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UyaiIncomparabl:So you know the "old tactics" ? In this part of the world especially, it's a cultural thing and not mental backwardness for most mothers to employ the "old tactics" to test if the girl their son is dating has good manners ,and also have respect for the elderly. If the young lady had the awareness to read the intention of the woman, she would have understood that offering to help would not necessary mean that she would be given the broom just like that to continue the sweeping. The response from the boy's mum would probably have been, "oh thank you. Don't bother let me sweep it myself" Then, the girl has passed the test being aware of the motive behind it. Mothers everywhere, not only in Nigeria, want a "good girl" for their male children, and would employ any tactics to achieve that. So it's not mental backwardness. As a woman yourself, I believe you would do the same thing in the future, forgetting all your complains here. It may not be sweeping but anything else that your son's girlfriend would also not like. If you don't want this sort of embarrassing situation as a girl, then ,don't date someone still living with their mum or sisters, especially in Nigeria. They would surely see one thing to complain about you, and test you all the time. |
I don't see the reason for mocking the op. No matter what anyone thinks, it is good thing that someone has changed from a chronic thief to one who now respects other peoples property. This is not the first time this kind of thing has happened. I know of a relative who was once a terror to everyone, and surprisingly he changed from that to a better person when he started attending church. He never went back . It is was like a dream to everyone. I am neither a Christian nor do I practice any religion, but I believe religion, provides a source of motivation for making certain decisions in life, whether good or bad. In the case of the op, it is for the good. So what is wrong in trying to be a better person? |
Dorakay93:And you are the Mr brain to know how poor every poor person must behave so we should be extremely careful of them? |
Dorakay93:Someone who is truly wealthy wouldn't reason like you. Both the rich and poor can be wicked |
Jobola1:Maybe to reduce the gravity of the offence in order to receive a lighter sentence |
Is this the right thing under the law? Why releasing the personal details of the young man to the Ekweramadus , instead of the police or the court in England that may demand for it later for age verification. |
guobe:Not completely true. It depends on the kind of woman. Money is a powerful force. If you don't know how to control it, then it can make you say and do things you would not normally do, without you fully conscious of what you're doing People usually say that a man's true character is only known once he becomes empowered financially. I think your brother knows the kind of person he is married to, but however,he is overreacting. He should allow the woman work and try to find a way to deal with the situation by communicating with the wife about his concerns. What your brother considers disregard is from his own point of view. The woman may not even see it that way. Her actions may seem disrespectful on the surface, but in her heart she highly regards him, if not why did she agree to marry him in the first place. |
Kobojunkie:Not true what you have concluded. The link you shared is saying a different thing
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maasoap:Don't mind them. Someone whose kidney was about to be harvested to save the life of another is now an insignificant person. That boy was about to be taking advantage of, 15 or 21 years old ,it doesn't matter. Nobody is going to tell me that he was aware of the full implication of donating a kidney at that age even if he gave his consent. This is a clear case of trying to take advantage of an homeless innocent young boy who Iis ignorant and not well informed of the decision he was about to make. He was also deliberately targeted because they knew he had know one to advise him. Nobody has heard from the boy's parents or siblings or relatives. It is wicked exploitation .The Nigerian Senate should also be fighting for justice for the boy too |
Wilgrea7:Questioning of beliefs happens all the time among religious people no matter where they are found. The reason it may appear Nigerians don't question their beliefs is because of the large number of religious people in the country which keeps increasing everyday. But the reason for this, is mostly situational; poverty and low quality education among others Religious leaders are mostly the ones that discourage their congregation from questioning their beliefs for the obvious reason of what it would lead to. At the individual level, beliefs are questioned all the time, but not having the courage to express it openly. Beliefs and doubts exist side by side. You can't belief in something without you having the occasion to question it from time time. It is not possible. |
LordReed:I focused on the meditation part of your question because I thought you were asking the same thing. There's a scientific explanation already for your question. I will talk on that briefly and then, proceed to give an explanation from my own viewpoint in order to show what happens between the two.. In science, it is explained that when you close your eyes to block out visual inputs, you tend to listen better because your attention is no longer divided, but is now wholly focused on verbal inputs, which are very difficult to mask , thereby making it much easier to "hear" clearly the true emotions and intentions behind the words spoken. Visual inputs grab our attention the most, and can distract us, for instance, into accepting the lies(verbal inputs) being told by another.. A lot of people are good at throwing illusions at others through pretended facial gestures and other body languages to trick our minds into accepting as