₦airaland Forum

Relationships, I doubt if it can ever be perfect but our choices make them worth it....

I got this from a friend, i gave my piece of good words to him but i feel we can also rub minds together and help someone else out there...

He got out of heartbreak not quite long and he decided to date this new lady he is into. As good friend, it was really a good thing to see him being fond of someone after 3 or more years and to us watching from a little distance, their love is as sweet as a first love...

(fast forward X2).... My friend has a good heart and a charming personality that you can never be bored around him... more of sanguine in his nature. He got along with his gf's bestfriend despite her very very blunt nature ( i wonder how he copes ooo cos i don't like the girl that much)... he explained to me how helpful the lady has been in upholding their relationship and blah blah blah...

(Skips to end)... Inshort, my guy got entangled in the middle of His gf and his gf's friend fight and it is obvious or lemme say the probability of the ladies coming back as friend is like 0.2 out of 1, you know ladies now ( make una no vex ooo)...He told me he wasn't the cause of their fight and his moves to settle things with both parties involved was not yielding a positive result...
The question now is, should he cut off every connections with the girlfriend's friend that has been helping him cos His lady doesn't seems much happy they still talk and if He cut off the connection and the ladies became friends back won't it backfire on Him?

your piece of mind plssssssss

Sometimes when people speak about love, i wonder why they forget about character! Even the love of God towards us can be limited by some of our actions... choices! God loves us all unconditionally to give his Son but remember there is also Hell to dispose those whose character(life style) does not fit His....
Love have a beginning and surely it must have an end... your commitment to it course determines how long (not in money or sex terms but in forgiving, respect, motivating and bringing out the best in each other)...
People think the sweet sensation, the butterfly feeling and the heart pumping feeling is the 'LOVE' ... A big mistake... but Forgiving... commitment... focus... Understanding... is really what keeps love going even when the butterfly feeling has been normalised.

Era in which nudity was not the yardstick of winning awards. What do you think about her?


cc: Lalasticlala

Ask 100 Nigerian youths Who's Minister of Youths You will
get the result. Ask them What are the agenda to develop a
country? How could Nigeria come out of the National
Economy crisis and other social and infrastructural problems?
Many would tell you "I'm not interested in all that, ask
politicians".
In fact these are people who find it difficult to attain 2"1 grade
in University.
Yet All social media have been bombarded with the "Societal
Problems" called Artistes; Olamide and Don-Jazzy feud...
These are people who have contributed to the vices of young
Nigerians, by uneducated distractions. What message has
Olamide passed to Nigerians? Lil Kesh? and the rest..
We know 2face, We know ASA, and few others. This is not
religious perspective at all, it's a thing of common sense. In
the pursuit of Westernization, called Civilization, these guys
have negatively influenced the lil kids. Unfortunately, these are
the same people the last Administration "dashed" N1bn, and
one of them who got a child out of wedlock was honoured by
a Governor who paid a visit, with cash. Headies, different
Idols, plus other awarding bodies are also the pathogenic
viruses who encourage the spread of immoralities..
Yet No one is ready to curb this nonsense.. If DonJazzy and
Olamide
should fight, is that more important than our soldiers having
sleepless nights and days in Sambisa Forest defending all of
us. How can DonJazzy's or Olamide's award affect our next
and subsequent generations positively The National status
does not even bother the youths, The president just confessed
he knows Nigerians are in pains, are we really in pains, when
poor men that find it tough to pay for internet services, fight
for the Billionaire Advocates of immorality, who don't even
care about your family. It seems many youths are injected
and been demoralised. Until they hear the news of looters
looting $20b, they would start wailing, cursing, nagging,
dominating and reacting. Such will continue happening,
'cause many of us devoted time for Olamide and DonJazzy.
Just stroll to Ahmadu Bello way, and tell me what you see in
Marvin's
house.. These guys have made it out of their promotion of
immorality. We really need to think, wise up and rise up. A
LAUTECH student just designed a flying Jet, no one cares to
know about the story, let alone think of promoting the good
course. Many Talents are being sacrificed for Street louts,
school drop outs, who exploited your brain to make it. "I want
to do Zina (Shina) todaaaay", " Shakiti bobo, were lo ba de",
"Ki n Maa Jedi, ki n maa ladi, Iranu Abasha"
"Dorobucci.." etc,
are winning awards and you are carried away, while Highest
GPA wins a laptop...
And you fail to agree with Soyinka that this Generation is
dead on arrival? Nay! we need to wise up Naija Youths.
Alinson Madueke would easily use our Commonwealth to pay
Olamide plus DonJazzy play at her daughter's wedding, while
we continue buying a litre of PMS at N200. At least we are
not blind to see all these guys at Political rallies and
campaigns
of politicians. We are in a secular state, No one disputes that,
but have we lost our common sense
I don't have problem with these guys, but are we just
blind and deaf to the lyrics and the way of life they promote?
An artiste sang a song # VoteNotFight or # VoteNotWar,
another sang # OneNigeria amongst others, No one nominates
them for any award. why? the songs did not "hit" or "rock"..
lol. something is wrong with Africans' brains.
I believe this writeup might wakeup a snoring Frnd ..stay
blessed.... Copied

why waste money when you can easily do this: 1. get a 'very very' cheap ring.... 2. get her in the helicopter... 3. make sure you are off the ground... 4. then propose to her... she either says yes or she jump off...

I won't give you the luxury of time to exchange words cos unlike you, i am not an attention seeking mofos like you and time is precious to me. I won't join your life which is boring and as worthless as a white crayon without nairaland. Get a chair, sit, rant, write an epistle or a book but hear this... it is as useless as u saving them in your DRAFT... When you learn how to talk, i can save few secs to listen to you (which i know your stup!dity won't allow you to learn). Till then, i say you are a big f00l... enjoy jumping around people's comments like a frog suffering from elevated temperature.