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Thank u Redeemed ,4realwoman. I tried very hard to enjoy my birthday even when af showed up. Last yr i asked God to allow me celebrate with my children, as they are not here yet, I took all my nieces and nephews out . It was a very nice hang out . #Children must surround my table. LadyGuinvere i am trying to reach u . Pls email me at cooleyitee@yahoo.com.

Another new yr praise God . this is my testimony

In Christ alone my hope is found,
He is my light, my strength, my song;
this Cornerstone, this solid Ground,
firm through the fiercest drought and storm.
What heights of love, what depths of peace,
when fears are stilled, when strivings cease!
My Comforter, my All in All,
here in the love of Christ I stand

Praise God ...The Lord doeth great things in our midst . Congrats Ayeyimaame . God surely will complete the work that he has started in u.
More testimonies we pray thee o Lord

conyema12:
What about love making after ET.

no love making
after transfer . they will advise you to stay off it for 8weeks. contractions are not good for the uterus after transfer o. so no love making or activity that can cause orgasm
.

@ Itissettled3 . I am jumping and shouting for joy . The Lord is good . Bless his holy name . He faithfulness endures .

permit me to sing this song of praise .
Oluwa e tobi
e tobi
e tobi
kosi eni ta le fi sakawe re o
e tobi
Oluwa.

Congratulations my sister . Ur miracle is perfected. enjoy ur 9months and bring forth with ease n joy. Pls dont stop using the word of God as you confession . He that has started the good work will complete it . my mind says it is twins . God of all flesh , pls visit us all.

Pweetymii so sorry for your loss. The Lord console the entire family at this time. It is well.
@ all . The 64th annual convention of rccg just ended. N just as the Lord declared through his servant we will record many mama ejima on this thread. We will carry with ease and bring forth with joy . Many will see it and praise God on our behalf . Amen .Halleluyah . .
Y'all have a blessed week

LadyGuinivere:
Good news! The theme for the september RCCG special Holy Ghost service has been unveiled ! 'No more unfruitful efforts'. This service is for those in God's waiting room.
Every year I come here and announce and invite. This year the wicked one has tried to mock me so I'm starting early to announce and invite all believing mothers. For the past 5 years I have marked present. The cool thing is that 4 years ago I met a TTC momma here and we hooked up at the camp and became bestos. Today she is expecting. So I know my time is nigh.
Date: Friday September 2 ,2016
Venue: the church auditorium
Time: 7pm
If you are interested, I can provide shared accomodation where we can all lay our heads after the programme till the next morning. If interested please lemme know.
God bless you

. Lady G God will honour his word regarding fertility in ur life. God bless u ma

People tend to be so melodramatic when they hear the word sickness and death. because one hears the word sickness so questions shouldn't be asked. I remember that is how they swept diezani matter under the carpet because of the word cancer. Shaking my head. One wonders what hospital abroad will take a case with out proper referral from a hospital. Anyone can make enquiries. Did anyone bother to ask Emory to know how much of the case they are aware about . one thing is certain in this case .Nothing was concrete. No travel arrangements,no decisive decision on hospital, or how to stablize patient before the on ward journey abroad. Just a massive surge to raise funds . Afterward total quiet. suspicious??I will say yes.the intentions are in doubt . Yes the lady is unwell but what were the intentions of the handlers while raising funds. No one may really know. I leave them to their conscience. & God. I feel for Ms Aimakhu. One should always look before one leaps. She is guilty of making hasty emotional decisions. May God help her out of this one. I pray for Mayowa God visit her and divinely touch her

Good morning Lady G .
God bless u n urs and answer your prayers speedily

LadyGuinivere:
If sp.rm count is ok, u can doo a medicated cycle. Part clomid/part injectible with trigger and BD at home. Les expensive than iui and more fun

Good afternoon mummies. Just peeping from the ttc thread. anytime i feel depressed and i come to the pregnancy thread i feel lifted . congrats to all newly delivered mummies esp our dear sister mompurity . God bless your little ones. For those still pregnant Mummy , Baby DH all safe and well till and after delivery with plenty of money. and God that has done it for u all , will visit me & my sisters in the ttc thread

Mumigrace it is had a while indeed. Just decided to put ttc on hold for a while n work on healing my mind. Amen to ur prayers. Our time of rejoicing is here

Happy Sunday @ all . Mummy inioluwa aka pweetiebabe I see u . Lovely name.