truth what they are telling us. So when you block out visual inputs, you're safe and can then listened better without any distraction. .This is the scientific explanation. From my own position,, what you have called my model of consciousness, there's a huge difference because an individual who is fully aware of their true self is able to operate more consciously from that level of awareness than the average human being who does so unconsciously. So, for those fully aware of their consciousness, closing eyes to shut out visual inputs, will sometimes lead not only to perceiving clearly true emotions and intentions , but also to have flashed across inner mental screen of the listener, the imageries behind the verbal cues. That is, one can "see" mentally the exact or some of the situation another person is describing as if one is there when it happened. It is also possible sometimes to mentally "see" parts of the story that is deliberately left out by the other person.I have sometimes experienced this at different times in my life and it has saved me from being misled by others . So, what is the explanation for this; what really causes it? Consciousness, the force field of aware energy, the true being, moves by attention; where ever attention is placed, is where ones energy, consciousness ,moves to. Consciousness is multidimensional in nature; its not bounded by time and space.People have their consciousness tied to bodies because they accepted they're a body So,a placement of attention ,by someone who is fully aware of their consciousness, on verbal cues, while shutting off visual cues can led to being drawn into experiencing ,seeing" the actual situation which those verbal cues represent, with the imageries from it flashed instantaneously across inner mental screen so it is stored in mind/brain for recollection if one needs to act on the information later |
LordReed:Is it created or can it be destroyed? It is neither created or destroyed..Modern quantum physics is begining to let us understand that the world and how it operates may be different from what is previously known; it may not be what we think . .Energy ,that I am (my true self), is not created nor destroyed. If it can be destroyed, then , consciousness will not reincarnate. Few persons are aware. of their previous life, while the majority of people are not aware. It is not easy to remember everything in one's present life not to talk of a past life. However, one can remember their previous life if one chooses to. The re things that can be done to have a past life recalll to prove that one's consciousness has existed before in another body. The claims I make, are not supported by science, that is ,scientists in the main body of science, except independent scientists working on their own, have not conducted any research to verify them, but it doesn't mean they are not true.. The re truths that people know of that are not yet proven by scientists.This could be due to non interest in investigating it or the limitations of the scientific nethod which makes it impossible to verify such claims. However, ,this doesn't mean that one should just accept whatever anyone says is true with the excuse that scientists are yet prove or disprove it.. Question 2: why does your listening experience improve when you close your eyes or why do you meditate better in a silent and dark place? Why does your ability to utilise one sense increase the less input your brain is receiving?For the above, one needs to be careful so as to avoid accepting other people's experience as your own and start living it. This can happen to those who don't know how to determine "facts from fiction" Surprisingly, there are people who can visualize better with their eyes open than when closed, contrary to the usual advice to close it while doing so. So imagine you're one of such persons who can visualize better with eyes open being advised to close it so you can do it better. If you follow that advice, you will not do it right unless you revert to what you can do naturally; eyes open Some people teach that a silent and dark place is necessary for a good meditation experience. While there is some element truth in this, it is not completely true. Some people can meditate anywhere and anytime, but this usually comes with mastery. There are others who without any form of mastery are naturally able to shut out their immediate environment and focus on what they do. So its usually and individual thing concerning some of these things and not that it is so for everyone. One needs to use different approach to determine what is comfortable and works best and not because another person or expert says so . Finally, there are other cognitive abilities that we possess which are not brain based. I know some people have already disagreed with this statement and may come for my head later. When the input that comes through the brain is reduced, especially during sleep these abilities become fully operatiional and enables us to do things that we can't do in our normal waking state with our brains fully active.. At this point, it is our true self, the consciousness within, that's now free to express itself unhindered by brain.that seeks to control our behavior when we are awake. I have said before that dreams are the experiences our true self has when our bodies are at rest, with the experiences flashed or recorded in our brains as dreams using the images embedded it so we can remember those experiences when we wake up. Brains don't create dreams, if not ,Lucid dreams will not happen. Lucid dreams are when you become conscious in your dream that you're dreaming and start to act as if awake. If brains create dreams, this can't be possible. Some people usually have dreams of precognition . The human brain is incapable if such function according to current brain theory in the sciences. This is the reason when one report dreams of such nature to others,, some people who don't understand the reason scientists reject such dreams, will unthinkingly says it happens by chance or coincidence. But that is not true. scientists are not in a position right now to know exactly what goes on subjectively within ourselves. They don't have the tools to peer further other than to make inferences from observable brain activities which doesn't reveal everything. So when there's less brain input coming from the outside, other cognitive abilities that we have, as consciousness within, usually come alive with the results from these abilities flashed across our mental screen so we can make use of these information if we need to. But we usually ignore this info for what is already contained in our limited rational mind/brain All of these that I have explained will only make sense if we can accept we are not the bodies we occupy. However, whether we accept or not, it doesn't stop us from having those experiences . But .......... |
