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larrymoore: Only time reveals.

True.

If she's confident in herself and confident in you and her relationship with you she wouldn't feel the need to always know who's talking to you. There's something about your relationship with her that's make her insecure. You should give her reassurance that you only love her so she shouldn't worry.

dmcdad: Not all guys act or think like that. Also, not all women are materialistic... Some people are just guilty of generalization.

I know, I'm referring to the guys who are saying the only way to a women's heart is money.

Yomieluv: My neighbour,the mum calls the dad,Tiger,cos of his tribal marks.while the dad calls the mum,Zebra,cos of her stretch marks.

Lol

duni04: See story..happens in hollywood sha

No not in Hollywood, in reality. Works for some women.

Revolva: Anything that pays her bills - money ,buy her clother,make she sef get BB omo u don win her na u get d puccy

And what if she pays her own bills and buys her own clothes? You guys act like all women are materialistic.

austushi1: And that's all, right? Na lie!

Yes I don't need my boyfriend to be an ATM machine in order to win my heart. I have my own money.

Talk about some mad insecurity.

Hmm, they just walk up to each other and say what they need to say. And if they're far away, you'll tell by the tone in their voice that they're talking to each other.

Interesting....Still tryna figure out how the transplant would have worked.

My ex and I had the same surname, don't see the big deal, but that wasn't the reason why we didn't get married.

In a relationship

A pair of leather gloves and a bottle of Barcardi

Accept her for who she is and treat her well.

Then what was the point of earning a degree?

Hmm...
1. He uses the back of his hand to cover his mouth when he yawns. I don't know why but it erks me.
2. After we make love I might say something just for the room to get really quiet and then he starts snoring.
3. The way he chews his food when it's really good.
4. He eats too fast. Sometimes I get scared he'll choke.
5. He always wants me to lay on his chest when we're sleeping but doesn't like spooning because my hair gets in his face.
6. He watches the same headlines on CNN no matter how many times they repeat themselves.

NDanielle: cottoncand: It feels like we're dating the same guy....WOW!. The exact same thing happened to me. I met him on my birthday (July)and life was great. We talked ALL THE TIME, via phone/text, during lunch, during work; the whole nine yards. This went on until we met in August. (We met a mon. later because of my yearly summer vacation) ANYWHO!

When I tell you he did a total 180 degree turn, I mean just that. He no longer had time for me, he had to get his rest for work ALL THE TIME! Our conversations went from everyday all day to maybe 1 to 2 min. a day and I did all the talking, he seemed so uninterested, I felt like I was talking to a brick wall. At times I would try to see if I didn't call him would he call me. ANNNNNNNNNT WRONG!! It's almost like it didn't phase him that he hadn't spoken to his girlfriend all day, sometimes DAYS! <<IRRITATING>>

Going out HA! does the first date count..? We never did. It was always come spend a few min. at his home before going to work. One time I said, how about we go to the auto show. His response, I don't like being around that many people. Ok I said, how about you and I go to a play. His response, No! It's almost like everything I came up with was shot down. So I decided to flip the script, I asked him to come up with some ideas for us. DID HE....NO! This routine was getting old and I couldn't take it any longer.

A few months later he moved. It went from 5 min. distance between us to now 45 min. distance. This meant that this would require BOTH of us to make a sacrifice (driving) Well, you guessed it, that didn't work either. It actually made it worse. If I didn't drive to him WELL we just didn't see each other. It felt like I only had a boyfriend by name. A few months later went by and I told him I couldn't take this anymore. I told him it felt like I was giving 90% and he was giving a mere 10%. I told him, that we needed to seriously talk and figure this thing out. Well we talked. He changed back to his sweet, caring, affectionate self for a WEEK..! and reverted back. That was my sign to get out..! I dare not stay in a relationship where I have to do all the work, if that's the case heck I'll just date myself.

A few months went by and I got a call. I decided to give a try again. Thinking that maybe he had changed and also because he said he had. Well, you guessed it, a few days of Mr. Nicey Nice and right back to Mr. Do Nothing. I DARE NOT TAKE THIS FOOLISHNESS AGAIN.