FinestPinacle u are probably a
a young person . I will chock ur actions to childishness . Sensitivity is key when relating to people . I think u have assaulted n insulted our sensibilities enough biko . I suggest u take down d pics. Pls Mummy Kaffy4bill, pls help us keep her in d pregnancy thread. I hope madam finest, we wont have to call d moderators in to settle this matter

oluwadamelola:
Good day mamas and papas. please i need people to enlighten me about hysteroscopy. i mean people that have gone through the procedure not the kind of explanation that can be gotten online. those are not broad enough. as it is, i think i am so confused right now, one fertility doc told me to come for hysteroscopy and another doc said, let me quote him" hysteroscopy is old fashioned, i think you should do scan guarded d&c".
I seriously need to know which procedure takes care of uterine calcification, where it can be done, what it costs etc.
Fvine, mumhajia, sugah,iomoge,prettmum,mumredeemer,fpeter,fruitful home,4realwoman e.t.c please come to a frustrated woman's aid.

hello dear sis . A hysteroscopy is explorative kind of surgery . Sometimes doctors do it to be sure of what is wrong . When they do go in they fix whatever is wrong. Never heard of the guarded scan . Surgeries have their attendant risks . But prayerfully take a decision . @ all . Being a while. The Lord attend to our request speedily . Like my mom will always tell me . Nigbati emi ba wa , ireti be. As long as there is life , there is hope.

Happy birthday Loisemn & Gracey. God hearken to your prayers speedily . Enjoy ur day sisters . @ all, Lets be encouraged to continue to bombard the heavens with our prayers . When our clouds are full rain will certainly fall .

gmorning sisters .
trust u are doing well. being able to get up in the morning gives hope that our testimony people will yet hear, and our miracle people will yet see
so i have been reading my book by zita west on guide to getting pregnant i decided to share something from it especially for sisters dealing with male issues
drugs that can affect male fertility .

drug generic name ; used to treat, effect on male fertility
amiodarone; abnormal heart rhythm; inflammation of the testicles;

chemotherapy; cancer; reduces sperm count and quality

cimetidine; indigestion , peptic ulcer,acid reflux disease; Affects hormone production

Colchicine; Gout ; May severely reduce sperm count

Digoxin; heart failure , abnormal heart rhyhm ; Affect hormone production

Erythromycin ; chest infections ; May reduce sperm count

Gentamicin; Bacteria infections ; Reduces sperm count;

Hormonal therapies ; various ; may disrupt other hormone production

ketoconazole; fungi infections; reduces sperm count

methotrexate; some cancers , arthritis ; reduces sperm count

Nitrofuratoin; Urinary tract infection ; reduces sperm count

phenytoin ; epilepsy ; reduces sperm count, quality, motility

Spiranolactone; Fluid retention ; Affects Hormone production

Sulphasalazine; Ulcerative Colitis; Reduces sperm count and quality

Tetracycline; Reduces sperm motility

Viagra; reduces Sperm's ability to break the wall of the egg

It is always good to ask doctors about medications in relation to fertility. The Lord will help us all .Happy weekend y'all

Baba God u too much. Only u can turn d tide in our favor. Congratulations fruitful home . Happy bumping ma yin oluwa ma ba ise lo larin WA.

God is great n greatly to be praised. We worship n bow down in adoration to you. It can only be you who does these things in our midst. Thank you for joyful moda Aya Tiraj. U are indeed able to do exceedingly abundantly Above that we may ask or think. Miracle worker, way maker the unchanging changer. Thank for you are not through with us. Thank you for the sisters u added another year to their age. Their expectations shall not be cut off. Thank for the other many testimonies in D pipeline. Let all glory back to u. In Jesus name. Amen

I will extol thee, my God, O king; and I will bless thy name for ever and ever.

