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Romanoff:
If you want to have any meaningful relationship, start as friends. Keep your feelings and get to know the person first.

When you two have a solid foundation, you can now put relationship on it, then marriage. A lot of these posts wey Una dey post go reduce if una follow this rule.

Easier said than done na to sharply shoot ur shot as e dey hot. Besides some babes be like ppl evil spirit they worry because u trying to create a strong frienship before pushing it further u go hear "you are just like a brother to me".

sassysure:
Lock down major markets.
Those places are worst than schools.


But how can people eat?

This is a very serious issue.

No way out.

Den u go open ur mouth eat air abi?
For nigeria that is not stable in anything u tink they can shut down market without ppl dying of starvation?.

Reasons for ur mother not to like her? Did u bother to find out?
If u love her as u claim bros carry moncy sitdown reason with am u even fast go tell the girl sey ur mama nor like her.

Kylekent59:
My GF back then in school taught me how to cook party jollof rice and draw ogbono soup, till date, I have never regretted such return.

I told my female neighbour to help me cook jollof rice, she was displaying shakara. I manned up, entered kitchen, started the cooking. After I was done, she perceived the aroma, she came in and was complementing me. From let me taste to full plate.

My annoyance was her male friend who visited, ate my rice, told me thanks, proceeded to the babe apartment to do his job.


Try your possible best to gain something from a female friend. Forget about pussey, fvvck, kisses.....

Try and get something you wouldn't regret.

U are right which should be able to make an impact on someone of learn from someone.

rattlesnake:
I listen to him...his message doesn't have real life applications...just that youths are running after..tell me one application of his messages asides his good English
NB
I respect him o but that's my observation

Bros go listen to understanding people.

Phadg:
Yes pls

1) those that loves u genuinely irrespective of ur been successful or not, "whether as wealthy as bill gate or jst been poor"it doesn't matter to dem but you as a person.
2) these set of categories of people behave like the first set of ppl that u might like even suspect anything. They possess all the good qualities of the first category of people but what differentiate them is the key word "MOTIVES" because this sets of people are around ur world based on what they feel u can offer to them and their set expectations. By these, i mean ur level of success. So failure to meet their expectations they can dump u at anytime.
3) These sets do not love or hate you but rather they try to get close to you based on the fact that they know they can get help from you through somebody. I mean if u ar a friend to "A" and they are aware you are accessible to "A" they automatically become your friend jst to get to "A"
We are like this to ppl and ppl are in turn like this to us. Jst go listen to Apostle joshua seimak

Phadg:
Did that 1ce d last guy started acting up so i ended it cause it was obvious he was using me.

Make i school you small there's smtn u need to understand about ppl, and u also need to understand that we have different categories of ppl u care to know dem?

Unconditional love respect to all mothers expectant and all women cos dem dey try e nor easy.

SweetCunt97:
I tell you... He says he needs money for A, you counter it by saying you even need money For A and B... Make we see how him wan chop her

Hahahahaha u harsh ooh nope dis is not what i mean. U know there're some persons that feel like hey "i know sey this person if i tell am dis thing e nor go sey no" u disappoint sometimes not given in to demand because of pleasing someone.

Everybody is nice ooh the only thing is to know wen to sey NO the way u dey YES.

Set ur standard "not everyone is date-able, nor u should be friends with". Is good to be nice but master the act of limitation to some things, and no wen to use ur head were it matters. Matters of the head use head, matters of heart use heart.

Phadg:
Hi guys i just joined NL and from what have been reading on here bfor i sign up i feel i might get a response from nairalanders

Am a lady that believes in building with a man and not looking for an already made guys am also an independent lady so i dont really need your money,i work for what i spend, Atimes i end up giving out of the little i earn to my partner, now this is the sad part these guys take me for a fool some just start acting up like some1 with psychosis{apologies} but it the truth well i just broke up with my boyfriend cause i cant deal with his bullshit anymore. now my question is
1. IS IT BAD FOR ME TO SHOW YOU I LOVE YOU?
2. IS IT A SIN FOR ME TO WANT TO BE INVOLVE IN YOUR LIFE{I BELIEVE WE ARE SUPPOSE TO BE THERE FOR EACHOTHER}?
3.IS ASKING FOR A LITTLE TRANSPARENCY A SIN?
4.WHY DO GOOD GIRLS HAVE BADLUCK WHEN IT COMES TO GETTING A GUY?

APOLOGIES FOR THE LONG POST.

Who do u like this?

And someone here complained on a thread that the girlfriend does not call him regularly and someone today is complaining of too much call."different sickness with im cure" Oya swap babe ni

Deception is on both ways though but nice write up.

marttol:
my friend has this girl he deflowered...they have been dating for months,he said he was not really in love with her...said one day he collected her phone and saw porn videos on her phone,he said that's what triggered him to tell the girl he love her...he even kissed her as he told her,but she did not push him away or do anything...he said somehow they eventually had sex one day...he said even she even used to come to their house and they will do it...it now got to a stage that the girl will call he won't pick,sometimes he do call and go to her place...but that's whenever he feels like...there was a day the girl told him that she just finished cursing him now,and he showed up...she thought he has dumped her...also a day the girl don't him that he shouldn't even dare to think he can run away from her...

but the truth is that this girl loves my friend and respects him,MY friend has even cheated on her and she found out but still forgives him...but he kept asking hope there is no repercussion.

