemme drift a liitle with my own story:
Some years back in school, a best friend backstabbed me and broke my heart.
It was my first heart break and for everytime my heart drifted to it, I would be struggling to control the tears.
I would wet my bunk with tears, wanting the pain to go away. I cried so much and began to distance myself from humans, and anything called friendship.
Personally, my reaction to pain, is to cease from whatever source that pain came through.

I also had a roommate then too, who found out that her fiance was cheating on her with another girl close to our room....ha, double heartbreak for two roomie. See tears everywhere
Who will console who?
I had to encourage her, telling her to try and let it go, even though I was also trying to take my own advise.
No need for revenge. The best revenge is to move on, and try to be happy. I told her.
Las las, she had a carry over and some bad grades, because she couldn't concentrate her mind and read for the exam. I tried my best too, No carry over, but my grades were very very bad......my CGPA dropped, like a hot dough. E choke.

In summary.....Time healed the pain. Yes the scar is still there, but the pain is gone.
I didn't have to revenge. No need.

Christmas is special to me, because it is a day that the world decided on, to celebrate the birth of the greatest lover of all. The shekina Glory. The giver and the keeper of life.

Happy birthday to Jesus.
We celebrate you sir.
You may not have being born into the world on this particular date, but humanity decided to use this day to celebrate that great day.

Coming into this poluted world to bring redemption, was what many men waited for, Abraham hoped for, David wanted, and many other prophets too, and today, we are privileged to be part of those celebrating it.


Thank you Jesus.

Merry xmas, all.
Merry xmas, nairalanders
Merry xmas, ndi nkem......