2 Every day will I bless thee; and I will praise thy name for ever and ever.

3 Great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised; and his greatness is unsearchable.

4 One generation shall praise thy works to another, and shall declare thy mighty acts.

5 I will speak of the glorious honour of thy majesty, and of thy wondrous works.

6 And men shall speak of the might of thy terrible acts: and I will declare thy greatness.

7 They shall abundantly utter the memory of thy great goodness, and shall sing of thy righteousness.

8 The Lord is gracious, and full of compassion; slow to anger, and of great mercy.

9 The Lord is good to all: and his tender mercies are over all his works.

10 All thy works shall praise thee, O Lord; and thy saints shall bless thee

@4realwoman thank you. We look forward to your gingering.
Bless the Lord oh my soul let all that is within me bless his holy name.
Who is like unto thee oh Lord
Among the gods. Glorious in holiness , Fearful in praises
Always doing wonders
Halleluyah
Thank u for all the babies born to sisters from this thread.
Thank you for those currently pregnant thank you for the bfps. Thank u even for the disappointments of the past because the glory to come is great. Romans8vs18.blessed be your holy name
Accept our Thanksgiving . In Jesus name

I hail all the mummies (God will perfect it) on these thread. We have tried prayers. Iet us bombard God's throne with our praises. No crying, no request, no self pity, Just praises. No matter what we going through. No matter how difficult it seems. GOD surely will visit us in this 6th month. Please mummy 4realwoman I want to take permission As d coordinator of the prayers
If my proposal is granted , can u help us with modalities. So
Let us with a glad some mind
Praise the Lord for he is kind
For his mercies they endure
Ever faithful ever sure

mamakendra:
Tsquaure, pls I sent you a pm. Pls respond

I just responded ma . for those looking for cost for bridge here is a link http://www.thebridgeclinic.com/About-Us/Our-Fees

Mummy Kendra can't see Access ur mail. Try mailing direct on cooleyitee@yahoo.com
Cheers

Thank you Lady G. I wasn't spotting. Just started contracting like I was going to deliver. Sharp pains intermittently till I expelled d tissue like thing. I was on progesterone injection every other day. Maybe I will ask for daily dosage. Thank u Jill. I won't go back until am stronger mentally no matter d pressure from dh

Dear all
Pls i need advice . i did my icsi/ ivf procedure at the bridge clinic . had a bfp . i had a miscarriage shortly .
The thing now is i still have frozen eggs with them .
any ideas on how to prevent miscarriage from happening after successful transfer. what can i do right this time . i was progestrone during the lastcycle . but one thing i experienced was frequent cramping throughout. i decided to rest a while but dh wants to know when i will be going back but i want to be prepared mentally n physically