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budaatum:You have no such power to enter my dreams. You're deluded surely and its just a matter of time. Go an practice your witchcraft with your family members. I have no business with you |
HellVictorinho4:Scammer you want me to expose you again. How you wanted to scam damiloladuke in the give away thread with your Elanozy and crystano monikers you have since deactivated? You did that this year . After crying all over the place that I lied about you. Since last year till now you still on the same game and you say I am responsible for your problems. No shishi for you again. You are known already And if you're not a coward you would stopped insulting your mother hiding behind your phone. Reveal your exact location in Ikorodu if you think you're brave enough. |
budaatum:Speak for yourself buda. Nairaland has millions of people following comments. They see all I have written and have ignored it for their own personal reasons. But for you, it seems cognitive dissonance is affecting you , hence your strong reactions. Something is certainly wrong, if not why can't you ignore. I even issued a disclaimer at the beginning, or you don't know what a disclaimer is? Let me help you.Banks in this country normally place disclaimers in the parking space provided for their customers to let you know that your decision to use it is yours alone Now ,you saw this disclaimer and parked. Later when you return, and find your car stolen you want to blame the bank for providing parking space and threaten to sue them .You will never win that case. You decided to respond to my thoughts which I dont want to force on anyone .I have not threatened you with hell fire or anything to accept my opinions. It is your karma how you feel right now. It is not my fault. Go seek professional help if my thoughts has caused some mental abberations for you. Sorry sir. Please take care of yourself. I won't respond to you again so it doesn't become worst for you. |
KnownUnknown:I was referring to some of the methods used, as I don't find it good enough to other methods I know. Is not what you think, my reaction there |
HellVictorinho4:You were asked to provide information about yourself to confirm your claims since you were begging. But you refused. I am not begging anyone for anything here, so don't compare yourself with me. People should just throw money at you because you're entitled to it. Go and work and feed yourself |
budaatum:I hope you learn from the person you have quoted. He has is own perspective, on the issued been discussed and he just shared it with me. You don't have anything to present, hence you think I want you to just believe me Use your head so you don't fall for anything |
KnownUnknown:Whatever you like to say. I never said dreams dont need brains. How do you remember your dreams if your brains are not involved. I would like to learn from you your own perspective on dreams and how you have been working with the dreams you have every night What are dreams? Why do we dream? Why do some people have dreams of precognition. Do dreams have any relevance in our lives? Is it possible to interpret one's dream to understand them? |
budaatum:Another judgmental template, confirmation bias, which has stopped you from thinking. Not every personal experience can teach you something, some can misled you, but some can, especially when you how ti validate your experiences. It is those who don't know that are victims of confirmation bias. I thought you were smart, but you continue to disappoint me and I think others following You don't know the sort of experiences I have had in life and the methods I have used to confirm what to accept and reject. I have had experiences which I have discarded since I know how to confirm what is true or not. If you don't how to determine if the experiences you have had can be relied on or abandoned, then confirmation bias may misled you into accepting the wrong thing. So ,buda stop using judgemental templates you don't fully understand as you will exposed your ignorance. Please go and educate yourself. You ignorance is stinking It is better to ignore you as you're trying to come through the back door to start your nonsense again. Your mind is working in the groove of mindless criticism. You can't stop yourself |
KnownUnknown:I did that to prove it also something scientists are aware of ,and not spiritual as you once concluded concerning OBE. I don't really care how scientist approach it for now I don't follow the methods shared in that article as I don't find them effective enough compared to what I know. But if they were better than what I use ,I would follow those ones and abandon mine If I had proceeded just like that I suspect you would accuse me like buda of coning up with crap in my head. And wait, does it really matter what any authority says if one can prove it works? Why don't you learn you how to work with your dreams to confirm if true, instead of thinking it is just what is believed And concerning eschewing science, you have concluded wrongly. I don't avoid science but insist it has limitations which most blind followers of the sciences are not aware. For those ones, they are not different from religious fanatics who believe everything as true, without questioning . |
