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[quote author=Ijele-igbo]Because we want all our beautiful ladies to get married....... We care![/quote]Mmm hmm sure

I ask because he gets off of work late and by the time he gets home he doesn't want to go to the kitchen to eat anything, he just wants to sleep. And he's been losing weight lately so gotta make sure he eats.

Uhhhh eww

NOIBMUUL: Look at it this way.... Isn't there a generally accepted standard or set of qualities that make a wifey material or husband material? I'm sure most of us will agree that some people are good-looking just the same way others are not that good-looking (even though we all subscribe to the school of thought that says beauty is in the eye of the beholder). We all certainly know a mad man when we see one, or a successful person when we read about them.

So in as much as I would like to admit that a wifey material is personal thing, there still exist that generally accepted benchmark that qualifies a lady as one.

Besides, if we all were to have different opinions about a thing, the opinions would still overlap in certain areas. Don't you agree?

I still think the definition of wife material is a personal thing. What works for one may not be a big deal for another.

Some of these are true but it was just too long to read.

Mmm a topic that just won't go away.

Nope. He'll just resent you if he finds out you did it on purpose. And you'll end up subconsciously resenting your child if your scheme doesn't work.

It's only cheating if the couple decided that during the break they were going to remain exclusive for the time being.

Huh?

[quote author=Mynd_44]Claims and counter claims. I believe however that everyone need to mix so that we cab rub minds and learn from one another[/quote]I agree

Mmm back to work

Get over yourself you weren't that good
That's what I told him

It's normal to feel that way, but know that feelings come and go. Don't let the past get in the way of your possible future with the woman you're with now. It's not worth it. And why are you so involved in the wedding anyway? There's nothing wrong with wishing her well but to be so involved in it is another story.

I call him baba, babe, sweetheart. He calls me mama and sweetheart.

I hear you.

You must be really bored.

xynerise: The big and beautiful lady in NL am sorry to generalize this but you fat ladies are too uncomfortable for my liking. I pray to God that I will never marry a fat lady. I am a faithful guy and can never cheat on my gal but I told her to keep fit and slim cos if she gets fat I will definately cheat on her. I always tell my friends that on the day of my wedding I will carry my wife like a child but how can my dream come true if she is fat? They are too dull in bed, too lazy and you can not do some certain styles of sexx with them. . Seriously I always tell my gal to do the sit ups and jog always. Cos when I start acting funny she will remember what I told her. I can even date them let alone marry them. They sweet a lot.

Just thought I'd let you know you contradicted yourself.

Trust me the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Stay where you are.

You can't blame her. You decided to play Santa Claus and she's taking what you give.

You have got to be kidding me.

Hmm where to start...
1. One of my close friends tried to convince me that I should leave my boyfriend because I would make a better couple with my boyfriend's best friend.
2. Another former friend told me not to commit to my boyfriend and that I should just let him spend money on me.
3. My mom tried to convince me that I shouldn't consider marriage with him because we're not from the same country.

Ahhhh... A year later we're still strong and walking into the new year together. Thank God I'm the kind of person who just hears people instead of listening to everything they say.

dave247: @REALITY101... i have no issues with you... My food is your poison... Am one of those that really look inwardly, ur beauty is just MaryKAY. That's why u don't just fall when you see ladies only Admire then... the rest will follow. No hard feelings REALITY101, More Pix for Nlanders! Lols!

Is that your girlfriend? You guys kind of look like brother and sister.

Looks like two elephants trying to kiss each other

If I were you I'd wait. He should at least have something going for himself before you guys get married and then you guys can build up the rest together. He doesn't have to be set in his career but he should have at least some kind of income to support his family. You don't want to rely on only one person bringing in the income, unless you make more than enough for both of you. But if you dont, what happens if you lose your job or if you get pregnant and need to stay home for some time after a child comes into the picture. Just take your time, really weigh the pros and cons with him, and don't rush into anything you'll regret later.

My eyes, my stubbornness, and my gentleness.

I think your question should be, how much value has your partner added to your life because you can never be totally objective enough when it comes to judging yourself. Of course we all want to believe that we've added some kind of value to our partners' lives but only they can really say what impact we've really made.

Haha so guilty of 3, 5, 9 and 10

ademed: I love her and I'm not willing to let go.converting her 2 ma religion-dat I ll not do.All I need 2 knw is if she feels d same way as I do.

Dude, the girl said no.

austushi1: You not being a Nigerian has settled it, all other ones are not important to me!

yeah yeah whatever.

You move on and find someone else who will date you.

austushi1: Even if u hv ur own money, u can't tell me u don't demand 1 or 2 things from him! 99.99% of Nigerian girls are materialistic!

Number 1: I'm not Nigerian so stop generalizing.
Number 2: If he surprises me with gifts here and there fine, I do the same for him, but I don't demand anything from him.
Number 3: My boyfriend is not responsible for my financial well-being, that's my own responsibility.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]its always the ones that dont have money that think all ladies are out there for the little they have, if any at all[/quote]Preach!