Romance › Re: Who Is Your Celebrity Crush? by tunnex190: 11:00am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Salma Hayek no doubt |
Politics › Re: Electricity: National Grid Restored; Minister Of Power Abubakar Aliyu by tunnex190: 11:20pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
raybaba97: Light was just restored in Yenagoa here about 1hr ago We are still waiting here in PH.  |
Nairaland General › Re: Which Year Did You Discover Nairaland ? by tunnex190: 11:44am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Got to know Nairaland in 2005 as guest and didn't become a member until 2007 |
Romance › Re: I'm Torn Between My Ex And New Boyfriend by tunnex190: 11:35am On Mar 09, 2022 |
MamiTer: Hello good people of nairaland, I have a pressing issue and I really need your help.
A couple of years back I broke up with my boyfriend whom I really loved due to distance barriers. Getting over him was difficult for me so I had to go into a relationship with one of my toasters in order to get him off my mind.
I achieved my aim after a couple of months but the current guy was unwilling to let go, I didn't love him and couldn't get myself to love him despite trying to. I know I was selfish and opened up to him but he insisted that I would warm up to him with time and grow to love him.
The relationship was far from perfect, I was in it solely for what I benefited but we weren't compatible and it was from one issue to another. We were always at logger heads all the time. He insults me and my family at any given opportunity and talks down on me using secrets I shared with him as leverage each time we quarrel. He shredded my self-esteem.
He was insecure and attacked my male friends at any given opportunity including my lecturers, he would access my social media accounts and send derogatory message to any male contact he feels is making a pass at me. All these attitudes made me fed up with him and I decided to breakup for good.
Early this year I met a guy online and somehow we vibed together quickly, we met physically for the first time and it felt like we've known for ages. Everything moved so quickly with this new guy that I started developing serious feelings for him. I was scared because I never knew I would feel something like that again after I broke up with my other ex.
This new guy makes me happy and treats me like a woman, anytime spent with him is always memorable and I don't feel like leaving. The chemistry that we share is super strong and everything seems so perfect.
Now to my issue, this new guy is a fresh graduate and not yet stable, I don't have issues with his financial status because he made me realize a Lady can actually be happy without money being thrown at her. But I'm still scared of going all full into the relationship he might go for service and never come back to me. I don't just want a repeat of my previous relationship that got shattered after my ex relocated.
On the other hand, the other guy is hell bent on getting me back, he's been pleading and sending people to beg me even though I told him I've moved on and has even had sex with the new guy but he still wants me back.
I'm confused and don't know what to do, my heart is with the new guy but the other guy is making things so difficult for me and almost driving me insane. Can I still grow to love him?? Though I've been unable to after almost a year.
Should move on with the new guy?? I've known him for barely two months but it seems I've known him for ages, my feelings are exploding and I can hardly control them which is making me scared.
I'm sorry for the long epistle but I had to let it all out. Please advice me. You are not confused my dear. You are just lust for new guy's third leg. See them. This gender never get any good to offer except sex. |
Crime › Re: Kenyan Lady Sentenced To Life Imprisonment For Defiling A 4-Year-Old Boy by tunnex190: 7:56am On Mar 04, 2022 |
Niece: Lady Sentenced To Life Imprisonment For Defiling A 4-Year-Old Boy, Records It And Sent The Video To A Child Porn0graphy Website
https://www.instagram.com/p/Capy3KAoUOs/ Yes the part where she will be in jail forever? How will she spend another 10 years? Would that be after her death? |
Romance › Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by tunnex190: 4:39pm On Mar 02, 2022 |
SugarPapi: So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -
I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.
I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.
December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.
When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.
This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.
We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.
Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.
She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.
Well, hello next morning!
Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.
We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.
It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.
She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!
She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.
By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!
Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.
Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...
I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!
It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.
I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.
We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?
Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".
I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.
Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl? Wow. This porn story is very sweet oh. I almost forgot it's just " tru-fiction" |
NYSC › Re: "I Will Serve My Country Like This" - Corps Member With Oversized Khaki (Photos) by tunnex190: 3:54pm On Mar 02, 2022 |
and its nonsense story. No correspondent to report great news again?  |
Phones › Re: My Data Gets Exhausted Too Quickly. Gurus In The House Please Help! by tunnex190: 6:50pm On Feb 28, 2022 |
Download this app. Use it to monitor your data consumption. Thank me later
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Romance › Re: I Lay With My Aunt On The Bed With Her Boyfriend And She Called Out My Name? by tunnex190: 9:27am On Feb 27, 2022 |
mamagee3: [color=deeppink]I accompanied my aunt to her boyfriend’s house and I lay next to them at night and she called out my name to see if I was awake at night?