Bros nor vex ur write up and ur friend self resemble......childish relationship.

Ur friends can still bleep her again now road wen person don pass before nor dey hard to pass again

Origin:
But type O blood type have always been more prone to sickness than any other blood type.


And it's a known fact they get malaria more.

Genotype not blood group.

Do ur babe reverse pyschology nor act like sey u see anything, tell her story seh wan of ur guy younger brother is about getting married only for him to incidentally see that the girl is cheating on him with wan guy through their chat and now the guy says he is no longer interested in the marriage anymore. Even to the plea of everyone, then ask her if it was her younger brother or relation, what would he advice him do? Pay attention to waitn she go talk. I guess if ur babe go smart reach sey na she u dey talk to.

Orishirishi nai full this nairaland complimenting ur bro's wife boobs na so e dey start from clap u go wan play music make u try dance. That u preek bttr cut am or anyhow u wan do am.

See this one life

Nothing. The question should be what wud you do if u find out. Because u finding out means she opened up, and what if she hadn't opened up i guess on wouldn't have been aware but rather thanking God. So i'll do nothing but forgive her. Is still bttr than having the one that sleeps around for phone, wing and catfish.

kestolove95:
conji doesn't know that one

It does for self discipline men...but its embarrassing shall.

Stacyomolola:
U are so good with sweet words right, confused and misplaced semen
I blame her more for going to see a guy on the first day and having carnal knowledge with him same day.
Slowpokes

Edo girl howfar

kestolove95:
Bcox she doesn't trust u.

So what is now the essience of marriage wen a woman can't even trust her husband?

larryking540:
Bro make I tell u something ...

Na only pussy woman day offer person with pikin ,I tell guys no waste ur card they call who wan frustrate you ,,this life is big and hold a lot of good people way go change your life ,life doesn't end in Nigeria ,

Some guys Sha ,u send girl Money ,every day u go day ring her phone ,boss hustle no even look her face ,na she go run come back day imagine which kin person be dis ,,,but even when she comes back no still send ,if na fuvk she want give her the fuvk ,,still continue your hustle
Because all that matters in this life last last na your children to have the best

Na to hussle bro i feel u cos las las na to make our children bttr pass us.

erons22:
The op should run from that girl, that girl will only destroy him.

My own den after the girl don destroy my life for school, she broke up with me..

SHE make me stay away from my friends i had to quarrel with my close friends all because of her, i foolishly abide to her because i was in love then..

Then My300l 2nd semester result my GPA drop

I THANK GOD MY FRIENDS WAS REASONABLE I HAD TO BEG THEM LATER..

THE OP SHOULD FOCUS MORE ON HIS STUDIES, IF NOT.....

I just hate girls now

Bros u're right but we still have good girls around though. I have similar experience i wouldn't want to regret any of it but rather appreciate it cos it schooled me. Is jst to be wise enough to take good decision not to please a girl that might end up dumping him. If e let girl dey rule e life i pity am.

larryking540:
I graduated from school 3-4 years back ,yes I kw say I still flirt o
But I kw let woman control me ,my last babe for school ,I personally tell her make she kw come my graduation party ,she surprise

Even the babes way they style for me back then ,no be say na brag I day brag ,we kw even be mate right now ,,,

Yes definitely while they day school one graduate go day ask them out , every bottle get e size ,but there is time for everything

You as guy graduate with poor grade na gate man u fit end up
If babe graduate with that same poor grade na her pussy and less brain she go use win contracts

Bros u correct finish na brain brain be everything.

larryking540:
And last last last ,she go still break up with am ,,,

Na 1 out of 100 girls day marry their University mate ,
Op better not trash his friendship just because of a pussy lady oo

I'm telling u bro the guy jst need use im head more than e heart.

namiji2598:
Being ugly is not a crime

But beautiful in the heart..

5thAngel:
I am the female version of you. Although I'm still in the relationship, I have little or no freedom. I cannot interact with a male friend or acquaintance without answering to a barrage of questions. Cuz of this, i only have one female friend who is close to him also, no male friends. I cant go out on my own volition, and if I do, he'll think i've slept with every male in town. What im getting at is, if there's no trust from the get go, then it's not worth it. love still keeps me here, and i feel if i let him go, i'll be alone as I dont have anyone i can call a close friend.

From ur write up u are only scared of being lonely. So what if the guy dumps you what will u do?

Akanoaaa:
Don't be surprise when you realize this girl still cheats on you after all this her monitoring wahala. Don't be manipulated.

Yes na o.p go jst dey smile fit sey e gt loyal babe while she dey shang anoda guy for back.

dannex4adx:
tunize! God bless you. You have said it all.I was dating the same type of girl before, until I changed it for her one day. she later left me. if the guy doesn't stop all this nonsense for the girl now, she will spoil your life and leave you for a better person. Even if you marry her, you may not live long because she will not give you rest of mind. you better leave emotion and use your brain. she will even turn your back against your family. Act fast now before it is too late! don't let lust decide for you.

Yes now my ex was like this bros wat happened while i was doing away with female friends to prove loyalty, she was busy making enough male friends and even dating few behind my back bros some babe get mind.