₦airaland Forum

HelpeeDeck:
That's what ur low IQ can decode, too bad. I still maintained, where I work here in Nigeria, u can never dream of working there. No need to show off. But I still maintained u can never dream of working there

Wit all due respect bro why u feel so waitn u talk.
U jst feel everybody or anybody that comes to nairaland to catch fun is jobless or broke this speaks of how high ur IQ is. Retract this ur bragging.

Equation balance be this na o.p you are a selfish guy yes u are. What did u call the session again revealing ur deepest secret of which u urself is even guilty of. Bros marry that girl and let go besides what if she hadn't told you?This na more reason i can nvr tell any girl my past and make any girl nor tell me e own cos provided is called past live it as past.

Chi59:
Not so. I know a few married folks both male and female. And 90-97% of them have kids. Some are even on this forum.
Apart from priapism, which can be managed, sickle cell doesn't have any major effects on fertility.

Date No
Marriage No
Normal friendship Yes
My reasons are i jst can't cope with someone being sick around me(crisis) thing and i can't seem to help but watch the person go through pain. had a friend cool gentle guy that died back then, crisis upon crisis before he died pain me cos i nor fit help am even when i know e problem.

BonPatrick:
Ok what if she cry and feel heartbreaking because I promise her true love

Bros u don't love her.
If she decides to end her marriage and want to b wit u, are u going to marry her?

U ar to blame nor some issues are very avoidable. You were told the food is not for you right? But u gave an excuse to the fact that u had already taken a spoon. That moment a simple sorry and return the food wud have sorted everything." Party and food na wisdom" its embarrassing now sey na food dey cause quarel me i for vex live u shall but not to the extent of break up.

BonPatrick:
Guys I need your advice met a lady on Facebook we chatted till we exchange numbers and chat on WhatsApp. I was in love with her and she is in love with me, I later found out that she is married with 3 kids and her husband is making life uncomfortable with her. She is not enjoying the marriage, she is going crazy for she invited me to come to a hotel let's Bleep. I am scared I love her and I know is very wrong to sleep with a married lady. Please how do I end the relationship without hurting her?

Dem nor put gun for ur head bros
Simply tell her u are not interested "if u ar not aware is a different case since u ar aware let her be.

SUFFERInSMILIIN:
Please do not blame the Chinese blame the Nigerian people for voting for criminals year after year. The way you make your bed so you lie on it. When did Chinese were given the opportunity they did the right thing and look where their country are. Where do we Nigerians were given the opportunity first thing we did go and follow a criminal. You cannot blame somebody for making his bed correctly while on the other hand your bed is in shambles. The Chinese can do whatever they like because they build their country to the standard it is today

You are right but all this things had to be corrected small small with events like this truth is we Nigerian's sometimes are the causes of our own problems.

Chrisrare:
Nigerians and inferiority complex. why not go to another restaurant if they don't want you in theirs?

Ur type can't be a leader that can mke good decision. U tink u can go to china and shut dem out in their own country?
There one company in benin here chinese owned if u see the way dem dey slave nigerians.

lefulefu:
hmm all these things about drugs.some of us guys really need to be careful in the type of drugs we pop inside our system.in a bid to be bearded like osama bin laden u come take drug and the drug come make u impotent .

Yeah for those that use it dey have to be careful. My was groomed not with drugs but naturally.

Jinja007:
This is the reason why u girls are ur own problem... Imagine, he does all these things n you're still waiting for him to ask you out??
Why can't you ask him out??
Ask him out, pay for the bill oo n watch what happens next

Bros calm down nor b by all this tin mean sey person like u to point of dating. It could jst b natural for the guy to help her without anything in mind. Or, are you trying to tell me that u can't do all this tins for a female without dating? Bros if the guy like the girl e go talk wit im mouth.

ElasticStone:
I overheard some fine girls saying they prefare guys with beards. Pls how can I genetically engineer beards on this my face that is smooth like mango? Even pimple no gree comot talkless of beards...

Fp pls.

Lalasticlala, mynd44, Rocktation, farano

Ubunja, martinez39s

Nor b to crave for am na to maintain am.well, the truth is that the beards stuff na gene which is natural buh i heard there is drug for it i don't know how tru. If only u had at all it wud have been a step to grooming the beards.I for like help u wit small one but nor b waitn dem dey transfer.

I think the best thing is bringing me to this world, outside that nothing else jst me and myself trying to be a bttr me for my future kids cos nvr experienced fatherly love.