Why is that?[/color] Party crasher! You have just spoilt the night for your aunt |
Crime › Re: Uromi Bank Robbery: Video Shows Armed Robbers Carrying Money In Bags by tunnex190: 11:09am On Feb 25, 2022 |
seanwilliam: Oboy this one pass Ibadan own o Maybe the robbery that happened just of recent. But not the one that happened in about several years ago. I can't recollect the year particularly but it's definitely around 2007, 2008 at Idi Ape where they robbed almost all the banks in front of Testing Ground. Yes in front of Police station. |
Crime › Re: Uromi Bank Robbery: Soldiers Hide As Robbers Cart Away Money (Photos, Video) by tunnex190: 10:49am On Feb 25, 2022 |
This soilder doesn't know that attack is the best form of defence.  live to fight another oh. |
Romance › Re: She Kissed Me And Walked Away by tunnex190: 10:35am On Feb 25, 2022 |
MadamVanessa: Girl always try to be objective.
If a guy should do the same to a girl, same you and others will shout sexual harassment or advice the girl to give the guy a slap anytime he tries that.
I am a girl, but there's how most of us reason at times. It's so sickening. For this comment, it won't be bad for you ever. You won my heart completely |
Business › Re: Share Your Worst Banking Experience by tunnex190: 6:28pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
First Bank: first, it took me like 3 weeks to do KYC and account update. Imagine an account that was created during nysc to receive allawee in Cross River, this customer service representative was telling me to go back to Cross River from Port Harcourt to do account update because the account was for nysc program only. Took about 3 weeks to communicate with their branch in Ugep before I could use the account again.
Now I cannot operate multi-currency visa card that was issued to me again. Got my card swallowed by another bank. The new issued to me can't be used for my online transaction. If I go to the bank to complain. This one slego girl will be telling me...I do not understand your site..is it a betting site? |
Celebrities › Re: Pero Adeniyi Gushes Over Gifts She Got From Her Boyfriend On Valentine’s Day by tunnex190: 9:07pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
pepperdemzombie: I know her, her name is Sadia Iheeruwa, she has 3 children from 3 different men all bearing her father's name, the 4th is on the way. Her 3rd child belongs to Ubi. All Tina Onwudiwe's children are from different men, Stella Damascus, 4 husbands, Fiberesima, 5 children from 3 men. They are all from Ondo state.  |
Celebrities › Re: Pero Adeniyi Gushes Over Gifts She Got From Her Boyfriend On Valentine’s Day by tunnex190: 9:04pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
KingAzubuike: Yoruba girls tho. They just find it difficult to close their legs.
There's currently one in my street who is carrying her third child for a third different man. Olofofo Adugbo!!! |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by tunnex190: 7:37pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Nickshrapnel: Kingsman: The Secret Service Kingsman: The Golden Circle Oh ok. Thanks man. I have watched those |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by tunnex190: 11:51am On Feb 11, 2022 |
Moneyboyz: Same here, I enjoyed previous versions. This one is too boring and slow paced. Please what are the titles of the previous versions? |
Sports › Re: Lukaku's Goal Sends Chelsea Into Club World Club Final. by tunnex190: 7:21am On Feb 10, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: So without Lukaku, Una for play 0-0 against All hilal Al hilallllll ohhhh Club wet Man u go trash 3-0 first half
Instead of shame to catch their fans. They are here busy making noise..  Let's clear yeye comment like this that it's only when Lukaku plays that Chelsea experience less goal margin against their opponents. |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by tunnex190: 3:53pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
OhBritannia: I still can't get my head off the episode 1 of power book 4. Mehnn!!!! 50 cent, Kemp and the rest senior executive teams really went hard on power book 4. The sex scenes were on fire, the way the people communicate, they are communicating both with their mouths and their minds, it's like reverse phycology, lots of mind games especially between Tommy and the bar lady. Right from their first conversation, when Tommy told her to pour him the third drink, i knew right there they just gave each other consent to fork each other. Lol If you ain't intelligent, you won't read their mind games. Omor I just hope tommy makes it alive on this one because with what i am seeing, it's going to be very bloody. Something is telling me the other white lady which is the daughter of the main boss is going to fall in love with Tommy. Well let's keep our fingers crossed, mehnn This is the real deal abeg. Power book 2 and book 3 are for teens and young adults.
