TheJourneyMan:
Because you all are idiots, go and find something better to do with your lives. White people don't want your services.

Its ok.

We understand your situation.

We all empathize with you.

It is well.

exceptionalhim:
This post is not meant for everybody.

Its meant for believers abi?

Ozzyk:
Hi Nairalanders I am civil servant but I've taken deep interest in switching career to Tech (cybersecurity) I had started taking lessons few weeks back after completing Python
I want to ask is this career really lucrative in Nigeria and what's the average pay in Nigeria
Is it better to stay back in Nigeria and work remotely or I should relocate after abroad after getting my certificate
Am just curious

Who told you that you have completed Python?

Are you motivated by salaries or by passion?

If you dont get a job, can you create solutions with your skills?

Who is issuing your certification? MIT? Your certificates mean nothing. The fact that you attended trainings mean nothing. What can you do and what have you done means everything.

Dont relocate abroad to look for job without proper authorization to work. Get a remote job first. You can then consider traveling.

If you have a lot of savings, take a month leave and travel to the country of your choice to see how life is first. The best education is traveling. Try to see how easy it is to get jobs first You can now decide if you want to relocate or not.

Dont leave your civil servant job before you get another better source of income.

airsaylongcome:
Life! Yahoo boy wey no sabi code dey say make learners no reach am. And hin no wan pay anything for experts to get the job done. Yahoo boy about to be yahoo-ed

😬

He don buy two scripts. He wan mix eba and amala and use salad as soup.

Image123:


Where is that?

Lagos

Early stage psychosis…

Image123:


Where is that?

Should be close to that refuse dump along idimu road. A lot of things burn there.

Image123:


i will not doubt you, but ask you for the advantages if you feel compelled to make sure i hear it.

You are a believer.

A believer is simply someone moronic enough to accept stories as facts without subjecting them to a logical test.

jaephoenix:

1. What experiences?
2. How come these dark powers manifest on theists alone but run away from atheists? Cos my Christian wife has all kinds of demonic obsessions like nightmares, sees ghosts in dark etc, while I don't see such. She shivers in fear while I am sipping my chill. Mind you she has talked to her pastors

The moment you stop believing in all these religious stories and know for a fact that their stories are just horror stories is the moment those demonic dreams would stop.

Growing up, i had nightmares from these stories of witches and wizards our films wont stop telling. I stopped having those moronic dreams when I realized they were just stories.

whyteteeth:
It's draining dealing with my mom everytime she comes to the city to stay in the same house with me. I live in my elder sister's house but she (my sister) stays abroad with her family. I am the last child and I am not married. I work from home though. My mum vists here once in a while. Anytime she comes around she does a lot of things that spoils my mood. For instance, she doesn't like taking her children's advice no matter how important it is to them. She likes having her way all the time. And when we try to stop her, she guilt trips us and emotionally blackmails us.

I have other siblings who do not live with me but they used to come around with their children anytime mom is around. My father is back home and hardly visits. She doesn't listen to my dad if he advices her.

Mom will first and foremost get someone upset, and when the person complains, she will watch out for one negative word that will slip out from your mouth and use it to emotionally blackmail you. She will cry because of what you said to her until you feel guilty and beg her to forgive you. She also likes reporting her child to another of her child without minding if it would damage their relationship.

She likes making her child feel bad so long as she has her way and she is happy. She pays no attention to the feelings of her children anytime she wants anything. For instance, My mom can make you spend money on something that she already has. Sometimes she will drag for something that she doesn't even need. She feels as a mother all her children must make her happy else they don't like her.

Also, She is terrible with conversations both on phone and physically. If you try to have a one on one talk with her, she will make the conversation very unpleasant because she will keep interrupting, next thing she will cry or she will get up and leave you.

She never sees her fault. Even if she apologies, she would do the same thing again and blame you for making her do it.

If she comes around and everywhere is peaceful, after a short while argument will begin which may lead to a fight.

This is because she likes jamming one person with another person and eventually make them quarel. She enjoys adding words that was never in the conversation when she is reporting somebody to another perosn. Most times those words are very hurting and will lead to a fight. And when the fight begins, she will start crying. Sometimes she would intentionally fall on the ground while trying to separate a fight, just to make sure everybody runs helter-skelter trying to get her up on her feet.