Thank u All mummys for your kind words, prayers n encouragement. D Lord himself we visit us all. Today I passed out a huge tissue like clot after serious cramping for more 5hrs. I thought of death n I could not be comforted. I refused to talk or eat . In my grief God reached out to me n hence I am sowing encouragement back. I will be back to testify too amen
Here goes d testimony I read.
Touching story of how late Arch Bishop Benson Idahosa's daughter inlaw
battled infertility
My husband, F.E.Benson Idahosa II, and I met in Benin City, Nigeria when I was 13 years old; our fathers
(Benson Idahosa and Gary Whetstone) were friends. I’ve referred to my love for Feb as “love at first sight”
because very soon after we met, the sparks of love began to flicker between us.
After many years, my dream came true when I was 28 years old; Feb made me his wife! I was the happiest
woman on earth and smiled ear to ear all through our courtship and wedding day. I was so excited to be
his wife! The next thing I couldn’t wait for was to be the mother of his children; I wanted so badly to carry
his baby.
During the first year of our marriage, pregnancy didn’t happen like I expected. Subsequently, I convinced
my husband to go with me for a fertility check-up. He thought it was silly because he was so sure that
we’d have our kids. Eventually, just to pacify me, we went for the check-up.
To our surprise, they did all the testing and came back to us with tormenting news. They told us that both
he and I had very serious fertility issues and that we would never be able to have a child without In-Vitro
Fertilization (IVF). The Doctor looked at us both in our eyes and told us that we are 99.9% infertile.
My world felt like it crashed down on me. It was a journey I never expected to undergo. My husband on the
other hand had steadfast faith and kept reassuring me, saying, “We will have our children! God promised it,
He will do it!”
Following the logical path of thinking, we decided to embark on the journey of IVF. The next year, we
gathered our money together from some investments we made before marriage and went for our first
treatment. After $25,000, injections, surgery and so many stories that ought not to be told, we did our
first embryo transfer. 2 weeks later, so full of hope, we went back to see if we were pregnant and my world
crashed again; it didn’t work!
We repeated this process several times over the next few years, each time ending in disappointment.
The more treatments I did, the puffier my tummy began to look. Well-meaning friends and family would
see me and think that finally I was expectant! They would rub my tummy and give me hugs of
congratulations… all the while, but I knew my uterus was empty. Empty! And trust me, I sooo longed for a
baby.
After four failed IVF attempts, my husband and I decided to find another hospital which had a statistical
track record of better outcomes. We went to New York Presbyterian Hospital, Cornell University. This time,
IT WORKED!!!!!
I was finally pregnant! Hallelujah!!!!!!
I carried that pregnancy like someone carrying an egg with a spoon; very delicately… although we were
based in Nigeria, I refused to travel back during that pregnancy. I followed every instruction and went for
every doctor visit. I was ready to be a healthy mom with a healthy baby.
On July 3, 2007 after a long labour and eventual CS, I gave birth to the most handsome baby boy. He had
a full head of hair and to this day, I can remember that feeling when they brought him to me and we
looked at each other, eye to eye. We quickly announced it to our family and to anyone and everyone.
Across the globe there were celebrations and outbursts of Thanksgiving! He was the first grandson born to
the late Archbishop Benson Idahosa!!!
The doctors asked to monitor him overnight in the NICU because he was born via CS. We were so excited
to have him that we didn’t give it a second thought. Early the next morning, the head nurse came to my
hospital room and asked us to rush to see him. She told us that he was having trouble breathing and
sustaining a blood pressure.
What happened next, one could never have prepared for.
We watched our miracle baby die.
Benson Idahosa III, lived for only 12 short hours.
The first time I held my miracle baby in my arms was when he was dead.
Throughout the grieving process, we discovered that there was a grace upon our lives that man can never
give. We cried desperately; deep tears that I never knew I was capable of crying. Simultaneously a faith
unlike anything that I ever experienced began to billow in our spirits. As dark as that time was, our resolve
had never been stronger. We knew that we knew that we knew that we would have our children!
We buried our long-awaited son on July 9th.
During the burial service, Bishop David Huskins prophesied over us saying, “Within a year from today, God
is going to give your family a cause to rejoice.” At the time, I was reluctant to receive this prophecy,
knowing our arduous journey of infertility treatments.
We returned to Nigeria with empty arms but hearts full of hope and prophetic promises.
The doctors in New York told us that we couldn’t attempt another IVF for a year, so, we began to fit back
into our life routine. We also began to embark on a project that the Lord had birthed in our spirits during
the height of our pain; to open a hospital for women and children in Nigeria. We were awakened to the fact
that if this could happen to us in America (where we had everything humanly available to attend to our
baby), how much more is it happening in Nigeria where many medical facilities available are sub-standard,
to say the least. The dream for Big Ben’s Children’s Hospital (BBCH) was birthed
By November of 2007, I still had not gotten a period since the delivery of my son in July. Figuring it would
eventually come, I didn’t give it much thought, however, one morning, on a whim, I decided to do a check.
I had drawers full of home pregnancy tests and I just decided to take one. To my surprise, it read
POSITIVE!!!!
I was pregnant again, and this time, completely NATURALLY!!!
God had worked a miracle in our lives! We travelled back to America for good medical care.
The morning of July 9, 2008 (exactly one year after the burial of our first son and the prophecy) I gave
birth to a healthy, handsome baby boy!!! To God be the Glory!
Feb Jr. is our son’s name and is alive and doing very well. He is in elementary school and excels in
everything!
God answered our prayers and kept His promise toward our home!
When Feb Jr. was 2, I started being concerned as to why I wasn’t getting pregnant again. We wanted a
sibling for our son. We went back to the doctors for testing and they told us that we were worse off than
before. While they acknowledged the miraculous nature of Feb Jr.’s conception, they told us, “Nobody wins
the lottery twice.” I was convinced to try another IVF, which I did. Sadly, it failed, just like all of the others
before it.
I returned to Nigeria and within two months, I got pregnant naturally! Naturally, I say, naturally!
On November 14, 2011, we gave birth to yet another son, Nathaniel Benson Idahosa.
“Nate” is going into kindergarten this year and is an exceptional joy to have in our home.
While still breastfeeding Nate, birth control was the furthest thing from my mind. I assumed that I had
natural birth control, only to discover that I was PREGNANT
GAIN! Another natural conception to the Glory of God!
Judah Benson Idahosa was born on January 2, 2013 and is now a thriving toddler with the energy of 100
men!
God has given us our heart’s desire. We are raising three boys, all naturally conceived. Our marriage and
love for each other has been strengthened through the journey of infertility and infant loss.
God is faithful to His Word! He will always do as He has promised in our lives. He never fails His children.
Though it may seem like it’s getting worse and it may feel impossible, keep your eyes on Him with
expectation. He is the giver of life and never fails.
My prayer for you is that you will follow the path that God has for you and that your prayers will be
answered as God has planned, in Jesus name!
Rev. Laurie Idahosa is the Senior Pastor of CGM, Church Unusual in Benin City.