budaatum:You're have been finding faults, judging and condescending, without showing any genuine interest in anything I have discussed. If you are genuinely interested and not just to condemn, you should by now by telling everyone contrary facts that nullifies my position. For instance, if someday describe life in Lagos, and you know it is not completely true, what you do then, is to tell the person the actual "story " of life in Lagos, since you know it better than the person. But when you fail to do that, what do you expect people to think of you? It means you don't know about much about life in Lagos but you are just chronic sceptic, who doubts everything to extent of doubting himself if he is awake or asleep Please concentrate on the religious people you like to troll as blind believers on this board. You refute yourself each time when you say I just believe things without confirming them to be true. You are also believing ,without evidence or much knowledge about me that I believe without ,confirming anything. That's how you refute yourself. You don't much about me; what I have done, the experience I have had and anything other thing.about me. It's about time you abandoned this your god complex as it is not helping you at all. |
budaatum:Not my knowledge alone I actually wanted to say. I already had the knowledge from my own personally experience ,before reading about some of them years later elsewhere to see that I was not just deluding myself. Other people also arrived at the same thing almost the same way I did. And even now, what I know long ago to be true is what scientists are starting to investigate since the evidences is becoming overwhelming for them not to ignore. Some people are born with certain skills and abilities which they never learnt from anyone. If you don't know this, then you're ignorant So , buda, stop looking for faults |
Being genuinely interested in another person's points of view and seeking to fully understand their perspective lessens the level of judgement and creates greater relationship harmony. Copied. |
budaatum:Oh my God Dreams sceneries and imageries are not to taken for real. They represent something. That you should decode yourself And if not that your attention is fully focused on judging ,you can't fail to miss that the dream serve to inspire the daughter to write a story from it None accepted that the dream was a real event except you |
budaatum:I said it's from a scientific perspective, not my conclusion. You can study your dreams yourself to confirm. Or don't you dream? |
budaatum:Another judgemental rant from you that believes I am just following what I read or was told. What do you know about me? Omniscient buda? If you don't want to eat the forbidden fruit to open your eyes, can't force you. You know it all |
budaatum:You already started questioning me on one of them. Like you forget. Here is from a scientific perspective https://kids.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/frym.2019.00140
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budaatum:What you choose to follow or not follow is your choice. |
KnownUnknown:I already shared one. It is there in my presentation if you go back to it. The reception to that has discouraged me not to share anything further.. There are not my own knowledge. I have no exclusive right to them. Just follow the lead I have given to research the others for yourself Nothing about them is magical |
budaatum:The phone represent something. The phone represent my body and the mechanism that keeps its system running. While me, represent the being that has not emerged from the phone but is "inside" of it and using it. I have used it to show the sort of relationship the exist between myself and the body I occupy. Without the phone and its mechanism I can't function inside of it. There won't be any point to occupy it in the first. When there is a call coming in , the phone detects the signal and alerts mechanically that I have a call. The phone , body, doesn't know the meaning of a call it is just reacting to its programming. I , the owner the phone, (body )is the only entity that is conscious of what is going on. If the phone becomes dead, I move out of it to occupy another body. This is what I am trying to get across and not just a normal phone user and his device. Of course, I don't expect you to accept all of these explanation for obvious reason. I wish you would not forget this. The limitations are not your's alone, both in expressing and in understanding. We must however do the best we can to express and understand.I am usually conscious of this. No one is asking you to rely on anything about your consciousness, triple. It is your consciousness, it is subjective to you alone. It is not objectively observable to us, and only ignorantly can we be telling you anything about your consciousness.Whatever we think of ourselves is what we express, but we must be sure that what we think of ourselves is the correct thing ,if not ,we would act on the wrong one How can we know the correct thing to think of who we are? That's the question I'm glad you say so. Thankfully, no scientist is telling me to rely on any template of what it is to be human, and if they were I'd likely not listen since I prefer to use my own senses to decide my own humaness. . Sorry triple, but I am buda, and not a "lot of people these days are getting confused", and if I stubbornly insist on "relying on the template of science alone", which thankfully I'm far too able to not do, then I am a fool and I do not think I would live very long for it is far better for me to use my own senses to do my own science than to rely on the science done by another with their own senses.An exaggeration by me, but that doesn't mean some persons are not confused about who they are |
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