She has blood pressure issues, hence she uses that a weapon to guilt-trip her children so they can succumb to her demands. For instance, if she says things that are not true about her child to another of her child and the person finds out, once you confront her, she would say " don't query me oh, shey you know my blood pressure would soon go up. I didn't kill my mother, don't kill me oh." Or she will just start crying and say the person hates her and what was said isn't true, and that she never said anything like that. She denies the things she says that are bad soon after she says them.

Gosh, I am just tired of my mom. I feel like packing out of this house, blocking her and not letting her come close to me because of how emotionally draining it is everytime she comes around.

Your mum is a manipulative gaslighter. That is the fact.

To survive around manipulators, you first need to avoid interactions with them as much as possible. For unavoidable interactions, allow the gaslighter to talk, say ok you have heard and do EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANTED TO DO in the first instance. Repeat this as a loop.

Dont fight or try to argue with a manipulator. They will hold on to any wrong word. Instead, do the listening. Ask questions to clarify their positions and say ok.

Ok no dey cause fights.

Say ok but remember to do exactly what you wanted to do.

Manipulator: you cannot eat rice in this house today because putin did this and buhari did that.
You: ok
Then you proceed to eat your rice.
After they notice you ate rice and they flare up, you feign ignorance, act like you didn’t hear them the first time, reverse the psychology on them etc.

Anything you do, just dont argue. Reduce confrontations to just simple statements but do exactly what you want to do.

When she reports you and the other person calls, just laugh it off. Remind the person that they should know ‘how mummy use to do’ . If the person is boiling too much, just say ok. Don’t argue.

When she realizes that you are just an ok machine with no interest in fights, she will look for someone else to fight with.

Remember, ok no dey cause fight

bolacode:


The new trend is u guys denying your Igbo roots, but unfortunately u allays, can't hide ur hatred for Yoruba. That trend of "I'm not igbo" don cast, abeg

I am not responsible for your IQ being at the level of an okada’s fuel gauge.

I dont owe you or anyone an explanation that i am not Igbo but i had to state it for the ones with bad brain cells like you who might make assumptions based on my post. Alas, that was not enough for you.

What else do you want?

Roboto11:


Marginalised how?

Don't they receive their allocations?

Ekweremadu held what position in our senate?

What of Ayim?

What is the highest position an Efik or Ibibio has ever held?

Tiv or Junkun nko?

Abeg make then shift.

Now that you mention other groups, i think they all deserve an equal right to lead this country.

Saidfx:


Igbos don't like themselves! You will sure see igbos in this coming administration. The committee thing is not an office o. Let us calm down. We move!

Ok chairmo.

We move.

Tim1212:



Then police and EFFCC will be arresting real estate agent, company or individual who upload proof of client payment on their handles

Every company does that, they show client payment of other client to boost confidence

There is a difference between a proof of a transaction and a fraudulent claim to misrepresent. Trust me, you dont want to find out what it means with you behind the counter of Special Frauds Unit in Ikeja.

frankson1:



But, according to Ohanaeze, they've not recognised Tinubu as the Presidential-elect, how then do you expect Tinubu to include those who have refused to recognise him in his transition committee?

Ohaneze is a group within the bigger Igbo group.

There are still some Igbos that campaigned actively for Tinubu. Dont they deserve some recognition?

Alary:


There is no oversight here , it's was deliberately done and in good faith. This is the inauguration of a president whose 80% igbos does not want, to avoid security glitches and unforeseen circumstances, it is better to appoint people you trust to handle the preparation of the eagles square.
You can never tell , there may be a sabotage from people who are not happy with you ,those who doesn't want the inauguration to hold by all means.
There is going to be a gala night during the week long programme , people are going to be fed and entertained, so we dont want a story that touches.
Security breaches, leaders across the world are expected to be around, there is no room for embarrassment. Those that compiled the list did a yeoman job , for preventing the unforeseen /foreseen situation.

This is a strong argument in favor of Tinubu and i am constrained to accept it as a possibility.

It is still early to conclude on Tinubu’s real disposition towards the easterners.

Lets see as events unfold.

Victor468:
Be realistic for once. On what basis would OBI or ATIKU will the court case? Both of them could not garner 25% in 24 states. Where will they start in proving their cases? The truth is all of them rigged the elections in their strong holds, just that Tinubu out rigged them.