3yrs plus

If its a particular number that is always calling her, take note of the way she reacts to the call an how long the calls last and be watchful.

Witcher:
יתיכח ליעםצעכצל ךדחדידחדלד םדחדאדמדצד דםדידמ

U're wicked oya translate

Homeboiy:
if na me, once he land her slap

I go just waka leave the two


since them no wan hear stop ,make dem settle by themselves

My nigga be like me and u come from the same village..
The funny thing is that i ones did this thing u said now some years back but nor b girlfriend level bros i nor gt time for strong head ppl.

osaskywire:
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I doubt that but who knows ...
I can't remember the last time fought I can't go and start collecting beating for someone sturborness,cause am no match for my friend.i just had to manage the situation calmly

Bros u b sharp man oooh. Imagine the guy for play u join ur babe. On a serious not bro i wud have don wat u did and even self be looking at them while she collects the second slap. Any girl/woman wen dey respect her man, when she's told its okay by her man no mttr the level of anger she has to calm down.

Designerdollars:
All I see here is someone suffering chronic self esteem issues
must you guys post everything online ?
Whoever made you pregnant is a big fool for allowing this.

Bros u had a choice of passing by without ur opinion so why insulting the husband u should b bigger than this.

Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?

Who i b to judge u. We all make mistake in life and is a good thing atleast u have realised ur own mistake, u jst have to tell ur parents everything because sooner or later they're going to find out. Pls try and go back to school.

She jst one pepper the man and besides no woman go come out with such statement even if na true except she is caught " she slept with her husband's younger brother and bestman"dis one show sey she dey lie even if na she like sex pass. The thing pain her shall

doris4u:
Good day guys, hope we're enjoying your weekend. I have been in a situation where people I really trust tend to betray for their own selfish reasons. How can one trust again because I find out that maybe I trust the wrong people that comes my way thereby learning the hard way.
I know this might affect the new people that will come into my life because am finding it so hard to forgive.
So how can one really trust again.

I actually have read all ur post and they all seem to fall around same tin which is love.
Wait nor vex make i ask u this questions?
1) Are you under any pressure of any sort?
2) Did anybody ever tell u u can't be happy for the main time staying all by urself?cos for u to find love first love ir own self first
For your current topic now try to expect anything from ppl by that i mean be open-minded wit ppl and expect anything incase e happen u nor go shock. Trust in God and give ppl slight benefit of doubt.

100% on point

This na normal thing na. Nothing there cos a man on a norm should help the wife.

ZAWs:
To be fair, the stigmatization on Chinese nationals is becoming too much.

I disagree have u ever asked urself if this virus had emanated from Nigeria the way it did in china bros make we live story the discrimanation for be mad one. They wud have used it as an opportunity to deport Nigerians and also ban them from entry any country.

crackkhaus:
I don't get why anyone should lock/hide their phones from their partners, I have never understood it.

I'm really old-school.

Even if I'm going to cheat, why on earth would I need to be having chats with the person or saving pictures of her?

Just a call here and there to agree on a time for a meet-up, and that's all.
Don't text me EVER and don't call me when I'm home, I have a wife.

Bros true i usually tell ppl that is not about phone passwording. Those wen dey password phone nor sharp nau it not needed. U can even keep my phone self one female call nor go entr chikina.

Anaconda for foreign
For local ; Full moon u fit add isakaba join self

Alphaman007:
750k � and i dey collect 40k see gap. Inside life

Hahahahahah

Ur story jst be like sey u see person wan kill u wit gun but u nor run instead put body to die.
So if at 27years old now, u don't know ur right from left wen do you intend to know?for someone that is exposed i pity u shall. The world is truly full of "bold wise fools"

Ladylite:
She must have had heavenly orgasm.

Maybe it is burantashi or monkey de climb the man took.

The drugs may have damaged their liver or heart so excessive pounding plus high blood pressure burst their arteries

If his manhood was still erect maybe her spirit was still using it from the other side.

Haba

Lamanii22:
Stranger things keep happening these days... Where sister with the Innocent eyes would lust after her brother... I can live with my brother though... We are disciplined, plus my brother don't find chubby girls attractive and I'm chubby...

Hmmm

Petyprincess:
My advice is you should be open to her nd let her know how you feel! Give her some hygiene tips she could follow instead of coming to public forum to lament!!

Nor mind am very irritating post