Power book 4 is for men and women. 1.Power 2.Power Book 2: Ghost 3.Power Book 3: Raising Kanan 4.Power Book 4: Force Really, 50cents is really turning things around in entertainment industry on this latest chapter. |
Family › Re: How Do I Apologize To My Wife? by tunnex190: 12:09pm On Feb 04, 2022 |
gazeup1: I created this new handle to hide my identity.
I got married 11 years ago. We both started working before we got married, but my salary was way above my wife's own. I was earning 195k while she was on 108k when we got married, after my MSC, I was promoted and started to earn 350k, this got to me and I started to misbehave, I was doing all sorts and would insult the hell outa her. As the cry cry girl, she would cry, and thereafter I would hear her praying. At times she would say she will one day be greater than me. That to me was an impossibility.
I can't even remember ever giving her money for home keep but we never lacked food at home (we delayed before having kids, so I don't see the need for me to give her monthly money and she never asked). I started giving her after we had kids. She agreed when I told her her money was for the home and mine for investment, but I never included her name in my properties. she knows this as well.
After our kids, it became very demanding, coupled with her office not increasing her pay, she resigned, and that was when I felt the impact of her income. Meanwhile, her pay was reduced to about 80k and mine was increased to like 600k as at when she resigned. In one month I started asking her to return back to her work as to me I was not ready to foot her bills, she never even asked for money, she would even say what I gave her is left 5k or more self at the end of the month.
Now her new journey - When I started disturbing about going back to her former office or getting a new job, she said never and asked me to stop giving her money but go to market to buy food myself. In less than 4 months to her resignation she started talking about online job here and there, I thought it was a scam so I warned her. One day, I was in the office when she said she needs me to help her wit the best laptop to buy, I tried to talk her down on buying one but she ended the call on me.
I got home to see her with a new laptop. fast forward, she paid for a training on how work from home without my knowledge, got her first job of about $200, I also washed her down on going that low for such an amount but she said it was better than her former 80k job, before I knew it, she started talking about $1,000, now it's $3,000, to $4,000 monthly. I earn lower than #1M, my wife gets over #2M monthly working from home. She helped me finished my house project, very transparent and would not hide any $ she earns.
I have not been able to forgive myself of all the things I did to her, the insults, talking down on her but in a way I think I pushed her to become who she is now. I remembered when she asked back then to open a joint account with her, I laughed her to scorn, like how would the ratio be. she saved over 6M and credited my account with everything, just for us to complete our home. I can't even produce 1M.
She doesn't seem hurt, but sometimes she reminds me of those words, I have never officially told her sorry neither have I really changed because I am just like that, I don't mean evil. I wanted her to braze up and never stay low.
Married, men, please how do I ask for her forgiveness? I don't think we have up to 2% of her type out there. No, if what you have typed here is all true, her kind of woman is very rare. You need to prostrate join self to beg her to forgive you. She's an independent woman. Thank your star. |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by tunnex190: 5:02pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
OhBritannia: Well i am not a prophet but this is the woman EFFIE will grow up to become. Brutality and ruggedness is rooted in their veins. Effie is dark since Power series. She becomes darker in Power Book because she is taking major role now. |
Celebrities › Re: Bae U In Sex For Skits Scandal by tunnex190: 1:52pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Either true or false, I still think the complainant is dirty and faulty. Someone asked you to quarantine with him, you agreed, and he sha lured you into having sex with him. That's obvious there was consent between them. She didn't come out to say she was raped so that's enough for me. So complaining now because he was asking why you fvc.ked him while you were still in a relationship with another guy. Damn you a bastard cheater. Glad the boyfriend knew the stuff you made off before it was too late. Served you right girl. You can wail until Kingdom comes, Bae U don chop you clean mouth. God used him to expose you.
Quote me for bad comments and you lag until you die. |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by tunnex190: 8:04pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Don't Look Up. 10/10
Very entertaining. |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by tunnex190: 7:51pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
Power Book. Always a good watch every week. It never disappoint. Meanwhile, fine punna like Carrie's just comot from the show. I would miss her love for the third leg every week. That girl doesn't need aphrodisiac. Lost all her integrity in one episode. Davis is a monster  |
Politics › Re: Man Reportedly Kills Three Siblings With Cutlass In Oyo by tunnex190: 7:55am On Jan 22, 2022 |
mmadu5: I always say yoruba people are evil . I wonder why we share same country Check the names again dummy |