I am not sure they did not truly win as you stated. That should be left to the courts to decide.

One of their arguments is that Tinubu did not win. They presented their claims as to that. If the courts can agree with them, then it is a win for them.

The courts can ask INEC to conduct a rerun of the elections or award to one of plaintiffs.

Tim1212:



Come to think of it why would police come to arrest someone because he uploaded proof of payment.

That is ridiculous. Allow EFCC do their job

You? EFCC?

Stop fanning your embers.

Oke-koto police post plus the nearest magistrate court is enough to handle your matter.

hafeeanubasy:

Because Igbo never employ intellectual approach to relating others and to politics.

By the way,you are the one being emotional here,Igbo can no bulky anybody to be president. They should be diplomatic and make friends. They hate buhari,hausa fulanis,they hate tinubu,yorubas,..they hate Muslims...where will their vote come from?
Use your brain and stop being emotional unnecessarily

You are right on the fact that they should build more diplomatic bridges.

But you forget that trauma leaves a mark of distrust in the victims.

If your parents lost all their family in a war in 1969 before you were born, i am sure you might have some little resentment against the people who killed them especially if those wounds have not been properly treated.

This is the main reason why terrorism still exists in the north and Palestine is still a hot bed. As long as the underlying factors are not resolved, the problem will just regenerate.

You assume i am not using my brain. I have nothing to say to that.

Roboto11:


Marginalised how?

You mean people can simply hate anyone who isn't from.their tribe and those they hate should apologise to them?

Hate is wrong on all fronts and i would not support hate. Hate is dangerous and leads to unnecessary violence.

I did not infer hate in my post and i am not sure how you arrive at such a conclusion.

The Igbos have been marginalized. They deserve the chance to have an Igbo rule this country.

We also need it as a nation.

We need to stop seeing tribes and start seeing ourselves as one nation.

If Tinubu doesn’t assimilate Igbos into his cabinet, he has failed irrespective of what other positives he achieves.

doctorbabs:
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WHY ARE YOU PEOPLE ALWAYS ECONOMICAL WITH THE TRUTH, YOU ARE FORGOTTEN, IT WAS YOU PEOPLE GREED AND ARRONGANCE THAT LED TO THIS PRESENT SYSTEM OF GOVERNMENT, THINGS WERE DONE REGIONALLY UNTIL YOUR BROTHER INTRODUCED DECREE 34. ALWAYS SAYS THE TRUTH AND TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE.
quote author=truthCoder post=122762074]

Apart from the first republic when we had the same Zik as a parliamentary president and Aguiyi’s small stint as HOS, no igbo has led this country. That is the undeniable fact.

You mention CBN governorship positions, ministerial positions and legislative positions and assume that should be enough for a whole region in 5 decades?

For a region that suffered mass destruction during the war, a national redevelopment fund should have been established for the ravaged areas since 1970.

The ports, roads, industrial hubs and potential technological advancements in the east have not been developed as much as they should.

The Igbos were initially the clerical and administrative hub of old Nigeria and were the bulk of intellectuals in the railways, ferries, government agencies and ministries. The civil war led to the death of many of this cadre and Nigeria slowly entered into a period of intellectual rot. The quota system did not help matters.

Igbos survived through trading, not by choice but as as a second option. If the civil war has not started and the embarrassing quota system was not introduced , the corps of intellectuals lost could have pushed us towards development and made us the real giant of Africa.

If you feel the Igbos are not marginalized, have you tried to consider what your response would have been if a Yoruba or Hausa/Fulani has never ruled this country since inception?

Typing in capital letters in a forum is rude.

Secondly, when you mention you people, are you assuming i am Igbo? Which of my brothers?

Don’t rush to make assumptions.

hafeeanubasy:
They will rule when TINUBU is done!

They should transfer their hatred to Obasanjo who choosed not to make Igbo man a VP to yaradua and to Atiku that snatched their 2023 slot in PDP.

TINUBU doesn't deserve a single hatred form Igbo. He has no business with them.Apart from supporting Ihedioha to become DSP in 2011 when Tambuwal offered it to femi gbajabiamila, he also supported GEJ in 2011 and has Igbos among his cabinet members.

Since their hatred for Tinubu is unreasonable to me,TINUBU will rule,they can now produce president later!