i shed plenty tears today . in fact i cant say i understand how i feel . this is my 2nd attempt at assisted reproductive this year . so for the better part of this year i have been on hormonal injections, the first attempt was terminated after egg collection . this time i made it past egg collection to transfer . i waited endlessly to find out the result. it was like the two weeks wait wont end. after 10 days decided to start testing . i was so overjoyed to see 2lines. i continued to test but on the 13th day the lines began to lose the deepness. i asked my husband who told me it wasnt i good sign . that it means my hcg dropping . i still continued to hope but i stopped testing.
today went for my scan . no sac seen . ni then the doctor says he sees a fibroid . never ever had fibroid before ,they have ordered more tests am sooo weak . tired of crying now . ihave invested my time money emotions energy in this
but now my strength is out totally.
God pls find me .

Congratulations omowumiGan. U will carry to term in Jesus name. No loss is permitted. U won't cast ur young. U can use path care lab inside luth. Or try mecure in oshodi

congratulations hismercy.... indeed God makes everything beautiful in his time. u will carry to term with ease in Jesus name . i claim my own testimony too in Jesus name.

sanrima:
Please oh port Harcourt mamas I need suggestions on where to buy mint leaves.
I don't actually know if its sold in health shops or I should ask from florists along the road.
Planning to start detoxification as soon as AF show face. TIA.
CC: mamakendra, stephyberry, mumjk, and all PH mamas.

[quote author=sanrima post=44667750]I dont live in port harcourt but i buy my mint leaves from people who sell foreign fruits and spices like raddish, beetroot, parsley chives . sometimes u can get them in lebanese supermarkets that stock foreign fruits . hope this helps

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Father remember All these sisters. Visit their homes. Let them testify in Jesus name amen

I feel sad for d Nigerian youth. We can't even reason intelligently. Will d Iag - Cal rail project favor development massively ? Yes. Was it discussed in the Senate even on comittee level? Yes. Didn't d same Nass use its powers In its own wisdom to add some so called new constituency project , yes . So y aren't we asking them y the lag to kano was much more important that they increased d alloted budget for it n chose to ignore Sen Ashafa recommendations for d consideration of d lag to call rail project. After all it will benefit us southern. It's time to call our southern senators to order else we will Always get d worst or smallest part of d national cake. They Are there to get us better deals n not play party politics

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Father we commit All these dear sisters into ur hands turn all their fruitless efforts to fruitfulness . let us praise God on their behalf. I in Jesus name, Amen