Judging from your description of him, he was probably married or had another girl on the side.

nollywood20: Who started the first problem?
Adam or Eve?

Neither. It was the snake.

adewasco2k: i think nothing is wrong with that since you guys do kiss.
i remember having a dedicated brush in my girlfriends place.

Hmm I love kissing my boyfriend and all, but I don't even think I'd forgive him if he used my spare toothbrush that I keep at his place

God take power from the devil

That's just nasty. For me there's nothing intimate about that. Just my opinion.

You need to talk to him and tell him everything you've told us. Ask him how he feels about you and where he sees things going between you guys because you feel like you feel like he's not putting in enough effort. It could be that he's busy with other priorities like work or school. But you need to communicate with him. If you don't you'll be making assumptions that he just wants sex.

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]im really still trying to understand why you guys think "exclusive friends with benefits" cant happen.....it makes perfect sense to me......[/quote]It can happen for some time but it usually ends with one person breaking the exclusivity.

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]If you and your friend agree to be exclusive friends with benefits, and the friends starts sleeping with other people, would you consider that cheating?[/quote]If you both agreed on being exclusive and they break that agreement I wouldn't call it cheating because you're friends with benefits, but I'd say the person is disloyal for making an agreement and not keeping it.

[quote author=Mynd_44]To me, dating is when you both are still sizing one another up to see if you can actually manage the other person's faults and you are sorting out how you feel about him/her.

A LTR however is when you are both sure you want something out of the relationship (by something, I mean a future or atleast a high commitment). In an LTR, you are sure that you are in love with your partner and the partner reciprocates.[/quote]Well since you're a guy what tangible proof would you give to show your partner that there's now a difference between one form of the relationship and the other? Is it just a matter of feeling it in your heart or taking an extra step to show a commitment that's on a higher level than what was before?

Is there a difference between the two? And if there is, at what point does a relationship move from dating to being in a long term relationship? Are there tangible signs that one needs to see to determine that we're no longer dating but we're in a LTR now? Do you let time decide, in terms of how long you've been dating? Or do you let other factors decide? Share your thoughts.

MRBrownJ: ^^^^ my last post was hidden for whatever reason, and got me banned......(damn spambot!!!!)

anyway here is what i wrote:
First, the vice principal and many others in the school were in a meeting when the shooting started, but only the school vice principal and that teacher ran to help. the school THERAPIST and many others in that meeting jumped under tables and probably did what is the PROTOCOL in such emergency, and subsequently stayed alive. many in that meeting were parents of school children, and even they ducked under tables while calling 911. what a nice picture for people like you who think that we should all be heroes, while actual parents of these same children are under tables saving themselves. so you want make i die for children of people who dont give a damn about their very own blood?

Second, the 2 people who ran towards the sound of gun fire died because they were foolish enough thinking that their action would save anyone when it just got them killed. they tried to save children by jumping in front of the gunman and it didnt help one bit as he killed them and continued his rampage. so they lost their lives FOR NOT FOLLOWING THE PROTOCOLS, while reacting without thinking.

Third, a newly installed security system was in place in the school to prevent exactly what happened in that school, but guess what? Dawn Hochsprung the supposed "dead hero" of that tragedy (and principal of Sandy Hook Elementary School) is the one who buzzed that mad man in, thus indirectly responsible for that crazed man to have had access to these children.

Last but not least, and most importantly, NONE OF THE BRAVE "HEROES" STOPPED THE GUNMAN FROM DOING WHAT HE CAME TO DO., he killed who he came to kill (as well as the heroes who thought they were bulletproof), and then he turned the gun on his own self and killed himself.

I hear you. But I will say it one last time, you're entitled to your opinions.

dopeJemi: Wats dat?

Hip Hop and aerobic dancing

Well I don't think the young teacher who died had the chance to run away. The gunman blocked the doorway and she told her students to get down while she huddled over them. But like I said you're entitled to your opinions.

Accepting your partner for who they are, good communication, living in the moment but for the future, and a good sense of humour.