You are not speaking form an intellectual perspective but from an emotional one.

When emotions are introduced into discussions, logic is sacrificed.

hafeeanubasy:
They marginalized themselves

How?

hafeeanubasy:

Yes sir.

Igbo are not marginalized.
They only cry when they are not dominating!

During shagari regime...an Igbo man occupied VP and speaker.

During GEJ,
SGF= Anyim pius Anyim

Deputy senate president-ekweremadu


Deputy speaker= Ihedioha


Prime minister and coordinating minister of economy= okonjo iweala

Minister for petroleum = Allyson madueke

CBN gov= Emefiele

Etc

Let me now tell you what happened in 1979 ...shagari came 1st,Awolowo came 2nd,Azikwe came 3rd.Zik and Awo sued shagari.why Awolowo remain in opposition, Zik joined shagari goverment so ,his party produced the speaker while an Igbo man was still the vice president.


Go and read history about how Igbo dominated goverment during zik and balewa goverment sir.

Apart from the first republic when we had the same Zik as a parliamentary president and Aguiyi’s small stint as HOS, no igbo has led this country. That is the undeniable fact.

You mention CBN governorship positions, ministerial positions and legislative positions and assume that should be enough for a whole region in 5 decades?

For a region that suffered mass destruction during the war, a national redevelopment fund should have been established for the ravaged areas since 1970.

The ports, roads, industrial hubs and potential technological advancements in the east have not been developed as much as they should.

The Igbos were initially the clerical and administrative hub of old Nigeria and were the bulk of intellectuals in the railways, ferries, government agencies and ministries. The civil war led to the death of many of this cadre and Nigeria slowly entered into a period of intellectual rot. The quota system did not help matters.

Igbos survived through trading, not by choice but as as a second option. If the civil war has not started and the embarrassing quota system was not introduced , the corps of intellectuals lost could have pushed us towards development and made us the real giant of Africa.

If you feel the Igbos are not marginalized, have you tried to consider what your response would have been if a Yoruba or Hausa/Fulani has never ruled this country since inception?

hafeeanubasy:

You dont know history

Are you sure?

GREATIGB0MAN:


Only a very fooolish / insecure person will come online to post screenshot of funds he got from a job he's not even started or planned on starting.

Assuming what you posted was real and I was the client that paid you...I'd quickly ask you to send my money back as you lack professionalism and seriousness...
But since it's fake and you're just catching cruzz and hoping to get this type of contract someday... Carry on

There is no money in that account.

I am not Igbo.

I however believe that the Igbos have been marginalized too much in this country.

This should have been a chance by Tinubu to mend bridges.

I believe it could have been an oversight.

I am hoping that he learns from this and adjusts his future appointments to include a lot of the regions where he has no current support.

Finally, i hope either Peter Obi or Atiku wins the court cases.

Tim1212:



I am a software developer bro. ..so can't I celebrate success on nairaland

Congratulations on being a software developer.

Now Timothy, you might feel that you are catching cruise and no one can link your posts here to your real life but you are mistaken. Very mistaken.

I am simply advising you that making such fake posts will not give you any credibility whatsoever.

Do you really want to be explaining in a job interview that your fraudulent photoshops of bank transactions were just you fooling around?

You blocked just two numbers in your bank account (which reduces the array length of possible account numbers to just 100). Now with a bank account number checking API plus a filter of first name as Timothy, it takes any scraper just 2 seconds to get your full details.

Now, cross referencing your details with all your footprints everywhere, do you really think you are unreachable?

Now, if you have a small reason for a warrant to be issued against you, maybe even it is even someone in your household that the warrant is issued against and the police come across your edits of bank transactions, how do you want to explain that away?

Now for what gain? What do you really want? You have a beautiful and wonderful mum. She doesn’t deserve to have an headache over your immaturity.

Cheers.

Octopusssy:

Why do I have a feeling you are saying that with a grin on your face?

Octopusssy:

Thank you. GloriousGbola was a big help

A very big help.

GloriousGbola and Octopusssy,

Only a GloriousGbola can fix a quiet Octopusssy’s system.

Nairaland will not kill me.

Tim1212:


How can one be sourcing fake alert. Wake up and attract blessing to yourself

Grow up Timothy.
You teach young kids how to code which is commendable but do you really want to be teaching them lies too?